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How many messages do Single Guys receive weekly/monthly/yearly ??
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Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?
I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys . Very rare il get a message if honest maybe 1 every couple months . Il only get a meet if i do the chasing .
Intrigued to know what others are ... |
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over a year ago
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Messages that are sent to me I would say on average 1 a month
If it's someone I'm friends with and have a regular chat to then maybe 6 or 7 per month
As ever I'd love it to be more |
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over a year ago
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It depends if it's General chit-chat from the forums or 'new' people contacting me wanting to meet.
If the former, literally hundreds a month. Not all off seperare people mind, but multiple messages from a select group of friends 
If the latter, very rarely indeed.. lucky if it's one a month  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends.
From my friends I'm talking to then a few a day.
From new people making contact then several a day but usually just one word messages from guys saying "hi" or "can i suck you"
Actual proper messages from new people... Can't remember the last one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A good few received a week! Some from newbies, some from oldies. Typically all requesting VWE etc, all cliched but each to their own..
Guess the more active you're the more you're likely to receive
Happy Fabbing chipmunks!! |
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Was requested to give my input... i tend to get abut 5-15 a week out of those 2-3 are genuine and my cuppa tea (im fussy) another 2-5 are gunuine just not my flavour and rest are from fakes and and men who seem to not read that your straight!
As a single with minimal veries it is rather diffuclt to build momentum on here.... So the strugle is real for others ans was for me.... (hope that helps Mr Laughs) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few a week generally. One regular with a lady I've been chatting to for a while, and a few others that are usually the result of forum chatter. It's rare I'll get a woman or couple messaging me out of the blue though, most of the messages I get are replies to forum posts I've made, or messages I've sent.
You've got to give to receive |
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"Was requested to give my input... i tend to get abut 5-15 a week out of those 2-3 are genuine and my cuppa tea (im fussy) another 2-5 are gunuine just not my flavour and rest are from fakes and and men who seem to not read that your straight!
As a single with minimal veries it is rather diffuclt to build momentum on here.... So the strugle is real for others ans was for me.... (hope that helps Mr Laughs) "
Thank you kind Sir ... puts us blokes to shame  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Zero ....
None....
Next to nothing....
An they call this a (sex) swingers website I've had more sex from Facebook "
I bet you don't just have a photo of your cock on Facebook  |
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"I discovered the forum last Friday, I've lost 3 days since then, it us graft but the rewards are there!!"
Im more about the laugh n lastminute.com tbh rather than pester n graft . Il always admire a sexy pic but if nothing prevails im off to the pub or out comes a can of beer n footy on . Lol . Im not a desperate chaser . I have a fb that does the job now n again . Being a Dad is my main thing at mo in my life so this just a giggle to which iv met some awesome people n played with stunners id never of had met in a pub or out ect . So im fairly grateful to fabs for giving me chances id never thought would happen |
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"Zero ....
None....
Next to nothing....
An they call this a (sex) swingers website I've had more sex from Facebook
I bet you don't just have a photo of your cock on Facebook "
No several 100 it's free to do so lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And in terms of rewards I am not talking about getting to sex, if you want the joy of this site , in messages, interaction, then you need to contribute, didn't mean to offend you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on if you are talking about how many different people contact you? I get quite a few messages a day from friends I chat with often. New potential friends/meets... maybe 2/3 a week |
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over a year ago
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Without sending an initial message, or posting one of my oh-so-witty comments in a forum, the number is zero.
Otherwise, I get a reasonable response rate. Having said that, I just crafted and sent a nice message to a couple that visited my profile and it was deleted faster than I could check it was in my 'sent' box! Some you win, some you lose |
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I get quite a few per day approx. 25-30. not all messages are welcomed though. on one occasion I received 137 that's been my PB. usually find if I change or add a new pic my inbox goes haywire...typical pic collector fanatics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Without sending an initial message, or posting one of my oh-so-witty comments in a forum, the number is zero.
