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Knowing what you do now, if you had a conversation with the person that you were a decade ago...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would you say?
I'd tell myself to speak out and be brave. I'd give myself a hug too. 17/18 year old me would've really needed a hug. "
You can have one now too if you like? ![](/icons/s/2/heart.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What would you say?
I'd tell myself to speak out and be brave. I'd give myself a hug too. 17/18 year old me would've really needed a hug.
You can have one now too if you like? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a) that I would not be king of my field in 3 years time but rather would feel far dumber
b) you're becoming increasingly introverted - think of those around you
c) respond, don't react. Remember, words have consequences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd tell myself that things do get better,you're much tougher than you think you are,and the people that you think you can trust are the ones that will hurt you the most |
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"I'd top myself.
Are you ok? ((hugs))"
I'm fine. But the me am I now and the who I was then would not get on. If the who I was then knew the future the sense of failure would have been too much. Good drugs help me cope with it now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd top myself.
Are you ok? ((hugs))
I'm fine. But the me am I now and the who I was then would not get on. If the who I was then knew the future the sense of failure would have been too much. Good drugs help me cope with it now."
Nods, sorry to hear it's tough. Feel for you -- lots of love xx |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"What would you say?
I'd tell myself to speak out and be brave. I'd give myself a hug too. 17/18 year old me would've really needed a hug. "
I'D tell myself that the next ten years are going to be as good as the ten years before I've had a great 20 year rum
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be creative, spend time developing your own products and services rather than for others. Network more and widen your circle of influence. Be everything you can be, and don't take the path of least resistance. Don't take love foregranted.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd tell myself ...she just wants you to rebuild her while she destroys you...love is a two way street
I'd also tell myself to be my own best friend not my own enemy |
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"What would you say?
I'd tell myself to speak out and be brave. I'd give myself a hug too. 17/18 year old me would've really needed a hug. " good thread! I would say to myself, nothing really matters! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yvaine, in answer to your OP -- I'd tell myself to stop thinking and do.
Well stop thinking about doing me & do it then.
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You HAVE to admit I'm a smoothie ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To stop wasting my life on a man that doesn't love and respect me. And that I'm strong enough to survive alone. "
Thats would have been good advice for me too ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To stop wasting my life on a man that doesn't love and respect me. And that I'm strong enough to survive alone. "
This for me too!
And that I'm capable...do the training courses you're offered, take the qualifications and reap the rewards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yvaine, in answer to your OP -- I'd tell myself to stop thinking and do.
Well stop thinking about doing me & do it then.
You HAVE to admit I'm a smoothie "
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Depends on which me I am talking to.
13 don't mess with airpistols, do well in the exams and an officer's job in the navy awaits.
Older me.
Get out of your shell, stop being the shy guy, try and enjoy things instead of overanalysing things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if you man when I was a teenager or in my early twenties ,, a little more than ten years ago lol
Your not as ugly , stupid , clumsy as you think you are .
Take some time to think about yourself , try not to please others so much and it all works out in the end bud ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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