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Rack em up and knock them down

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So had a meet with a guy who had said that he is amazing in every way, has awesome oral skills and said he knows how to use his cock and stays hard and can repeat. Basically he failed on every count.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stage fright!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if they told the truth they mght not get any meets

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By *itsmcgee4Couple over a year ago

Central

Why do they do it? To get their dick wet

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By *op gooserMan over a year ago

chester

"So had a meet with a guy who had said that he is amazing in every way, has awesome oral skills and said he knows how to use his cock and stays hard and can repeat. Basically he failed on every count.

Oral skills felt ok but that was more because I haven't felt a tongue down there for a very long time. Couldn't stay hard and certainly couldn't repeat. Why do guys do this? Just makes it worse when you fail to live up to your hype"
Because he got the chance to fuck you. Would you have met him if he told you the opposite? Maybe you didn't do it for him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some Men lie verbally and some women lie visually. If he couldn't repeat perform maybe his tinky winkie wasn't attracted to what was on offer.

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By *norksterMan over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

I guess some guys can, some guys can't, could be a confidence thing, nerves or just blatantly couldn't do it to start with.

I wouldn't say that I could do anything I actually couldn't so it's difficult to comment why others would?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Is he on here?

He may have been all of those things with his previous meet. It's an interaction not a test.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tbh, I can't get him up for just anybody but in the case of a certain few I can't get him down fs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People are individual in what they like. Confidence can tip into arrogance.

Discretion and non-shaming of others is also an admirable quality.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe you just didn't 'do it' for him?

Or maybe it was stage-fright....

Sometimes things don't work out as expected and the unexpected droop can occur!

I'm sure he felt worse about it than you did if truth be told ..

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By *reman6976Man over a year ago

Deeping St James

I find it's best to be realistic and honest. I've never said those things myself, even if they might be true (haha). I think you should focus on having fun and see how things develop. Things are going to be different with each person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People are individual in what they like. Confidence can tip into arrogance.

Discretion and non-shaming of others is also an admirable quality. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also it takes two to tango, what were you doing to make it all work? I find this kind of poor me, shaming of others really sad and distasteful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe you just didn't 'do it' for him?

Or maybe it was stage-fright....

Sometimes things don't work out as expected and the unexpected droop can occur!

I'm sure he felt worse about it than you did if truth be told .. "

I'm quite open about being a shit shag.

I'd much rather make a cuppa.

I know where my skills lay.

Tea lasts longer too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very discreet

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By *iss.RedWoman over a year ago

somewhere

"Maybe you just didn't 'do it' for him?

Or maybe it was stage-fright....

Sometimes things don't work out as expected and the unexpected droop can occur!

I'm sure he felt worse about it than you did if truth be told .. "

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By *evonshireboyMan over a year ago

North Devon

Seems a bit mean. Have you conside_ed it might be you, not him?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Maybe you just didn't 'do it' for him?

Or maybe it was stage-fright....

Sometimes things don't work out as expected and the unexpected droop can occur!

I'm sure he felt worse about it than you did if truth be told ..

I'm quite open about being a shit shag.

I'd much rather make a cuppa.

I know where my skills lay.

Tea lasts longer too.

I'm a shit shag and I don't even do the tea.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe you just didn't 'do it' for him?

Or maybe it was stage-fright....

Sometimes things don't work out as expected and the unexpected droop can occur!

I'm sure he felt worse about it than you did if truth be told ..

I'm quite open about being a shit shag.

I'd much rather make a cuppa.

I know where my skills lay.

Tea lasts longer too.

I'm a shit shag and I don't even do the tea.

I won't meet if there's any mention of tea!

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Maybe you just didn't 'do it' for him?

Or maybe it was stage-fright....

Sometimes things don't work out as expected and the unexpected droop can occur!

I'm sure he felt worse about it than you did if truth be told ..

I'm quite open about being a shit shag.

I'd much rather make a cuppa.

I know where my skills lay.

Tea lasts longer too.

I'm a shit shag and I don't even do the tea.

I won't meet if there's any mention of tea!

