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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. " Dunno how you could....but I'm not married  | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. " Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. " BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME" Wooo block caps  | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME" But Caps Lock escapes you? | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME" Ok don't shout. So you don't know..you're assuming. Could have been something tragic for all you know, could have been anything. He might NOT have been married, you just think he was because that's the only that makes sense in your head, that's understandable, seeing as you don't actually know who was on the other end of the phone.... | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME" Maybe it was his excuse to get out of a meet he wasn't enjoying??  | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME But Caps Lock escapes you?" No. However politeness clearly evades you.... I haven't posted to have an argument. I haven't been disrespectful or named and shamed. So therefore show a little respect and either jog on or add something valid to the thread. | |||
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"Who says married shouldn't be playing? Surely it'stheir life to do as they wish. However, I do think that people should be upfront about being married though if the other person is expecting some sort of relationship from them." I quite agree. I'm not here to judge. However I'm not here to be lied to either. We're all adults. There's something for everyone, so let's just just be upfront and allow people the respect of making informed decisions. | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME Maybe it was his excuse to get out of a meet he wasn't enjoying?? " | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. " Take it your not interested in married men then? | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME Maybe it was his excuse to get out of a meet he wasn't enjoying?? "No-one forced him to come back for a drink. No-one forced him to stay in the pub for three drinks. He received a message then went into melt down. | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Take it your not interested in married men then?" Im more interested in making informed decisions, not judging | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME" So you don't know for sure just making a wild guess and a thread about it  | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME Maybe it was his excuse to get out of a meet he wasn't enjoying??
No-one forced him to come back for a drink. No-one forced him to stay in the pub for three drinks. He received a message then went into melt down. "Who paid for the drinks? | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME But Caps Lock escapes you? No. However politeness clearly evades you.... I haven't posted to have an argument. I haven't been disrespectful or named and shamed. So therefore show a little respect and either jog on or add something valid to the thread. " But you did shout when asked a question. That's pretty rude and disrespectful but never mind. Your thread, your rules. Have fun | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME Maybe it was his excuse to get out of a meet he wasn't enjoying??
No-one forced him to come back for a drink. No-one forced him to stay in the pub for three drinks. He received a message then went into melt down.
Who paid for the drinks?"He paid. | |||
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"How funny Choo, your making a simple statement and the forumites are using view points to spark a reaction, it's obviously working. However you've made a very good point! Some people just need to get a grip lol" | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME Maybe it was his excuse to get out of a meet he wasn't enjoying??
No-one forced him to come back for a drink. No-one forced him to stay in the pub for three drinks. He received a message then went into melt down.
Who paid for the drinks?
He paid. "Result then | |||
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"Who says married shouldn't be playing? Surely it'stheir life to do as they wish. However, I do think that people should be upfront about being married though if the other person is expecting some sort of relationship from them." Absolutely agree with you. People have their own reasons as to why they are on this site married or not. | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. " Regardless of whether this particular guy was/is married or not I don't think there's a foolproof way of telling. | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Regardless of whether this particular guy was/is married or not I don't think there's a foolproof way of telling. " Look at pictures, clean carpet? Married. Matching bed sets? Married. Women with apron on and clean dishes? Married. Just jokes. | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Regardless of whether this particular guy was/is married or not I don't think there's a foolproof way of telling. Look at pictures, clean carpet? Married. Matching bed sets? Married. Women with apron on and clean dishes? Married. Just jokes." It's quite amusing though when "single" men take photos in their bathroom and there's tampax packets in the background | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Regardless of whether this particular guy was/is married or not I don't think there's a foolproof way of telling. Look at pictures, clean carpet? Married. Matching bed sets? Married. Women with apron on and clean dishes? Married. Just jokes. It's quite amusing though when "single" men take photos in their bathroom and there's tampax packets in the background "Yes haha! Or another classic - there's floral bedding with two bedside cabinets his and clearly hers lol | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Regardless of whether this particular guy was/is married or not I don't think there's a foolproof way of telling. Look at pictures, clean carpet? Married. Matching bed sets? Married. Women with apron on and clean dishes? Married. Just jokes. It's quite amusing though when "single" men take photos in their bathroom and there's tampax packets in the background
Yes haha! Or another classic - there's floral bedding with two bedside cabinets his and clearly hers lol"Not always. We met a guy a couple of times, most definitely single. However I questioned him before we met because he sent pictures with floral bedding and pink accessories. Turns out he was renting a room in a friend's house. | |||
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"Could have been the old give me a ring in 20 minutes trick, see how its going? Cant imagine because you look lovely. With regards to married or not, byron says that mistresses are adored and worshipped where as wives are made slaves of...which would you rather be?" Byron died in 1824, times have changed a bit since | |||
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"It's quite amusing though when "single" men take photos in their bathroom and there's tampax packets in the background
Yes haha! Or another classic - there's floral bedding with two bedside cabinets his and clearly hers lol"Dont go giving the game away, they will do pics in hotel rooms in future
