Just tell her, I hid it from several previous ex g/fs, but it was easier to do back in the time of no mobile phones/computers. I told the last 2 I was bi and the last one even joined in on a few occasions 
There are plenty of "straight" guys on here that are no doubt playing behind their partner's back. It's more socially acceptable to be seen as a bi guy than it was back in the 80's & 90's.
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It's more acceptable these days but people still have preferences, stereotypes and judgements. She may like it, she may not mind, she may walk away but imho honesty is the best policy. Talk it through. Ask her if she is, many women are  |
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Surely the first bit is to decide if you are having an open relationship or the 99% accepted norm of an exclusive relationship?
If it's in the 1% then she is more than half way to accepting that you are bi. |
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Be authentic, be you, be honest. Don't hide who you are. If she's unable or unwilling to embrace you as you then the relationship is not everything you deserve -- that's no judgement on her, I just mean who deserves to be in a relationship when aspects of you are hidden, it's doing both of you a disservice in the long-run. Take a leap of faith, but also give her time to process, ask questions, work through her thoughts and feelings (it's not about you, it could trigger fears for her about her) and have time to think -- you've had time to process it and she'll need that too, however vulnerable that may leave you feeling. Good luck OP. |
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Suggest a 3 some with her and another bloke. Before she gets the chance to get involved get down on your knees and show her your best cock sucking technique. One of two things is going to happen I reckon.  |
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Just gently bring up a conversation un general about gay, bi people and gage her reaction from there. The its up to you if you decide to tell her or not.
Would you still want to see men as well as her? That's what she may struggle with rather than just the fact you are bi. |
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"I was wondering if anybody got advice how I can bring up to the new lady in my life that I'm bi-sexual "
Ask her first is shes every been with another woman or would like to try it etc.
Then she will probably ask you the same question about you and guys?
Then just tell her |
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"I was wondering if anybody got advice how I can bring up to the new lady in my life that I'm bi-sexual
Ask her first is shes every been with another woman or would like to try it etc.
Then she will probably ask you the same question about you and guys?
Then just tell her "
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"I was wondering if anybody got advice how I can bring up to the new lady in my life that I'm bi-sexual
Ask her first is shes every been with another woman or would like to try it etc.
Then she will probably ask you the same question about you and guys?
Then just tell her
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This sounds like fantastic advice. What you don't want to do is end up in a lie, or making her feel like you've never tried stuff with a guy before. Be honest.
Just tell her you're quite open sexually, and that you've experimented plenty and know what you like.
Good luck mate, can only imagine what you're going through here. |
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"I was wondering if anybody got advice how I can bring up to the new lady in my life that I'm bi-sexual "
Just tell her. Your honest to yourself, be honest with her. |
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Don't blurt it out or make it sound like you're apologising or explaining yourself.
If you have open conversations about sex, pop in that you've had some encounters with men. |
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