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What screams suspicious to you?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After a bit of time on the site I'd say I've gotten much better at spotting potential timewasters and fakers.
I find that the biggest signs in order are:
Screenshot pictures of the girl.
Loads of public facepics of one member of a couple face (usually her), not one of the partner.
When someone has little to no public pictures but loads of friend only pics, then sends an unsolicited friend requests.
Only having pictures that look like something you'd post to Facebook. Face and all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've reported a 'single girl' for having totally different nipplestyles on her pics before. Haha"
In the interests of fair play, id like to volunteer to examine said pics,just to make sure that was fair and called for!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe we haven't been on long enough to comment, but everybody we've gone out to meet has turned up (about 10 couples/guys) and we've only had a few cancellations on meets and they've all let us know in advance.
We've just avoided the people who've been on a year, but only have one or two veris, the one-liner message/profile people and the people with aggressive/super demanding profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've reported a 'single girl' for having totally different nipplestyles on her pics before. Haha
Nipplestyles -- wasn't he in One Direction? 
This predictive text will be the death of me haha"
My poor humour will be the death of me!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1 veri from a hidden profile. "
Am I suspicious?..
One of the 2 I show is hidden.
She's not been on the site for 3 weeks, she's still around.
I'm also not photo verified either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No veris, but big list of friends displayed.
I didn't think friends lists were visible any more?
You can choose to have it on or off. "
Oh I thought it was just off nowadays! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1 veri from a hidden profile.
Am I suspicious?..
One of the 2 I show is hidden.
She's not been on the site for 3 weeks, she's still around.
I'm also not photo verified either."
That's 2 not 1.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No veris, but big list of friends displayed.
I didn't think friends lists were visible any more?they are on desk top site"
Ahhhhh! I haven't used that in years! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1 veri from a hidden profile.
Am I suspicious?..
One of the 2 I show is hidden.
She's not been on the site for 3 weeks, she's still around.
I'm also not photo verified either.
That's 2 not 1. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aren't friends list generally just nosey bastards that want a look at the extra pics tho
I think we've been rumbled lads!  big time!"
Oh oh!
But your so gorgeous, i couldn't get enough of you!!
(think she bought it?  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Young girls describing themselves as cock hungry sluts whilst having face pics on display."
^ THAT for sure.
That's a flag.
When I see that, it absolutely screams a disgruntled ex setting up the account. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look at the people whos veried them?
They only have one veri themselves?
And the person that veried them has only one veri?
And it appears that they all have just one veri?
They all seem to link together.
The one veri gang .
Whats odds on that  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I've reported a 'single girl' for having totally different nipplestyles on her pics before. Haha
Nipplestyles -- wasn't he in One Direction? "
Well it has been said he's a complete tit!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've reported a 'single girl' for having totally different nipplestyles on her pics before. Haha
Nipplestyles -- wasn't he in One Direction?
This predictive text will be the death of me haha"
Well now I'm keen to know how often you type nipplestyles, haha.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People who aren't photo verified
I've been here for over 7 years and will never be photo verified  I'm over 8 years here and will never hold a piece of paper saying fab next to my face! "
We only did this as we hadn't yet visited a club. A meet veri is much better anyway, but as you can have no public face pics, a veri is just saying that you're a real couple of person, not that the pictures are accurate, barring tattoos and identifying features of course. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Young girls describing themselves as cock hungry sluts whilst having face pics on display.
^ THAT for sure.
That's a flag.
When I see that, it absolutely screams a disgruntled ex setting up the account."
Massively. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When the tattoos clearly don't match "
You've now given me more stuff to check out.
I've always been cautious, but fabs got me downright pescimistic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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those who say new to all of this - yet they know how the whole thing works- how to play - what to ask and say - how to use the site (im still finding out the odd thing about it) - then slowly they let the odd thing slip - |
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By *l4yerMan
over a year ago
Wakefield |
Ive reported a couple for having a totally different wife.
1st one slim size 8 dark hair.
2nd curvy blonde with shapely figure but size 12/14
3rd BBW Blonde with big tits.
Funny thing is they are verified and seem to alternate between all these different women's pics. Bizarre. |
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"I've reported a 'single girl' for having totally different nipplestyles on her pics before. Haha
seen some of those - "
don't really understand that? my nipple pics are different in the garden compared to the bedroom |
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"When the tattoos clearly don't match
You've now given me more stuff to check out.
I've always been cautious, but fabs got me downright pescimistic. "
I'm too busy looking to see if the house is a tip and if the beds made! and he's not drying his pants on the radiator  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've reported a 'single girl' for having totally different nipplestyles on her pics before. Haha
seen some of those - don't really understand that? my nipple pics are different in the garden compared to the bedroom"
I'm sure they don't go from small in circumference to massive though. I don't having a bit of a nipple on in inclement weather was what she meant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When the tattoos clearly don't match
You've now given me more stuff to check out.