I think a married cheating person in their home town may get obvious, ducking under tables when the neighbors walk in etc. but away from home probably no real clues. | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Regardless of whether this particular guy was/is married or not I don't think there's a foolproof way of telling. Look at pictures, clean carpet? Married. Matching bed sets? Married. Women with apron on and clean dishes? Married. Just jokes. It's quite amusing though when "single" men take photos in their bathroom and there's tampax packets in the background "They could be his daughters tampax. | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Regardless of whether this particular guy was/is married or not I don't think there's a foolproof way of telling. Look at pictures, clean carpet? Married. Matching bed sets? Married. Women with apron on and clean dishes? Married. Just jokes. It's quite amusing though when "single" men take photos in their bathroom and there's tampax packets in the background
They could be his daughters tampax."Or maybe he's prone to nose bleeds. | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Regardless of whether this particular guy was/is married or not I don't think there's a foolproof way of telling. Look at pictures, clean carpet? Married. Matching bed sets? Married. Women with apron on and clean dishes? Married. Just jokes. It's quite amusing though when "single" men take photos in their bathroom and there's tampax packets in the background
They could be his daughters tampax."It's the hairgrips you need to look for | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards" All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME Maybe it was his excuse to get out of a meet he wasn't enjoying?? " | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards" Who let women in this club anyway? | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers "I love the lounge,i'll be sad when i go | |||
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"Haha did you have to google that. The theory has aged accordingly." Yes, I did have to Google it. I'm rubbish at remembering dates like that. | |||
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"Haha did you have to google that. The theory has aged accordingly. Yes, I did have to Google it. I'm rubbish at remembering dates like that." See my goldfish thread | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers
I love the lounge,i'll be sad when i go"Your lounge or this one. Don't feel the need to go, unless your wife turns up.... | |||
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"The hotel pictures! Hiuuuuuge giveaway!" That they've been to a hotel? | |||
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"Could have been the old give me a ring in 20 minutes trick, see how its going? Cant imagine because you look lovely. With regards to married or not, byron says that mistresses are adored and worshipped where as wives are made slaves of...which would you rather be?"  | |||
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"The hotel pictures! Hiuuuuuge giveaway! That they've been to a hotel?" I have all my sex with married men in hotels, no time for photos mind. | |||
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"The hotel pictures! Hiuuuuuge giveaway! That they've been to a hotel? I have all my sex with married men in hotels, no time for photos mind. " I've been in many many hotels and not had sex in most of them. I did order the porn channel once but the sound didn't work. They sent someone round to investigate  | |||
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"The hotel pictures! Hiuuuuuge giveaway! That they've been to a hotel? I have all my sex with married men in hotels, no time for photos mind. I've been in many many hotels and not had sex in most of them. I did order the porn channel once but the sound didn't work. They sent someone round to investigate "I would have had the most fun making up my own dialect | |||
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"Haha did you have to google that. The theory has aged accordingly. Yes, I did have to Google it. I'm rubbish at remembering dates like that. See my goldfish thread" I did but I can't for the life of me remember what it said.
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers
I love the lounge,i'll be sad when i go
Your lounge or this one.
Don't feel the need to go, unless your wife turns up...."The site | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers
I love the lounge,i'll be sad when i go
Your lounge or this one.
Don't feel the need to go, unless your wife turns up....
The site"You off back to vanilla? | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers
I love the lounge,i'll be sad when i go
Your lounge or this one.
Don't feel the need to go, unless your wife turns up....
The site
You off back to vanilla?"T minus 24 days and counting | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers
I love the lounge,i'll be sad when i go
Your lounge or this one.
Don't feel the need to go, unless your wife turns up....
The site
You off back to vanilla?
T minus 24 days and counting"You'll have forgot by then  | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers
I love the lounge,i'll be sad when i go
Your lounge or this one.
Don't feel the need to go, unless your wife turns up....
The site
You off back to vanilla?
T minus 24 days and counting"Vanilla is nice, but you need sauce and sprinkles | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers
I love the lounge,i'll be sad when i go
Your lounge or this one.
Don't feel the need to go, unless your wife turns up....
The site
You off back to vanilla?
T minus 24 days and counting
Vanilla is nice, but you need sauce and sprinkles "Not keen on vanilla myself  | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers
I love the lounge,i'll be sad when i go
Your lounge or this one.
Don't feel the need to go, unless your wife turns up....
The site
You off back to vanilla?
T minus 24 days and counting
Vanilla is nice, but you need sauce and sprinkles "You are on my hotlist young lady i will pm you why im leaving at a later date if you like | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers
I love the lounge,i'll be sad when i go
Your lounge or this one.
Don't feel the need to go, unless your wife turns up...."Like that ever really happens.....emphasis on the word really. | |||
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"Is it when they go offline for half an hour to do their duty? "Is that a polite way of saying a visit to the toilet?? And where's my bloody cake!!!  | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers
I love the lounge,i'll be sad when i go
Your lounge or this one.
Don't feel the need to go, unless your wife turns up....
The site
You off back to vanilla?
T minus 24 days and counting
Vanilla is nice, but you need sauce and sprinkles
You are on my hotlist young lady i will pm you why im leaving at a later date if you like"Oh | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers
I love the lounge,i'll be sad when i go
Your lounge or this one.
Don't feel the need to go, unless your wife turns up....
Like that ever really happens.....emphasis on the word really."Are we talking on fab or at the door? | |||
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"Is it when they go offline for half an hour to do their duty?
Is that a polite way of saying a visit to the toilet??
And where's my bloody cake!!! "No I mean to fuck their wife. I ate it. | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers
I love the lounge,i'll be sad when i go
Your lounge or this one.
Don't feel the need to go, unless your wife turns up....
The site
You off back to vanilla?
