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Slim, athletic, curvy etc..

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Seems to be a wide range of individual meaning around these.

For example, spied a profile where she's in the doggy position in the photo and described as 'Athletic'. We would say Average to curvy with nice plump backside to get hold of and bang.

Anyone else notice this?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They didn't have heffalump so I gave up.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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Fabulous darling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've seen many women here describe themselves as "average" when I would class them as slim or athletic.

And like you say, all these definitions are open to interpretation - athletic could mean NFL linebacker, or it could mean marathon runner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it?

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple over a year ago

home sweet home

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it? "

Gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not really arsed what others do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lots of guys and women put average as they compare themselves to the fact that most of the uk population is overweight.

So now they think because they are a size 16 they are average in size?

They fail to understand that the term average when applied to weight means a weight and shape proportionate to your height and frame.

But let them call themselves what they want and if their photos dont appeal to you then just move on to the next profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not really arsed what others do.

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it? "

Yes, it's helpful if the individual isn't way off the mark though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it?

Yes, it's helpful if the individual isn't way off the mark though."

Thats why full length photos are required then you can form your own opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it?

Yes, it's helpful if the individual isn't way off the mark though."

That's what pics are for. I never look at the description.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it?

Yes, it's helpful if the individual isn't way off the mark though.

That's what pics are for. I never look at the description."

As long as they're clear too & not all close ups / angles of various parts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it?

Yes, it's helpful if the individual isn't way off the mark though.

That's what pics are for. I never look at the description.

As long as they're clear too & not all close ups / angles of various parts

Yeah. I don't bother with people who have crap pictures either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Alternative descriptions

Ample = "ok, I eat doughnuts"

Athletic = "if I suck my belly in, lying on back"

Average = "I'm not sure what I am, so I'll say"

Beefed out =" I'm roided up. What's it to you"

Curvy = "I've got bits going in all directions"

Delicious = "I like my food"

Extra Padding = "I'm trying but carrying a bit"

Fabulous = "who gives a fuck, I'm me"

Gorgeous = "yes I am. Don't argue"

Hot = "all those selfie likes, of course I am"

Muscular = "I've got them & wobbly bits"

Skinny = "all those diets, have hammered me"

Terrific = "who gives a fuck"

X Rated = " I'm big, but I'm good at oral"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Alternative descriptions

Ample = "ok, I eat doughnuts"

Athletic = "if I suck my belly in, lying on back"

Average = "I'm not sure what I am, so I'll say"

Beefed out =" I'm roided up. What's it to you"

Curvy = "I've got bits going in all directions"

Delicious = "I like my food"

Extra Padding = "I'm trying but carrying a bit"

Fabulous = "who gives a fuck, I'm me"

Gorgeous = "yes I am. Don't argue"

Hot = "all those selfie likes, of course I am"

Muscular = "I've got them & wobbly bits"

Skinny = "all those diets, have hammered me"

Terrific = "who gives a fuck"

X Rated = " I'm big, but I'm good at oral" "

I still want Heffalump

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Alternative descriptions

Ample = "ok, I eat doughnuts"

Athletic = "if I suck my belly in, lying on back"

Average = "I'm not sure what I am, so I'll say"

Beefed out =" I'm roided up. What's it to you"

Curvy = "I've got bits going in all directions"

Delicious = "I like my food"

Extra Padding = "I'm trying but carrying a bit"

Fabulous = "who gives a fuck, I'm me"

Gorgeous = "yes I am. Don't argue"

Hot = "all those selfie likes, of course I am"

Muscular = "I've got them & wobbly bits"

Skinny = "all those diets, have hammered me"

Terrific = "who gives a fuck"

X Rated = " I'm big, but I'm good at oral"

I still want Rumpy-pumpy

you are horny aren't you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I still want Rumpy-pumpy

you are horny aren't you

I think he went UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Athletic

Is this the new kiss fuck avaoid thread?

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By *blasiansCouple over a year ago

Wakefield

Were described as slim yesterday..but we are anything but

..this boosted our ego for a bit before reality kicked in otherwise would have to updated our profile lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't really care what people put as long as they have photos, that way we can make our own judgement.

H xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wish fab would have a fat bloke tick option so I can tick it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Athletic

Is this the new kiss fuck avaoid thread?