Gin cocktails then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe you just didn't 'do it' for him?

Or maybe it was stage-fright....

Sometimes things don't work out as expected and the unexpected droop can occur!

I'm sure he felt worse about it than you did if truth be told ..

I'm quite open about being a shit shag.

I'd much rather make a cuppa.

I know where my skills lay.

Tea lasts longer too.

I'm a shit shag and I don't even do the tea.

I won't meet if there's any mention of tea!

Gin cocktails then?

That's better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some Men lie verbally and some women lie visually. If he couldn't repeat perform maybe his tinky winkie wasn't attracted to what was on offer. "

Wow that's harsh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some Men lie verbally and some women lie visually. If he couldn't repeat perform maybe his tinky winkie wasn't attracted to what was on offer.

Wow that's harsh

As is the tenor of the opening post.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Some Men lie verbally and some women lie visually. If he couldn't repeat perform maybe his tinky winkie wasn't attracted to what was on offer.

Wow that's harsh

Any harsher than the first post? The penis has a mind of its own, in my experience. Or rather, it is better at picking up what its owner is really feeling rather than what they are trying to convince themselves to feel.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I probably wouldn't meet anyone who bragged about their 'abilities' like that, I find it a bit cringe tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some Men lie verbally and some women lie visually. If he couldn't repeat perform maybe his tinky winkie wasn't attracted to what was on offer.

Wow that's harsh

So is life and that's how we learn, no point sugar coating what may be the truth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I probably wouldn't meet anyone who bragged about their 'abilities' like that, I find it a bit cringe tbh. "

I was always taught if it's sounds too good to be true, don't touch it with a barge pole.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I probably wouldn't meet anyone who bragged about their 'abilities' like that, I find it a bit cringe tbh. "

instant turn off for me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some are true to there word ,but not many .only a few have been outstanding who I have met.some meets i wish I had stayed at home and had a play

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought."

I would never brag about what I'm like in bed. Every one is different and everyone likes different things. So it is best for the other person to make up their mind about what I'm like rather than say something like 'I give the best blow jobs in the world' as I know that is definitely not true.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again."

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The quiet ones are the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?"

Not bitching just trying to get people's views on why men do this. Can see though that like Facebook there are lots of keyboard warriors. So think this will be the first and last time I ever come to this side of the site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How many of you joined in on the worse meet threads? Or the what's the worse message you have had threads?

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By *ouby69Woman over a year ago

congleton

Ouch!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many of you joined in on the worse meet threads? Or the what's the worse message you have had threads?

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How many of you joined in on the worse meet threads? Or the what's the worse message you have had threads?

Oh I expect all of them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many of you joined in on the worse meet threads? Or the what's the worse message you have had threads?

Oh I expect all of them"

Perhaps I've a fuller pic...sorry, just not impressed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

You should have waited for a popular/regular/well liked poster to start a worse meet you ever had thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Don't let fmites comments deter you from posting, your posts are just as valid as everyone else's, we don't judge or argue here we play devil's advocate and debate, plus unlike other social media there's mods kicking about ensuring fair play for all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many of you joined in on the worse meet threads? Or the what's the worse message you have had threads?

Oh I expect all of them

Perhaps I've a fuller pic...sorry, just not impressed."

I'll see if I can find one. You might get the picture then.

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By *ouby69Woman over a year ago

congleton

Sometimes you just don't click, it's not a reflection on you or him, just life....take it as a lesson and move on.......and have a wank just to make sure your done for the night

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many of you joined in on the worse meet threads? Or the what's the worse message you have had threads?

No. I think they are poor taste.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many of you joined in on the worse meet threads? Or the what's the worse message you have had threads?

Oh I expect all of them

Perhaps I've a fuller pic...sorry, just not impressed.

I'll see if I can find one. You might get the picture then.