T minus 24 days and counting
Vanilla is nice, but you need sauce and sprinkles
You are on my hotlist young lady i will pm you why im leaving at a later date if you like"Are you getting married? | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers
I love the lounge,i'll be sad when i go
Your lounge or this one.
Don't feel the need to go, unless your wife turns up....
The site
You off back to vanilla?
T minus 24 days and counting
Vanilla is nice, but you need sauce and sprinkles
You are on my hotlist young lady i will pm you why im leaving at a later date if you like
Are you getting married?"Im daft but not that bloody daft!! | |||
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"J BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME" Clearly you didn't.....and no need to shout. | |||
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"There must be hundreds of people on here cheating " Most definitely | |||
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"I was seeing a guy once for 3 months... he was with me nearly every night. I found out he was married when his wife turned up at mine in his car. Needless to say we were both shocked." Please say it ended in a threesome?  TSH | |||
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"Get it into all your thick heads...all men are bastards All of them, every single one. Be gone stinkers
I love the lounge,i'll be sad when i go
Your lounge or this one.
Don't feel the need to go, unless your wife turns up....
Like that ever really happens.....emphasis on the word really.
Are we talking on fab or at the door? "Both! | |||
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"Who says married shouldn't be playing? Surely it'stheir life to do as they wish. However, I do think that people should be upfront about being married though if the other person is expecting some sort of relationship from them. I quite agree. I'm not here to judge. However I'm not here to be lied to either. We're all adults. There's something for everyone, so let's just just be upfront and allow people the respect of making informed decisions. " This is the key for me. Let people make up their own minds but give them all the relevant information to be able to do so | |||
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"There must be hundreds of people on here cheating " More like thousands I'd say but then it depends if you want to get 'technical' about what would or should be considered cheating | |||
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"It's the old classic, men are more capable of having emotionless sex. Not to say women can't. If a guy's cheating it's because he's horny, if a womans cheating there's usually something lacking in her relationship, or she's a slutty slut. Probabably goes back to caveman days where once a woman was pregnant she'd be more vulnerable to dinosaur attacks so would want to hold onto her fiercesome caveman to protect her during pregnancy. TSH
"although my ex loved sex he actually emotionally cheated on me and that was what pissed me off. if he had just fucked someone i'd have been ok with that, not ok as in happy but i'd have got over that. as it was he emotionally neglected me for someone else so i fucked him off. women can get sex easier than men so it's not that big a deal if i'm cheated on sexually. i will just fuck more people than he did and feel satisfied i did a better job. | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME So you don't know for sure just making a wild guess and a thread about it "Lots of guys jumping to his defence rather vociferously..... women have instincts which we don't know about. And why is he being defended? Guilt complex by proxy? | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME So you don't know for sure just making a wild guess and a thread about it
Lots of guys jumping to his defence rather vociferously..... women have instincts which we don't know about. And why is he being defended? Guilt complex by proxy?"I knows a discworld geek when I sees one. Angua would so get it, amirite? TSH | |||
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"This may not be popular but I'm in a relationship and have no issue with married men, I'd be a hypocrite if I did. I spent a year on a chat site prior to coming on here most of the guys I still chat with away from the site are married. Trust me a married man is very easy to spot along with many other things, due to the fact they switch their brain to cock mode. They hide it because there is such a stigma on here which I don't get as it's NSA. Yes yes because they're cheating you're all saying but there is only a small minority that are greedy cheats, I won't go there and I don't understand that either!! The rest are in crap situations they can't leave and this is an escape, given the choice the vast majority would be happier if things were ok at home than being here. " Are you cheating? | |||
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"Who says married shouldn't be playing? Surely it'stheir life to do as they wish. However, I do think that people should be upfront about being married though if the other person is expecting some sort of relationship from them." Define relationship. I personally think they should be upfront even if meeting for a social. You should be allowed a choice of whether or not you want to meet them. | |||
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"This may not be popular but I'm in a relationship and have no issue with married men, I'd be a hypocrite if I did. I spent a year on a chat site prior to coming on here most of the guys I still chat with away from the site are married. Trust me a married man is very easy to spot along with many other things, due to the fact they switch their brain to cock mode. They hide it because there is such a stigma on here which I don't get as it's NSA. Yes yes because they're cheating you're all saying but there is only a small minority that are greedy cheats, I won't go there and I don't understand that either!! The rest are in crap situations they can't leave and this is an escape, given the choice the vast majority would be happier if things were ok at home than being here. " Because its NSA an unknowing partner is a HUGE string. Especislly when they turn up at your house screaming ablut your affair | |||
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"This may not be popular but I'm in a relationship and have no issue with married men, I'd be a hypocrite if I did. I spent a year on a chat site prior to coming on here most of the guys I still chat with away from the site are married. Trust me a married man is very easy to spot along with many other things, due to the fact they switch their brain to cock mode. They hide it because there is such a stigma on here which I don't get as it's NSA. Yes yes because they're cheating you're all saying but there is only a small minority that are greedy cheats, I won't go there and I don't understand that either!! The rest are in crap situations they can't leave and this is an escape, given the choice the vast majority would be happier if things were ok at home than being here. " I know people who are very happy at home and on here ... You don't have to be unhappy at home . Some just like playing away. | |||