Bwahahaha if it is you need glasses!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do agree some people make it nigh on impossible for me to tell what their body shape is by using obscure camera angles for pics ...

and if I don't agree with their discription I pass them by

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't really take any notice of the body size indicators on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't remember what I have on mine. I had ample, and kept being told I should have curvy, but I have a fat stomach, so I don't fall into the curvy category. Not fat enough for ample-too fat for curvy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think its down to the individual, but also different angles will make your body look fatter or thinner so will change what definition you may be interpreted as

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't remember what I have on mine. I had ample, and kept being told I should have curvy, but I have a fat stomach, so I don't fall into the curvy category. Not fat enough for ample-too fat for curvy. "

Maybe they should have a wobbly option for both sexes? Lol

that would cover alot of bases for people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can I have 90% cheese as my body type please

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can I have 90% cheese as my body type please

Mrs "

You as well huh? That's my vice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can I have 90% cheese as my body type please

Mrs

You as well huh? That's my vice. "

Yeah the other 10% is crackers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can I have 90% cheese as my body type please

Mrs

You as well huh? That's my vice. "

What's the other 10% made up of then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ahh that makes sense

no percentage pork pie or pickles then? Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can I have 90% cheese as my body type please

Mrs

You as well huh? That's my vice.

What's the other 10% made up of then

Beer

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Not really arsed what others do.

I don't see why it matters so much. As long as people are like how they are in their photos (not dated etc), I couldn't give too much of a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's very subjective isn't it? Doesn't bother me what people choose to describe themselves as. I go by the photos

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Since fab has such a limited choice of body size and shape descriptors it's bound to be a tricky one to pick. We're all not only our own worse critics but don't want to tick the box that might mean accepting some of our deep seated body flaws. Hence why I have chosen to put curvy, not ample or large or whatever euphemism fab has deemed acceptable for a bit too podgy. Like many have said, pics and profile text descriptions are a far better indicator of size and shape. Fab should just let us write our own descriptors; it's not even as if you can use them as a search parameter so they're kind of redundant anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ahh that makes sense

no percentage pork pie or pickles then? Ha ha "

I know it go against the grain - but I didn't actually eat all the pies . I don't even like pies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Possibly because a lot of people see themselves totally different to what others do,like when you hear a recording of your own voice it doesn't seem the same as what you hear when you're just speaking?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wish fab would have a fat bloke tick option so I can tick it.

Right here!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Possibly because a lot of people see themselves totally different to what others do,like when you hear a recording of your own voice it doesn't seem the same as what you hear when you're just speaking? "

Not quite true I'm afraid

The bones and tissues inside your head can also conduct sound waves directly to the cochlea. When you speak, your vocal cords create sound waves that travel through the air to reach your inner ear. ... When you hear your voice on a recording, you're only hearing sounds transmitted via air conduction.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not quite true I'm afraid

Good lord(metaphoricaly)

I understand the theory, but it still sounds different to me

Time for a poll!!

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By *eKoopleCouple over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it? "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it?

Agreed."

Agreed but they should keep in mind they're "advertising" themselves and when we go shopping, we like to read an accurate description of the product

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

In a resturant with half a pig on a plate, "Waiter, what's this, I ordered a small medallion of pork?"

"Ah yes sir, it's just how we like to describe it."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it?

Agreed.

Agreed but they should keep in mind they're "advertising" themselves and when we go shopping, we like to read an accurate description of the product

The descriptions on here to choose from are vague though.

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By *rjpinkMan over a year ago

winterfell

I think the problem is peoples ideas of the set definitions can be quite different. I do wish there was a body type option in the search tho. That would be useful.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it? "

You'd think so wouldn't you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In a resturant with half a pig on a plate, "Waiter, what's this, I ordered a small medallion of pork?"

"Ah yes sir, it's just how we like to describe it.""

But on here you can use your eyes to determine what people look like. The description is rather redundant as someone further up pointed out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it?

You'd think so wouldn't you!"

Again, yes it is, but no harm in going for accuracy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the problem is peoples ideas of the set definitions can be quite different. I do wish there was a body type option in the search tho. That would be useful."

Be pointless if people are not accurate as to what body type they were though wouldnt it?

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

I don't care what people use or indeed what they think I am. I chose fabulous because I don't think any of the options really fitted. People will say anything to you in the hope of getting into your pants. Its all just words and nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't care what people use or indeed what they think I am. I chose fabulous because I don't think any of the options really fitted. People will say anything to you in the hope of getting into your pants. Its all just words and nothing else. "

True

and by the way....

Has anyone told you that mask really suits you ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Slim, athletic, average, BBW who cares! Just have a full length body pic on your profile and it doesn't matter........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the problem is peoples ideas of the set definitions can be quite different. I do wish there was a body type option in the search tho. That would be useful.

Be pointless if people are not accurate as to what body type they were though wouldnt it?"

