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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have noticed that all women on here who are beautifully curved are called BBW and I like to think by most, are respected and adored.
When I look through many womens or couples profiles they often state - no fat men, beer bellies or food bellies.
Has anyone ever see BBM are welcome.
Or are women BBW and men just fat.
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Not BHM - Big Handsome Men is a real thing that certain people search for, but as with BBW we don't appeal to everyone, women get an easier ride on fab in general regardless of body type because were the demographic that's the smallest yet most in demand |
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over a year ago
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Here we go. Yes but if you read the thread you can plainly see in this case, it has nothing to do with it.
Hope you attracted the attention you were hunting for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In this case it would be BHM as previously stated. I know what you are trying to say but using universally accepted terms means that everyone will know what your on about.
I looked at this thread and thought I was going to be about Blackberry messenger and wondered if anyone used that anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's pretty straightforward, don't define yourself by only one facet of your being and you'll find that you may enjoy more success. It's no different than the chaps who think that just because they have a big dick, they'll be swimming in pussy, or that having a 6 pack means guaranteed fuckery. I'm sure there's much more to you than just being a big man physically, so put all that across.
Granted, big fellas (and I include myself in that) will find that they're in the minority when it comes to the choice of lady they are able to interact with. The solution is to move on from the ones who say '6 packs only' or 'no fat fuckers' quickly and concentrate your efforts on those who embrace all men.
It's either that or change your appearance to suit what those women are looking for. |
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"Here we go. Yes but if you read the thread you can plainly see in this case, it has nothing to do with it.
Hope you attracted the attention you were hunting for. "
Wasn't after attention I was merely commenting on the topic
If you don't want people's opinion don't ask questions in the first place
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"Here we go. Yes but if you read the thread you can plainly see in this case, it has nothing to do with it.
Hope you attracted the attention you were hunting for.
Wasn't after attention I was merely commenting on the topic
If you don't want people's opinion don't ask questions in the first place
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I think that was the reaction to the blackberry messanger quip. I thought your opinion was perfectly reasonable |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Not ALL fat women like to be called BBWs. I don't, but I know why and how it came about and respect it for that.
I am fat, I call myself fat. "
I hate the term BBW and I don't think the term BBM is any better, sorry OP. |
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"Here we go. Yes but if you read the thread you can plainly see in this case, it has nothing to do with it.
Hope you attracted the attention you were hunting for.
Wasn't after attention I was merely commenting on the topic
If you don't want people's opinion don't ask questions in the first place
I think that was the reaction to the blackberry messanger quip. I thought your opinion was perfectly reasonable "
One would hope so and if that's the case I shall send my apologies
But you can't blame people for saying the BBM comments and they are entitled to say it given it's a public forum so the quip was IMHO unnecessary |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Here we go. Yes but if you read the thread you can plainly see in this case, it has nothing to do with it.
Hope you attracted the attention you were hunting for.
Wasn't after attention I was merely commenting on the topic
If you don't want people's opinion don't ask questions in the first place
I think that was the reaction to the blackberry messanger quip. I thought your opinion was perfectly reasonable "
Correct - it was the blackberry message I was referring to.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also, women started referring to themselves as BBWs in order to counteract what the mainstream saw as ugly. There's a greater pressure on women to look good, or at least there was. I realise men are now also feeling that pressure... |
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"Not ALL fat women like to be called BBWs. I don't, but I know why and how it came about and respect it for that.
I am fat, I call myself fat. "
Fat or BBW it's still all labelling
Guys that message are generally trying to impress and big beautiful woman as acnicer tone to it than you're good looking for a fat bird |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not ALL fat women like to be called BBWs. I don't, but I know why and how it came about and respect it for that.
I am fat, I call myself fat.
Fat or BBW it's still all labelling
Guys that message are generally trying to impress and big beautiful woman as acnicer tone to it than you're good looking for a fat bird "
Personally, I don't want someone to bring up my body shape in a message. I don't think there's really a need... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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We seem to be totally off thread here.
I was just saying larger ladies, or BBW, or with extra curves etc. etc. Seem to be welcome and appreciated on here. But men who are larger except for ' rugby player types' do not have any appeal on here what so ever.