Ah no, that wasn't what I meant. I take your point though. You're not wrong. I'm just not enamou_ed with this specific scenario.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Seems that judging is all that does happen which is a shame considering the type of site this is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The forum side of fab is tame fun compa_ed to the Chatrooms, there you have to make your bones before you can break them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Absolute agree. Free to post, I'm all for that. I will hold to account though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Worst message, yes, because it was a

message but I have never and would never start a thread about someone I've met, even if the sex wasn't as great as I hoped it would be,

If it wasn't great, I'd take some responsibility for it not being great rather than just blaming the man for it being shit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, there are many women on here, myself included, who have said much the same as you. They talk the talk, can't walk the walk. I learned quite early in my liberated sex life to steer well clear of the braggers and I can do this and that to you people. It's all in their minds.

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By *op gooserMan over a year ago

chester

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Seems that judging is all that does happen which is a shame considering the type of site this is"
oh the irony

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The forum side of fab is tame fun compa_ed to the Chatrooms, there you have to make your bones before you can break them. "

If it's worse than here I'll steer clear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Seems that judging is all that does happen which is a shame considering the type of site this is"

Everyone is entitled to an opinion. We don't all have to agree, endorse or commend a post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Worst message, yes, because it was a

message but I have never and would never start a thread about someone I've met, even if the sex wasn't as great as I hoped it would be,

If it wasn't great, I'd take some responsibility for it not being great rather than just blaming the man for it being shit."

You never had shit sex where you did everything you could to make it good?

Never?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Worst message, yes, because it was a

message but I have never and would never start a thread about someone I've met, even if the sex wasn't as great as I hoped it would be,

If it wasn't great, I'd take some responsibility for it not being great rather than just blaming the man for it being shit."

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, there are many women on here, myself included, who have said much the same as you. They talk the talk, can't walk the walk. I learned quite early in my liberated sex life to steer well clear of the braggers and I can do this and that to you people. It's all in their minds. "

Yes....I agree ....and speaking generally is not a problem. But to refer to a specific meet is out of order. Imo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Seems that judging is all that does happen which is a shame considering the type of site this is

Everyone is entitled to an opinion. We don't all have to agree, endorse or commend a post. "

No but it seems being abusive is ok

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Worst message, yes, because it was a

message but I have never and would never start a thread about someone I've met, even if the sex wasn't as great as I hoped it would be,

If it wasn't great, I'd take some responsibility for it not being great rather than just blaming the man for it being shit.

You never had shit sex where you did everything you could to make it good?

Never? "

The pertinent point (that I read) is "start a thread about it"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe you just didn't 'do it' for him?

Or maybe it was stage-fright....

Sometimes things don't work out as expected and the unexpected droop can occur!

I'm sure he felt worse about it than you did if truth be told ..

Under promise and over deliver

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guilty lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Seems that judging is all that does happen which is a shame considering the type of site this is oh the irony

She wasn't judging him. He said he could do things that he couldn't. I've come across men like that too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Seems that judging is all that does happen which is a shame considering the type of site this is"

Nah it's just the initiation process, once you give as good you get your in like a rat up a drain pipe fs. Welcome to hell, wait till you get yer first holiday that's when the real fun starts lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Worst message, yes, because it was a

message but I have never and would never start a thread about someone I've met, even if the sex wasn't as great as I hoped it would be,

If it wasn't great, I'd take some responsibility for it not being great rather than just blaming the man for it being shit.

You never had shit sex where you did everything you could to make it good?

Never?

The pertinent point (that I read) is "start a thread about it""

Like I said, she should have waited for a popular person to do something she could put her story on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Seems that judging is all that does happen which is a shame considering the type of site this is

Everyone is entitled to an opinion. We don't all have to agree, endorse or commend a post.

No but it seems being abusive is ok"

I apologise if I hurt your feelings. I'm just challenging you -- if it was my use of the word bitch (used as a verb) I'll alter to its dictionary definition "to make spitefully critical comments", which I felt you were doing and was wondering what you felt about that conduct?

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By *op gooserMan over a year ago

chester

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Seems that judging is all that does happen which is a shame considering the type of site this is oh the irony

She wasn't judging him. He said he could do things that he couldn't. I've come across men like that too. "
Ever heard the saying 'If it sounds to good to be true'

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Worst message, yes, because it was a

message but I have never and would never start a thread about someone I've met, even if the sex wasn't as great as I hoped it would be,

If it wasn't great, I'd take some responsibility for it not being great rather than just blaming the man for it being shit.