Absolutely pointless as it's subjective too.

I don't set out to mislead anyone with Average but someone might look at me and think Curvy / Large.

Based on my thought process I imagine this is same for a lot of people.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"I think the problem is peoples ideas of the set definitions can be quite different. I do wish there was a body type option in the search tho. That would be useful.

Be pointless if people are not accurate as to what body type they were though wouldnt it?

Absolutely pointless as it's subjective too.

I don't set out to mislead anyone with Average but someone might look at me and think Curvy / Large.

Based on my thought process I imagine this is same for a lot of people."

This is how I feel about it. I've picked average as a default. I'm not slim or athletic but curvy is open to interpretation. I like that there's a 'fabulous' option though.

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By *radleywigginsMan over a year ago

northwest

A decent starting point would be a full length standing profile shot. In profile so an accurate assessment of a gut or otherwise can be established..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Slim is thin.

Athletic is toned/musclely.

Curvy is shapley, like an hour glass as opposed to quite up and down.

Average is being about the right weight for your size, maybe just the odd lb extra.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A decent starting point would be a full length standing profile shot. In profile so an accurate assessment of a gut or otherwise can be established.."

Lets be honest, we choose pics to post of ourselves that we like, that we look good in.

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By *radleywigginsMan over a year ago

northwest

"A decent starting point would be a full length standing profile shot. In profile so an accurate assessment of a gut or otherwise can be established..

Lets be honest, we choose pics to post of ourselves that we like, that we look good in."

True. But choosing a photo you 'look good in' is perhaps a different concept from one which is deliberately misleading. Which could of course, on occasion, be combined with a body description that's misleading.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does it really matter how people describe themselves on here as a song as they have pics that show themselves accurately.

I've described myself as curvy because I prefer the sound of that to ample or large. Could be argued that I'm bigger then curvy but I do have curves but they are just curvier then some other girls curves

PTU xxx

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By *radleywigginsMan over a year ago

northwest

"Slim is thin.

Athletic is toned/musclely.

Curvy is shapley, like an hour glass as opposed to quite up and down.

Average is being about the right weight for your size, maybe just the odd lb extra."

Perhaps. I think many people (and my experience here is with women) will have experienced meeting a person described as curvy who would medically be described as morbidly obese.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have put myself as curvy as I have curvy hips and big boobs . Yes I also carry extra weight but I have a full length still of a video and hope that allows people to see my body shape. I could put BBW but it's not a term I'm that fond of

Mrs

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By *issVeryWoman over a year ago

streatham

despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

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By *radleywigginsMan over a year ago

northwest

Seems like the misrepresentation, and some of this has been admitted by some posters in this thread is all in the same direction.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am wobbly

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By *radleywigginsMan over a year ago

northwest

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Gutted they don't have the 'Fatty Bumbalatty' option

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Gutted they don't have the 'Fatty Bumbalatty' option "

They didn't have pale and skinny either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters"

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong

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By *op gooserMan over a year ago

chester

"Seems to be a wide range of individual meaning around these.

For example, spied a profile where she's in the doggy position in the photo and described as 'Athletic'. We would say Average to curvy with nice plump backside to get hold of and bang.

Anyone else notice this?"
I think therefore I am. I have a body like Ronaldo just happens to be trapped in a fat mans body. Just waiting to get my surgery to unveil it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I haven't physique of an Ethiopian, skinny with a big belly lol

Sorry for being stereotypical.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Gutted they don't have the 'Fatty Bumbalatty' option

They didn't have pale and skinny either

I'd put you more in the 'daaaayum you fiiiiiine' category, personally...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I joked about this earlier in the thread,

but we're all different, and view ourselves,

in all ways. I think it would be fun, if you could describe yourself, in your own style.

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By *radleywigginsMan over a year ago

northwest

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong "

You don't think health matters? Or you don't think there's a link between lifestyle and disease?

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By *anielpiercedMan over a year ago

by the seaside

Can we have a used to be gym fit but now middle aged Dad bod option please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am a little chubby,hopefully getting to flat stomach in next few months,then I might do some page 3 topless shots

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can we have a used to be gym fit but now middle aged Dad bod option please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong

You don't think health matters? Or you don't think there's a link between lifestyle and disease? "

If I wanted medical advise I'd go to a doctor not take it off a pedantic poster on a forum

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By *issVeryWoman over a year ago

streatham

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong

You don't think health matters? Or you don't think there's a link between lifestyle and disease? "

wiggins do you want a piggy back?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong

You don't think health matters? Or you don't think there's a link between lifestyle and disease? "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honest pics are the key. Descriptions are subject to evaluation. The camera never lies. That's assuming of course you have pics.

