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over a year ago
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"Little interest or effort in getting to know me. A lack of any sort of spark in the person. "
Both of these things put me off in messages let alone a meet.
If those 2 things were lacking in messaging the meet wouldn't happen....in my mind. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Little interest or effort in getting to know me. A lack of any sort of spark in the person.
Both of these things put me off in messages let alone a meet.
If those 2 things were lacking in messaging the meet wouldn't happen....in my mind."
Yeah, I'm normally quite good at meets (2 not great to date!) but shit happens and they were dull as fuck and not keen enough to even attempt to make proper conversation. Oh well.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not using a coaster and using the wrong fork."
How can you use the wrong fork?..a fork is a fork?..
Who could possibly get that wrong?...
You're meeting weirdo's.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Little interest or effort in getting to know me. A lack of any sort of spark in the person.
Both of these things put me off in messages let alone a meet.
If those 2 things were lacking in messaging the meet wouldn't happen....in my mind.
Yeah, I'm normally quite good at meets (2 not great to date!) but shit happens and they were dull as fuck and not keen enough to even attempt to make proper conversation. Oh well. "
ah. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The guy who fell asleep while I was givig him a blow job put me off a bit  so did the woman who said she was compromising. Its a good job I'm not sensitive.  "
Had he been drinking ? |
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"The guy who fell asleep while I was givig him a blow job put me off a bit so did the woman who said she was compromising. Its a good job I'm not sensitive.
Had he been drinking ?"
Not enough to have that effect. He did fall asleep as various intervals during our encounter I think he just found me very boring, but due to the nature of the situation it can't have been because I was talking too much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too much makeup
Dressed in clothes a street walker wouldn't wear in public 
Expecting the guy to pay without ever offering to contribute
Too touchy feely
Crying when theve d*unk too much |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good range then lol, I dislike poor hygiene, chavvyness if that's a word lol. I love confidence even arrogance! Real manly working hands and someone who makes me giggle x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bad hygiene, thats just rude!
Overly hairy, I don't mind natural, but I don't want to sleep with a wookie.
Probably though, most important, no spark. I don't know what it is, I just know when it's not there.
Oh, and too bossy.
Wait, that's four.... |
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"Not using a coaster and using the wrong fork.
How can you use the wrong fork?..a fork is a fork?..
Who could possibly get that wrong?...
You're meeting weirdo's. "
There are different forks as there different types of knife
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It's been mentioned a few tines, but I'm 100% with those who've said the person thinks they're doing you've favour. Dude, changing a lightbulb for me is doing me a favour.... offering sex (probably crap sex at that) really is not.
Dirty nails - instantly think of infection it could cause
Breath, obviously
Showing no interest in me as a person
Arrogance.
Being rude to a waitress/staff member in the place we are at
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"It's been mentioned a few tines, but I'm 100% with those who've said the person thinks they're doing you've favour. Dude, changing a lightbulb for me is doing me a favour.... offering sex (probably crap sex at that) really is not.
Dirty nails - instantly think of infection it could cause
Breath, obviously
Showing no interest in me as a person
Arrogance.
Being rude to a waitress/staff member in the place we are at
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*you a favour
Shoulda proof read |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When they talk about ex's .... its really not necessary .
Especially if all they do is slag off their exes "
Yes, I hate that! I'd much rather someone speak favourably about their ex, if it ever comes up! |
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"Too much makeup
Dressed in clothes a street walker wouldn't wear in public
Expecting the guy to pay without ever offering to contribute
Too touchy feely
Crying when theve d*unk too much"
Damn have you seen me at a meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too much makeup
Dressed in clothes a street walker wouldn't wear in public
Expecting the guy to pay without ever offering to contribute
Too touchy feely
Crying when theve d*unk too much
Damn have you seen me at a meet? "
You mean youve forgotten ours? Im wounded  |
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"Little interest or effort in getting to know me. A lack of any sort of spark in the person.
Both of these things put me off in messages let alone a meet.
If those 2 things were lacking in messaging the meet wouldn't happen....in my mind."
Someone full of their own self importance, Don't get me wrong I do like to listen to peoples life stories as I find you get to know the real person rather then what she has written on her profile and I prefer to please a woman and get off on the fact that she is/has really enjoyed herself but she has to show some interest in me,
I know a lot of people just like to have sex then part company but for me to really enjoy the moment we have to have that connection, Be able to laugh at each other or just lay next to each other chatting about random stuff while the sexual tension builds up again |
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By *edMan
over a year ago
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"Bad breath, lack of hygiene.
Lacking humour.
Those who spend all their time on their blinkin phone.
Those who show any signs of disrespect."
Apart from meets, there is nothing worse than someone continually checking their phone while talking to you . Even had this with a new employee recently. He might not make it to be an old employee... |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"When no means 'not now but keep trying' to them "
That's mine too. I had to explain to a bloke once that not respecting my refusal to go to bed with him that minute didn't fill me with confidence that he would respect me saying no to anything once we got to bed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When no means 'not now but keep trying' to them
That's mine too. I had to explain to a bloke once that not respecting my refusal to go to bed with him that minute didn't fill me with confidence that he would respect me saying no to anything once we got to bed."
You remind me of a goodramgate drinker? Like the Snickleway Inn ? |
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