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Why is it difficult for new single men
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've recently become single after my wife of 13 years left me.ive joined on here for some fun,and finding it difficult, im messaging single women and couple explaning who iam am ect.but not having much luck .can any help me to improve what im doing .many thanks . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile is quite minimal. Nothing there that makes you really stand out. As you can imagine the male:female ratio here is quite high, so your profile needs something that's going to grab attention |
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"I've recently become single after my wife of 13 years left me.ive joined on here for some fun,and finding it difficult, im messaging single women and couple explaning who iam am ect.but not having much luck .can any help me to improve what im doing .many thanks ."
Do you ever mention Star Wars? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've recently become single after my wife of 13 years left me.ive joined on here for some fun,and finding it difficult, im messaging single women and couple explaning who iam am ect.but not having much luck .can any help me to improve what im doing .many thanks ."
its difficult for most men, single or not... 
its not instashag either |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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It's generally difficult for single guys on here I believe but even more so when they lie. I mean you're not talking a couple of years are you?? 
It would make people wonder else you've fibbed about!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Essentially you're a small fish in a big pond 
Flesh your profile out.
Get involved in the forums, they provide the opportunity to chat which has the potential to lead to more.
Try to attend organized socials if possible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's generally difficult for single guys on here I believe but even more so when they lie. I mean you're not talking a couple of years are you??
It would make people wonder else you've fibbed about!!!! "
What's he lied about ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's generally difficult for single guys on here I believe but even more so when they lie. I mean you're not talking a couple of years are you??
It would make people wonder else you've fibbed about!!!!
What's he lied about ?"
Wrong thread I think |
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People are selfish and are concerned with their own wants and needs. Your profile is all about what you want.
Figure out who you want then work out what they want and where you fit into that. Then tell them.
Also there's a no strong thread of where you're going. It seems a little like you're wanting to be carried away by a woman and Happy with whatever you get.
In most dynamics it's the woman that will want the man to do that. You have to bring it to her. Sweep her away in your adventure.
Biggest hint is that Fab promises quick and easy, but for most genuinely single men open to dating etc you're better off on dating sites the ratio is much, much better. The needs are just the same, they just don't shout about them. |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
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"It's generally difficult for single guys on here I believe but even more so when they lie. I mean you're not talking a couple of years are you??
It would make people wonder else you've fibbed about!!!!
What's he lied about ?
Wrong thread I think "
Haha...I think you're looking for 'failure is not an option' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile has bad English, bad grammar and doesn't really say anything.
I didn't look at the pics tbh but I'd suggest taste over smut if it's not there already. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where's Shag with his pearls of wisdom when you need him?
He's on his way lolThat is right and here I am lol.
You make me laugh shag  "
That is good, it is fun  |
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"I've recently become single after my wife of 13 years left me.ive joined on here for some fun,and finding it difficult, im messaging single women and couple explaning who iam am ect.but not having much luck .can any help me to improve what im doing .many thanks .
Do you ever mention Star Wars? "
It wouldn't interest angel, but it gets my attention  |
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"I've recently become single after my wife of 13 years left me.ive joined on here for some fun,and finding it difficult, im messaging single women and couple explaning who iam am ect.but not having much luck .can any help me to improve what im doing .many thanks .
Do you ever mention Star Wars?
It wouldn't interest angel, but it gets my attention "
It's a start if you ever want to Leia.  |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"I've recently become single after my wife of 13 years left me.ive joined on here for some fun,and finding it difficult, im messaging single women and couple explaning who iam am ect.but not having much luck .can any help me to improve what im doing .many thanks ."
Try smiling in your pics.
Add what your looking for in a lady.(not just a shag) what type of Lady
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Suggestions..
Ditch half your pictures as they're much the same and really not very appealing either, I'm sorry to say.
Add some personality to your profile, it's very bland and I'm guessing your messages are of much the same vein.
Being a single guy, who greatly outnumber the ladies, you really do need to sell yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Start a thread calling out single guys for being twats n ruining it for the rest of us,thereby portraying yourself as a proper genuine guy n different from all the bastards.....then you'll have a queue of horny ladies wanting to meet you!
Nah seriously.....just gotta be patient n sell yourself well as there's loads more guys here than women.
Good luck fella  |
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