PTU XXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong

You don't think health matters? Or you don't think there's a link between lifestyle and disease? "

People know. You preaching to them isn't going to help.

I don't care who preaches to me, if it makes them feel better about themselves, it's a good thing

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By *radleywigginsMan over a year ago

northwest

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong

You don't think health matters? Or you don't think there's a link between lifestyle and disease?

If I wanted medical advise I'd go to a doctor not take it off a pedantic poster on a forum

The fact that people are so reluctant to take advice (from the medical profession or otherwise) is the reason that the threads like this exist.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong

You don't think health matters? Or you don't think there's a link between lifestyle and disease?

If I wanted medical advise I'd go to a doctor not take it off a pedantic poster on a forum

The fact that people are so reluctant to take advice (from the medical profession or otherwise) is the reason that the threads like this exist. "

Luckily we have selfless people like you on an endless crusade to save us from ourselves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems like the misrepresentation, and some of this has been admitted by some posters in this thread is all in the same direction.

Being slim doesn't make a person fit, athletic or healthy. Over exercising isn't good for you either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong

You don't think health matters? Or you don't think there's a link between lifestyle and disease?

If I wanted medical advise I'd go to a doctor not take it off a pedantic poster on a forum

The fact that people are so reluctant to take advice (from the medical profession or otherwise) is the reason that the threads like this exist. "

What about those of us how have medical problems that contribute to our perceived weight issues?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong

You don't think health matters? Or you don't think there's a link between lifestyle and disease?

If I wanted medical advise I'd go to a doctor not take it off a pedantic poster on a forum

The fact that people are so reluctant to take advice (from the medical profession or otherwise) is the reason that the threads like this exist. "

I'm not reluctant. I listened to my doctor who said stop thinking (because you have depression), stop eating food (because you are overweight) and do this exercise (sit on a chair and swing your arms around). Great advice eh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong

You don't think health matters? Or you don't think there's a link between lifestyle and disease?

If I wanted medical advise I'd go to a doctor not take it off a pedantic poster on a forum

The fact that people are so reluctant to take advice (from the medical profession or otherwise) is the reason that the threads like this exist. "

Thanks, Doctor Wiggins.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"Can we have a used to be gym fit but now middle aged Dad bod option please

+1"

I prefer dad bods and I've seen lots of other ladies say the same thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong

You don't think health matters? Or you don't think there's a link between lifestyle and disease?

If I wanted medical advise I'd go to a doctor not take it off a pedantic poster on a forum

The fact that people are so reluctant to take advice (from the medical profession or otherwise) is the reason that the threads like this exist.

Thanks, Doctor Wiggins. "

What you may not know Dr Wiggins, is that some people are actually losing weight. It doesn't happen overnight you know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They say they are curvy when they are fat ??

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"Slim is thin.

Athletic is toned/musclely.

Curvy is shapley, like an hour glass as opposed to quite up and down.

Average is being about the right weight for your size, maybe just the odd lb extra.

Perhaps. I think many people (and my experience here is with women) will have experienced meeting a person described as curvy who would medically be described as morbidly obese."

I can medically be described as slightly overweight. Less overweight than I used to be and approaching ideal but still overweight. Also less weighty than the UK average but I shall continue to put curvy and have plenty of photos including full length nudes in my friends gallery for people who care about that sort of thing to make their own minds up and apply a modicum of common sense much like I do. I don't think I've ever paid the blindest bit of attention to the terms people choose to describe themselves on their profile when it comes to me wanting to meet them. It only ever seems to be an issue in forum threads and most of the people I meet rarely post.

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By *radleywigginsMan over a year ago

northwest

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong

You don't think health matters? Or you don't think there's a link between lifestyle and disease?

If I wanted medical advise I'd go to a doctor not take it off a pedantic poster on a forum

The fact that people are so reluctant to take advice (from the medical profession or otherwise) is the reason that the threads like this exist.

Seriously? Eating less and exercising more is bad advice?!!

I think stopping thinking is a bad idea, surely it's about taking about of responsibility and seizing some control of it for yourself.

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By *anielpiercedMan over a year ago

by the seaside

"Can we have a used to be gym fit but now middle aged Dad bod option please

I prefer dad bods and I've seen lots of other ladies say the same thing

I've always found ladies to appreciate personalities and good humour too, they seldom are shallow enough to turn down someone based on body size in my experience.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe Fab could insist that we all display a certificate from our GP who has accurately described our body shape.

