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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I wasn't married, then yeah why not. At least there's already a common interest and no potential awkwardness/judgment from someone who doesn't swing, when previous sex live's get brought up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I wasn't married, then yeah why not. At least there's already a common interest and no potential awkwardness/judgment from someone who doesn't swing, when previous sex live's get brought up."
Apart from the married bit....this is spot on for me....I'm single btw  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks. "
Better tell that to all the other couples on here!
Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.
Better tell that to all the other couples on here!
Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!"
Just my experience love!!! |
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" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks. "
All depends how you define love. We have a very loving relationship and we fuck other folks. Casual sex has nothing to do with love as far as we are concerned. Neither of us are monogamous types so being in a relationship with someone who expected monogamy would not work for us. |
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" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.
Better tell that to all the other couples on here!
Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!
Just my experience love!!! "
Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.
All depends how you define love. We have a very loving relationship and we fuck other folks. Casual sex has nothing to do with love as far as we are concerned. Neither of us are monogamous types so being in a relationship with someone who expected monogamy would not work for us. "
I admire what you got, believe me, but casual sex can turn into passion, lust and love, be careful out there  |
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" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.
All depends how you define love. We have a very loving relationship and we fuck other folks. Casual sex has nothing to do with love as far as we are concerned. Neither of us are monogamous types so being in a relationship with someone who expected monogamy would not work for us.
I admire what you got, believe me, but casual sex can turn into passion, lust and love, be careful out there "
If your partner prefers to be with someone else there are obviously issues in your relationship. If they prefer to be with you then even the hottest fuck will not persuade them otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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G and i met via another swinging site. Neither of us were looking for a relationship but we both fell in love. We have been together approx 10 years now, married for several years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.
Better tell that to all the other couples on here!
Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!
Just my experience love!!!
Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone. "
I know, and I'm sorry if I sound judgemental, I was swinging hard for approximately 2 and half years, and enjoyed every minute, but since I've met a guy in the real world, I've become like an ex smoker, you get my drift? No offence intended, just an interesting debate x |
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" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.
Better tell that to all the other couples on here!
Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!
Just my experience love!!!
Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone.
I know, and I'm sorry if I sound judgemental, I was swinging hard for approximately 2 and half years, and enjoyed every minute, but since I've met a guy in the real world, I've become like an ex smoker, you get my drift? No offence intended, just an interesting debate x"
That's fine but you can't assume everyone is like you. I know I couldn't be a relationship with a woman who didn't want sex with other men. I would get bored  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.
Better tell that to all the other couples on here!
Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!
Just my experience love!!!
Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone.
I know, and I'm sorry if I sound judgemental, I was swinging hard for approximately 2 and half years, and enjoyed every minute, but since I've met a guy in the real world, I've become like an ex smoker, you get my drift? No offence intended, just an interesting debate x
That's fine but you can't assume everyone is like you. I know I couldn't be a relationship with a woman who didn't want sex with other men. I would get bored "
I've fell in love with a guy from the real world, nearly a year been together, my God, I had some wild times at parties and clubs.....fantastic times and great memories. But I'm just saying I can't imagine sharing him, or me getting some extra cock, please don't take me too serious, I've been on night shifts so very tired, I'm just generally interested in couples that are madly in love, wanting to share their partner.
Please explain the pleasure from that? I don't understand |
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" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.
Better tell that to all the other couples on here!
Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!
Just my experience love!!!
Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone.
I know, and I'm sorry if I sound judgemental, I was swinging hard for approximately 2 and half years, and enjoyed every minute, but since I've met a guy in the real world, I've become like an ex smoker, you get my drift? No offence intended, just an interesting debate x
That's fine but you can't assume everyone is like you. I know I couldn't be a relationship with a woman who didn't want sex with other men. I would get bored
I've fell in love with a guy from the real world, nearly a year been together, my God, I had some wild times at parties and clubs.....fantastic times and great memories. But I'm just saying I can't imagine sharing him, or me getting some extra cock, please don't take me too serious, I've been on night shifts so very tired, I'm just generally interested in couples that are madly in love, wanting to share their partner.