Otherwise, I get a reasonable response rate. Having said that, I just crafted and sent a nice message to a couple that visited my profile and it was deleted faster than I could check it was in my 'sent' box! Some you win, some you lose "
It happens all the time. I find a profile I think I match up really well with, take some time to write a personal message, and it's immediately deleted! Like you say, win some, lose some, these days I find it best to just send and forget. Checking the sent box is a mug's game! |
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"I get quite a few per day approx. 25-30. not all messages are welcomed though. on one occasion I received 137 that's been my PB. usually find if I change or add a new pic my inbox goes haywire...typical pic collector fanatics."
Blimey, my PB is 4 unread in one day  |
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over a year ago
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Depends how many I send out but if I didn't I'd probably receive one or two from other blokes...
It depends how active I am in the forums and stuff too. |
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I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys .."
Guys can I let you in on a secret? There may be 1000 other guys but most messages to women are bullshit...so in my experience it's REALLY easy for nice guys to stand out...you need a decent profile, you read the ladies profile, fit what she's looking for and you send nice intro message that makes an effort but gets to the point...shhh don't tell the others |
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I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys ..
Guys can I let you in on a secret? There may be 1000 other guys but most messages to women are bullshit...so in my experience it's REALLY easy for nice guys to stand out...you need a decent profile, you read the ladies profile, fit what she's looking for and you send nice intro message that makes an effort but gets to the point...shhh don't tell the others "
Does looks play a part lol |
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I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys ..
Guys can I let you in on a secret? There may be 1000 other guys but most messages to women are bullshit...so in my experience it's REALLY easy for nice guys to stand out...you need a decent profile, you read the ladies profile, fit what she's looking for and you send nice intro message that makes an effort but gets to the point...shhh don't tell the others "
Worst kept secret ever |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?
I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys . Very rare il get a message if honest maybe 1 every couple months . Il only get a meet if i do the chasing .
Intrigued to know what others are ..."
taking out chats with my friends on here .
i get so very few offers of sex from other men its pointless even trying to think of how many i think the last time that happened was well before Christmas .
as for complete strangers in the form couples and single women wishing to chat with me that would be 5 or 6 a week .
hope this helps op in your survey . |
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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?"
I saw hpw and thought "ah, people like me!". About half a dozen a week? It's pretty random TBH, sometimes nothing for a couple of weeks or a dozen in a day.
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I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys ..
Guys can I let you in on a secret? There may be 1000 other guys but most messages to women are bullshit...so in my experience it's REALLY easy for nice guys to stand out...you need a decent profile, you read the ladies profile, fit what she's looking for and you send nice intro message that makes an effort but gets to the point...shhh don't tell the others
Worst kept secret ever "
Surprising how many blokes still don't appear to know and have shit profiles and send shit messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on how much I have been chatting on the forums and if I have put any new pics on.
If I had the filters off, the fab-straight messages would easily outnumber the messages from ladies |
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I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys ..
Guys can I let you in on a secret? There may be 1000 other guys but most messages to women are bullshit...so in my experience it's REALLY easy for nice guys to stand out...you need a decent profile, you read the ladies profile, fit what she's looking for and you send nice intro message that makes an effort but gets to the point...shhh don't tell the others
Does looks play a part lol"
No I need my brain engaging first, unlike many ladies I'm not someone who insists on face pics up front, nor do I have specific height or other requirements. I like nice people who I connect with. Radical idea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since I blocked everything with a willy, the messages have dropped right down (yaay filters!).
Messages from interested lady persons?... extremely rare but always welcome. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?
I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys . Very rare il get a message if honest maybe 1 every couple months . Il only get a meet if i do the chasing .
Intrigued to know what others are ...
taking out chats with my friends on here .
i get so very few offers of sex from other men its pointless even trying to think of how many i think the last time that happened was well before Christmas .
as for complete strangers in the form couples and single women wishing to chat with me that would be 5 or 6 a week .
hope this helps op in your survey . "
ps op that 5 or 6 has nothing to do with me sending messages to profiles I'm searching through for the simple reason i don't do that those 5 or 6 messages are people approaching me i never make first contact unless its over a forum post but that is a super rare thing for me to do . |
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I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys ..
