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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I have booked in for mine doing on Tuesday morning as a birthday present for my lover and am absolutely shitting myself.
Anybody got any tips for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you getting your clit or hood pierced? Theyre very different. "
Not sure yet when I was talking with the piecer he said he wasn't sure until I and I quote got in from of him and spread my legs. This had me giggling no end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you getting your clit or hood pierced? Theyre very different.
Not sure yet when I was talking with the piecer he said he wasn't sure until I and I quote got in from of him and spread my legs. This had me giggling no end. "
At least hes honest lol |
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Go for hood you still get a good buzz especially as it'll be new.
And alot less risks regards nerve damage
Take a panty liner
Take pain relief prior
Wear loose pants
And expect no oral for 6 weeks
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hood piercing takes seconds and heals it days (mine was fine the day after) but clit piercing are more risky, you can lose all sensation which is why I went fir hood!
I love mine though, when I first had it done I had a tiny hoop but sometimes it would rub me at inappropriate times! Now I have a pretty little bar and it only rubs when I make it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Go for hood you still get a good buzz especially as it'll be new.
And alot less risks regards nerve damage
Take a panty liner
Take pain relief prior
Wear loose pants
And expect no oral for 6 weeks
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Thanks for that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a vertical piercing on hood it healed very quickly almost no pain a bit like pressure and a sharp sensation was done very quickly, i have a bar in. |
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By *ouiseeWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I have booked in for mine doing on Tuesday morning as a birthday present for my lover and am absolutely shitting myself.
Anybody got any tips for me "
I had my hood done with a hoop but now have my clit pierced with a bar & it is much better |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hood piercing takes seconds and heals it days (mine was fine the day after) but clit piercing are more risky, you can lose all sensation which is why I went fir hood!
I love mine though, when I first had it done I had a tiny hoop but sometimes it would rub me at inappropriate times! Now I have a pretty little bar and it only rubs when I make it! " |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you getting your clit or hood pierced? Theyre very different.
Not sure yet when I was talking with the piecer he said he wasn't sure until I and I quote got in from of him and spread my legs. This had me giggling no end. "
Make your youve washed ypur vag then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ahhhhh I'd love to have mine done but Hubby would go mad and not agree to it even although we don't have sex anyway but my bestie had it done and said it wasn't that painful at all. Good luck hun anyway x |
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"Well I have booked in for mine doing on Tuesday morning as a birthday present for my lover and am absolutely shitting myself.
Anybody got any tips for me "
Yep, find out exactly what your piercer thinks he's going to do!
The fact that you seem to have no idea what you're actually going to have done and end up with is highly worrying. |
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"Well I have booked in for mine doing on Tuesday morning as a birthday present for my lover and am absolutely shitting myself.
Anybody got any tips for me
Yep, find out exactly what your piercer thinks he's going to do!
The fact that you seem to have no idea what you're actually going to have done and end up with is highly worrying."
Do you have your clit or hood pieced ? Xx |
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"Are you getting your clit or hood pierced? Theyre very different.
Not sure yet when I was talking with the piecer he said he wasn't sure until I and I quote got in from of him and spread my legs. This had me giggling no end. "
I think YOU need to be 100% certain what you want doing. I think hood is one thing, actual clit is a different league.
My advice is delay and research it properly. |
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Bit concerned that you're not sure. Have you read up on it?
I'd suggest the hood, not the clit itself. You run the risk of numbing it completely, forever. Not worth it.
Mine smarted but within two days, no pain, nothing. I stupidly removed it as my ex didn't like it (she was jealous of it).
Like overusing a wand, it can lose sensitivity if over stimulated but my goodness it's fun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have looked at the vch. Which is my preferred choice. But I did feel very relaxed with the guy on the phone, its more the pain issue that bothers me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I have booked in for mine doing on Tuesday morning as a birthday present for my lover and am absolutely shitting myself.