You never had shit sex where you did everything you could to make it good?

Never?

The pertinent point (that I read) is "start a thread about it"

Like I said, she should have waited for a popular person to do something she could put her story on. "

Oh I'm sure it wouldn't have made any difference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Back to the OP.

The best sex I've had from here has been with men who never mentioned sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Seems that judging is all that does happen which is a shame considering the type of site this is oh the irony

She wasn't judging him. He said he could do things that he couldn't. I've come across men like that too. "

In her opinion. That's a subjective judgement!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Worst message, yes, because it was a

message but I have never and would never start a thread about someone I've met, even if the sex wasn't as great as I hoped it would be,

If it wasn't great, I'd take some responsibility for it not being great rather than just blaming the man for it being shit.

You never had shit sex where you did everything you could to make it good?

Never?

The pertinent point (that I read) is "start a thread about it"

Like I said, she should have waited for a popular person to do something she could put her story on.

Oh I'm sure it wouldn't have made any difference"

You would have gotten away with it because other popular people would have posted about people they have met too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Back to the OP.

The best sex I've had from here has been with men who never mentioned sex. "

Yep I will totally agree with you there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

and you promised you wouldn't tell

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

and you promised you wouldn't tell "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Worst message, yes, because it was a

message but I have never and would never start a thread about someone I've met, even if the sex wasn't as great as I hoped it would be,

If it wasn't great, I'd take some responsibility for it not being great rather than just blaming the man for it being shit.

You never had shit sex where you did everything you could to make it good?

Never?

The pertinent point (that I read) is "start a thread about it"

Like I said, she should have waited for a popular person to do something she could put her story on.

Oh I'm sure it wouldn't have made any difference

You would have gotten away with it because other popular people would have posted about people they have met too. "

Yeah that's where the hypocrisy lies

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Worst message, yes, because it was a

message but I have never and would never start a thread about someone I've met, even if the sex wasn't as great as I hoped it would be,

If it wasn't great, I'd take some responsibility for it not being great rather than just blaming the man for it being shit.

You never had shit sex where you did everything you could to make it good?

Never?

The pertinent point (that I read) is "start a thread about it"

Like I said, she should have waited for a popular person to do something she could put her story on.

Oh I'm sure it wouldn't have made any difference

You would have gotten away with it because other popular people would have posted about people they have met too. "

Popularity contest on here too? Thought that was just at school

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Seems that judging is all that does happen which is a shame considering the type of site this is oh the irony

She wasn't judging him. He said he could do things that he couldn't. I've come across men like that too.

In her opinion. That's a subjective judgement!"

He promised her he would satisfy her, did he not? He didn't deliver what he boasted he could.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Seems that judging is all that does happen which is a shame considering the type of site this is oh the irony

She wasn't judging him. He said he could do things that he couldn't. I've come across men like that too.

In her opinion. That's a subjective judgement!

He promised her he would satisfy her, did he not? He didn't deliver what he boasted he could. "

Spot on

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By *op gooserMan over a year ago

chester

"Worst message, yes, because it was a

message but I have never and would never start a thread about someone I've met, even if the sex wasn't as great as I hoped it would be,

If it wasn't great, I'd take some responsibility for it not being great rather than just blaming the man for it being shit.

You never had shit sex where you did everything you could to make it good?

Never?

The pertinent point (that I read) is "start a thread about it"

Like I said, she should have waited for a popular person to do something she could put her story on.

Oh I'm sure it wouldn't have made any difference

You would have gotten away with it if it wasn't for those pesky kids. "
FTFY

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Worst message, yes, because it was a

message but I have never and would never start a thread about someone I've met, even if the sex wasn't as great as I hoped it would be,

If it wasn't great, I'd take some responsibility for it not being great rather than just blaming the man for it being shit.

You never had shit sex where you did everything you could to make it good?

Never?

The pertinent point (that I read) is "start a thread about it"

Like I said, she should have waited for a popular person to do something she could put her story on.