So are,larger men ever welcome or sought on here or are they all fat lazy slobs.
Whether anyone likes the term BBM BBW or whatever, was not in the question.
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"We seem to be totally off thread here.
I was just saying larger ladies, or BBW, or with extra curves etc. etc. Seem to be welcome and appreciated on here. But men who are larger except for ' rugby player types' do not have any appeal on here what so ever.
So are,larger men ever welcome or sought on here or are they all fat lazy slobs.
Whether anyone likes the term BBM BBW or whatever, was not in the question.
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Yea and your question was answered some people will some people won't as with any other aspect of physical appearance |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not ALL fat women like to be called BBWs. I don't, but I know why and how it came about and respect it for that.
I am fat, I call myself fat. "
Well sorry from your profile pick we would say just stunning would be the best description |
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"Not ALL fat women like to be called BBWs. I don't, but I know why and how it came about and respect it for that.
I am fat, I call myself fat.
Well sorry from your profile pick we would say just stunning would be the best description"
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"Not ALL fat women like to be called BBWs. I don't, but I know why and how it came about and respect it for that.
I am fat, I call myself fat.
Fat or BBW it's still all labelling
Guys that message are generally trying to impress and big beautiful woman as acnicer tone to it than you're good looking for a fat bird
Personally, I don't want someone to bring up my body shape in a message. I don't think there's really a need... "
Maybe you don't want it mentioning, doesn't change the fact that will be messaging you because your body type is an attraction. Your body types is always a factor wether spoken or unspoken |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We seem to be totally off thread here.
I was just saying larger ladies, or BBW, or with extra curves etc. etc. Seem to be welcome and appreciated on here. But men who are larger except for ' rugby player types' do not have any appeal on here what so ever.
So are,larger men ever welcome or sought on here or are they all fat lazy slobs.
Whether anyone likes the term BBM BBW or whatever, was not in the question.
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A forum thread going off topic? That's unheard of!
I was trying to explain why the term BBW exists and actually, there are lots of ladies who like bigger build guys! There's someone for everyone on here, it seems.
Also, some think fat people are just lazy slobs whatever their gender. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not ALL fat women like to be called BBWs. I don't, but I know why and how it came about and respect it for that.
I am fat, I call myself fat.
Fat or BBW it's still all labelling
Guys that message are generally trying to impress and big beautiful woman as acnicer tone to it than you're good looking for a fat bird
Personally, I don't want someone to bring up my body shape in a message. I don't think there's really a need...
Maybe you don't want it mentioning, doesn't change the fact that will be messaging you because your body type is an attraction. Your body types is always a factor wether spoken or unspoken "
I'm sure there will be guys messaging me purely because I'm bigger, they usually give it away within the first or at least the first few messages. I tend to try and steer clear of those. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"We seem to be totally off thread here.
I was just saying larger ladies, or BBW, or with extra curves etc. etc. Seem to be welcome and appreciated on here. But men who are larger except for ' rugby player types' do not have any appeal on here what so ever.
So are,larger men ever welcome or sought on here or are they all fat lazy slobs.
Whether anyone likes the term BBM BBW or whatever, was not in the question.
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OP. You actually asked the question are women BBW and men just fat. People giving their response to the term are answering your OP directly. Yes, larger men are welcome in here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We seem to be totally off thread here.
I was just saying larger ladies, or BBW, or with extra curves etc. etc. Seem to be welcome and appreciated on here. But men who are larger except for ' rugby player types' do not have any appeal on here what so ever.
So are,larger men ever welcome or sought on here or are they all fat lazy slobs.
Whether anyone likes the term BBM BBW or whatever, was not in the question.
OP. You actually asked the question are women BBW and men just fat. People giving their response to the term are answering your OP directly. Yes, larger men are welcome in here."
Show me one example where it says big men, fat men or BBM welcome. Just one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We seem to be totally off thread here.
I was just saying larger ladies, or BBW, or with extra curves etc. etc. Seem to be welcome and appreciated on here. But men who are larger except for ' rugby player types' do not have any appeal on here what so ever.