Please explain the pleasure from that? I don't understand "
We aren't possessive. If your partner gets pleasure from sex with others why would you deny them that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met my husband on another swinging site, for a several years we gave it up to help grow our own relationship and have children.
Now I play on my own as my sex drive is very high and his is extremely low.
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.
Better tell that to all the other couples on here!
Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!
Just my experience love!!!
Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone.
I know, and I'm sorry if I sound judgemental, I was swinging hard for approximately 2 and half years, and enjoyed every minute, but since I've met a guy in the real world, I've become like an ex smoker, you get my drift? No offence intended, just an interesting debate x
That's fine but you can't assume everyone is like you. I know I couldn't be a relationship with a woman who didn't want sex with other men. I would get bored
I've fell in love with a guy from the real world, nearly a year been together, my God, I had some wild times at parties and clubs.....fantastic times and great memories. But I'm just saying I can't imagine sharing him, or me getting some extra cock, please don't take me too serious, I've been on night shifts so very tired, I'm just generally interested in couples that are madly in love, wanting to share their partner.
Please explain the pleasure from that? I don't understand
We aren't possessive. If your partner gets pleasure from sex with others why would you deny them that? "
Why don't you satisfy his every need then? |
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" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.
Better tell that to all the other couples on here!
Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!
Just my experience love!!!
Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone.
I know, and I'm sorry if I sound judgemental, I was swinging hard for approximately 2 and half years, and enjoyed every minute, but since I've met a guy in the real world, I've become like an ex smoker, you get my drift? No offence intended, just an interesting debate x
That's fine but you can't assume everyone is like you. I know I couldn't be a relationship with a woman who didn't want sex with other men. I would get bored
I've fell in love with a guy from the real world, nearly a year been together, my God, I had some wild times at parties and clubs.....fantastic times and great memories. But I'm just saying I can't imagine sharing him, or me getting some extra cock, please don't take me too serious, I've been on night shifts so very tired, I'm just generally interested in couples that are madly in love, wanting to share their partner.
Please explain the pleasure from that? I don't understand
We aren't possessive. If your partner gets pleasure from sex with others why would you deny them that?
Why don't you satisfy his every need then?"
Because it's impossible for one person to satisfy someones every need. I like playing football. I do that with male friends. I wouldn't expect Katie to get involved in that.
Different people like different types of relationships. We don't believe in thinking that love entails complete possession. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i almost did, but then i found out he had a girlfriend already and decided he wasn't relationship material.
he was the only guy who asked though that i actually wanted to have a relationship with. mostly i feel like guys ask so they can get more sex from couples. and they're not for me either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.
Better tell that to all the other couples on here!
Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!
Just my experience love!!!
Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone.
I know, and I'm sorry if I sound judgemental, I was swinging hard for approximately 2 and half years, and enjoyed every minute, but since I've met a guy in the real world, I've become like an ex smoker, you get my drift? No offence intended, just an interesting debate x
That's fine but you can't assume everyone is like you. I know I couldn't be a relationship with a woman who didn't want sex with other men. I would get bored
I've fell in love with a guy from the real world, nearly a year been together, my God, I had some wild times at parties and clubs.....fantastic times and great memories. But I'm just saying I can't imagine sharing him, or me getting some extra cock, please don't take me too serious, I've been on night shifts so very tired, I'm just generally interested in couples that are madly in love, wanting to share their partner.
Please explain the pleasure from that? I don't understand "
In our case we both derive pleasure from the other getting pleasure. Both together and separately. I cannot provide everything for him anymore than he can for me- but we discuss it and find it with others. It's about giving and communicating x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my gf and i met on here, why wouldn't you if you mesh? it's the person behind the profile your meeting...your not dating fab, fab is just the vehicle through which two people meet, no different to meeting in a club or cafe or dating website or wherever else humans interact |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think in the vanilla world, relationships that start in the bedroom rarely (rarely not never) become solid. But, here, you have a mutual passion for swinging. It's a shared interest so I think more likely to work here than in the normal world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone or would anyone start a full on relationship with anyone on fab ?"
Loads have and are happy .. I think you can find love all places you find people . |
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