Guys can I let you in on a secret? There may be 1000 other guys but most messages to women are bullshit...so in my experience it's REALLY easy for nice guys to stand out...you need a decent profile, you read the ladies profile, fit what she's looking for and you send nice intro message that makes an effort but gets to the point...shhh don't tell the others
Does looks play a part lol
No I need my brain engaging first, unlike many ladies I'm not someone who insists on face pics up front, nor do I have specific height or other requirements. I like nice people who I connect with. Radical idea "
Very rare quality on here hun . Like your views x |
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over a year ago
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Sometimes more and sometimes none,on average though between 1-3 a month.
Mostly from lasses miles n miles away off the back of posting in here.
Sometimes from local lasses though n sometimes it even ends up getting physical |
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"Sometimes more and sometimes none,on average though between 1-3 a month.
Mostly from lasses miles n miles away off the back of posting in here.
Sometimes from local lasses though n sometimes it even ends up getting physical "
Physical...that happens? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stone cold?...
About 6/7'ish in an entire month.
3 of those will be the male half of a couple who's had a few on a Friday night and wants a wank watching his wife be fucked.
Usually "Now" "Fuck my Wife now" etc..etc..
2 will be from single fems fooking miles away.
1 / 2 will be from genuine couples, out of those two.. 1 of those couples will be a genuine conversation.
Friends it's usually via whatsapp. |
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"Stone cold?...
About 6/7'ish in an entire month.
3 of those will be the male half of a couple who's had a few on a Friday night and wants a wank watching his wife be fucked.
Usually "Now" "Fuck my Wife now" etc..etc..
2 will be from single fems fooking miles away.
1 / 2 will be from genuine couples, out of those two.. 1 of those couples will be a genuine conversation.
Friends it's usually via whatsapp."
I like using whatsapp...it has it's benefits  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes more and sometimes none,on average though between 1-3 a month.
Mostly from lasses miles n miles away off the back of posting in here.
Sometimes from local lasses though n sometimes it even ends up getting physical
Physical...that happens? "
Sporadically,but just enough to make it all worthwhile! |
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"Sometimes more and sometimes none,on average though between 1-3 a month.
Mostly from lasses miles n miles away off the back of posting in here.
Sometimes from local lasses though n sometimes it even ends up getting physical
Physical...that happens?
Sporadically,but just enough to make it all worthwhile!"
Oh |
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"Sometimes more and sometimes none,on average though between 1-3 a month.
Mostly from lasses miles n miles away off the back of posting in here.
Sometimes from local lasses though n sometimes it even ends up getting physical
Physical...that happens?
Sporadically,but just enough to make it all worthwhile!
Oh "
Still waiting on you coming up to haggis munching land to visit me though! |
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"Sometimes more and sometimes none,on average though between 1-3 a month.
Mostly from lasses miles n miles away off the back of posting in here.
Sometimes from local lasses though n sometimes it even ends up getting physical
Physical...that happens?
Sporadically,but just enough to make it all worthwhile!
Oh
Still waiting on you coming up to haggis munching land to visit me though!"
I don't head North until winter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes more and sometimes none,on average though between 1-3 a month.
Mostly from lasses miles n miles away off the back of posting in here.
Sometimes from local lasses though n sometimes it even ends up getting physical
Physical...that happens?
Sporadically,but just enough to make it all worthwhile!
Oh
Still waiting on you coming up to haggis munching land to visit me though!
I don't head North until winter. "
Haha
I'll be hibernating in my cave but will happily stir from my slumber for a taste of sweet honey |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?"
Just counted up, and this last month I had 11 females initiate contact. Obviously messages back and forth after that, and messages from existing friends.
I don't send out tonnes of messages and don't really see it as a 'competition' with other guys on here. Just chat away and see who you get on with. |
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Seems to be a few stats that dont add up from some on here ....
So you get messaged X amount every month by new contacts but you only have a couple of veris and been a member for over a year + ?