So are,larger men ever welcome or sought on here or are they all fat lazy slobs.
Whether anyone likes the term BBM BBW or whatever, was not in the question.
OP. You actually asked the question are women BBW and men just fat. People giving their response to the term are answering your OP directly. Yes, larger men are welcome in here.
Show me one example where it says big men, fat men or BBM welcome. Just one."
I'd you can't find what you're looking for here then maybe it's not the right site for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I don't like fat men I prefer ripped men but that's the beautiful thing about choice, it's personal. I'm sure there are women who like fat men op.
PTU xxx |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Show me one example where it says big men, fat men or BBM welcome. Just one."
My profile for one. It doesn't specify a body type because a certain body type isn't required for me to be interested in them. I don't see the need to put slim, muscular, big etc are all welcome because the exclusion of a preferred body type indicates that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well i am a slightly larger man.
I can work from 60 to 72 hoirs a week on nights. I do the school runs each day. Cook for 6 each day. And find time to spend with the kids and to give my lovely wife qt time as well. Plus the daily stuff.
My wife travels to work and home so leaves early and arives in the door as i have to go.
So i ask any one to say that im lazy.. maybe a bit bigger than i should be but not lazy. |
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"Show me one example where it says big men, fat men or BBM welcome. Just one.
My profile for one. It doesn't specify a body type because a certain body type isn't required for me to be interested in them. I don't see the need to put slim, muscular, big etc are all welcome because the exclusion of a preferred body type indicates that. "
Nope sorry does not count. |
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"I have noticed that all women on here who are beautifully curved are called BBW and I like to think by most, are respected and adored.
When I look through many womens or couples profiles they often state - no fat men, beer bellies or food bellies.
Has anyone ever see BBM are welcome.
Or are women BBW and men just fat.
" That BBW is thrown around too frequently not seen many beautiful 1's, I think BW = Big Women would be more apt. To answer your question no even 'BBW' seek exceptional men on here. They are women on a sex site full to brim of men so they can be picky though supply & demand etc. |
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By *eliWoman
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"Show me one example where it says big men, fat men or BBM welcome. Just one.
My profile for one. It doesn't specify a body type because a certain body type isn't required for me to be interested in them. I don't see the need to put slim, muscular, big etc are all welcome because the exclusion of a preferred body type indicates that.
Nope sorry does not count. "
It kind of does but doesn't fit the complaining narrative you wish to continue. On a similar way of thinking, should I complain because people don't specify that mixed race people are welcome? No, that's bollocks. I assume that if race isn't mentioned, it's not a big thing to the profile in concern. Much like if size isn't mentioned, it's not a big thing. If you're looking for profiles that fetishisize larger men? Kind of a different tangent to the OP. |
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"Show me one example where it says big men, fat men or BBM welcome. Just one.
My profile for one. It doesn't specify a body type because a certain body type isn't required for me to be interested in them. I don't see the need to put slim, muscular, big etc are all welcome because the exclusion of a preferred body type indicates that.
Nope sorry does not count.
It kind of does but doesn't fit the complaining narrative you wish to continue. On a similar way of thinking, should I complain because people don't specify that mixed race people are welcome? No, that's bollocks. I assume that if race isn't mentioned, it's not a big thing to the profile in concern. Much like if size isn't mentioned, it's not a big thing. If you're looking for profiles that fetishisize larger men? Kind of a different tangent to the OP. "
All I am saying is that some men say. BBW are welcome or how they like BBW. Never see anyone say BBM welcome.
Wow how people get so wound up on here. Then make it sound like I'm complaining. Awesome. Anything else anyone want to accuse me of. |
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"I have noticed that all women on here who are beautifully curved are called BBW and I like to think by most, are respected and adored.
When I look through many womens or couples profiles they often state - no fat men, beer bellies or food bellies.
Has anyone ever see BBM are welcome.
Or are women BBW and men just fat.
That BBW is thrown around too frequently not seen many beautiful 1's, I think BW = Big Women would be more apt. To answer your question no even 'BBW' seek exceptional men on here. They are women on a sex site full to brim of men so they can be picky though supply & demand etc."