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"This may not be popular but I'm in a relationship and have no issue with married men, I'd be a hypocrite if I did. I spent a year on a chat site prior to coming on here most of the guys I still chat with away from the site are married. Trust me a married man is very easy to spot along with many other things, due to the fact they switch their brain to cock mode. They hide it because there is such a stigma on here which I don't get as it's NSA. Yes yes because they're cheating you're all saying but there is only a small minority that are greedy cheats, I won't go there and I don't understand that either!! The rest are in crap situations they can't leave and this is an escape, given the choice the vast majority would be happier if things were ok at home than being here. Are you cheating?" The simple answer is yes the long answer not really, pm for long answer | |||
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"Who says married shouldn't be playing? Surely it'stheir life to do as they wish. However, I do think that people should be upfront about being married though if the other person is expecting some sort of relationship from them." They are free to play...be honest about it, then others can choose to meet or not. | |||
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"Who says married shouldn't be playing? Surely it'stheir life to do as they wish. However, I do think that people should be upfront about being married though if the other person is expecting some sort of relationship from them. Define relationship. I personally think they should be upfront even if meeting for a social. You should be allowed a choice of whether or not you want to meet them. " | |||
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"It's the old classic, men are more capable of having emotionless sex. Not to say women can't. If a guy's cheating it's because he's horny, if a womans cheating there's usually something lacking in her relationship, or she's a slutty slut. Probabably goes back to caveman days where once a woman was pregnant she'd be more vulnerable to dinosaur attacks so would want to hold onto her fiercesome caveman to protect her during pregnancy. TSH
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"It's the old classic, men are more capable of having emotionless sex. Not to say women can't. If a guy's cheating it's because he's horny, if a womans cheating there's usually something lacking in her relationship, or she's a slutty slut. Probabably goes back to caveman days where once a woman was pregnant she'd be more vulnerable to dinosaur attacks so would want to hold onto her fiercesome caveman to protect her during pregnancy. TSH
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"It's the old classic, men are more capable of having emotionless sex. Not to say women can't. If a guy's cheating it's because he's horny, if a womans cheating there's usually something lacking in her relationship, or she's a slutty slut. Probabably goes back to caveman days where once a woman was pregnant she'd be more vulnerable to dinosaur attacks so would want to hold onto her fiercesome caveman to protect her during pregnancy. TSH
Its more likely other women protected her during pregnancy."Interestingly studies find that women who are pregnant (or on the pill) rate men with softer more feminine features attractive than when they are not pregnant where they rate more masculine men attractive | |||
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"In my opinion there are very few hetero men who if they can get a regular gf would prefer not to have one. Hence most allegedly single men on here will in fact be attached in some way or other and those that aren't may be unattached in a non voluntary sense. There may be some men who are voultarily single but there won't be very many of them. And the older they get the fewer there will be. " I think you'll find thats wildly out of touch with current generations thinking. Being single/causual short term relatio ships is very common | |||
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"It's the old classic, men are more capable of having emotionless sex. Not to say women can't. If a guy's cheating it's because he's horny, if a womans cheating there's usually something lacking in her relationship, or she's a slutty slut. Probabably goes back to caveman days where once a woman was pregnant she'd be more vulnerable to dinosaur attacks so would want to hold onto her fiercesome caveman to protect her during pregnancy. TSH
Its more likely other women protected her during pregnancy.
Interestingly studies find that women who are pregnant (or on the pill) rate men with softer more feminine features attractive than when they are not pregnant where they rate more masculine men attractive"And when they are on their period they find a man with a fork in his eye the most attractive. TSH
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"In my opinion there are very few hetero men who if they can get a regular gf would prefer not to have one. Hence most allegedly single men on here will in fact be attached in some way or other and those that aren't may be unattached in a non voluntary sense. There may be some men who are voultarily single but there won't be very many of them. And the older they get the fewer there will be. " Is this the same for women too? | |||
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"In my opinion there are very few hetero men who if they can get a regular gf would prefer not to have one. Hence most allegedly single men on here will in fact be attached in some way or other and those that aren't may be unattached in a non voluntary sense. There may be some men who are voultarily single but there won't be very many of them. And the older they get the fewer there will be. " Why are people so quick to jump to the conclusion that single people are non-voluntarily undetached!? Great if you're happily with someone, but single and casual is perfect for me and many others. I don't have to share my Jaffa Cakes with anyone | |||
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"So how can you tell? Patterns. The can only meet at certain times, quite often lots of advance planning. You might also notice there will be times that they cannot be contacted or you won't get a reply until much later. " So the same as say somone with a job? | |||
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"So how can you tell? Patterns. The can only meet at certain times, quite often lots of advance planning. You might also notice there will be times that they cannot be contacted or you won't get a reply until much later. So the same as say somone with a job?" Or a life? Or children? | |||
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"So how can you tell? Patterns. The can only meet at certain times, quite often lots of advance planning. You might also notice there will be times that they cannot be contacted or you won't get a reply until much later. " the guy who wanted a relationship with me, but was living with his already gf, was texting me constantly all day and night. like we were having proper conversations. so not always. felt sorry for his gf, he must have been ignoring her for me. | |||
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"So how can you tell? Patterns. The can only meet at certain times, quite often lots of advance planning. You might also notice there will be times that they cannot be contacted or you won't get a reply until much later. So the same as say somone with a job?" Or kids Or just a life outside of fab in general
