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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey! My parter is a very hot girl! But for the past 6 months of our relationship she just not in the mood and I need help I'm getting frustrated  "
Have you tried talking to her about it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey! My parter is a very hot girl! But for the past 6 months of our relationship she just not in the mood and I need help I'm getting frustrated "
Hate to say it but she's probably getting it elsewhere. |
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i think we all have times when not so interested in sex. but if it is 6 months I would think it isn't about sex but about something else in your relationship. how is everything else? are you guys still enjoying each others company? still going on dates? are you able to talk about different stuff? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The trouble with asking here is nobody but you two know the true dynamics of your relationship, or your personalities. That makes any meaningful advice almost impossible to offer. If you want to continue the relationship then you need to communicate about the problem, either between yourselves, or through a counsellor.
The alternative is to call time and allow you both to move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many of times she just turns blank on me and never wants to talk about it! It's getting me really down! "
Sounds like something else is going on and you need to discover why she doesn't want to talk about sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Harsh comments from one or two guys on here. If you love her then I would hope you talk to her and dont just leave it. If you feel that you are still enjoying her company and still in love then dont dump her just because shes not putting out. There is a reason for it.. you just need to know what is is.
Have you bought her some lingerie or suggested toys?
I hope you manage to talk. Good luck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to tell you that I have used many techniques over the years to stir up a ladies interest in sex. Experience has taught me that only one thing can be guaranteed to work.
Jewelry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haven't used this site since being with her but thought I'd give this forum a shout for some help. I've been 100% faithful with her from day one "
That doesn't add up. You signed up about six months ago and you've had a verification since then.
Your girlfriend has not been interested in sex for 'six months of your relationship'.
So your relationship with her predates your joining this site and getting a verification. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to tell you that I have used many techniques over the years to stir up a ladies interest in sex. Experience has taught me that only one thing can be guaranteed to work.
Jewelry."
If you bought me jewellery I'd give it back. I've not worn it for years.
Plus buying sex with jewellery is a shit way to approach a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was a member previously...deleted my account and started it back up as need to get in touch with someone "
Why are you even using a swingers site if you're supposed to be monogamous? |
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"Harsh comments from one or two guys on here. If you love her then I would hope you talk to her and dont just leave it. If you feel that you are still enjoying her company and still in love then dont dump her just because shes not putting out. There is a reason for it.. you just need to know what is is.
Have you bought her some lingerie or suggested toys?
I hope you manage to talk. Good luck.
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Passion gone = relationship dead especially at Ops age. If you wanna hold on you are insecure thinking you won't do better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to tell you that I have used many techniques over the years to stir up a ladies interest in sex. Experience has taught me that only one thing can be guaranteed to work.
Jewelry.
If you bought me jewellery I'd give it back. I've not worn it for years.
Plus buying sex with jewellery is a shit way to approach a relationship."
Don't worry buying you jewelry didn't cross my mind. I'd probably buy you a sense of humour 
Some people just have a low sex drive. Just because a girl is hot doesn't mean she has high libido. I've never seen a relationship work where partners aren't equally yolked sexdrive wise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to tell you that I have used many techniques over the years to stir up a ladies interest in sex. Experience has taught me that only one thing can be guaranteed to work.
Jewelry."
Not all women are a fan of jewellery. Are you attracted to high maintenance females perhaps?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to tell you that I have used many techniques over the years to stir up a ladies interest in sex. Experience has taught me that only one thing can be guaranteed to work.
Jewelry.
Not all women are a fan of jewellery. Are you attracted to high maintenance females perhaps?
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No it was a tongue in cheek comment. What was I thinking.
And NO materialgirl999 I won't marry you!
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"I was a member previously...deleted my account and started it back up as need to get in touch with someone
Why are you even using a swingers site if you're supposed to be monogamous?"
OOOhhhhh....you are taking no prisoners today!! I love it.
Russ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to tell you that I have used many techniques over the years to stir up a ladies interest in sex. Experience has taught me that only one thing can be guaranteed to work.