We get it you don't like fat women so none can be beautiful
Sing another tune will ya? |
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The basic problem is supply and demand. Because there are so few of them the less attractive women can get very attractive men. The less attractive men have little or no chance. The only way that will ever alter is if the male female numbers even up. |
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"I have noticed that all women on here who are beautifully curved are called BBW and I like to think by most, are respected and adored.
When I look through many womens or couples profiles they often state - no fat men, beer bellies or food bellies.
Has anyone ever see BBM are welcome.
Or are women BBW and men just fat.
That BBW is thrown around too frequently not seen many beautiful 1's, I think BW = Big Women would be more apt. To answer your question no even 'BBW' seek exceptional men on here. They are women on a sex site full to brim of men so they can be picky though supply & demand etc.
We get it you don't like fat women so none can be beautiful
Sing another tune will ya? " No, I've seen pretty ladies who are bigger but putting all big women into 1 category seems a joke. Would Susan Boyle be classed as BBW then? Because I have seen similar and they say they are BBW. |
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"I have noticed that all women on here who are beautifully curved are called BBW and I like to think by most, are respected and adored.
When I look through many womens or couples profiles they often state - no fat men, beer bellies or food bellies.
Has anyone ever see BBM are welcome.
Or are women BBW and men just fat.
That BBW is thrown around too frequently not seen many beautiful 1's, I think BW = Big Women would be more apt. To answer your question no even 'BBW' seek exceptional men on here. They are women on a sex site full to brim of men so they can be picky though supply & demand etc.
We get it you don't like fat women so none can be beautiful
Sing another tune will ya? No, I've seen pretty ladies who are bigger but putting all big women into 1 category seems a joke. Would Susan Boyle be classed as BBW then? Because I have seen similar and they say they are BBW."
BBW is just a euphemism for "overweight". I thought everyone knew that. |
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"I have noticed that all women on here who are beautifully curved are called BBW and I like to think by most, are respected and adored.
When I look through many womens or couples profiles they often state - no fat men, beer bellies or food bellies.
Has anyone ever see BBM are welcome.
Or are women BBW and men just fat.
That BBW is thrown around too frequently not seen many beautiful 1's, I think BW = Big Women would be more apt. To answer your question no even 'BBW' seek exceptional men on here. They are women on a sex site full to brim of men so they can be picky though supply & demand etc.
We get it you don't like fat women so none can be beautiful
Sing another tune will ya? No, I've seen pretty ladies who are bigger but putting all big women into 1 category seems a joke. Would Susan Boyle be classed as BBW then? Because I have seen similar and they say they are BBW.
BBW is just a euphemism for "overweight". I thought everyone knew that. " Yeah obviously I know that, I just don't think it is always applicable. |
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"I have noticed that all women on here who are beautifully curved are called BBW and I like to think by most, are respected and adored.
When I look through many womens or couples profiles they often state - no fat men, beer bellies or food bellies.
Has anyone ever see BBM are welcome.
Or are women BBW and men just fat.
That BBW is thrown around too frequently not seen many beautiful 1's, I think BW = Big Women would be more apt. To answer your question no even 'BBW' seek exceptional men on here. They are women on a sex site full to brim of men so they can be picky though supply & demand etc.
We get it you don't like fat women so none can be beautiful
Sing another tune will ya? No, I've seen pretty ladies who are bigger but putting all big women into 1 category seems a joke. Would Susan Boyle be classed as BBW then? Because I have seen similar and they say they are BBW.
BBW is just a euphemism for "overweight". I thought everyone knew that. Yeah obviously I know that, I just don't think it is always applicable. "
Eye of the beholder Susan Boyle may not be beautiful to you but she could be to the next man |
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"I have noticed that all women on here who are beautifully curved are called BBW and I like to think by most, are respected and adored.
When I look through many womens or couples profiles they often state - no fat men, beer bellies or food bellies.
Has anyone ever see BBM are welcome.
Or are women BBW and men just fat.
That BBW is thrown around too frequently not seen many beautiful 1's, I think BW = Big Women would be more apt. To answer your question no even 'BBW' seek exceptional men on here. They are women on a sex site full to brim of men so they can be picky though supply & demand etc.