I've always been cautious, but fabs got me downright pescimistic. I'm too busy looking to see if the house is a tip and if the beds made! and he's not drying his pants on the radiator "
I'm glad I'm not the only one that does a background check |
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When you look in the background of the pic and:
~The single man has a bathroom or bedroom full of female paraphernalia
~All the sockets are for two pin plugs so the pics are not UK
~the pics are a bit too good and Google reverse image suggests you've been chatting to Ecuador's leading postnatal
~The age says 38 but the language in the messages is all a bit yoof |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When you look in the background of the pic and:
~The single man has a bathroom or bedroom full of female paraphernalia
~All the sockets are for two pin plugs so the pics are not UK
~the pics are a bit too good and Google reverse image suggests you've been chatting to Ecuador's leading postnatal
~The age says 38 but the language in the messages is all a bit yoof"
All good points except the plug one. A lot of British bathrooms use those two prong plugs, and that's why our shavers and stuff have them on. No idea why though, as the nerd in me knows we have one of the world's safest plugs. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When I click on a pic and it's really small, I always think it's been nicked off the Internet. I can't get tineye to work on my phone 
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There's one called like ctlrq or something, it's just as good if not better. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive reported a couple for having a totally different wife.
1st one slim size 8 dark hair.
2nd curvy blonde with shapely figure but size 12/14
3rd BBW Blonde with big tits.
Funny thing is they are verified and seem to alternate between all these different women's pics. Bizarre."
Seen worse than this, seen people cheating on spouses with theirs spouses sister. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Single woman or couple with no verifications after a year nor photograph verified"
Our friends would love this one, as spent over 5 years unverified as we stopped using the site, and when we met them in person and tried to add them, they had already blocked us. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Single woman or couple with no verifications after a year nor photograph verified
Our friends would love this one, as spent over 5 years unverified as we stopped using the site, and when we met them in person and tried to add them, they had already blocked us."
The title of your thread is "What screams suspicious to you?". I replied with what screams suspicious to me. Whether that applies to every profile or not, I don't know. But I would not take any profile of a single woman or a couple, seriously, which has no verifications after a year and nor is it photo-verified by this site |
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"Single woman or couple with no verifications after a year nor photograph verified
Our friends would love this one, as spent over 5 years unverified as we stopped using the site, and when we met them in person and tried to add them, they had already blocked us."
Lol I remember them telling us and they felt bad they had blocked you. Good job you can unblock people x
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"'Single' chaps who can't accommodate, recent pics with kids toys or loads of girlie beauty products in the background
Sherlock, is that you?"
Yep. It's elementary my dear.
Ooh there's one chap whose entire pics are of a Brazilian hunk Jonas Sulzbach. Knew it was too good to be true. Cheers Google reverse images  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blimey I must walk around here with my head in the clouds, I don't notice any of this.
Maybe because I'm looking, well not really looking that hard, for men, all this ^^ passes me by. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive reported a couple for having a totally different wife.
1st one slim size 8 dark hair.
2nd curvy blonde with shapely figure but size 12/14
3rd BBW Blonde with big tits.
Funny thing is they are verified and seem to alternate between all these different women's pics. Bizarre."
Maybe she had just put weight on over the years and dyed her hair??? |
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"Ive reported a couple for having a totally different wife.
1st one slim size 8 dark hair.
2nd curvy blonde with shapely figure but size 12/14
3rd BBW Blonde with big tits.
Funny thing is they are verified and seem to alternate between all these different women's pics. Bizarre.
Maybe she had just put weight on over the years and dyed her hair???"
Look at her nips. Haha |
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Very new users without good effort behind the profile who seem very proficient - I'm dubious whether they're existing people using an additional profile to get around blocks or hoping I've forgotten who they are.
Not fake but guys seeming to want sex chat but vague about meeting practicalities or are long distances away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Young girls describing themselves as cock hungry sluts whilst having face pics on display.
^ THAT for sure.
That's a flag.
When I see that, it absolutely screams a disgruntled ex setting up the account.
Massively. "
Noticed these kinds of profiles being set up more frequently in the last couple of years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No veris, but big list of friends displayed."
Problem with this is only someone who is verified can verify someone else, if you've only met unverified people neither of you can verify each other.
Sorry that's a lit of verifies in one sentence.... |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"No veris, but big list of friends displayed.
Problem with this is only someone who is verified can verify someone else, if you've only met unverified people neither of you can verify each other.
Sorry that's a lit of verifies in one sentence...."
Photo-verification by the site administrators doesn't require one to be 'meet'-verified
It confirms the sex stated on the profile and is especially useful for profiles of women and couples as not many women are pretending to be men on this site but many men are pretending to be women! |
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"I've reported a 'single girl' for having totally different nipplestyles on her pics before. Haha"
Couldn't that just have been her playmate. People always have pictures of other people on their pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've reported a 'single girl' for having totally different nipplestyles on her pics before. Haha
Couldn't that just have been her playmate. People always have pictures of other people on their pics. "
Why would you want pictures of other people on your profile? |
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"I've reported a 'single girl' for having totally different nipplestyles on her pics before. Haha
Couldn't that just have been her playmate. People always have pictures of other people on their pics. "
No. They were like 'selfies' not group fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No veris, but big list of friends displayed.