Oh I'm sure it wouldn't have made any difference

You would have gotten away with it because other popular people would have posted about people they have met too. "

I find it distasteful whichever way. Just my opinion. OP, you've every right to do what you will, however you want -- all the best.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"if they told the truth they mght not get any meets

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Seems that judging is all that does happen which is a shame considering the type of site this is oh the irony

She wasn't judging him. He said he could do things that he couldn't. I've come across men like that too.

In her opinion. That's a subjective judgement!

He promised her he would satisfy her, did he not? He didn't deliver what he boasted he could.

Spot on"

Yup, that's right actually! I digressed incorrectly.

It was the post and discretion I had issue with.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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Is it man bashing night?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

and you promised you wouldn't tell

What do you want to make those eyes at me for.....?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kinda feel bad for the guy who verified her the other day now lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

An whatever the fuck you dae, do not I reapet do not say 'bike' it drives the slaaaaats mento ffs

M1CKS

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night? "

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night? "

That's everynight in my case

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are"

I quite like a bashing. As long as it is what was promised mind.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Seems that judging is all that does happen which is a shame considering the type of site this is oh the irony

She wasn't judging him. He said he could do things that he couldn't. I've come across men like that too.

In her opinion. That's a subjective judgement!

He promised her he would satisfy her, did he not? He didn't deliver what he boasted he could. "

Actually no where in the list of thi gs she said he said did he mention satisfaction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night? "

Apparently so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Seems that judging is all that does happen which is a shame considering the type of site this is oh the irony

She wasn't judging him. He said he could do things that he couldn't. I've come across men like that too.

In her opinion. That's a subjective judgement!

He promised her he would satisfy her, did he not? He didn't deliver what he boasted he could.

Actually no where in the list of thi gs she said he said did he mention satisfaction"

And who knew I'd end the day agreeing a post of yours!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Kinda feel bad for the guy who verified her the other day now lol

Why? He always has lived up to high expectations

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple over a year ago

dukinfield

Fuck!!! And I tried all my best moves!!!

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I think people want to present themselves in the best light sexually more often than not. Maybe he enjoyed the chat side of things more? Maybe he wasn't as attracted to you as he thought he would be? There are a myriad of reasons and unless you ask him it'll be hard to narrow it down.

I hope he doesn't read this thread though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think people want to present themselves in the best light sexually more often than not. Maybe he enjoyed the chat side of things more? Maybe he wasn't as attracted to you as he thought he would be? There are a myriad of reasons and unless you ask him it'll be hard to narrow it down.

I hope he doesn't read this thread though."

Sadly though...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hope he isn't reading this thread poor bloke.

Great sex takes two people, maybe you weren't what you had said you were either. Just a thought.

Lesson learnt. Won't be meeting anyone who brags like that again.

What's your thoughts on your lack of discretion and need to bitch about it where it can be read by the person?

Seems that judging is all that does happen which is a shame considering the type of site this is oh the irony

She wasn't judging him. He said he could do things that he couldn't. I've come across men like that too.

In her opinion. That's a subjective judgement!

He promised her he would satisfy her, did he not? He didn't deliver what he boasted he could.

Spot on

Yup, that's right actually! I digressed incorrectly.

It was the post and discretion I had issue with. "

I have no idea who she's talking about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are"

How would you feel if the guy started a thread about how shit you were at giving him a blowjob, how he hated giving you oral sex because you smelled funny down there and he didn't find you sexy at all so his cock wouldn't stay hard?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't claim to be the bees knees in the sexual performance department and find the quietly confident approach suits me best as I'm not one for seriously boasting about anything.

As mentioned above it's down to the chemistry or lack there of....if you're both really into each other then most of the time that's conducive to great sex...or not so great if one or both are just going through the motions!

I'd rather my meets were pleasantly surprised by my abilities than be disappointed I didn't live up to any outlandish boasts I make.

But fuck knows,maybe the guy is a sexual athlete but just felt like he was chucking a sausage up a close

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that"

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like I said, she should have waited for a popular person to do something she could put her story on.