Sally

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By *issVeryWoman over a year ago

streatham

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong

You don't think health matters? Or you don't think there's a link between lifestyle and disease?

If I wanted medical advise I'd go to a doctor not take it off a pedantic poster on a forum

The fact that people are so reluctant to take advice (from the medical profession or otherwise) is the reason that the threads like this exist.

Seriously? Eating less and exercising more is bad advice?!!

I think stopping thinking is a bad idea, surely it's about taking about of responsibility and seizing some control of it for yourself. "
.

It's not always this easy..just like you wouldn't tell an anorexic person "oh ffs just eat", sometimes it's more than "oh just eat less exercise more". Both extremes are unhealthy, Unfortunately in society one beckons "oooh aaaahs and you poor thing" and the other demoralising put downs..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They say they are curvy when they are fat ??"

Some men put themselves as respectful and are not . Ah well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dad bod here ,17 stone 6ft2. I have the Mr Incredible look or Gru from despicable me .x

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"They say they are curvy when they are fat ??

Some men put themselves as respectful and are not . Ah well "

Some men don't even know the meaning of the word 'respectful'

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By *anielpiercedMan over a year ago

by the seaside

"Dad bod here ,17 stone 6ft2. I have the Mr Incredible look or Gru from despicable me .x

Mt brother from another Mother

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a stone heavier than I want to be so I must be average.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

6ft 2 and eyes of blue !

Jesus is here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems to be a wide range of individual meaning around these.

For example, spied a profile where she's in the doggy position in the photo and described as 'Athletic'. We would say Average to curvy with nice plump backside to get hold of and bang.

Anyone else notice this? I think therefore I am. I have a body like Ronaldo just happens to be trapped in a fat mans body. Just waiting to get my surgery to unveil it."

Ronaldo McDonaldo

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By *aroleBaskinWoman over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"Can we have a used to be gym fit but now middle aged Dad bod option please

I prefer dad bods and I've seen lots of other ladies say the same thing

I've always found ladies to appreciate personalities and good humour too, they seldom are shallow enough to turn down someone based on body size in my experience. "

I certainly do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought curvy meant size 10 to size 30. That's why I picked it.

Everyone has different opinions of what the descriptions mean so they are pointless.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought curvy meant size 10 to size 30. That's why I picked it.

Everyone has different opinions of what the descriptions mean so they are pointless. "

Wheres your carrot avatar gone ?

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By *radleywigginsMan over a year ago

northwest

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong

You don't think health matters? Or you don't think there's a link between lifestyle and disease?

If I wanted medical advise I'd go to a doctor not take it off a pedantic poster on a forum

The fact that people are so reluctant to take advice (from the medical profession or otherwise) is the reason that the threads like this exist.

Seriously? Eating less and exercising more is bad advice?!!

I think stopping thinking is a bad idea, surely it's about taking about of responsibility and seizing some control of it for yourself. .

You jumped upon my first post, because I said it was health that matters. The fact that you have compared overeating to a mental health condition to one which the public associate with undereating to the point at which it is detrimental to health would indicate you agree..

Neither is ideal. But rectifying either surely starts with recognition of the problem. And the realisation that there may not be an easy cure. The main difficulty seems to be with representation, as you've said a person suffering with anorexia nervosa may not consider their body appearance in the same way as others do. Just as 'average' or 'curvy' users of this website want to change the way the want to represent themselves. One is very rare, and difficult to manage. And one is increasingly prevalent.

I don't suggest or advise anything, but I do bemoan the lack of role models promoting a healthy, balanced, outdoor lifestyle, and a society which increasingly accepts poor health choices and celebrates fads.

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By *ola.Woman over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

"I'm a stone heavier than I want to be so I must be average.

"
I think there are less options for men.Average for a man is fine.

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By *anielpiercedMan over a year ago

by the seaside

"Can we have a used to be gym fit but now middle aged Dad bod option please

I prefer dad bods and I've seen lots of other ladies say the same thing

I've always found ladies to appreciate personalities and good humour too, they seldom are shallow enough to turn down someone based on body size in my experience.

I certainly do

Bless you my dear

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By *iverpool LoverMan over a year ago

liverpool

Doesn't matter how anyone wants to describe themself's as long as they have pictures so the person that potentially wants to meet that person can decide if they are for them.

If they disagree with what the person has put as description for their body size then just don't message them.

It's a bit tougher if they are a grey silhouette but then again why would anyone bother to message a grey silhouette looking for fun.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it? "

I was having the same debate with a lady friend and while it does come down to how one sees themselves,that's not necessarily true to how others would view them..