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"In my opinion there are very few hetero men who if they can get a regular gf would prefer not to have one. Hence most allegedly single men on here will in fact be attached in some way or other and those that aren't may be unattached in a non voluntary sense. There may be some men who are voultarily single but there won't be very many of them. And the older they get the fewer there will be. Is this the same for women too?" Nope. I think women tend to be more content with being single than men are. I am making wild generalisations here of course and our experience could be completely unrepresentative my unscientific estimate would break down guys. Playing alone as follows
Attached and tells play partners but life partner doesn't know they play 40%
Attached but doesn't tell play partner and life partner doesn't know they play 30%
Unattached non voluntarily (i.e. Would like a life partner) 15%
Unattached voluntarily (i.e. Doesn't want a life partner) 10%
Attached and both he and life partner play separately with each others knowledge and consent 4%
Attached and he plays with partners knowledge and consent and she doesn't 1%
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"In my opinion there are very few hetero men who if they can get a regular gf would prefer not to have one. Hence most allegedly single men on here will in fact be attached in some way or other and those that aren't may be unattached in a non voluntary sense. There may be some men who are voultarily single but there won't be very many of them. And the older they get the fewer there will be. Is this the same for women too? Nope. I think women tend to be more content with being single than men are. " Youre kidding right? Theres a reason that women outnumver men on dating sites | |||
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"In my opinion there are very few hetero men who if they can get a regular gf would prefer not to have one. Hence most allegedly single men on here will in fact be attached in some way or other and those that aren't may be unattached in a non voluntary sense. There may be some men who are voultarily single but there won't be very many of them. And the older they get the fewer there will be. Is this the same for women too? Nope. I think women tend to be more content with being single than men are. Youre kidding right? Theres a reason that women outnumver men on dating sites" Ah but how many of those women actually want to date and not just fuck I think you'd be surprised for how many it's the latter Why do you think some guys like using POF more than fab? | |||
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"So how can you tell? Patterns. The can only meet at certain times, quite often lots of advance planning. You might also notice there will be times that they cannot be contacted or you won't get a reply until much later. So the same as say somone with a job?" It's by no means definitive, but you may notice them being unavailable at certain times that would coincide with 'family activities'. EG School run times, Evenings maybe 4 to 7. It can be noticeable if someone presents themselves as say single with no ties but their availability doesn't really correlate. | |||
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"Is this a dating site now? " Yeah, you buying me lunch? | |||
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"In my opinion there are very few hetero men who if they can get a regular gf would prefer not to have one. Hence most allegedly single men on here will in fact be attached in some way or other and those that aren't may be unattached in a non voluntary sense. There may be some men who are voultarily single but there won't be very many of them. And the older they get the fewer there will be. Is this the same for women too? Nope. I think women tend to be more content with being single than men are. Youre kidding right? Theres a reason that women outnumver men on dating sites Ah but how many of those women actually want to date and not just fuck I think you'd be surprised for how many it's the latter Why do you think some guys like using POF more than fab? " They like it cause the ratios are less skewed | |||
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"So how can you tell? Patterns. The can only meet at certain times, quite often lots of advance planning. You might also notice there will be times that they cannot be contacted or you won't get a reply until much later. So the same as say somone with a job? It's by no means definitive, but you may notice them being unavailable at certain times that would coincide with 'family activities'. EG School run times, Evenings maybe 4 to 7. It can be noticeable if someone presents themselves as say single with no ties but their availability doesn't really correlate." Hang on I really don't want to come over as just picking fault here but are you saying single people don't have family activities or do school runs? Being single means just that it does not mean they have no family or a life | |||
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"In my opinion there are very few hetero men who if they can get a regular gf would prefer not to have one. Hence most allegedly single men on here will in fact be attached in some way or other and those that aren't may be unattached in a non voluntary sense. There may be some men who are voultarily single but there won't be very many of them. And the older they get the fewer there will be. Is this the same for women too? Nope. I think women tend to be more content with being single than men are. Youre kidding right? Theres a reason that women outnumver men on dating sites" Actually that's not the case. . The stats are these. Percentage of males first Okc 53 47 Pof 55 45 E harmony 47 53 Match 49 51 (i have a link for the source but not allowed to post it I believe) So pretty much 50 50 with women Tending to go for the more vanilla sites. | |||
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"So how can you tell? Patterns. The can only meet at certain times, quite often lots of advance planning. You might also notice there will be times that they cannot be contacted or you won't get a reply until much later. So the same as say somone with a job? It's by no means definitive, but you may notice them being unavailable at certain times that would coincide with 'family activities'. EG School run times, Evenings maybe 4 to 7. It can be noticeable if someone presents themselves as say single with no ties but their availability doesn't really correlate. Hang on I really don't want to come over as just picking fault here but are you saying single people don't have family activities or do school runs? Being single means just that it does not mean they have no family or a life " I said it's by no means definitive, but it MAY show a difference between what someone actually says they are and what their availability is. As a broad rule, I've noticed that people with partners and/or have a more regimented timetable. I said nothing about single people not having families or a life. | |||
