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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I swap messages with folk on here, swap pics, get positive feedback, flirt, all that good stuff, its looking promising.
Next thing I know, no response, and in some cases suddenly get blocked!!
Not expecting reasons, but does anyone else experience this, or is it just me?  |
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It's normal, when you assume that most people will not be compatible with others and that silence or blocks equals no current interest. With increased communication it becomes easier to discover whether someone is, or is not, compatible with you.
People also have lives outside of here, partners, family etc, so message attention won't be top priority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i get it all the time
so many timewasters..."
I wouldn't think someone was a time waster because they stop chatting with you?
Time wasters are people who plan to meet then cancel at the last minute or don't turn up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No mate I'm not a ground work kind of guy. Clubs or meet now, are the only scenarios I will do.
This is because you have know idea how many different people they are talking to, and better offers may arise and you will get dropped.  |
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"No mate I'm not a ground work kind of guy. Clubs or meet now, are the only scenarios I will do.
This is because you have know idea how many different people they are talking to, and better offers may arise and you will get dropped. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No mate I'm not a ground work kind of guy. Clubs or meet now, are the only scenarios I will do.
This is because you have know idea how many different people they are talking to, and better offers may arise and you will get dropped.
Pmsl "
i don't often give advice lol. |
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"No mate I'm not a ground work kind of guy. Clubs or meet now, are the only scenarios I will do.
This is because you have know idea how many different people they are talking to, and better offers may arise and you will get dropped.
Pmsl i don't often give advice lol. "
Yeah that was abundantly clear lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must just be you lot never happens to me 
Pmsl that's cruel  "
Honestly tho, some folk need tae give themselves a break and stop getting so worked up, sex is supposed tae relieve stress no cause it fs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i drop guys pretty easy.
not being funny all you have to offer me is sex and anyone can give me that.
Love this, pretty sums up my thought too "
Sex, cakes and rock and roll. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i get it all the time
so many timewasters...
I wouldn't think someone was a time waster because they stop chatting with you?
Time wasters are people who plan to meet then cancel at the last minute or don't turn up. "
Not necessarily. For instance.. you could be chatting to someone and sending messages for days, weeks or months .. then they tell you they are married, when you state clearly no married guys on your profile. Its happened to me .. but fortunately only a few messages were exchanged before he informed me he was married so he did waste my time. He should have stated at the beginning or put it on his profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I swap messages with folk on here, swap pics, get positive feedback, flirt, all that good stuff, its looking promising.
Next thing I know, no response, and in some cases suddenly get blocked!!
Not expecting reasons, but does anyone else experience this, or is it just me? "
Yep all the time. Then they try and restart the conversation a few weeks later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I swap messages with folk on here, swap pics, get positive feedback, flirt, all that good stuff, its looking promising.
Next thing I know, no response, and in some cases suddenly get blocked!!
Not expecting reasons, but does anyone else experience this, or is it just me? "
It's the norm so best to cut all the crap out and ask for a social meet/drink. Don't bother with loads of texts and pic swapping. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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The problem is, we all have lives away from Fab. And sometimes those lives take priority, or they take over.
And sometimes, after a bit of chatting, you realise you don't fancy someone.
And sometimes, people are knackered. Or change their minds.
They're not bad people...just human x
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"i drop guys pretty easy.
not being funny all you have to offer me is sex and anyone can give me that.
Except me, you've been friend zoned.  "
if people offer more than their dick i'm more likely to stick around. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Haha!!
I'm on a roll with this one. Happened twice again over the last couple of days
One of them even sent me a message to meet, and two minutes later...user had left the site. Made me laugh |
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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
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I've been blocked and ignored lots of times but I've also had quite a few great meets too. Swings and roundabouts, don't dwell on it. Shit happens, it's the same as replying 'Thanks but No Thanks'.... only quicker!  |
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