Jewelry.
Not all women are a fan of jewellery. Are you attracted to high maintenance females perhaps?
No it was a tongue in cheek comment. What was I thinking.
And NO materialgirl999 I won't marry you!
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Ah.. Im sure there are guys out there that bribe their women for sex though.
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Six months is an awful long time.
If she won't talk about it, you or some ongoing problem isn't constantly pissing her off and she's not getting it from someone else then sounds very much like you need professional help.
GP to make sure there's nothing clinically wrong and if not then counselling might help.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to tell you that I have used many techniques over the years to stir up a ladies interest in sex. Experience has taught me that only one thing can be guaranteed to work.
Jewelry.
Not all women are a fan of jewellery. Are you attracted to high maintenance females perhaps?
No it was a tongue in cheek comment. What was I thinking.
And NO materialgirl999 I won't marry you!
Ah.. Im sure there are guys out there that bribe their women for sex though.
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You mean like a 25yr old stunning woman marrying a 85yr old billionaire? |
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"I have to tell you that I have used many techniques over the years to stir up a ladies interest in sex. Experience has taught me that only one thing can be guaranteed to work.
Jewelry.
Not all women are a fan of jewellery. Are you attracted to high maintenance females perhaps?
No it was a tongue in cheek comment. What was I thinking.
And NO materialgirl999 I won't marry you!
Ah.. Im sure there are guys out there that bribe their women for sex though.
You mean like a 25yr old stunning woman marrying a 85yr old billionaire?"
Hey Anna Nicole smith really was in love |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Six months is an awful long time.
If she won't talk about it, you or some ongoing problem isn't constantly pissing her off and she's not getting it from someone else then sounds very much like you need professional help.
GP to make sure there's nothing clinically wrong and if not then counselling might help.
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Maybe shes just fed up with him plain and simple? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to tell you that I have used many techniques over the years to stir up a ladies interest in sex. Experience has taught me that only one thing can be guaranteed to work.
Jewelry.
Not all women are a fan of jewellery. Are you attracted to high maintenance females perhaps?
No it was a tongue in cheek comment. What was I thinking.
And NO materialgirl999 I won't marry you!
Ah.. Im sure there are guys out there that bribe their women for sex though.
You mean like a 25yr old stunning woman marrying a 85yr old billionaire? Hey Anna Nicole smith really was in love "
Of course she was  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to tell you that I have used many techniques over the years to stir up a ladies interest in sex. Experience has taught me that only one thing can be guaranteed to work.
Jewelry.
Not all women are a fan of jewellery. Are you attracted to high maintenance females perhaps?
No it was a tongue in cheek comment. What was I thinking.
And NO materialgirl999 I won't marry you!
Ah.. Im sure there are guys out there that bribe their women for sex though.
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Yup. It's so common there's a name for it. Marriage.
That's why alimony is commonly referred to the screwing you get for the scewing you got.
Sorry ladies I didn't take my serious pill this morning. No prizes for guessing who stole them! |
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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago
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"I have to tell you that I have used many techniques over the years to stir up a ladies interest in sex. Experience has taught me that only one thing can be guaranteed to work.
Jewelry.
Not all women are a fan of jewellery. Are you attracted to high maintenance females perhaps?
No it was a tongue in cheek comment. What was I thinking.
And NO materialgirl999 I won't marry you!
Ah.. Im sure there are guys out there that bribe their women for sex though.
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Capitalism don't you just love it    |
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"I have to tell you that I have used many techniques over the years to stir up a ladies interest in sex. Experience has taught me that only one thing can be guaranteed to work.
Jewelry."
Lol
Women are not machines that you put presents into until sex falls out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to tell you that I have used many techniques over the years to stir up a ladies interest in sex. Experience has taught me that only one thing can be guaranteed to work.
Jewelry.
Lol
Women are not machines that you put presents into until sex falls out."
Shhhhh you're putting my jewelry store out of business!!!
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