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Time for a relationship i think

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think its time for me to find a parner who wants more than nsa sex. Think the lookout of a relationship is on the cards. Anyone got any tips to help a guy out ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll take some tips too.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

Do you mean you want to find someone on here or away from fab?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating site rather than swinging site?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Id like to find someone possibly on here

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

If only I knew not that I go looking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I take some tips three!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By *ungBlackTopMan over a year ago

salford

LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"Dating site rather than swinging site?

Ah but may one with someone you could swing with would be good

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship."

A lot of people have got into relationships on here and you can always find people in weird and wonderful places

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't try too hard.

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By *op gooserMan over a year ago

chester

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Dating site rather than swinging site?

Ah but may one with someone you could swing with would be good "

Definitely as i do want a woman who has the same interests as me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You need to go on a dating site

Then again I know people who have met at clubs and have began relationships.

Never worked for me mind sometimes you need a break from swinging world

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

Same here...

I'm on all the conventional and unconventional sites but I'd like to find someone with a swingers mindset. I'm probably not going to find it here though but good luck to everyone after the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship."

Why Not? Perfect place to find someone into the same rather than become one of these playing away from home

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship.

A lot of people have got into relationships on here and you can always find people in weird and wonderful places"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship.

Why Not? Perfect place to find someone into the same rather than become one of these playing away from home "

Findong someone on here may be better as we have more chance of having similar interests which can help

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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I met my partner on here people have been known to end up marrying from fab so it is possible

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship.

A lot of people have got into relationships on here and you can always find people in weird and wonderful places"

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/614668

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

Tried PoF and it's full of fabbers.

You'll find the right person when you're least expecting it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think its time for me to find a parner who wants more than nsa sex. Think the lookout of a relationship is on the cards. Anyone got any tips to help a guy out ?"

Get on Tinder.

That's what I did when I wanted to date again, I went on there met my Ex and deleted my profile off here.

Tinder is pretty good for socials and things like that.

I'm not looking for a relationship now but I am looking for 1 or 2 regular friends. Tinder is for dating.

Go on there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ive tried pof too and a lot of woman push away males due to idiots on there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People have met here and got married rumour has it ?

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By *verysmileMan over a year ago

Canterbury

Banshee and Hightower....go on a date and see how you get on....no sex just a blind date....you are both in the northwest....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thing is many claim to want to meet for a open relationship but then jump ship after they've had a fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't think this great site to find relationship.you're young good looking lad.just go clubs or pubs.I met my man in nightclub and still together 20 years later

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

"Dating site rather than swinging site?

I think I've actually met nicer people through fab, than I ever did using dating sites

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Banshee and Hightower....go on a date and see how you get on....no sex just a blind date....you are both in the northwest...."

Are you coming to the wedding?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Banshee and Hightower....go on a date and see how you get on....no sex just a blind date....you are both in the northwest....

Are you coming to the wedding?

A swingers wedding....... dont think the family will approve haha

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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start doing relationship type things with people instead of meeting them for sex?

really is as simple as that and why i keep dating and fuck sites separate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Banshee and Hightower....go on a date and see how you get on....no sex just a blind date....you are both in the northwest....

Are you coming to the wedding?

A swingers wedding....... dont think the family will approve haha"

I'll take that as a polite knock back haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"start doing relationship type things with people instead of meeting them for sex?

really is as simple as that and why i keep dating and fuck sites separate."

^ this.

This is it exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met my other half on POF and we joined this site together. It's possible to find someone on a non swinging site who's just as kinky as you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Banshee and Hightower....go on a date and see how you get on....no sex just a blind date....you are both in the northwest....

Are you coming to the wedding?

A swingers wedding....... dont think the family will approve haha

I'll take that as a polite knock back haha "

Could have two weddings then if you like haha family wedding and swingers wedding courtesy of fabs x

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"Ive tried pof too and a lot of woman push away males due to idiots on there "

And that's different from here how, exactly?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship."

I disagree.

This is exactly the place.

And I wasn't looking but found it nonetheless x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ive tried pof too and a lot of woman push away males due to idiots on there

And that's different from here how, exactly?

Its different on here as everyone wants similar things here and prefer more detailed messages than a simple hi how are you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive tried pof too and a lot of woman push away males due to idiots on there

And that's different from here how, exactly?

Its different on here as everyone wants similar things here and prefer more detailed messages than a simple hi how are you"

I told you above.

Go on Tinder.

That's the one you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship.

I disagree.

This is exactly the place.

And I wasn't looking but found it nonetheless x"

Ive seen on the threads a lot of people have happy relationships from this so i know this site is more than just a sex site x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ive tried pof too and a lot of woman push away males due to idiots on there

And that's different from here how, exactly?