Oh I'm sure it wouldn't have made any difference

You would have gotten away with it because other popular people would have posted about people they have met too.

Popularity contest on here too? Thought that was just at school"

Welcome to the playground.....

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Maybe you just didn't 'do it' for him?

Or maybe it was stage-fright....

Sometimes things don't work out as expected and the unexpected droop can occur!

I'm sure he felt worse about it than you did if truth be told ..

Under promise and over deliver

Good plan!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Would she know he was talking about her? When you tell stories about men on here do we know who they are?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out. "

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Would she know he was talking about her? When you tell stories about men on here do we know who they are? "

Sometimes we do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums? "

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some Men lie verbally and some women lie visually. If he couldn't repeat perform maybe his tinky winkie wasn't attracted to what was on offer.

Wow that's harsh

Actually on this subject from observation

Some guys when they dont get the girls they want or fancy start getting desperate and lower thier standards in order to get a shag.

often due to competition they end up lowering them so much they end up with somone they dont find attractive any more and then cant perform and get even more frustarated.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful. "

A year or so...in answer to your question.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful. "

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It happened to me on a meet that I couldn't stay hard. If the lady I had met had put that in a forum post I would have been mortified. Admittedly I didn't big myself up beforehand, but the principle stands. I have to remind myself to walk in the other person's moccasins for a bit, as it might change the way I see things

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Would she know he was talking about her? When you tell stories about men on here do we know who they are? "

I don't need to know who it is to think the thread is distasteful and unnecessary.

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By *op gooserMan over a year ago

chester

"Some Men lie verbally and some women lie visually. If he couldn't repeat perform maybe his tinky winkie wasn't attracted to what was on offer.

Wow that's harsh

Actually on this subject from observation

Some guys when they dont get the girls they want or fancy start getting desperate and lower thier standards in order to get a shag.

often due to competition they end up lowering them so much they end up with somone they dont find attractive any more and then cant perform and get even more frustarated.

"
But not many would ever think of that possibility

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out. "

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

A year or so...in answer to your question. "

So, you must have seen a lot of threads and posts similar to this? And you always remark about discretion?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can someone suck my flaccid cock ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

A year or so...in answer to your question.

So, you must have seen a lot of threads and posts similar to this? And you always remark about discretion? "

I have done when I want to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they"

Not someone they are friends with. Or they do and make it look like a joke by adding a

Pitiful really.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In my opinion it's a balance, semantics and having similar benchmarks....

I have the best car around

It's a 2 litre sports

If you ride with me it's going to be so super comfortable, so thrilling, unbelievably fast and super exciting ...

If it's an uncomfortable rough poor ride because the OP is used to a certain benchmark that was not the same as his .....how is that her fault?

Or yes he lied to get to play....

or he doesn't know himself well enough ....

OP has a right to ask the forum what's the deal with promising the best five star food in town and delivering half a star food.....any man worth his salt would say .... this is not working let's call it quits .... any woman worth her salt would have already done her best to excite the gent ......

Socials and phone calls sort a good deal of "I'm the best" ones out .... and if the occasional Boaster gets through .... tell him the truth for you .... provided ur safe

Have socials.... take calls first ..... and continue to state your opinion on the forums .... you have a voice that is just as valid and the next forumite.....

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Can someone suck my flaccid cock ? "

No! Put it away and put your face back on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Not someone they are friends with. Or they do and make it look like a joke by adding a

Pitiful really. "

You see, that's quite an assumption, as I'd definitely call out a friend if they made this post. It'd make me question them absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can someone suck my flaccid cock ? "

Why not, your flaccid penis looks yummy with all those hair and low bollocks due to the warm weather

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Not someone they are friends with. Or they do and make it look like a joke by adding a

Pitiful really. "

Think I would rather stick to chatting to people at kestrels than coming on the forums again.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Some Men lie verbally and some women lie visually. If he couldn't repeat perform maybe his tinky winkie wasn't attracted to what was on offer.