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

Lumpy? Burly? Jiggly?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've forgotten to mention photo shopped pics ?

Even photos can no longer be relied upon sometimes

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By *issVeryWoman over a year ago

streatham

"Doesn't matter how anyone wants to describe themself's as long as they have pictures so the person that potentially wants to meet that person can decide if they are for them.

If they disagree with what the person has put as description for their body size then just don't message them.

It's a bit tougher if they are a grey silhouette but then again why would anyone bother to message a grey silhouette looking for fun.

Just had a look, and you are definitely one who misrepresents themselves! A more accurate description of your body should be Touch My Chest And Grab Onto My Shoulders ASAP!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We've forgotten to mention photo shopped pics ?

Even photos can no longer be relied upon sometimes

Very true xx

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By *ola.Woman over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

"We've forgotten to mention photo shopped pics ?

Even photos can no longer be relied upon sometimes

"
Who would have guessed you were actually in a row boat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We've forgotten to mention photo shopped pics ?

Even photos can no longer be relied upon sometimes

Who would have guessed you were actually in a row boat.

In a paddling pool

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought curvy meant size 10 to size 30. That's why I picked it.

Everyone has different opinions of what the descriptions mean so they are pointless.

Wheres your carrot avatar gone ?"

She ran away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We've forgotten to mention photo shopped pics ?

Even photos can no longer be relied upon sometimes

Yep, so noticeable.

Especially the ones who insist they don't use filters etc...yet they are a different colour in every photo.

Always makes me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought curvy meant size 10 to size 30. That's why I picked it.

Everyone has different opinions of what the descriptions mean so they are pointless.

Wheres your carrot avatar gone ?

She ran away."

Have you been abusing her again ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I picked large as well I am but wobbly belly would have been more apt haha!!

Technically im classed as disabled due to my hip and leg being so severely damaged so controlling my body size is a pain (literally) as I do need to exercise quite vigorously to shed pounds.

Personally however people see themselves is fine to put on, as long as they have full length pics to see before a meet then I dont mind as I can decide then if Im attracted to them, I have private pics in just knickers front and side on then people can see im hiding nothing!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought curvy meant size 10 to size 30. That's why I picked it.

Everyone has different opinions of what the descriptions mean so they are pointless.

Wheres your carrot avatar gone ?

She ran away.

Have you been abusing her again ?

Carrot abuse is a serious allegation!

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

There need to be more body type descriptions available,you see some on here saying average or athletic and it's like naaaaaaaaaaaa dude that is so not you.There should also be personality types to choose I personally would be wanker with a sprinkling of say what I feel regardless of the consequences.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only thing I do with my pics,is make them black and white I look better in mono.Just put some new pics on ,please don't of just eaten if you look.x

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By *issVeryWoman over a year ago

streatham

"Only thing I do with my pics,is make them black and white I look better in mono.Just put some new pics on ,please don't of just eaten if you look.x"

Stubble in mono mmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think its up to the individual how they see themselves but I have guys who describe themselves as athletic. Nah belly is not athletic lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only thing I do with my pics,is make them black and white I look better in mono.Just put some new pics on ,please don't of just eaten if you look.x

Stubble in mono mmm

You can't see my blushes in mono

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

quite a lot of irony on this thread

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By *issVeryWoman over a year ago

streatham

"Only thing I do with my pics,is make them black and white I look better in mono.Just put some new pics on ,please don't of just eaten if you look.x

Stubble in mono mmm

You can't see my blushes in mono

Where the heck is Soton *loads google maps*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People know the difference between artificial/natural light and filters/photoshop, right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought curvy meant size 10 to size 30. That's why I picked it.

Everyone has different opinions of what the descriptions mean so they are pointless.

Wheres your carrot avatar gone ?

She ran away.

Have you been abusing her again ?

No.. you did.

She's back now.

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By *obwithkiltMan over a year ago

Belton

I have a body.. It's hairy.. That's it.

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"People know the difference between artificial/natural light and filters/photoshop, right?

anybody with a modicum of intelligence would

unless they just can't differentiate due to jealousy or something similar

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a body.. It's hairy.. That's it.

Hairy is good as long as a certain area is trimmed.. no girl wants a mouthful of pubes

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Boys and girls, we didn't want an all out medical war over health!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"We've forgotten to mention photo shopped pics ?

Even photos can no longer be relied upon sometimes

That is very true!!

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By *obwithkiltMan over a year ago

Belton

"I have a body.. It's hairy.. That's it.