Its different on here as everyone wants similar things here and prefer more detailed messages than a simple hi how are you

I told you above.

Go on Tinder.

That's the one you want.

Tried tinder for 2 years bud got me nowhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thing is many claim to want to meet for a open relationship but then jump ship after they've had a fuck lol"

Unfortunately this is true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will take some tips! Ive previously had a relationship from here that lasted 2 and a half years and for the most part was a very happy one so it does happen. Sex is a big thing for me in a relationship and if i can tell from here they are into similar things then i know theres a possibility of it being successful!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive tried pof too and a lot of woman push away males due to idiots on there

And that's different from here how, exactly?

Its different on here as everyone wants similar things here and prefer more detailed messages than a simple hi how are you

I told you above.

Go on Tinder.

That's the one you want.

Tried tinder for 2 years bud got me nowhere"

Try Grinder then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive tried pof too and a lot of woman push away males due to idiots on there

And that's different from here how, exactly?

Its different on here as everyone wants similar things here and prefer more detailed messages than a simple hi how are you

I told you above.

Go on Tinder.

That's the one you want.

Tried tinder for 2 years bud got me nowhere"

Really?..I thought it was really good in my experience of it.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship.

I disagree.

This is exactly the place.

And I wasn't looking but found it nonetheless x"

Us too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ive tried pof too and a lot of woman push away males due to idiots on there

And that's different from here how, exactly?

Its different on here as everyone wants similar things here and prefer more detailed messages than a simple hi how are you

I told you above.

Go on Tinder.

That's the one you want.

Tried tinder for 2 years bud got me nowhere

Really?..I thought it was really good in my experience of it."

Its good for a leg over yeah but i want more than a quick shag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship.

I disagree.

This is exactly the place.

And I wasn't looking but found it nonetheless x

Us too

I have friends that met here, three couples spring to mind. One married a year ago after meeting 6 years ago, one all but co- habiting after nearly 2 years and one about to move in together after about 2 years as well x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive tried pof too and a lot of woman push away males due to idiots on there

And that's different from here how, exactly?

Its different on here as everyone wants similar things here and prefer more detailed messages than a simple hi how are you

I told you above.

Go on Tinder.

That's the one you want.

Tried tinder for 2 years bud got me nowhere

Really?..I thought it was really good in my experience of it.

Its good for a leg over yeah but i want more than a quick shag"

No..I actually my Girlfriend on it. (now ex).

I didn't view it as an NSA encounter I was actually looking for a relationship at that time.

Found her and deleted myself off here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ive tried pof too and a lot of woman push away males due to idiots on there

And that's different from here how, exactly?

Its different on here as everyone wants similar things here and prefer more detailed messages than a simple hi how are you

I told you above.

Go on Tinder.

That's the one you want.

Tried tinder for 2 years bud got me nowhere

Really?..I thought it was really good in my experience of it.

Its good for a leg over yeah but i want more than a quick shag

No..I actually my Girlfriend on it. (now ex).

I didn't view it as an NSA encounter I was actually looking for a relationship at that time.

Found her and deleted myself off here."

Wow thats good mate i dont see them as nsa encouters anymore but they do these days which is more difficult

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship."

Oops we'd better get divorced then!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive tried pof too and a lot of woman push away males due to idiots on there

And that's different from here how, exactly?

Its different on here as everyone wants similar things here and prefer more detailed messages than a simple hi how are you

I told you above.

Go on Tinder.

That's the one you want.

Tried tinder for 2 years bud got me nowhere

Really?..I thought it was really good in my experience of it.

Its good for a leg over yeah but i want more than a quick shag

No..I actually my Girlfriend on it. (now ex).

I didn't view it as an NSA encounter I was actually looking for a relationship at that time.

Found her and deleted myself off here.

Wow thats good mate i dont see them as nsa encouters anymore but they do these days which is more difficult"

Good luck mate. Hope you find what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship."

You would think. I've had more than one man, from here, want a serious relationship with me.

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship.

You would think. I've had more than one man, from here, want a serious relationship with me."

same. usually coz it benefits them more than me though.

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Id like to find someone possibly on here "
me too..gotta be D/s for me though..not hijacking the thread , just saying..good luck sweet xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship.

You would think. I've had more than one man, from here, want a serious relationship with me.

same. usually coz it benefits them more than me though."

I've never understood why they want it. I have nothing to offer a man.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Id like to find someone possibly on here me too..gotta be D/s for me though..not hijacking the thread , just saying..good luck sweet xx"

That's eventually what I want again a sub/Dom relationship

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you looking for a swinging relationship OP?

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship."