Wow that's harsh

Actually on this subject from observation

Some guys when they dont get the girls they want or fancy start getting desperate and lower thier standards in order to get a shag.

often due to competition they end up lowering them so much they end up with somone they dont find attractive any more and then cant perform and get even more frustarated.

That too. Again, the penis knows even if the front brain is trying very hard to get into it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this gonna turn into a bitch fight? If so can some kint give me the heads up when to get the popcorn oot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or, he really was just a shit shag who talks bollocks.

Who knows.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my opinion it's a balance, semantics and having similar benchmarks....

I have the best car around

It's a 2 litre sports

If you ride with me it's going to be so super comfortable, so thrilling, unbelievably fast and super exciting ...

If it's an uncomfortable rough poor ride because the OP is used to a certain benchmark that was not the same as his .....how is that her fault?

Or yes he lied to get to play....

or he doesn't know himself well enough ....

Socials and phone calls sort a good deal of "I'm the best" ones out .... and if the occasional Boaster gets through .... tell him the truth for you .... provided ur safe

Have socials.... take calls first ..... and continue to state your opinion on the forums .... you have a voice that is just as valid and the next forumite....."

Never said she didn't have the right to post. I also have the right to think that a moment of thinking about another person's feelings impacted by such a post is more important (to me).

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

...

"Can someone suck my flaccid cock ?

Why not, your flaccid penis looks yummy with all those hair and low bollocks due to the warm weather "

I'll have seconds if you like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Worst message, yes, because it was a

message but I have never and would never start a thread about someone I've met, even if the sex wasn't as great as I hoped it would be,

If it wasn't great, I'd take some responsibility for it not being great rather than just blaming the man for it being shit.

You never had shit sex where you did everything you could to make it good?

Never?

The pertinent point (that I read) is "start a thread about it"

Like I said, she should have waited for a popular person to do something she could put her story on. "

Which poster do you think could have posted that OP and not get ripped?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they"

Yes, some would and do. Just because someone is popular doesn't mean they are universally so or that people become totally blind.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Not someone they are friends with. Or they do and make it look like a joke by adding a

Pitiful really. "

I'd say the same no matter who started the thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can someone suck my flaccid cock ?

No! Put it away and put your face back on

You sure you do not want to caress it with the tip of your tongue while I am singing spice girls ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Not someone they are friends with. Or they do and make it look like a joke by adding a

Pitiful really.

Think I would rather stick to chatting to people at kestrels than coming on the forums again. "

No, no -- there's plenty of fun and frivolity and welcome in the forums too. Don't be put off just because I vehemently didn't like your post. I'm just one person with one opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this gonna turn into a bitch fight? If so can some kint give me the heads up when to get the popcorn oot. "

If you get popcorn out I'll *insert word I'm not allowed to post* you with it.

(see I added a smiley so you know I'm joking)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can someone suck my flaccid cock ?

Why not, your flaccid penis looks yummy with all those hair and low bollocks due to the warm weather

I'll have seconds if you like "

Thanks, feel free to add any bashing comments

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes, some would and do. Just because someone is popular doesn't mean they are universally so or that people become totally blind.

They don't pull each other up for talking about previous meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they"

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Another perspective is it takes two to tango, but the pressure to perform on men is sometimes considerable. The psychological issues related to performance can creep up when least expected. As I said It happened to me. I had no idea I wasn't going to be able to perform but it happened. I'm really glad I'm not meeting anymore!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Not someone they are friends with. Or they do and make it look like a joke by adding a

Pitiful really.

Think I would rather stick to chatting to people at kestrels than coming on the forums again.

No, no -- there's plenty of fun and frivolity and welcome in the forums too. Don't be put off just because I vehemently didn't like your post. I'm just one person with one opinion.

But that would either get igno_ed or bashed as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, do you understand the reason I'm challenging your post, and can you see the potential for how it was even slightly a bit mean?

Rather than just feel you're getting "abused"? I'm just trying to provide my opinion.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Yes, some would and do. Just because someone is popular doesn't mean they are universally so or that people become totally blind.