Hairy is good as long as a certain area is trimmed.. no girl wants a mouthful of pubes

That bits smooth.. So is the head

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Boys and girls, we didn't want an all out medical war over health!

You ain't going to anything else when body shape is questioned...

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"Seems to be a wide range of individual meaning around these.

For example, spied a profile where she's in the doggy position in the photo and described as 'Athletic'. We would say Average to curvy with nice plump backside to get hold of and bang.

Anyone else notice this?"

Shot putters and hammer throwers are still athletes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a stone heavier than I want to be so I must be average.

I think there are less options for men. Average for a man is fine - You're just perfect PB

Aww shucks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People know the difference between artificial/natural light and filters/photoshop, right?

anybody with a modicum of intelligence would

unless they just can't differentiate due to jealousy or something similar

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems to be a wide range of individual meaning around these.

For example, spied a profile where she's in the doggy position in the photo and described as 'Athletic'. We would say Average to curvy with nice plump backside to get hold of and bang.

Anyone else notice this?

Shot putters and hammer throwers are still athletes

So are darts players

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does it help to point out that the second b in bbw stands for beautiful?

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By *uzi Jones 26Woman over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

I opted for fabulous as too big for curvy and large just made me anxious. I do make my size clear for people though x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Seems to be a wide range of individual meaning around these.

For example, spied a profile where she's in the doggy position in the photo and described as 'Athletic'. We would say Average to curvy with nice plump backside to get hold of and bang.

Anyone else notice this?

Shot putters and hammer throwers are still athletes

But they don't have an "Athletic" body.

An athletic body is classed as toned and muscular.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it? "

Completely agree with this.

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it? "

Only if describing themselves to a blond person

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By *p4funCouple over a year ago

Plymouth

"Seems to be a wide range of individual meaning around these.

For example, spied a profile where she's in the doggy position in the photo and described as 'Athletic'. We would say Average to curvy with nice plump backside to get hold of and bang.

Anyone else notice this?

Shot putters and hammer throwers are still athletes

But they don't have an "Athletic" body.

An athletic body is classed as toned and muscular."
we see athletic the same totally agree with toned and or muscular

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a body.. It's hairy.. That's it.

Hairy is good as long as a certain area is trimmed.. no girl wants a mouthful of pubes

That bits smooth.. So is the head

Thats what we like to hear... cant deepthroat only to have your nose tickled by hairs hehe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you like pigeon. I'm ya man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it help to point out that the second b in bbw stands for beautiful?

Or does BBW actually stand for...

Big Buxom Woman ?

I think that is the correct terminology when BBW was first created.

Then the larger sized women changed it to Beautiful as they didn't like the term Buxom

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"despite my non-athletic physique, I can still give you guys a piggy back - isn't that what matters?

Your health is what matters

There's always one person who feels they need to tell people what they are doing wrong

You don't think health matters? Or you don't think there's a link between lifestyle and disease?

If I wanted medical advise I'd go to a doctor not take it off a pedantic poster on a forum

The fact that people are so reluctant to take advice (from the medical profession or otherwise) is the reason that the threads like this exist.

Seriously? Eating less and exercising more is bad advice?!!

I think stopping thinking is a bad idea, surely it's about taking about of responsibility and seizing some control of it for yourself. "

It was bad advice, as it wasn't informative or based on a proper assessment of my needs. If I had taken her up on her advice I would have starved to death, been in a lot more pain and gone more mad, trying to stop myself from thinking.

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By *egasus NobMan over a year ago

Merton

Love me an athletic curvy woman...hot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They didn't have fat bastard down for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it help to point out that the second b in bbw stands for beautiful?

Or does BBW actually stand for...

Big Buxom Woman ?

I think that is the correct terminology when BBW was first created.

Then the larger sized women changed it to Beautiful as they didn't like the term Buxom

Where are you getting that information from? I used to think BBW meant big black woman.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it help to point out that the second b in bbw stands for beautiful?

Or does BBW actually stand for...

Big Buxom Woman ?

I think that is the correct terminology when BBW was first created.

Then the larger sized women changed it to Beautiful as they didn't like the term Buxom

Which ever it is, think both are complementary!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it help to point out that the second b in bbw stands for beautiful?

Or does BBW actually stand for...

Big Buxom Woman ?

I think that is the correct terminology when BBW was first created.

Then the larger sized women changed it to Beautiful as they didn't like the term Buxom

Which ever it is, think both are complementary!

It should be complimentary

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems to be a wide range of individual meaning around these.

