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When a woman tells you she isn't wearing any knickers.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I told a man I was wearing no knickers, that would mean that I was flirting heavily with him and prepared to expect things going much further.
I wouldn't say that sort of thing if I had no intention of flirting and trying to arouse the man I was with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Green light to try it on. Meaning she fancies you etc. And wants to tease you a bit, frustrate blah blah blah.
You know zilch about women that's for sure!!!! "
I don't think that's a fair comment. I don't understand why a woman would say it to a man if she had no intention of letting him think he stood a chance with her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that's a green light. Do you?
Thoughts?"
It is a Green light if you know her.
Meaning you're already sexually active with each other.
Then yes. It IS a fucking green light in that instance.
Not saying it would turn me on that much particularly...just answering your question as it's asked mate. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I told a man I was wearing no knickers, that would mean that I was flirting heavily with him and prepared to expect things going much further.
I wouldn't say that sort of thing if I had no intention of flirting and trying to arouse the man I was with."
My thoughts exactly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be thinking things are looking pretty good, and it would give me the raging horn.. but no, I still don't think it's the green light to go ahead and jump on top of her. It's probably the green light to start hitting back at her with 'teasing ploys' of your own though. |
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By *aggersMan
over a year ago
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"To be fair I dont think the OP intends to jump on a woman just because shes got no underwear on! I think he means the lady is flirting! "
Agreed and if she's telling him she's not wearing any panties surely there's some kind of physical attraction to say hey come flirt with me and see how it goes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think that's a green light. Do you?
Thoughts?
I'm not wearing any underwear op...
I've told you all now it doesn't mean any of you have the green light!"
Either this is a sarcastic comment or a pedantic one. It's hard to tell with text. Either way, it's good to see a varying opinion on it. I know sometimes I don't put enough emphasis into what I am trying to get across, that is down to lazy typing. But I can assure I am articulate and do understand how this thread could come across as creepy. It was merely a way of trying to see what people thought about the said situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that's a green light. Do you?
Thoughts?
I'm not wearing any underwear op...
I've told you all now it doesn't mean any of you have the green light!
Either this is a sarcastic comment or a pedantic one. It's hard to tell with text. Either way, it's good to see a varying opinion on it. I know sometimes I don't put enough emphasis into what I am trying to get across, that is down to lazy typing. But I can assure I am articulate and do understand how this thread could come across as creepy. It was merely a way of trying to see what people thought about the said situation."
Most people grasped what you meant, I wouldn't worry about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP. Bit of advice mate.
In future when making a post like this..add context to it or it WILL get blown out of proportion on here.
For example..setting...do you know her or not...backdrop...
NONE of this is mentioned or hinted at.
I know what you're trying to say and I don't think for one second you're about to jump someone.
You need to **think** about what you type, because the ONLY thing people have got to go on is the words you type on the screen.
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"I think that's a green light. Do you?
Thoughts?
I'm not wearing any underwear op...
I've told you all now it doesn't mean any of you have the green light!
Either this is a sarcastic comment or a pedantic one. It's hard to tell with text. Either way, it's good to see a varying opinion on it. I know sometimes I don't put enough emphasis into what I am trying to get across, that is down to lazy typing. But I can assure I am articulate and do understand how this thread could come across as creepy. It was merely a way of trying to see what people thought about the said situation."
It's neither I am not wearing underwear at the moment.
I am expressing how I feel currently.
If I was with someone and I told them I was without underwear or would be at that point where things could progress.
It the turn of phrase green light that was the unsettling bit for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP. Bit of advice mate.
In future when making a post like this..add context to it or it WILL get blown out of proportion on here.
For example..setting...do you know her or not...backdrop...
NONE of this is mentioned or hinted at.
I know what you're trying to say and I don't think for one second you're about to jump someone.
You need to **think** about what you type, because the ONLY thing people have got to go on is the words you type on the screen.
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Surely people could use common sense too though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really horny and I want you to come fuck me asap, meet me at mine in 5 minutes; I'm not wearing any knickers"
"Hi thanks for you compliment, I've recently lost loads of weight and now my underwear doesn't fit me; I'm not wearing any knickers"
Context. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that's a green light. Do you?
Thoughts?
I'm not wearing any underwear op...
I've told you all now it doesn't mean any of you have the green light!
Either this is a sarcastic comment or a pedantic one. It's hard to tell with text. Either way, it's good to see a varying opinion on it. I know sometimes I don't put enough emphasis into what I am trying to get across, that is down to lazy typing. But I can assure I am articulate and do understand how this thread could come across as creepy. It was merely a way of trying to see what people thought about the said situation.
It's neither I am not wearing underwear at the moment.
I am expressing how I feel currently.
If I was with someone and I told them I was without underwear or would be at that point where things could progress.
