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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's a huge difference in being a sex addict rather than not being able to get enough of it
Sex addiction isn't a good thing "
Not sex addicted but love having sex and sexting different people.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sex addicted but love having sex and sexting different people.."
Well that's not sex addiction then.
Sex addiction is like any other form of addiction, and can be a controlling and destructive influence in your life.
I've often thought Fab should have a mechanism to lock yourself out of the site, much like a gambling site would. |
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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago
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"Not sex addicted but love having sex and sexting different people..
Well that's not sex addiction then.
Sex addiction is like any other form of addiction, and can be a controlling and destructive influence in your life.
I've often thought Fab should have a mechanism to lock yourself out of the site, much like a gambling site would."
He said Sext addiction not sex addiction |
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Place,time and right person for sexting in my opinion.
A few years ago, i was on annual leave from work and was sexting my then lady friend. She was a court lawyer-long boring day in court...getting pics of her wet knickers/pussy was great fun.
The sex later that day was great!
Briefly dated a lady last year...sexting with her was a disaster
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"There's a huge difference in being a sex addict rather than not being able to get enough of it
Sex addiction isn't a good thing "
They say the brain is the biggest organ of your body and all communication comes from there and one of those things is fantasy if you took that out of the equation across the board for me sex would become less Interesting as I,m sure it would most people because I,m sure it plays a big part in most peoples lives and as good as it is I still have a on and off button I can press till the next time and that suits me perfectly always as done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can like a bit of flirting but I find sexting a bit awkward and does little for me. I'm more of a hands on kind of person.
A little less conversation and a little more action please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everything has it's place but as is said earlier it can be a massive turn on to be sexting in an inappropriate place - work or a family meal.
I enjoy it but it's no replacement for skin on skin  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Addicted? Can that be a thing?
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I don't think it is a "thing".
There is LOADS of stupid shit I do way too much of...that would bore the crap out of everybody else but is completely normal to me.
But the only way I know I do too much of it is because somebody ELSE told me I do too much of it.
Nobody just independently thinks:
"oh shit..I do too much of this! "
..you'd have to have some indicator from something or someone about what is too much as "too much" is usually decided by someone else.
Which is kind of weird because they would have ALSO been told by someone else that they do too much of it. (it being whatever that activity/thing is).
"Too much" isn't actually a "thing".
It's subjective.
Unless it's detrimental to your health it will kill you or be just a bit fucking bad for you in some way.
Sexting won't kill you OP and there is nothing wrong with it ...if it's mutual.
p.s rarely do I sext. My mouth is habitually filthy in person and I like it like that. For the shock effect.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, and sometimes you build up this excitement with sexting. Then.. Its nothing like you imagine"
Oh yes I have been there, a year of naughty filthy messages and a couple of social meets with amazing kissing turned into really quite shit sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, and sometimes you build up this excitement with sexting. Then.. Its nothing like you imagine
Oh yes I have been there, a year of naughty filthy messages and a couple of social meets with amazing kissing turned into really quite shit sex "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah, and sometimes you build up this excitement with sexting. Then.. Its nothing like you imagine
Oh yes I have been there, a year of naughty filthy messages and a couple of social meets with amazing kissing turned into really quite shit sex "
Thats a shame. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Addicted? Can that be a thing?
I don't think it is a "thing".
There is LOADS of stupid shit I do way too much of...that would bore the crap out of everybody else but is completely normal to me.
But the only way I know I do too much of it is because somebody ELSE told me I do too much of it.
Nobody just independently thinks:
"oh shit..I do too much of this! "
..you'd have to have some indicator from something or someone about what is too much as "too much" is usually decided by someone else.
Which is kind of weird because they would have ALSO been told by someone else that they do too much of it. (it being whatever that activity/thing is).
"Too much" isn't actually a "thing".
It's subjective.
Unless it's detrimental to your health it will kill you or be just a bit fucking bad for you in some way.
Sexting won't kill you OP and there is nothing wrong with it ...if it's mutual.
p.s rarely do I sext. My mouth is habitually filthy in person and I like it like that. For the shock effect.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's boring most of the time. I get the occasional blunt message from my long term partner, when he wants me, but fantasy texts, where people have pretend sex in their heads together sends my brain to sleep. I want to do it, not talk about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Addicted? Can that be a thing?
I don't think it is a "thing".
There is LOADS of stupid shit I do way too much of...that would bore the crap out of everybody else but is completely normal to me.
But the only way I know I do too much of it is because somebody ELSE told me I do too much of it.
Nobody just independently thinks:
"oh shit..I do too much of this! "
..you'd have to have some indicator from something or someone about what is too much as "too much" is usually decided by someone else.
Which is kind of weird because they would have ALSO been told by someone else that they do too much of it. (it being whatever that activity/thing is).
"Too much" isn't actually a "thing".
It's subjective.
Unless it's detrimental to your health it will kill you or be just a bit fucking bad for you in some way.
Sexting won't kill you OP and there is nothing wrong with it ...if it's mutual.
p.s rarely do I sext. My mouth is habitually filthy in person and I like it like that. For the shock effect.
Well said. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it but it's rare I find anyone suitable. Found someone with the perfect combination last year. Sext and real life sex. It was bloody brilliant. Then he met someone.  I'm still pissed off about it!!!  |
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