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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talk. . Maybe just maybe they feel the same? If not, you have the choice of either; risk getting very hurt by continuing or try and walk away. Not an easy situation though, you have my empathy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Find them on all social media and follow it all.
Hahaha are you talking from experience
Yes, yes I am.
I'm watching someone right now."
I think most men would love being watched by you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talk it over or move on ...if the deal was no feelings and you both clearly talked about this at the start ...then talk now ......everything depends on how hurt you want to get or how much you want to hurt the other party ...either way good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the response guys. I always try to talk it out as I think that's the best way to deal with it. I've had it before where my nsa friends with benefits start to fall for me and it gets complicated and I'm not into breaking hearts. Might be inevitable for friends with benefits to start feeling more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the response guys. I always try to talk it out as I think that's the best way to deal with it. I've had it before where my nsa friends with benefits start to fall for me and it gets complicated and I'm not into breaking hearts. Might be inevitable for friends with benefits to start feeling more"
See you've been here before ,stop being so dam good to them in bed brother and it'll save you this |
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"Thanks for the response guys. I always try to talk it out as I think that's the best way to deal with it. I've had it before where my nsa friends with benefits start to fall for me and it gets complicated and I'm not into breaking hearts. Might be inevitable for friends with benefits to start feeling more
See you've been here before ,stop being so dam good to them in bed brother and it'll save you this "
No not inevitable. Some I have deeper feelings for, some I do not - it depends on the person and the dynamic between you IME. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your response. You're quite right and it is a hard one but I'm not into breaking hearts and on the same hand already stated that I'm only here for nsa. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Talk it over or move on ...if the deal was no feelings and you both clearly talked about this at the start ...then talk now ......everything depends on how hurt you want to get or how much you want to hurt the other party ...either way good luck "
That's exactly what was stated but you know what's it's like when the sea gets better and the conversation gets a bit deeper. It may sound shallow but I know I don't want to settle down with anyone as yet but over the years I've had f*ck buddies falling for me and it gets frustrating if I'm honest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks for the response guys. I always try to talk it out as I think that's the best way to deal with it. I've had it before where my nsa friends with benefits start to fall for me and it gets complicated and I'm not into breaking hearts. Might be inevitable for friends with benefits to start feeling more
See you've been here before ,stop being so dam good to them in bed brother and it'll save you this "
Didn't wanna blow my own trumpet but I did have a couple partners say they fell in love with the D.lol. I can't start giving out sloppy D though. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talk it over or move on ...if the deal was no feelings and you both clearly talked about this at the start ...then talk now ......everything depends on how hurt you want to get or how much you want to hurt the other party ...either way good luck
That's exactly what was stated but you know what's it's like when the sea gets better and the conversation gets a bit deeper. It may sound shallow but I know I don't want to settle down with anyone as yet but over the years I've had f*ck buddies falling for me and it gets frustrating if I'm honest. "
Then don't do fuckbuddy arrangements. To me it's disingenuous to play at relationships and then act surprised when people get emotionally involved. Fuck and go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talk it over or move on ...if the deal was no feelings and you both clearly talked about this at the start ...then talk now ......everything depends on how hurt you want to get or how much you want to hurt the other party ...either way good luck
That's exactly what was stated but you know what's it's like when the sea gets better and the conversation gets a bit deeper. It may sound shallow but I know I don't want to settle down with anyone as yet but over the years I've had f*ck buddies falling for me and it gets frustrating if I'm honest. "
Then my only answer to this my man ...is don't keep em round so long ...nip it in the bud so to speak ....your a smart guy ,you know when the signs are there that their falling ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, don't listen to my advice.
Normal people would talk.
They might want to sail of into the sunset with you.
Or you know, you could start cutting out letters from magazines and send a letter "
Yeah. Can you stop doing all of that. You are making the dog nervous from rustling in the bushes. Oh and can you stop taking the milk off the door step. Mr L. |
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"Ok, don't listen to my advice.
Normal people would talk.
They might want to sail of into the sunset with you.
Or you know, you could start cutting out letters from magazines and send a letter
Yeah. Can you stop doing all of that. You are making the dog nervous from rustling in the bushes. Oh and can you stop taking the milk off the door step. Mr L. "
I'll intercept the postie tomorrow. I quite liked those knickers anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talk it over or move on ...if the deal was no feelings and you both clearly talked about this at the start ...then talk now ......everything depends on how hurt you want to get or how much you want to hurt the other party ...either way good luck
That's exactly what was stated but you know what's it's like when the sea gets better and the conversation gets a bit deeper. It may sound shallow but I know I don't want to settle down with anyone as yet but over the years I've had f*ck buddies falling for me and it gets frustrating if I'm honest. "
LOL, "I love myself" springs to mind. Do not make the woman feel so special then!!!!!! Met a few guys like you over the years.
You must of shown some signs for the ladies to fall for you, seems like a game for some men, get her to fall, and then back off........just fuck and go, and stop leading women on. |
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"When NSA turns into jealousy because feelings get involved. What do you do next?"
Our NSA turned into feelings but no jealousy here because if you feel it, you know that nothing they do with anyone else even comes close |
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"Talk it over or move on ...if the deal was no feelings and you both clearly talked about this at the start ...then talk now ......everything depends on how hurt you want to get or how much you want to hurt the other party ...either way good luck
That's exactly what was stated but you know what's it's like when the sea gets better and the conversation gets a bit deeper. It may sound shallow but I know I don't want to settle down with anyone as yet but over the years I've had f*ck buddies falling for me and it gets frustrating if I'm honest. "
You fell for this old trick. How to get rid of a young tuck buddy and make sure he doesn't stalk you .... tell him you have feelings for him. You wont see him for dust, problem solved .... |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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fuck them off. they'll give you a load of shit then ignore you while they try and fuck the rest of the site to make themselves feel better.
control freaks i reckon. try to control you but can't control themselves. |
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"fuck them off. they'll give you a load of shit then ignore you while they try and fuck the rest of the site to make themselves feel better.
control freaks i reckon. try to control you but can't control themselves."
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, don't listen to my advice.
Normal people would talk.
They might want to sail of into the sunset with you.
Or you know, you could start cutting out letters from magazines and send a letter
Yeah. Can you stop doing all of that. You are making the dog nervous from rustling in the bushes. Oh and can you stop taking the milk off the door step. Mr L.
I'll intercept the postie tomorrow. I quite liked those knickers anyway "
Thanks for the knickers by the way. The fan belt had gone in the motor! |
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Don't meet the nsa partner, potentially ever again. Find others and remain focused on why you are here. Apologise for any upset and srt things straight with them, if regulars.
Question if you're right for nsa presently too. Maybe take a break |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you initiate the split run for the hills and block them on everything, including eBay. If you've been dumped then declare your love by painting it in huge letters on a bedsheet, king-size works best, and hang it from a bridge overlooking the m6. Must be northbound though. |
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