It the turn of phrase green light that was the unsettling bit for me.
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I don't see the issue with the phrase 'green light'. To me, it implies flirting or expressing sexual interest in someone. Declaring that you are knicker-less to someone ... well, if that isn't an expression of sexual interest I don't know what is! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP. Bit of advice mate.
In future when making a post like this..add context to it or it WILL get blown out of proportion on here.
For example..setting...do you know her or not...backdrop...
NONE of this is mentioned or hinted at.
I know what you're trying to say and I don't think for one second you're about to jump someone.
You need to **think** about what you type, because the ONLY thing people have got to go on is the words you type on the screen.
Surely people could use common sense too though "
That would be asking too much... |
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If I take my knickers off and give them to him,
Or take them off and then let him know
That is a green light.
If I sit there in a bar and he can see I am commando that does not mean he is entitled to 'rub my snatch' and will most likely result in a throat punch |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"I think that's a green light. Do you?
Thoughts?
I'm not wearing any underwear op...
I've told you all now it doesn't mean any of you have the green light!
Either this is a sarcastic comment or a pedantic one. It's hard to tell with text. Either way, it's good to see a varying opinion on it. I know sometimes I don't put enough emphasis into what I am trying to get across, that is down to lazy typing. But I can assure I am articulate and do understand how this thread could come across as creepy. It was merely a way of trying to see what people thought about the said situation.
It's neither I am not wearing underwear at the moment.
I am expressing how I feel currently.
If I was with someone and I told them I was without underwear or would be at that point where things could progress.
It the turn of phrase green light that was the unsettling bit for me.
I don't see the issue with the phrase 'green light'. To me, it implies flirting or expressing sexual interest in someone. Declaring that you are knicker-less to someone ... well, if that isn't an expression of sexual interest I don't know what is! "
Read the for me bit!.
I can't possibly say how others feel about certain phrases or words |
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"If I told a man I was wearing no knickers, that would mean that I was flirting heavily with him and prepared to expect things going much further.
I wouldn't say that sort of thing if I had no intention of flirting and trying to arouse the man I was with."
I agree. I wouldn't go so far as to say it's a green light for sex but certainly it's an invitation to move things on because you have no reason to mention it otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""I'm really horny and I want you to come fuck me asap, meet me at mine in 5 minutes; I'm not wearing any knickers"
"Hi thanks for you compliment, I've recently lost loads of weight and now my underwear doesn't fit me; I'm not wearing any knickers"
Context."
This made me laugh. Honestly, if someone said that 2nd comment to me, I'd still come to the conclusion that they were flirting. Why on earth mention your underwear to anyone, even in the context of weight loss, unless you want to take the conversation somewhere sexual? Just my view... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth "
It's a stark contrast to last night, right? I could barely contain myself. Now if you and Meli could just carry on that would smashing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""I'm really horny and I want you to come fuck me asap, meet me at mine in 5 minutes; I'm not wearing any knickers"
"Hi thanks for you compliment, I've recently lost loads of weight and now my underwear doesn't fit me; I'm not wearing any knickers"
Context.
This made me laugh. Honestly, if someone said that 2nd comment to me, I'd still come to the conclusion that they were flirting. Why on earth mention your underwear to anyone, even in the context of weight loss, unless you want to take the conversation somewhere sexual? Just my view... "
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth
Hi Honey. I won't be wearing knickers when we meet.
I'll wear some, but only so you have something to gag me with "
I would rather gag you with stockings in all honesty. The knickers I'll just pull to one side. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth
It's a stark contrast to last night, right? I could barely contain myself. Now if you and Meli could just carry on that would smashing "
Last night was very different, eh?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that's a green light. Do you?
Thoughts?"
only if I'm stood in front of the man in question...
and I have done, and he was very happy to confirm it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just thought I'd let the ladies on this thread know that as per photo I'm currently not wearing any Y fronts...can we have an orderly queue please! "
Is that at the Red light, or an Amber or is it Green |
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth
Hi Honey. I won't be wearing knickers when we meet.
I'll wear some, but only so you have something to gag me with
I would rather gag you with stockings in all honesty. The knickers I'll just pull to one side. "
Oh good god.
Ok.
That |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just thought I'd let the ladies on this thread know that as per photo I'm currently not wearing any Y fronts...can we have an orderly queue please!
Is that at the Red light, or an Amber or is it Green "
I'm at a Zebra crossing...orange!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth
It's a stark contrast to last night, right? I could barely contain myself. Now if you and Meli could just carry on that would smashing
Last night was very different, eh?! "
If only that strumpet instigator was around now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth
It's a stark contrast to last night, right? I could barely contain myself. Now if you and Meli could just carry on that would smashing
Last night was very different, eh?!