That says volumes about what you think of people on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met my other half on POF and we joined this site together. It's possible to find someone on a non swinging site who's just as kinky as you...

Us too

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

This is my goal too. Wherever i meet them. I don't wanna give up the social scene at the least. The swinging would be a bonus xx

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship.

You would think. I've had more than one man, from here, want a serious relationship with me.

same. usually coz it benefits them more than me though.

I've never understood why they want it. I have nothing to offer a man. "

i always presume it's about sex, if they can't get enough you can offer them more. in more ways than just getting it from yourself also.

so glad i'm not a swinger really coz i know i'd be in some shitty relationship by now (i make bad choices and well aware of that).

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship."
says more about you, than other people..

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Dating site rather than swinging site?

I think I've actually met nicer people through fab, than I ever did using dating sites

Yes me too. Plenty of guys on here want more too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Are you looking for a swinging relationship OP?"

Possibly yes im open for any relationship just want someone i can be comfortable and myself with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love to find that special someone who loves me for me, in all my flawed brilliance.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship."

I disagree - lots of people here are single and open to dating. There's ability to be fully open and honest, potentially letting someone understand you. And you'd possibly have the right partner from the go, should you want to swing and have a more open relationship.

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"I'd love to find that special someone who loves me for me, in all my flawed brilliance.

i've had that. i don't understand why i don't love him back, i used to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship."

I met a girl on here a few years ago and we had a relationship....And it actually lasted longer than some I've met in the so called normal world lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship."

We met 2 years ago through fab and its the best relationship I've ever had

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By *igress69Woman over a year ago

belfast

I have met the love of my life on here. It does happen when u least expect it. I hope it happens for you hon x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think its time for me to find a parner who wants more than nsa sex. Think the lookout of a relationship is on the cards. Anyone got any tips to help a guy out ?"

Meet lots of people, one of them may be the person you want a relationship with

More people exist in the real world alegedly. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship."

That's like saying, I can't have a serious conversation with anyone who works in a circus, they're all effin clowns.

just because sex is the upfront subject of why they're here, doesn't mean that person your meeting does t know what commitment and love is. People do have other interests than just NSA sex on fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We found love in a hopeless place

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want a relationship with a swinger as I need someone open minded and who understands I will want other men or women to play with too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want a relationship with a swinger as I need someone open minded and who understands I will want other men or women to play with too"

Sharing is caring after all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want a relationship with a swinger as I need someone open minded and who understands I will want other men or women to play with too

Sharing is caring after all.

That and im a greedy cow who doesnt like cheating so swinging relationship or none at all for me

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

"That and im a greedy cow who doesnt like cheating so swinging relationship or none at all for me "

Hallelujah

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"LOL you want to meet someone off fab for a relationship? are you on drugs pal? This is not the place to entertain a relationship.

That's like saying, I can't have a serious conversation with anyone who works in a circus, they're all effin clowns.

just because sex is the upfront subject of why they're here, doesn't mean that person your meeting does t know what commitment and love is. People do have other interests than just NSA sex on fab "

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

"Banshee and Hightower....go on a date and see how you get on....no sex just a blind date....you are both in the northwest....

Are you coming to the wedding?

A swingers wedding....... dont think the family will approve haha

I'll take that as a polite knock back haha

Could have two weddings then if you like haha family wedding and swingers wedding courtesy of fabs x"

Half of the guests at our wedding reception are friends we made through fab.

Our photographer and the lady who made our wedding cake are on here.

Normal friendships and relationships are available on fab, it's not all about sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met my partner on here x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want a relationship with a swinger as I need someone open minded and who understands I will want other men or women to play with too"

But would you still want others, if you fell head over heels with said person?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I want a relationship with a swinger as I need someone open minded and who understands I will want other men or women to play with too

But would you still want others, if you fell head over heels with said person?"

You can still be head over heels and enjoy fun meets together though can't you xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want a relationship with a swinger as I need someone open minded and who understands I will want other men or women to play with too

But would you still want others, if you fell head over heels with said person?

You can still be head over heels and enjoy fun meets together though can't you xx"

Indeed you can, as long as it's something you both want.

Agree on a few rules and stick to them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want a relationship with a swinger as I need someone open minded and who understands I will want other men or women to play with too

But would you still want others, if you fell head over heels with said person?"

Yes because I can separate love and sex and make love to the person im with and still enjoy having naughty sex with them and others

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

"I want a relationship with a swinger as I need someone open minded and who understands I will want other men or women to play with too

But would you still want others, if you fell head over heels with said person?

Yes because I can separate love and sex and make love to the person im with and still enjoy having naughty sex with them and others "

It's the ideal scenario I think.

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