Think im way too genuine n honest saying i only get a few every couple months lol
My main success is visiting a club then building contacts . Think iv virtually pissed off everyone in Kent with me messaging them for a spontaneous meet hence why limited messages now lol . Met some who iv actually become good friends with and stay in touch via fabs. |
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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
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I been on this site for must be going on 18 months or more and I can count on both my hands and feet the total amount of messages I have had in all that time. I go months without any messages.
The only message I get is one every two month from admin thanking me for becoming a fully paid member.
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over a year ago
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"Depends how active I've been on the forums, adding pictures and like really, enough to keep the interest alive but nowhere near enough to bulk delete "
Same here ive noticed since ive got more active on the forums i get a few messages more. You really have to be original to stand out ive found |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?
I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys . Very rare il get a message if honest maybe 1 every couple months . Il only get a meet if i do the chasing .
Intrigued to know what others are ..."
Never get any messages from Single women or Couples... I can't really blame them they can choose the cream of the crop... |
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over a year ago
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"Loads, just keep updating profile, photos and status. That will get you more messages.
Think i need to try that "
You cant accommodate put women off from messaging you straight away, also do a nice face pic up close instead of far away pics |
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"Loads, just keep updating profile, photos and status. That will get you more messages.
Think i need to try that
You cant accommodate put women off from messaging you straight away, also do a nice face pic up close instead of far away pics "
So your success rate is so good coz you got a close up of your mouth n chin lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"WAIT, WHAT?
We can receive messages?
(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)
Stay messages are just a fab myth "
Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about  |
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"WAIT, WHAT?
We can receive messages?
(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)
Stay messages are just a fab myth
Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about "
I'm not but I heard someone received one once ..on here ..from a lady ....he's not been seen since to confirm or deny |
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"WAIT, WHAT?
We can receive messages?
(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)
Stay messages are just a fab myth
Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about
I'm not but I heard someone received one once ..on here ..from a lady ....he's not been seen since to confirm or deny "
We all know these "messages" as decided by Trump is fake news. Imagine what it would feel like to receive one? That guy died from shock apparently, true story. |
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"WAIT, WHAT?
We can receive messages?
(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)
Stay messages are just a fab myth
Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about
I'm not but I heard someone received one once ..on here ..from a lady ....he's not been seen since to confirm or deny
We all know these "messages" as decided by Trump is fake news. Imagine what it would feel like to receive one? That guy died from shock apparently, true story."
Wow and on that bombshell all filters on ..no slippery message sneaking in giving me a heart failure |
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"WAIT, WHAT?
We can receive messages?
(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)
Stay messages are just a fab myth
Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about
I'm not but I heard someone received one once ..on here ..from a lady ....he's not been seen since to confirm or deny
We all know these "messages" as decided by Trump is fake news. Imagine what it would feel like to receive one? That guy died from shock apparently, true story.
Wow and on that bombshell all filters on ..no slippery message sneaking in giving me a heart failure "
Message filters? Hell no keep those suckers wide open, I need to experience this |
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"WAIT, WHAT?
We can receive messages?
(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)
Stay messages are just a fab myth
Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about
I'm not but I heard someone received one once ..on here ..from a lady ....he's not been seen since to confirm or deny
We all know these "messages" as decided by Trump is fake news. Imagine what it would feel like to receive one? That guy died from shock apparently, true story.
Wow and on that bombshell all filters on ..no slippery message sneaking in giving me a heart failure
Message filters? Hell no keep those suckers wide open, I need to experience this "
A man that lives life the edge ...stay safe brother |
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"WAIT, WHAT?
We can receive messages?
(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)
Stay messages are just a fab myth
Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about
I'm not but I heard someone received one once ..on here ..from a lady ....he's not been seen since to confirm or deny
We all know these "messages" as decided by Trump is fake news. Imagine what it would feel like to receive one? That guy died from shock apparently, true story.