We get it you don't like fat women so none can be beautiful
Sing another tune will ya? No, I've seen pretty ladies who are bigger but putting all big women into 1 category seems a joke. Would Susan Boyle be classed as BBW then? Because I have seen similar and they say they are BBW.
BBW is just a euphemism for "overweight". I thought everyone knew that. Yeah obviously I know that, I just don't think it is always applicable.
Eye of the beholder Susan Boyle may not be beautiful to you but she could be to the next man "
Wouldn't that mean that absolutely everyone was beautiful l as no doubt everyone is attractive to somebody somewhere and if that were the case we don't need to call anyone beautiful as the term becomes synonymous with "human being" |
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"I have noticed that all women on here who are beautifully curved are called BBW and I like to think by most, are respected and adored.
When I look through many womens or couples profiles they often state - no fat men, beer bellies or food bellies.
Has anyone ever see BBM are welcome.
Or are women BBW and men just fat.
That BBW is thrown around too frequently not seen many beautiful 1's, I think BW = Big Women would be more apt. To answer your question no even 'BBW' seek exceptional men on here. They are women on a sex site full to brim of men so they can be picky though supply & demand etc.
We get it you don't like fat women so none can be beautiful
Sing another tune will ya? No, I've seen pretty ladies who are bigger but putting all big women into 1 category seems a joke. Would Susan Boyle be classed as BBW then? Because I have seen similar and they say they are BBW.
BBW is just a euphemism for "overweight". I thought everyone knew that. Yeah obviously I know that, I just don't think it is always applicable.
Eye of the beholder Susan Boyle may not be beautiful to you but she could be to the next man " Just seems like a lot of false advertising to me |
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"I have noticed that all women on here who are beautifully curved are called BBW and I like to think by most, are respected and adored.
When I look through many womens or couples profiles they often state - no fat men, beer bellies or food bellies.
Has anyone ever see BBM are welcome.
Or are women BBW and men just fat.
That BBW is thrown around too frequently not seen many beautiful 1's, I think BW = Big Women would be more apt. To answer your question no even 'BBW' seek exceptional men on here. They are women on a sex site full to brim of men so they can be picky though supply & demand etc.
We get it you don't like fat women so none can be beautiful
Sing another tune will ya? No, I've seen pretty ladies who are bigger but putting all big women into 1 category seems a joke. Would Susan Boyle be classed as BBW then? Because I have seen similar and they say they are BBW.
BBW is just a euphemism for "overweight". I thought everyone knew that. Yeah obviously I know that, I just don't think it is always applicable.
Eye of the beholder Susan Boyle may not be beautiful to you but she could be to the next man
Wouldn't that mean that absolutely everyone was beautiful l as no doubt everyone is attractive to somebody somewhere and if that were the case we don't need to call anyone beautiful as the term becomes synonymous with "human being" "
In their own way everyone is wether people see it is another matter its debatable always will be because attractionnus as individual as the person themselves and yes all part of being human
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"I have noticed that all women on here who are beautifully curved are called BBW and I like to think by most, are respected and adored.
When I look through many womens or couples profiles they often state - no fat men, beer bellies or food bellies.
Has anyone ever see BBM are welcome.
Or are women BBW and men just fat.
That BBW is thrown around too frequently not seen many beautiful 1's, I think BW = Big Women would be more apt. To answer your question no even 'BBW' seek exceptional men on here. They are women on a sex site full to brim of men so they can be picky though supply & demand etc.
We get it you don't like fat women so none can be beautiful
Sing another tune will ya? No, I've seen pretty ladies who are bigger but putting all big women into 1 category seems a joke. Would Susan Boyle be classed as BBW then? Because I have seen similar and they say they are BBW.
BBW is just a euphemism for "overweight". I thought everyone knew that. Yeah obviously I know that, I just don't think it is always applicable.
Eye of the beholder Susan Boyle may not be beautiful to you but she could be to the next man Just seems like a lot of false advertising to me"
By using the term BBW no where is anyone saying every big person is beautiful to them they apply the term where it seems fitting. Obviously
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By (user no longer on site)
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Bodyshape has no bearing on whether i find a fella fanciable.
