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Does it make you a better lover?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Following on from the...
How many you had thread?
Do you think the more sexual partners you or someone has had would make you/them a better lover?
Does fucking lots of different people make people better at fucking?
What do you reckon chaps? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's made me better. Before I started meeting I'd only ever been with my partner, so having sex with other people has allowed me to explore what I like a lot more and I've learned a few good tricks to take back home to him. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i don't. i think sexual relationships make you a better lover.
by better lover i mean you are giving a person your full attention and not thinking about who your next fuck is going to be or what time you have to pop off home to the mrs.
plus you get way more sex that lasts way longer than NSA fucks. so long as your partner is good in bed also.
bonding can help you feel more confident to experiment also.
enthusiasm helps also, that's the biggie to me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Assuming this is also open to chapesses....
I believe it does make people better GENERALLY. I add that at the end as not everyone fits every mould ever  "
Yes chapesses too of course 
Chaps means all of us  lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would definitely say it does, it's like everything else. The more experience you have, the better you are at something.
Not everyone likes the same thing, experience will teach you that and to try something else when one thing doesn't work. The more people you play with the more things you learn  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. During my 30 year marriage the sex was terrible and my husband said I was a plank in bed-although he gave me 11/10 for my oral skills. The first time I had sex after him was an amazing experience. I put this down to my own natural desires and the man I was with.
I haven't got better, the more men I've had sex with, I've tried different things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would definitely say it does, it's like everything else. The more experience you have, the better you are at something.
Not everyone likes the same thing, experience will teach you that and to try something else when one thing doesn't work. The more people you play with the more things you learn "
I should on to say, you have to want to please that person you're with. If you're selfish, well you're not going to learn anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it can do but then it depends.
100s of encounters that are two pumps and a squirt with no effort would be a no.
It's more in what you've learned along the way. I'm a great wanker, for example, I know what I like and don't like and so I work for me.
But throw another person in to the mix and you are then having to use what you've learned to explore and find out what they want and like. That's where experience can play a part |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're the kind of person who learns from new experiences and can apply that in the future, puts someone else's needs before yours & is attentive & thoughtful, that to me is that makes someone a better lover not the amount of people they've fucked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you become more confident and that in turn makes you more intuitive.
Conversely though not everyone who've shagged loads of people will necessarily be great at sex, as they can become almost robotic. It's become too everyday for them and not something to cherish. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I was always great. And I had 100 good sex sessions in me, I've only 6 left and will use them accordingly. "
Will you die after that like a Bee ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I was always great. And I had 100 good sex sessions in me, I've only 6 left and will use them accordingly.
Will you die after that like a Bee ? "
That might be it. That last one I'll keep. Just average shags, to keep me alive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it depends on the person you are with too. When there's sexual chemistry, you're on the same wavelength and you feel comfortable with someone, the sex can be phenomenal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on many factors, I think being with a partner who wants to please you as much as you want to please them makes for good sex. I know of some couples who've only had the one partner and have a fantastic sex life.
It's about not being selfish and responding to your lovers needs and actions. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No, I was always great. And I had 100 good sex sessions in me, I've only 6 left and will use them accordingly.
Will you die after that like a Bee ?
That might be it. That last one I'll keep. Just average shags, to keep me alive. "
Good man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that the more sexual partners the more experiences.. so it could do.. as everyone us different but if you refuse to do anything different or learn from the new experiences then no..
I like to think I'm okay at giving oral.. but since playing with couples as a couple ive seen some things that ive then wanting to try myself while watching how the wife pleasures her partner and mine..
Not everyone likes the same. So you have to learn and try new things when meeting new people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sex can sometimes be very simple straightforward and amazing - sometimes youre thrown about the bed and pummelled to within an inch and also amazing  can also be crap |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it helps to develop skills, so for example, I like to think that I'm very good at giving bj's. When I was in my 20's, I'm not sure how anyone let me do it to them! It was rushed, sloppy (and not in a good way!) and obvious that I had no clue! Now, I do ok 
Does it make me a better lover though? I'm a good shag, but being a lover for me is with that someone special in my life, the intimacy that you have, only having had a handful of relationships, it's hard to judge! But hell, they get plenty of great sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from the...
How many you had thread?
Do you think the more sexual partners you or someone has had would make you/them a better lover?
Does fucking lots of different people make people better at fucking?
What do you reckon chaps?"
If at first you don't succeed... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Following on from the...
How many you had thread?
Do you think the more sexual partners you or someone has had would make you/them a better lover?
Does fucking lots of different people make people better at fucking?
What do you reckon chaps?
If at first you don't succeed... "
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