For example, spied a profile where she's in the doggy position in the photo and described as 'Athletic'. We would say Average to curvy with nice plump backside to get hold of and bang.

Anyone else notice this?

Shot putters and hammer throwers are still athletes

So are darts players

Fuck I play darts and mine says ample

I'm doing this all wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Boys and girls, we didn't want an all out medical war over health!

You ain't going to anything else when body shape is questioned..."

No ones body shape is being questioned. The ability to describe yourself a little more accurate is under scrutiny.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it help to point out that the second b in bbw stands for beautiful?

Or does BBW actually stand for...

Big Buxom Woman ?

I think that is the correct terminology when BBW was first created.

Then the larger sized women changed it to Beautiful as they didn't like the term Buxom

Which ever it is, think both are complementary!

It should be complimentary "

Perhaps we should invent the acronym bbbw!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it? "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Boys and girls, we didn't want an all out medical war over health!

You ain't going to anything else when body shape is questioned...

No ones body shape is being questioned. The ability to describe yourself a little more accurate is under scrutiny."

Why should anything be under scrutiny? Aslong as we play by the rules fab set out then surely we can do what ever we want.

PTU XXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it help to point out that the second b in bbw stands for beautiful?

Or does BBW actually stand for...

Big Buxom Woman ?

I think that is the correct terminology when BBW was first created.

Then the larger sized women changed it to Beautiful as they didn't like the term Buxom

Which ever it is, think both are complementary!

It should be complimentary

Perhaps we should invent the acronym bbbw!!

Well I can be buxom but beautiful is not for me to say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it help to point out that the second b in bbw stands for beautiful?

Or does BBW actually stand for...

Big Buxom Woman ?

I think that is the correct terminology when BBW was first created.

Then the larger sized women changed it to Beautiful as they didn't like the term Buxom

Which ever it is, think both are complementary!

It should be complimentary

Perhaps we should invent the acronym bbbw!!

Well I can be buxom but beautiful is not for me to say "

Then i will,you are..., very x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I put ample because I am. It's a guide body shape isn't it and we all define it differently. I don't look at it when reading a profile. I go by photos and my interactions with the person concerned.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Boys and girls, we didn't want an all out medical war over health!

You ain't going to anything else when body shape is questioned...

No ones body shape is being questioned. The ability to describe yourself a little more accurate is under scrutiny."

I know, that's what I meant. It always turns into something more.

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By *lowercandyWoman over a year ago

Lancashire

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it?

Agreed.

Agreed but they should keep in mind they're "advertising" themselves and when we go shopping, we like to read an accurate description of the product

I noted looking at your profile Mr is average (but average against what/who)

Mrs ample ( I can only see the one photo so assume please relates to your boobs though I can't think the rest of you appears to be)

You are clear happy with the options you've selected and that is great and as it should be.

But as stated in numerous replies it's all so subjective :/

I'm personally engage in conversation and make sure people are aware what is under the corset!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Boys and girls, we didn't want an all out medical war over health!

You ain't going to anything else when body shape is questioned...

No ones body shape is being questioned. The ability to describe yourself a little more accurate is under scrutiny.

Why should anything be under scrutiny? Aslong as we play by the rules fab set out then surely we can do what ever we want.

PTU XXX "

Oh we see, you don't scrutinize posts, you just send fuck requests willy nilly, got it, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think it's down to the individual how they describe themselves isn't it?

Agreed.

Agreed but they should keep in mind they're "advertising" themselves and when we go shopping, we like to read an accurate description of the product

I noted looking at your profile Mr is average (but average against what/who)

Mrs ample ( I can only see the one photo so assume please relates to your boobs though I can't think the rest of you appears to be)

You are clear happy with the options you've selected and that is great and as it should be.

But as stated in numerous replies it's all so subjective :/

I'm personally engage in conversation and make sure people are aware what is under the corset! "

Average as in to my height and build.

The photo of the Mrs was before a weight increase of about a stone plus it was a stretch pose. So our descriptions 'accurately' describe ourbody type.

Thank you for trying to catch us out but no cigar, lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems to be a wide range of individual meaning around these.

For example, spied a profile where she's in the doggy position in the photo and described as 'Athletic'. We would say Average to curvy with nice plump backside to get hold of and bang.

Anyone else notice this?"

I notice that appearance is subjective and the options limited.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I notice that people pay far too much attention to labels

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By *ficouldMan over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Sizes of ourselves and others is completely subjective.

Not forgetting that the camera never lies to much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I notice that people pay far too much attention to labels"

Is that not a good thing to match your tastes?

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