One of my top five lovers (oooh get me!) was a very big fella.
He was very energetic in the bedroom and didn't just lay there like a dead carp.
So whatever a larger fella calls himself, there will be someone out there for him.
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"I have noticed that all women on here who are beautifully curved are called BBW and I like to think by most, are respected and adored.
When I look through many womens or couples profiles they often state - no fat men, beer bellies or food bellies.
Has anyone ever see BBM are welcome.
Or are women BBW and men just fat.
That BBW is thrown around too frequently not seen many beautiful 1's, I think BW = Big Women would be more apt. To answer your question no even 'BBW' seek exceptional men on here. They are women on a sex site full to brim of men so they can be picky though supply & demand etc.
We get it you don't like fat women so none can be beautiful
Sing another tune will ya? No, I've seen pretty ladies who are bigger but putting all big women into 1 category seems a joke. Would Susan Boyle be classed as BBW then? Because I have seen similar and they say they are BBW.
BBW is just a euphemism for "overweight". I thought everyone knew that. Yeah obviously I know that, I just don't think it is always applicable.
Eye of the beholder Susan Boyle may not be beautiful to you but she could be to the next man Just seems like a lot of false advertising to me
By using the term BBW no where is anyone saying every big person is beautiful to them they apply the term where it seems fitting. Obviously
" Well it kind of seems so. I don't think they do because overweight women will just label themselves BBW. Like someone said they think BBW is a euphemism for being overweight is that just it then being overweight? the beautiful loses it's meaning or is kind of patronizing to overweight women, like saying I'm overweight but i'm still beautiful. |
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"Not ALL fat women like to be called BBWs. I don't, but I know why and how it came about and respect it for that.
I am fat, I call myself fat.
Fat or BBW it's still all labelling
Guys that message are generally trying to impress and big beautiful woman as acnicer tone to it than you're good looking for a fat bird
Personally, I don't want someone to bring up my body shape in a message. I don't think there's really a need... "
Can we bring up your lovely smile and eyes instead
And yes, we know that's a bit ott. Suck it up gorgeous |
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"I have noticed that all women on here who are beautifully curved are called BBW and I like to think by most, are respected and adored.
When I look through many womens or couples profiles they often state - no fat men, beer bellies or food bellies.
Has anyone ever see BBM are welcome.
Or are women BBW and men just fat.
That BBW is thrown around too frequently not seen many beautiful 1's, I think BW = Big Women would be more apt. To answer your question no even 'BBW' seek exceptional men on here. They are women on a sex site full to brim of men so they can be picky though supply & demand etc.
We get it you don't like fat women so none can be beautiful
Sing another tune will ya? No, I've seen pretty ladies who are bigger but putting all big women into 1 category seems a joke. Would Susan Boyle be classed as BBW then? Because I have seen similar and they say they are BBW.
BBW is just a euphemism for "overweight". I thought everyone knew that. Yeah obviously I know that, I just don't think it is always applicable.
Eye of the beholder Susan Boyle may not be beautiful to you but she could be to the next man Just seems like a lot of false advertising to me
By using the term BBW no where is anyone saying every big person is beautiful to them they apply the term where it seems fitting. Obviously
Well it kind of seems so. I don't think they do because overweight women will just label themselves BBW. Like someone said they think BBW is a euphemism for being overweight is that just it then being overweight? the beautiful loses it's meaning or is kind of patronizing to overweight women, like saying I'm overweight but i'm still beautiful."
If they feel beautiful and want to call themselves a BBW they have every right to and it's you're type of reasoning that can devalue some women's self confidence and give them unhealthy mental complexes in regards to becoming "perfect". News flash it doesn't exist
You don't think someone's beautiful that's fine but don't treat your view of that person as the law, which is just how crass you're sounding
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"I have noticed that all women on here who are beautifully curved are called BBW and I like to think by most, are respected and adored.
When I look through many womens or couples profiles they often state - no fat men, beer bellies or food bellies.
Has anyone ever see BBM are welcome.
Or are women BBW and men just fat.