Wow and on that bombshell all filters on ..no slippery message sneaking in giving me a heart failure
Message filters? Hell no keep those suckers wide open, I need to experience this
A man that lives life the edge ...stay safe brother "
Sometime we have to walk that fine line, you to, stay safe out there, till the re-org, peace |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"WAIT, WHAT?
We can receive messages?
(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)
Stay messages are just a fab myth
Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about
I'm not but I heard someone received one once ..on here ..from a lady ....he's not been seen since to confirm or deny
We all know these "messages" as decided by Trump is fake news. Imagine what it would feel like to receive one? That guy died from shock apparently, true story.
Wow and on that bombshell all filters on ..no slippery message sneaking in giving me a heart failure
Message filters? Hell no keep those suckers wide open, I need to experience this
A man that lives life the edge ...stay safe brother
Sometime we have to walk that fine line, you to, stay safe out there, till the re-org, peace "
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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago
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I get quite alot to be fair.
Had about 20 today.
From women who I've (1 met and 2 befriended)
Just chatting and s bit of back and forth.
enjoying the conversation of late.its like a lost art to some on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really depends how active I've been on the site, it makes a big difference. They are just from new contacts or those I'm yet to meet as find I tend to stay in touch with those I've already met on kik or WhatsApp. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get one every couple of months, it's usually thanking me to help support the site ..... Go figure  "
Pahahahaha 
My site supporter pass ran out. I look forward to getting that message when I pay again.
@Nihilist - I have read a few of your posts and you really are a cheeky bastard.
Love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It ranges from 10-20 a week to over 200 some weeks but then I do run guest lists for events at a couple of different clubs. Also I've been on and off of here for over 7 years so I chat to quite a few different people as well as just getting lots of messages saying please add me to guest list etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?
I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys . Very rare il get a message if honest maybe 1 every couple months . Il only get a meet if i do the chasing .
Intrigued to know what others are ..."
Chat and message response are as frequent as finding rocking horse shit.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get one every couple of months, it's usually thanking me to help support the site ..... Go figure
Pahahahaha
My site supporter pass ran out. I look forward to getting that message when I pay again.
@Nihilist - I have read a few of your posts and you really are a cheeky bastard.
Love it "
Im thinking of going for gold supporter next time that way I'll get a message every month, I'm psyching myself up for that though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get one every couple of months, it's usually thanking me to help support the site ..... Go figure
Pahahahaha
My site supporter pass ran out. I look forward to getting that message when I pay again.
@Nihilist - I have read a few of your posts and you really are a cheeky bastard.
Love it
Im thinking of going for gold supporter next time that way I'll get a message every month, I'm psyching myself up for that though "
Oh you are brave!
I have never considered going for gold because that is just way too much power for one person to have.
Besides getting a message every month is way too much pressure for me and I don't need that in my life  |
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It depends! Normally it's the monthly acknowledgement of payment but if I add a photo then 5 or 6 messages from guys who either want to suck my cock or widen my arsehole!
Given I'm not looking for either of these wondrous opportunities of say just the one message! |
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I do think, given the amount of TV/TS views I seem to get, I would probably get more messages if I opened up my filters.
But as one guy above put it, I'm not looking to get my arsehole opened up like Christmas, or suck on some chick dick. Damn me and my hetrosexual nature! |
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"437 on months with 31 days
422.9 on months with 30 days
394.7 in february
408.8 february in a leap year
although I may be lying
But how can you get the .9, .7 or .8 of a mess"
Some people don't leave me kisses at the end so that's obviously not a full message hence the .9 etc obviously
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Get loads from gay/bi guys who I've never seen on the site before, much less spoken to, asking if I want to suck them off...
Maybe ladies would be more inclined to message single guys if so many of the latter did not consider 'hey there bitch...fancy sucking my massive knob?' as the height of sophistication...
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From a female point of view....
I have browsed the males a few times.
But it's difficult to know 1. If they're a nutcase or not and 2. If they will actually like you.
I'd say we are more likely to have hang ups about ourselves and not want to disappoint.
So that's why I wouldn't message. But I've been tempted |
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In 6 or 7 years here I can't think of a single occassion where a woman has messsaged me first! Until I blocked them, I got 2 or 3 a month off blokes who cant read. Had a few from couples, but always the male half sending the message.