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"This may not be popular but I'm in a relationship and have no issue with married men, I'd be a hypocrite if I did. I spent a year on a chat site prior to coming on here most of the guys I still chat with away from the site are married. Trust me a married man is very easy to spot along with many other things, due to the fact they switch their brain to cock mode. They hide it because there is such a stigma on here which I don't get as it's NSA. Yes yes because they're cheating you're all saying but there is only a small minority that are greedy cheats, I won't go there and I don't understand that either!! The rest are in crap situations they can't leave and this is an escape, given the choice the vast majority would be happier if things were ok at home than being here. Because its NSA an unknowing partner is a HUGE string. Especislly when they turn up at your house screaming ablut your affair" Or ring you at 2am screaming down the phone....and phone you repeatedly for weeks afterwards and send nasty text messages from their mates phones so you can't block them. | |||
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"Fair enpugh what you think the stats are for here. Fabs could tell us but. I scientifically I would say Men 70% Couples 25% Women 5% Actually that might underestimate the number of men as it would mean there are only two and a bit men for each couple or woman " No that's fine 83% of couples and 57% of the women are looking for women or couples | |||
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"This may not be popular but I'm in a relationship and have no issue with married men, I'd be a hypocrite if I did. I spent a year on a chat site prior to coming on here most of the guys I still chat with away from the site are married. Trust me a married man is very easy to spot along with many other things, due to the fact they switch their brain to cock mode. They hide it because there is such a stigma on here which I don't get as it's NSA. Yes yes because they're cheating you're all saying but there is only a small minority that are greedy cheats, I won't go there and I don't understand that either!! The rest are in crap situations they can't leave and this is an escape, given the choice the vast majority would be happier if things were ok at home than being here. " Totally agree. There is a saying; "If you're getting steak at home, you won't go looking for beef burgers" However, if you're not being fed at home, a hungry man (or woman) will look for food elsewhere | |||
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"This may not be popular but I'm in a relationship and have no issue with married men, I'd be a hypocrite if I did. I spent a year on a chat site prior to coming on here most of the guys I still chat with away from the site are married. Trust me a married man is very easy to spot along with many other things, due to the fact they switch their brain to cock mode. They hide it because there is such a stigma on here which I don't get as it's NSA. Yes yes because they're cheating you're all saying but there is only a small minority that are greedy cheats, I won't go there and I don't understand that either!! The rest are in crap situations they can't leave and this is an escape, given the choice the vast majority would be happier if things were ok at home than being here. Totally agree. There is a saying; "If you're getting steak at home, you won't go looking for beef burgers" However, if you're not being fed at home, a hungry man (or woman) will look for food elsewhere "I think what people object to is the having your cake and eating it aspect (to pursue the food metaphor). If your sex life with your partner is unsatisfactory you should discuss it with them. Ditto if you don't want to be monogamous. If you can't reach a mutually satisfactory solution then splitting may be the only option. I appreciate lots of people can't always face doing that and it is not something I have always done but certainly having sex with someone else behind your partners back is always going to be viewed negatively by a lot of people. | |||
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"This may not be popular but I'm in a relationship and have no issue with married men, I'd be a hypocrite if I did. I spent a year on a chat site prior to coming on here most of the guys I still chat with away from the site are married. Trust me a married man is very easy to spot along with many other things, due to the fact they switch their brain to cock mode. They hide it because there is such a stigma on here which I don't get as it's NSA. Yes yes because they're cheating you're all saying but there is only a small minority that are greedy cheats, I won't go there and I don't understand that either!! The rest are in crap situations they can't leave and this is an escape, given the choice the vast majority would be happier if things were ok at home than being here. Totally agree. There is a saying; "If you're getting steak at home, you won't go looking for beef burgers" However, if you're not being fed at home, a hungry man (or woman) will look for food elsewhere " | |||
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"In my opinion there are very few hetero men who if they can get a regular gf would prefer not to have one. Hence most allegedly single men on here will in fact be attached in some way or other and those that aren't may be unattached in a non voluntary sense. There may be some men who are voultarily single but there won't be very many of them. And the older they get the fewer there will be. Is this the same for women too? Nope. I think women tend to be more content with being single than men are. Youre kidding right? Theres a reason that women outnumver men on dating sites Actually that's not the case. . The stats are these. Percentage of males first Okc 53 47 Pof 55 45 E harmony 47 53 Match 49 51 (i have a link for the source but not allowed to post it I believe) So pretty much 50 50 with women Tending to go for the more vanilla sites. " Well that saved me typing | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. " Er... isn't this a swinging site ? | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Er... isn't this a swinging site ?" What does 'swinging' mean to you out of curiosity? | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Regardless of whether this particular guy was/is married or not I don't think there's a foolproof way of telling. Look at pictures, clean carpet? Married. Matching bed sets? Married. Women with apron on and clean dishes? Married. Just jokes. It's quite amusing though when "single" men take photos in their bathroom and there's tampax packets in the background
Yes haha! Or another classic - there's floral bedding with two bedside cabinets his and clearly hers lol"Oh wow.. How dull an unbalanced must your bedroom be.. A large bed deserves to have a cabinet either side to add balance to it... Don't you know that only one bedside cabinet is the main cause of subsidence in buildings.. there will even be a clause in the small print of your buildings insurance waiving any rights to claim should you own only one bedside cabinet.. And as for plain bedclothes, surely a pretty duvet is an extension of your persona... Full bedlinen just means one thing... | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Regardless of whether this particular guy was/is married or not I don't think there's a foolproof way of telling. Look at pictures, clean carpet? Married. Matching bed sets? Married. Women with apron on and clean dishes? Married. Just jokes. It's quite amusing though when "single" men take photos in their bathroom and there's tampax packets in the background
Yes haha! Or another classic - there's floral bedding with two bedside cabinets his and clearly hers lol
Oh wow.. How dull an unbalanced must your bedroom be..