That BBW is thrown around too frequently not seen many beautiful 1's, I think BW = Big Women would be more apt. To answer your question no even 'BBW' seek exceptional men on here. They are women on a sex site full to brim of men so they can be picky though supply & demand etc.
We get it you don't like fat women so none can be beautiful
Sing another tune will ya? No, I've seen pretty ladies who are bigger but putting all big women into 1 category seems a joke. Would Susan Boyle be classed as BBW then? Because I have seen similar and they say they are BBW.
BBW is just a euphemism for "overweight". I thought everyone knew that. Yeah obviously I know that, I just don't think it is always applicable.
Eye of the beholder Susan Boyle may not be beautiful to you but she could be to the next man Just seems like a lot of false advertising to me
By using the term BBW no where is anyone saying every big person is beautiful to them they apply the term where it seems fitting. Obviously
Well it kind of seems so. I don't think they do because overweight women will just label themselves BBW. Like someone said they think BBW is a euphemism for being overweight is that just it then being overweight? the beautiful loses it's meaning or is kind of patronizing to overweight women, like saying I'm overweight but i'm still beautiful.
If they feel beautiful and want to call themselves a BBW they have every right to and it's you're type of reasoning that can devalue some women's self confidence and give them unhealthy mental complexes in regards to becoming "perfect". News flash it doesn't exist
You don't think someone's beautiful that's fine but don't treat your view of that person as the law, which is just how crass you're sounding
" Just making a point, here's a comparison, my dick is above average but not a BWC = big white cock. I will just say i have a BWC though from now on though and write it on my profile to try entice people. |
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"I have noticed that all women on here who are beautifully curved are called BBW and I like to think by most, are respected and adored.
When I look through many womens or couples profiles they often state - no fat men, beer bellies or food bellies.
Has anyone ever see BBM are welcome.
Or are women BBW and men just fat.
That BBW is thrown around too frequently not seen many beautiful 1's, I think BW = Big Women would be more apt. To answer your question no even 'BBW' seek exceptional men on here. They are women on a sex site full to brim of men so they can be picky though supply & demand etc.
We get it you don't like fat women so none can be beautiful
Sing another tune will ya? No, I've seen pretty ladies who are bigger but putting all big women into 1 category seems a joke. Would Susan Boyle be classed as BBW then? Because I have seen similar and they say they are BBW.
BBW is just a euphemism for "overweight". I thought everyone knew that. Yeah obviously I know that, I just don't think it is always applicable.
Eye of the beholder Susan Boyle may not be beautiful to you but she could be to the next man Just seems like a lot of false advertising to me
By using the term BBW no where is anyone saying every big person is beautiful to them they apply the term where it seems fitting. Obviously
Well it kind of seems so. I don't think they do because overweight women will just label themselves BBW. Like someone said they think BBW is a euphemism for being overweight is that just it then being overweight? the beautiful loses it's meaning or is kind of patronizing to overweight women, like saying I'm overweight but i'm still beautiful.
If they feel beautiful and want to call themselves a BBW they have every right to and it's you're type of reasoning that can devalue some women's self confidence and give them unhealthy mental complexes in regards to becoming "perfect". News flash it doesn't exist
You don't think someone's beautiful that's fine but don't treat your view of that person as the law, which is just how crass you're sounding
Just making a point, here's a comparison, my dick is above average but not a BWC = big white cock. I will just say i have a BWC though from now on though and write it on my profile to try entice people. "
Why not believe me to some of us it's not false advertusing anything to call yourself BWC |
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"Show me one example where it says big men, fat men or BBM welcome. Just one.
My profile for one. It doesn't specify a body type because a certain body type isn't required for me to be interested in them. I don't see the need to put slim, muscular, big etc are all welcome because the exclusion of a preferred body type indicates that.
Nope sorry does not count.
It kind of does but doesn't fit the complaining narrative you wish to continue. On a similar way of thinking, should I complain because people don't specify that mixed race people are welcome? No, that's bollocks. I assume that if race isn't mentioned, it's not a big thing to the profile in concern. Much like if size isn't mentioned, it's not a big thing. If you're looking for profiles that fetishisize larger men? Kind of a different tangent to the OP. "
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