If only that strumpet instigator was around now? "
Are you calling me out as the purveyor of filth? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth
Hi Honey. I won't be wearing knickers when we meet.
I'll wear some, but only so you have something to gag me with
I would rather gag you with stockings in all honesty. The knickers I'll just pull to one side.
Oh good god.
Ok.
That "
We have a flirt based fainting in aisle 3! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth
It's a stark contrast to last night, right? I could barely contain myself. Now if you and Meli could just carry on that would smashing
Last night was very different, eh?!
If only that strumpet instigator was around now?
Are you calling me out as the purveyor of filth?"
I saw you as the spreader of joy. Filth based joy mind, but joy nonetheless |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth
It's a stark contrast to last night, right? I could barely contain myself. Now if you and Meli could just carry on that would smashing
Last night was very different, eh?!
If only that strumpet instigator was around now?
Are you calling me out as the purveyor of filth?
I saw you as the spreader of joy. Filth based joy mind, but joy nonetheless "
''Tis always my aim |
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth
It's a stark contrast to last night, right? I could barely contain myself. Now if you and Meli could just carry on that would smashing
Last night was very different, eh?!
If only that strumpet instigator was around now?
Are you calling me out as the purveyor of filth?
I saw you as the spreader of joy. Filth based joy mind, but joy nonetheless
''Tis always my aim "
I need some joy then, it's Nutjobs R Us in here tonight |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth
It's a stark contrast to last night, right? I could barely contain myself. Now if you and Meli could just carry on that would smashing
Last night was very different, eh?!
If only that strumpet instigator was around now?
Are you calling me out as the purveyor of filth?
I saw you as the spreader of joy. Filth based joy mind, but joy nonetheless
''Tis always my aim "
So your task then, should you accept it, is to make the men of this forum blush from a post, or posts, as you may have last night. Do you accept? |
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth
Hi Honey. I won't be wearing knickers when we meet.
I'll wear some, but only so you have something to gag me with
I would rather gag you with stockings in all honesty. The knickers I'll just pull to one side.
Oh good god.
Ok.
That
We have a flirt based fapping in aisle 3!"
Someone get a wet floor sign
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth
It's a stark contrast to last night, right? I could barely contain myself. Now if you and Meli could just carry on that would smashing
Last night was very different, eh?!
If only that strumpet instigator was around now?
Are you calling me out as the purveyor of filth?
I saw you as the spreader of joy. Filth based joy mind, but joy nonetheless
''Tis always my aim
So your task then, should you accept it, is to make the men of this forum blush from a post, or posts, as you may have last night. Do you accept?"
I'll wing woman you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth
Hi Honey. I won't be wearing knickers when we meet.
I'll wear some, but only so you have something to gag me with
I would rather gag you with stockings in all honesty. The knickers I'll just pull to one side.
Oh good god.
Ok.
That
We have a flirt based fapping in aisle 3!
Someone get a wet floor sign
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Strong work |
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To be fair, if a woman was to tell you she wasn't wearing any knickers (as suggested) then she certainly is asking for some kind of attention isn't she?
If I was to tell my boyfriend or any man that I had no knickers on, I would be doing it to tease/flirt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Strange how people read things totally differently in these forums. I understand that people's minds work differently. Some people are positive, some are negative. Optimists and pessimists.
Unfortunately pessimistic people will always look for the negatives in people and forum posts which is a shame. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth
It's a stark contrast to last night, right? I could barely contain myself. Now if you and Meli could just carry on that would smashing
Last night was very different, eh?!
If only that strumpet instigator was around now?
Are you calling me out as the purveyor of filth?
I saw you as the spreader of joy. Filth based joy mind, but joy nonetheless
''Tis always my aim
So your task then, should you accept it, is to make the men of this forum blush from a post, or posts, as you may have last night. Do you accept?"
I can try |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When the green light comes on !
You'll know about it son!
Because if your at the front of the traffic lights mate and you ain't making a move ..... I'm a fly on by straight past you an through that green light even when it starts to turn amber
You'll know when it's time mate patience is key (in most cases) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The forums are making me sad tonight (see my sad face?)
We need some filth
It's a stark contrast to last night, right? I could barely contain myself. Now if you and Meli could just carry on that would smashing
Last night was very different, eh?!
If only that strumpet instigator was around now?
Are you calling me out as the purveyor of filth?
I saw you as the spreader of joy. Filth based joy mind, but joy nonetheless
''Tis always my aim
So your task then, should you accept it, is to make the men of this forum blush from a post, or posts, as you may have last night. Do you accept?
I'll wing woman you "
That will help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that's a green light. Do you?
Thoughts?"
Sometimes I might flirt with my friends and tell them something like this. It doesn't mean I want to have sex with them. If I want to have sex with them, I'll ask them if they'd like to have sex... |
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I was out in a restaurant with an ex and I went to to the loo. I text him "I haven't got any knickers on" when I popped to the loo.