A large bed deserves to have a cabinet either side to add balance to it... Don't you know that only one bedside cabinet is the main cause of subsidence in buildings.. there will even be a clause in the small print of your buildings insurance waiving any rights to claim should you own only one bedside cabinet..
And as for plain bedclothes, surely a pretty duvet is an extension of your persona...
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Er... isn't this a swinging site ? What does 'swinging' mean to you out of curiosity?" | |||
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"God, if you saw the state of my bedroom, you'd think I was a teenage boy
Though in my defence it is filled with stuff from my living room whilst that is being decorated "Because of all the torn teenage boy clothes strewn around your cougar lair? | |||
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"Who says married shouldn't be playing? Surely it'stheir life to do as they wish. However, I do think that people should be upfront about being married though if the other person is expecting some sort of relationship from them." yes to that | |||
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"Who says married shouldn't be playing? Surely it'stheir life to do as they wish. However, I do think that people should be upfront about being married though if the other person is expecting some sort of relationship from them." well Thank you, I'm married and love my wife dearly but she has no interest in sex and hasn't for over 15 years but we're still together and I hope always will be. That doesn't mean I should be celibate for the rest of my life but I'm also a smoker which makes me doubly screwed for some, we're not innocents on here we're just looking for someone with the same liberal attitudes | |||
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"Is it when they go offline for half an hour to do their duty?
Is that a polite way of saying a visit to the toilet??
And where's my bloody cake!!!
No I mean to fuck their wife.
I ate it. "Nooooooo! My cake!! And rude girl!! | |||
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"This may not be popular but I'm in a relationship and have no issue with married men, I'd be a hypocrite if I did. I spent a year on a chat site prior to coming on here most of the guys I still chat with away from the site are married. Trust me a married man is very easy to spot along with many other things, due to the fact they switch their brain to cock mode. They hide it because there is such a stigma on here which I don't get as it's NSA. Yes yes because they're cheating you're all saying but there is only a small minority that are greedy cheats, I won't go there and I don't understand that either!! The rest are in crap situations they can't leave and this is an escape, given the choice the vast majority would be happier if things were ok at home than being here. Totally agree. There is a saying; "If you're getting steak at home, you won't go looking for beef burgers" However, if you're not being fed at home, a hungry man (or woman) will look for food elsewhere "What if you like cake instead of beef? | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME Maybe it was his excuse to get out of a meet he wasn't enjoying??
No-one forced him to come back for a drink. No-one forced him to stay in the pub for three drinks. He received a message then went into melt down. "Forget the married bit. Was he drink driving Surely that would be worse | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME Maybe it was his excuse to get out of a meet he wasn't enjoying??
No-one forced him to come back for a drink. No-one forced him to stay in the pub for three drinks. He received a message then went into melt down.
Forget the married bit. Was he drink driving Surely that would be worse "He drank a pint and a half then a . | |||
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"Hmmm My wife is out of the country for 6 or 12 weeks at a time. We have a 4 bedroom home, so could hide all woman stuff in one of them. I don't wear any rings. Everyone who knows me including my wife knows I probably forgot to take my mobile out. Don't know how you would know, unless I told you... Oh yes the cat... She would grass me up for a dreamie everytime. "This made me LOL
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"Hmmm My wife is out of the country for 6 or 12 weeks at a time. We have a 4 bedroom home, so could hide all woman stuff in one of them. I don't wear any rings. Everyone who knows me including my wife knows I probably forgot to take my mobile out. Don't know how you would know, unless I told you... Oh yes the cat... She would grass me up for a dreamie everytime.
This made me LOL
Anything for a dreamie "Apparently you quoting my post means she gets another 4 Dreamies now, she is sat looking at me drumming her claws on the floor... So how did I became sub to a cat? | |||
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"Hmmm My wife is out of the country for 6 or 12 weeks at a time. We have a 4 bedroom home, so could hide all woman stuff in one of them. I don't wear any rings. Everyone who knows me including my wife knows I probably forgot to take my mobile out. Don't know how you would know, unless I told you... Oh yes the cat... She would grass me up for a dreamie everytime.
This made me LOL
Anything for a dreamie
Apparently you quoting my post means she gets another 4 Dreamies now, she is sat looking at me drumming her claws on the floor...
So how did I became sub to a cat?"You should know that no one owns a cat. The cat owns you | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. Hold on..how do you KNOW he was married?..Do you know for a FACT it was his other half?.. BECAUSE I KNOW GUILT WHEN ITS IN FRONT OF ME So you don't know for sure just making a wild guess and a thread about it
Lots of guys jumping to his defence rather vociferously..... women have instincts which we don't know about. And why is he being defended? Guilt complex by proxy?"I'm not jumping to defend anyone but from what i have read the OP has just made an assumption she maybe right only the guy can tell you for sure i was just asking a question like others
what is this instinct that only women have please elaborate on that?