Problem with this is only someone who is verified can verify someone else, if you've only met unverified people neither of you can verify each other.
Sorry that's a lit of verifies in one sentence....
Photo-verification by the site administrators doesn't require one to be 'meet'-verified
It confirms the sex stated on the profile and is especially useful for profiles of women and couples as not many women are pretending to be men on this site but many men are pretending to be women!"
So if photo verified you can verify someone? |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"No veris, but big list of friends displayed.
Problem with this is only someone who is verified can verify someone else, if you've only met unverified people neither of you can verify each other.
Sorry that's a lit of verifies in one sentence....
Photo-verification by the site administrators doesn't require one to be 'meet'-verified
It confirms the sex stated on the profile and is especially useful for profiles of women and couples as not many women are pretending to be men on this site but many men are pretending to be women!
So if photo verified you can verify someone?"
That I don't know
I look at photo-verification or meet-verification(s); either one of the two |
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"Ive reported a couple for having a totally different wife.
1st one slim size 8 dark hair.
2nd curvy blonde with shapely figure but size 12/14
3rd BBW Blonde with big tits.
Funny thing is they are verified and seem to alternate between all these different women's pics. Bizarre."
Maybe it's their playmate. I have reported people for this, but not because i don't think they are genuine. But because they had face pics of 2 different women. I was concerned that the playmate didn't know her face was going to get plastered all over a swingers site. Which is the reason why we don't allow photos to be taken of us by others. |
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"I've reported a 'single girl' for having totally different nipplestyles on her pics before. Haha
Couldn't that just have been her playmate. People always have pictures of other people on their pics.
Why would you want pictures of other people on your profile? "
I dont know but i see it all the time. Sometimes 3 or 4 other people in the photos. |
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"I've reported a 'single girl' for having totally different nipplestyles on her pics before. Haha
Couldn't that just have been her playmate. People always have pictures of other people on their pics.
No. They were like 'selfies' not group fun"
Ar i see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've reported a 'single girl' for having totally different nipplestyles on her pics before. Haha
Couldn't that just have been her playmate. People always have pictures of other people on their pics.
Why would you want pictures of other people on your profile?
I dont know but i see it all the time. Sometimes 3 or 4 other people in the photos. "
Ah right. I thought it was just another person on there own in it. |
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"No veris, but big list of friends displayed.
Problem with this is only someone who is verified can verify someone else, if you've only met unverified people neither of you can verify each other.
Sorry that's a lit of verifies in one sentence....
Photo-verification by the site administrators doesn't require one to be 'meet'-verified
It confirms the sex stated on the profile and is especially useful for profiles of women and couples as not many women are pretending to be men on this site but many men are pretending to be women!
So if photo verified you can verify someone?
That I don't know
I look at photo-verification or meet-verification(s); either one of the two"
No you can't. We've been photo verified since day one. We've had a few meets and sexy fun. But couldn't get verified by our meets because they were not verified themselves. But finally we got our first veri the other day. A great couple we met a couple of years ago at chams. They joined fab and remembered us. |
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"I've reported a 'single girl' for having totally different nipplestyles on her pics before. Haha
Nipplestyles -- wasn't he in One Direction?
This predictive text will be the death of me haha"
I think nipple styles is a good expression....why not style your nipples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've reported a 'single girl' for having totally different nipplestyles on her pics before. Haha"
Were they different in separate photos of was the left different from the right? |
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"I've reported a 'single girl' for having totally different nipplestyles on her pics before. Haha
Were they different in separate photos of was the left different from the right? "
Haha. Different photos. My nipples are different. 'Sisters not twins' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every excuse not to send a face pic
Like a gold member who's ran out of uploads? You get 8 per day, send me it tomorrow."
Exactly, no excuse really haha |
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"I've spotted fakes openly giving out other contact details. Dead give away "
We had a 'woman' agree to a phone check. They rung up and it was definitely a male voice. 'you're a man' I said. 'no I'm not' they said. Phone hung up.
Full marks for chutzpah though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Imagine if you werent a man though and you just had a deep voice. Lol
Its like the messages i get on here asking if im a TV lol"
I am a man, I know it's hard for others to imagine I'm a man,..... |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Imagine if you werent a man though and you just had a deep voice. Lol
Its like the messages i get on here asking if im a TV lol"
You are the best looking and most convincing TV I have seen on this site 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profiles with only one thumbnail size pic. I found one of my pics being used by another as their profile pic on FabB but could prove it was my photo as I had a set of images in the same clothes and the site admin sorted it quickly but he'd used it for about nine months I believe. One of his 'friends' contacted me when I posted the same pic on my profile and accused me of being a fraud . Verified pics are not failsafe ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Somebody loitering on a dark street corner dressed in black wearing a hoody and carrying a crow bar - now that arouses my suspicion .... "
Is this Petunia Dursley? |
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