I recon i get a reply to abiut 1 in 10 new contact messages sent out. |
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"In 6 or 7 years here I can't think of a single occassion where a woman has messsaged me first! Until I blocked them, I got 2 or 3 a month off blokes who cant read. Had a few from couples, but always the male half sending the message.
I recon i get a reply to abiut 1 in 10 new contact messages sent out. "
I'll forward some of mine to you. You can have the pleasure of replying!
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"In 6 or 7 years here I can't think of a single occassion where a woman has messsaged me first! Until I blocked them, I got 2 or 3 a month off blokes who cant read. Had a few from couples, but always the male half sending the message.
I recon i get a reply to abiut 1 in 10 new contact messages sent out.
I'll forward some of mine to you. You can have the pleasure of replying!
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Lol. I wouldn't want to deprive you!
It's not a moan, just a reply to the question by the OP. I think its about tge same for most men here, let alone an uggly old bloke like me. |
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I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys ..
Guys can I let you in on a secret? There may be 1000 other guys but most messages to women are bullshit...so in my experience it's REALLY easy for nice guys to stand out...you need a decent profile, you read the ladies profile, fit what she's looking for and you send nice intro message that makes an effort but gets to the point...shhh don't tell the others "
This is really good advice from a beautiful woman who wrote the book on meeting sexy women.
Imagine you were a woman at a bar and at a rate of more than one a minute men walked up to you with their willies hanging out their pants saying "fancy a fuck?" Because thats what its like for a woman on fab.
Now imagine a guy walks up to you with his cock tucked away politely in his pants, offers to buy you a drink and wants to chat with you about all things and not just sex.
Sounds obvious doesn't it? And yet.... |
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"Imagine you were a woman at a bar and at a rate of more than one a minute men walked up to you with their willies hanging out their pants saying "fancy a fuck?" Because thats what its like for a woman on fab."
Careful...too many comments like that and you'll be inundated by knuckle-dragging Neanderthals calling you a 'cucked beta male' who's 'playing the feminist-ally card in an effort to get laid.' |
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"Imagine you were a woman at a bar and at a rate of more than one a minute men walked up to you with their willies hanging out their pants saying "fancy a fuck?" Because thats what its like for a woman on fab.
Careful...too many comments like that and you'll be inundated by knuckle-dragging Neanderthals calling you a 'cucked beta male' who's 'playing the feminist-ally card in an effort to get laid.'"
I probably will. What they won't know is that I don't have enough free time to meet all the lovely ladies that I've met on this site. Its funny that. Because I'm not chasing for sex. I get to know the fab ladies as people and not as a mechanism for gratification. The result is I get a lot of messages, a lot of meets and yes a lot of sex because that's what will inevitably happen if you are patient enough to establish that connection. |
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"Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?
Very rare il get a message if honest maybe 1 every couple months . Il only get a meet if i do the chasing .
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Do you think messaging potential meets is you having to 'chase' ?
Yet you expect the ladies to 'chase and message' you.
Interesting..
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I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys ..
Guys can I let you in on a secret? There may be 1000 other guys but most messages to women are bullshit...so in my experience it's REALLY easy for nice guys to stand out...you need a decent profile, you read the ladies profile, fit what she's looking for and you send nice intro message that makes an effort but gets to the point...shhh don't tell the others
This is really good advice from a beautiful woman who wrote the book on meeting sexy women.
Imagine you were a woman at a bar and at a rate of more than one a minute men walked up to you with their willies hanging out their pants saying "fancy a fuck?" Because thats what its like for a woman on fab.
Now imagine a guy walks up to you with his cock tucked away politely in his pants, offers to buy you a drink and wants to chat with you about all things and not just sex.
Sounds obvious doesn't it? And yet...."
He'll buy her a drink treat her like a lady and she'll fuck off with some mouthy prick cos the first lad was "too nice" sounds like nonsense doesn't it? And yet........ |
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