I just think that the line "oh he must be married then" is used way too often without any actual facts to back it up myself hence the reason i asked my question
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"This may not be popular but I'm in a relationship and have no issue with married men, I'd be a hypocrite if I did. I spent a year on a chat site prior to coming on here most of the guys I still chat with away from the site are married. Trust me a married man is very easy to spot along with many other things, due to the fact they switch their brain to cock mode. They hide it because there is such a stigma on here which I don't get as it's NSA. Yes yes because they're cheating you're all saying but there is only a small minority that are greedy cheats, I won't go there and I don't understand that either!! The rest are in crap situations they can't leave and this is an escape, given the choice the vast majority would be happier if things were ok at home than being here. Because its NSA an unknowing partner is a HUGE string. Especislly when they turn up at your house screaming ablut your affair" The amount of times that actually happens in comparison to the amount of people cheating is actually minimal. People are usually extremely discrete, especially if both parties are cheating on partners. It's when you get singles meeting married people who don't seem to have the same respect to the need for discretion that problems arise. | |||
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"Just how do you filter out the "married" shouldn't be playing. Was on a social with a guy, when his phone has inadvertently rung " the other half"....... he's driven off at an alarming speed and deleted his account....... told me he was single. I must be a tad thick because I just didn't see any patterns or signs. I take there number and ring them mainly evening times and a few times lol if they are married they won't answer, if they have nothing to hide they won't mind x" That's rather presumptuous. They may be other reasons they don't answer their phone, some people may want quality time at home with their children for instance. | |||
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"Especislly when they turn up at your house screaming ablut your affair The amount of times that actually happens in comparison to the amount of people cheating is actually minimal. People are usually extremely discrete, especially if both parties are cheating on partners. It's when you get singles meeting married people who don't seem to have the same respect to the need for discretion that problems arise." The problem is that for many, myself included swinging has nothing to do with cheating. Don't mind budging over a bit to allow cheaters to get some NSA sex, but don't really want to get involved with it. So if you are a cheater and not a swinger be open about it and give swingers the choice. | |||
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"Especislly when they turn up at your house screaming ablut your affair The amount of times that actually happens in comparison to the amount of people cheating is actually minimal. People are usually extremely discrete, especially if both parties are cheating on partners. It's when you get singles meeting married people who don't seem to have the same respect to the need for discretion that problems arise. The problem is that for many, myself included swinging has nothing to do with cheating. Don't mind budging over a bit to allow cheaters to get some NSA sex, but don't really want to get involved with it. So if you are a cheater and not a swinger be open about it and give swingers the choice." Cheaters can still be swingers though, right? | |||
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"Especislly when they turn up at your house screaming ablut your affair The amount of times that actually happens in comparison to the amount of people cheating is actually minimal. People are usually extremely discrete, especially if both parties are cheating on partners. It's when you get singles meeting married people who don't seem to have the same respect to the need for discretion that problems arise. The problem is that for many, myself included swinging has nothing to do with cheating. Don't mind budging over a bit to allow cheaters to get some NSA sex, but don't really want to get involved with it. So if you are a cheater and not a swinger be open about it and give swingers the choice. Cheaters can still be swingers though, right?" Not by my definition of swingers, but each defines the word to suit their view. | |||
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"Especislly when they turn up at your house screaming ablut your affair The amount of times that actually happens in comparison to the amount of people cheating is actually minimal. People are usually extremely discrete, especially if both parties are cheating on partners. It's when you get singles meeting married people who don't seem to have the same respect to the need for discretion that problems arise. The problem is that for many, myself included swinging has nothing to do with cheating. Don't mind budging over a bit to allow cheaters to get some NSA sex, but don't really want to get involved with it. So if you are a cheater and not a swinger be open about it and give swingers the choice. Cheaters can still be swingers though, right? Not by my definition of swingers, but each defines the word to suit their view. " We shall agree to disagree. | |||
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"For a bunch of open minded folk, ya'll some judgemental people "Wherever did you get the idea Fab was full of open minded folk? | |||
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"Theres no foolproof way to identify people cheating,but if they have discreet,cant accom and can mainly meet daytime only ,its a pretty good indication. Rather narrow minded,what about living with parents? Living in shared accommodation? Living with children? " | |||
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"Cheaters can still be swingers though, right? Not by my definition of swingers, but each defines the word to suit their view. We shall agree to disagree. "No problem I would not want to ban cheaters, nor would I want to ban my version of swingers from playing with cheaters, if that's what they want to do.
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"Cheaters can still be swingers though, right? Not by my definition of swingers, but each defines the word to suit their view. We shall agree to disagree.
No problem I would not want to ban cheaters, nor would I want to ban my version of swingers from playing with cheaters, if that's what they want to do.
I like honesty though. "Honesty yes, I agree. | |||
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"This may not be popular but I'm in a relationship and have no issue with married men, I'd be a hypocrite if I did. I spent a year on a chat site prior to coming on here most of the guys I still chat with away from the site are married. Trust me a married man is very easy to spot along with many other things, due to the fact they switch their brain to cock mode. They hide it because there is such a stigma on here which I don't get as it's NSA. Yes yes because they're cheating you're all saying but there is only a small minority that are greedy cheats, I won't go there and I don't understand that either!! The rest are in crap situations they can't leave and this is an escape, given the choice the vast majority would be happier if things were ok at home than being here. Because its NSA an unknowing partner is a HUGE string. Especislly when they turn up at your house screaming ablut your affair The amount of times that actually happens in comparison to the amount of people cheating is actually minimal. People are usually extremely discrete, especially if both parties are cheating on partners. It's when you get singles meeting married people who don't seem to have the same respect to the need for discretion that problems arise." | |||
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"Theres no foolproof way to identify people cheating,but if they have discreet,cant accom and can mainly meet daytime only ,its a pretty good indication. Rather narrow minded,what about living with parents? Living in shared accommodation? Living with children? " Thats cant accom,i mentioned a few other things too that i said can indicate cheating.Its more than just not accomodating ,but experience has shown me a combination of a few things ,could mean someone is attached. | |||
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