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Aaahhhhhhh why do it!!!????
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"So arranged a meet at lunch time today with a couple lots of chat then off I go to the meeting point.. being polite I messaged to say I was on the road and looking for the exact location then they go off line and don't respond ... Please people don't waste others time this site is there for fun if your hear to just dick around so to speak go else where your ruining it for the others.. I will wait to hear the excuse before I name and shame this couple especially as they go on about being messed around when on the site previously Sorry rant over " You're not allowed to name and shame, just report and move on. | |||
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"So arranged a meet at lunch time today with a couple lots of chat then off I go to the meeting point.. being polite I messaged to say I was on the road and looking for the exact location then they go off line and don't respond ... Please people don't waste others time this site is there for fun if your hear to just dick around so to speak go else where your ruining it for the others.. I will wait to hear the excuse before I name and shame this couple especially as they go on about being messed around when on the site previously Sorry rant over You're not allowed to name and shame, just report and move on. " I wasn't aware of that I won't be naming and shaming then I take it report the user via their profile ? | |||
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"What time were you meant to be meeting?" 12:45...... was when I was due to meet them  | |||
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I rarely meet so I've let to be let down myself but I'm sure it will happen at some point.
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"Report the profile and move on, nothing good comes from naming and shaming" Been told you can't do that so won't will still give them the chance to respond and then report them after that I always try to be fair lol | |||
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"Don't name as shame. Block and move on
I rarely meet so I've let to be let down myself but I'm sure it will happen at some point.
Absolute fuckery "Just don't see why people do it if your not serious about meeting don't arrange to meet  | |||
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"Don't name as shame. Block and move on
I rarely meet so I've let to be let down myself but I'm sure it will happen at some point.
Absolute fuckery
Just don't see why people do it if your not serious about meeting don't arrange to meet "There could be a perfectly legitimate reason for not showing, give them time and if you don't hear from them after they've been back online, that's when I'd report them. | |||
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"Don't name as shame. Block and move on
I rarely meet so I've let to be let down myself but I'm sure it will happen at some point.
Absolute fuckery
Just don't see why people do it if your not serious about meeting don't arrange to meet
There could be a perfectly legitimate reason for not showing, give them time and if you don't hear from them after they've been back online, that's when I'd report them." | |||
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"Don't name as shame. Block and move on
I rarely meet so I've let to be let down myself but I'm sure it will happen at some point.
Absolute fuckery
Just don't see why people do it if your not serious about meeting don't arrange to meet
There could be a perfectly legitimate reason for not showing, give them time and if you don't hear from them after they've been back online, that's when I'd report them." | |||
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"Its just one of those things that happens here. I was stood up on Monday by someone I've met before. Luckily I was meeting in a pub, and even more luckily it was Folk night, and the pub had some very decent real ales. I may not have got a shag but I had a good evening anyway." That's on a different level if you've met before too. That really sucks. | |||
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"I hope they're not regular forum users who have a legitimate reason for not showing and then see this thread - might have shot yourself in the foot a little if so OP." I have said and messaged them asking if there was a reason and am happy to listen and always open to second chances as they did seem a good match up so to speak.. | |||
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"Are you sure it was both the m and f or just the male bashing one out over the thought of the meeting ? " Could of been but am prepared to hear them out if they are prepared to message that is fingers crossed it was something genuine if not chalk it up as one of those things | |||
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"I hope they're not regular forum users who have a legitimate reason for not showing and then see this thread - might have shot yourself in the foot a little if so OP." Well they need to learn to communicate a little better then don't they! I very much doubt he has shot himself in the foot,probably last minute nerves by them or fake. | |||
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"I hope they're not regular forum users who have a legitimate reason for not showing and then see this thread - might have shot yourself in the foot a little if so OP. Well they need to learn to communicate a little better then don't they! I very much doubt he has shot himself in the foot,probably last minute nerves by them or fake." Oh I agree communication is key here and the likelihood is one of the two scenarios you suggest (which is why I said "have a legitimate reason" as a caveat in my post) just think until the facts are known or a suitable time has passed without communication (which it hadn't when the thread was first posted, that it's probably not the best move to post it on the forums. | |||
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" Well they need to learn to communicate a little better then don't they! I very much doubt he has shot himself in the foot,probably last minute nerves by them or fake. Oh I agree communication is key here and the likelihood is one of the two scenarios you suggest (which is why I said "have a legitimate reason" as a caveat in my post) just think until the facts are known or a suitable time has passed without communication (which it hadn't when the thread was first posted, that it's probably not the best move to post it on the forums. " Maybe not,but we all need an outlet for our annoyances don't we and this is probably the best place. I'm sure lots of us know how annoying it is when someone goes quiet on the last minute and for the op that was the last minute!  | |||
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"I almost missed a meet simply from meet location confusion. We had agreed to meet at Costa coffee in a large shopping centre. Both sitting in different Costas Txting each other both convinced each of us was a no show. The centre has 5 Costa shops !!" Costa is the most indescript and easily confused location you could ever suggest. 
There are about 10 in my City Centre.
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"Its just one of those things that happens here. I was stood up on Monday by someone I've met before. Luckily I was meeting in a pub, and even more luckily it was Folk night, and the pub had some very decent real ales. I may not have got a shag but I had a good evening anyway." Sounds like a cracking boozer, where was this? If you don't mind me asking. | |||
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"What time were you meant to be meeting? 12:45...... was when I was due to meet them "They could have just been late. If they didn't turn up with no contact letting you know, report it | |||
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