When I came and sat at the table.. he looked st me and said "it's wasted on me... I'm not in the mood" (he was miserable and controlling most of the time)
So I won't ever be making that announcement ever in future ... seeing as it went down so badly and made me feel really silly and knocked my confidence xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i don't think o.p meant green light to just whip it out stick it in, i think he meant the green light to start flirting, as if the lady might be suggesting she's initially interested and should he show himself to be attractive to her during the course of their time together she might be willing to take things further
if that's the case op, i'd say that sometimes it is, but sometimes it won't be. it's up to you to work people out as individuals you find them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was to tell my boyfriend or any man that I had no knickers on, I would be doing it to tease/flirt.
Teasing and flirting is just that, not a green light as such."
Depends on your interpretation of 'green light'. To some, it means flirting / expressing sexual interest, to others it means an invitation to have sex. I took it to mean the former, hence I agreed with the OP. Others have interpreted it in the latter way hence they disagree... I think that's where the disagreements have come from...this is my take on it anyhow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was out in a restaurant with an ex and I went to to the loo. I text him "I haven't got any knickers on" when I popped to the loo.
When I came and sat at the table.. he looked st me and said "it's wasted on me... I'm not in the mood" (he was miserable and controlling most of the time)
So I won't ever be making that announcement ever in future ... seeing as it went down so badly and made me feel really silly and knocked my confidence xx"
What an absolute CUNT!! |
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"I was out in a restaurant with an ex and I went to to the loo. I text him "I haven't got any knickers on" when I popped to the loo.
When I came and sat at the table.. he looked st me and said "it's wasted on me... I'm not in the mood" (he was miserable and controlling most of the time)
So I won't ever be making that announcement ever in future ... seeing as it went down so badly and made me feel really silly and knocked my confidence xx
What an absolute CUNT!!"
Some men just aren't into sex that much. It doesn't mean that they are all c**ts |
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If I was in a one to one situation with a man and told him I wasn't wearing any knickers I would intend it to signify that I was open to proceeding in a sexual way and if he didn't I would assume that he wasn't interested.
I don't think the op meant that it was a green light for sex without consent.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was out in a restaurant with an ex and I went to to the loo. I text him "I haven't got any knickers on" when I popped to the loo.
When I came and sat at the table.. he looked st me and said "it's wasted on me... I'm not in the mood" (he was miserable and controlling most of the time)
So I won't ever be making that announcement ever in future ... seeing as it went down so badly and made me feel really silly and knocked my confidence xx
What an absolute CUNT!!
Some men just aren't into sex that much. It doesn't mean that they are all c**ts"
Men are all cunts
It just depends how you treat them to how much of a cunt you get . |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"If I was in a one to one situation with a man and told him I wasn't wearing any knickers I would intend it to signify that I was open to proceeding in a sexual way and if he didn't I would assume that he wasn't interested.
I don't think the op meant that it was a green light for sex without consent.
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And that is fine
But if I were to do that in a swinger's club, it would be me just having a sexy chat with no intention of taking it any further
We all have different approaches |
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"I was out in a restaurant with an ex and I went to to the loo. I text him "I haven't got any knickers on" when I popped to the loo.
When I came and sat at the table.. he looked st me and said "it's wasted on me... I'm not in the mood" (he was miserable and controlling most of the time)
So I won't ever be making that announcement ever in future ... seeing as it went down so badly and made me feel really silly and knocked my confidence xx"
Maybe he was not in the mood because he had other things on his mind, not just sex. Maybe a bad day at work, not feeling well ..... relationships are built on more than sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was out in a restaurant with an ex and I went to to the loo. I text him "I haven't got any knickers on" when I popped to the loo.
When I came and sat at the table.. he looked st me and said "it's wasted on me... I'm not in the mood" (he was miserable and controlling most of the time)
So I won't ever be making that announcement ever in future ... seeing as it went down so badly and made me feel really silly and knocked my confidence xx
What an absolute CUNT!!
Some men just aren't into sex that much. It doesn't mean that they are all c**ts"
I'd have beaten Usain Bolt in a race to get to those toilets what an arse your ex must've been.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was out in a restaurant with an ex and I went to to the loo. I text him "I haven't got any knickers on" when I popped to the loo.
When I came and sat at the table.. he looked st me and said "it's wasted on me... I'm not in the mood" (he was miserable and controlling most of the time)
So I won't ever be making that announcement ever in future ... seeing as it went down so badly and made me feel really silly and knocked my confidence xx
Maybe he was not in the mood because he had other things on his mind, not just sex. Maybe a bad day at work, not feeling well ..... relationships are built on more than sex. "
Yep an look how that turned out ! He's an ex? |
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