Anybody got any tips for me "
Chomp on his balls as the needle goes in |
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"Ahhhhh I'd love to have mine done but Hubby would go mad and not agree to it even although we don't have sex anyway but my bestie had it done and said it wasn't that painful at all. Good luck hun anyway x"
My hubby doesn't want me to have it done, but its my body. Its been a long standing joke with my lover that if we were still seeing each other by his birthday that I would have it done as his present but he has to pay for it.lol |
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Absolutely fine being pierced, literally one or two seconds of pain then done. Pain free afterwards, I've had mine done 3 times and always have sex v quickly afterwards (next day) and as long as gentle no problem
I love t and wouldn't be without now x |
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It's recommended that you abstain from any sex for at least 2 weeks after it's done. The area is a quick healer, but it's still an open wound and could become infected if not careful.
When I had my VCH done, I was doing regular saline washes, whilst sitting on the toilet to help it heal. Just be careful of lace knickers and shower scrunches! |
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"It's recommended that you abstain from any sex for at least 2 weeks after it's done. The area is a quick healer, but it's still an open wound and could become infected if not careful.
When I had my VCH done, I was doing regular saline washes, whilst sitting on the toilet to help it heal. Just be careful of lace knickers and shower scrunches!"
I tend not to do knickers so don't think it will be much of an issue lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I have booked in for mine doing on Tuesday morning as a birthday present for my lover and am absolutely shitting myself.
Anybody got any tips for me "
My friend had it done. It went septic. Her fanny fell off |
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"Well I have booked in for mine doing on Tuesday morning as a birthday present for my lover and am absolutely shitting myself.
Anybody got any tips for me "
I'm sat here with my legs crossed thinking about it, my advice don't do it lol. The deal breaker was when I read no oral for 6 weeks just no!!!!! |
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"Well I have booked in for mine doing on Tuesday morning as a birthday present for my lover and am absolutely shitting myself.
Anybody got any tips for me
My friend had it done. It went septic. Her fanny fell off "
Pmsl |
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I have a vch and won't lie - the pain when it was done was incredibly sharp and made me feel sick, like when you bang your elbow. But .... once done, it barely felt sore at all and was so quick to heal. In fact I've had it done twice as I let it close up following an operation, so the pain can't have been *that* bad for me to go back again.
There's been absolutely no loss of sensation, probably the opposite as the ball at the end of the bar effectively sits on your clit meaning it's stimulated, albeit gently, most of the time.
Speaking from painful experience, just prewarn people with gaps between their front teeth to be careful down there .... |
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"Ahhhhh I'd love to have mine done but Hubby would go mad and not agree to it even although we don't have sex anyway but my bestie had it done and said it wasn't that painful at all. Good luck hun anyway x
My hubby doesn't want me to have it done, but its my body. Its been a long standing joke with my lover that if we were still seeing each other by his birthday that I would have it done as his present but he has to pay for it.lol "
What annoys me is that me and my Hubby haven't had sex in over 6 years so don't get why he's so against it he won't even see it x |
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"Well I have booked in for mine doing on Tuesday morning as a birthday present for my lover and am absolutely shitting myself.
Anybody got any tips for me
I'm sat here with my legs crossed thinking about it, my advice don't do it lol. The deal breaker was when I read no oral for 6 weeks just no!!!!! "
It's only advice, it's up to you to decide what to do. |
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Mine hurt like bitch, bled a bit, went very swollen for a week to the extent I had to be careful how I sat down and other than looking nice, hasn't made a blind big of difference to sensation.
It does help some men find my clit, others not so much and some think that tugging on it with their teeth is somehow erotic and sensual.
It's not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Been thinking about VCH as surprise for OH ...works away a lot.
If healing time is so quick why does advice about oral and sex vary so much?
I'm not generally a fainter, can't be as bad as having cervix dilated to have IUS fitted.
Now that hurt like a fecker |
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"Ahhhhh I'd love to have mine done but Hubby would go mad and not agree to it even although we don't have sex anyway but my bestie had it done and said it wasn't that painful at all. Good luck hun anyway x
My hubby doesn't want me to have it done, but its my body. Its been a long standing joke with my lover that if we were still seeing each other by his birthday that I would have it done as his present but he has to pay for it.lol
What annoys me is that me and my Hubby haven't had sex in over 6 years so don't get why he's so against it he won't even see it x"
Stuff him, if he is so stupid as to not to want to have sex with a stunner like you then do your own thing and get it done. Life is too short Xx |
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