They don't pull each other up for talking about previous meets. "

Who are these popular untouchables? If a thread is perceived as not being in the best taste by one person, you'll almost certainly read it.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Can someone suck my flaccid cock ?

No! Put it away and put your face back on

You sure you do not want to caress it with the tip of your tongue while I am singing spice girls ? "

Make it The Beverley Sisters and I'll give it some thought.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me"

You can take it though. When it's a woman they tend to pussyfoot around them.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

...

"Can someone suck my flaccid cock ?

Why not, your flaccid penis looks yummy with all those hair and low bollocks due to the warm weather

I'll have seconds if you like

Thanks, feel free to add any bashing comments

Can I bash you with my tongue?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me

You can take it though. When it's a woman they tend to pussyfoot around them. "

Is the op not a woman?

And i some how feel im going to end up being called a misogynist again...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can someone suck my flaccid cock ?

No! Put it away and put your face back on

You sure you do not want to caress it with the tip of your tongue while I am singing spice girls ? "

Put that thing away ffs geez me the boak (boak emoji)

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By *op gooserMan over a year ago

chester

"Yes, some would and do. Just because someone is popular doesn't mean they are universally so or that people become totally blind.

They don't pull each other up for talking about previous meets.

Who are these popular untouchables? If a thread is perceived as not being in the best taste by one person, you'll almost certainly read it. "
I think she means the 'Clique'

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

...

"Yes, some would and do. Just because someone is popular doesn't mean they are universally so or that people become totally blind.

They don't pull each other up for talking about previous meets.

Who are these popular untouchables? If a thread is perceived as not being in the best taste by one person, you'll almost certainly read it. "

Who bloody knows. No one and everyone I should imagine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me

You can take it though. When it's a woman they tend to pussyfoot around them.

Is the op not a woman?

And i some how feel im going to end up being called a misogynist again..."

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can someone suck my flaccid cock ? "

Would you want me to stop as soon as it's not flaccid?

Or do you have errectile dysfunction?

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me

You can take it though. When it's a woman they tend to pussyfoot around them. "

I get given to as good as I give

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, some would and do. Just because someone is popular doesn't mean they are universally so or that people become totally blind.

They don't pull each other up for talking about previous meets.

Who are these popular untouchables? If a thread is perceived as not being in the best taste by one person, you'll almost certainly read it. "

I wish I could remember the specific thread name I have in mind. There have been more but this one Lickety and myself posted on, along with a lot of other people. It was quite a while ago. Nobody was called out for being indiscreet, even though we were describing what happened on a bad meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, some would and do. Just because someone is popular doesn't mean they are universally so or that people become totally blind.

They don't pull each other up for talking about previous meets.

Who are these popular untouchables? If a thread is perceived as not being in the best taste by one person, you'll almost certainly read it.

Well that's indiscreet and distasteful of you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me

You can take it though. When it's a woman they tend to pussyfoot around them.

Is the op not a woman?

And i some how feel im going to end up being called a misogynist again...

Pmsl

Call yourself a man?

(Comedy reply to the 'is this man bashing..')

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can someone suck my flaccid cock ?

Would you want me to stop as soon as it's not flaccid?

Or do you have errectile dysfunction?

Just saying

Both mate, both

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me

You can take it though. When it's a woman they tend to pussyfoot around them.

Is the op not a woman?

And i some how feel im going to end up being called a misogynist again..."

First time poster Thx. Have you been misogynistic today then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, some would and do. Just because someone is popular doesn't mean they are universally so or that people become totally blind.

They don't pull each other up for talking about previous meets.

Who are these popular untouchables? If a thread is perceived as not being in the best taste by one person, you'll almost certainly read it. "

Swaggers in like Jagger*

Think she mean moi

M1CKS

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, some would and do. Just because someone is popular doesn't mean they are universally so or that people become totally blind.

They don't pull each other up for talking about previous meets.

Who are these popular untouchables? If a thread is perceived as not being in the best taste by one person, you'll almost certainly read it.

Well that's indiscreet and distasteful of you!"

Us. A whole load of us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me

You can take it though. When it's a woman they tend to pussyfoot around them.

Is the op not a woman?

And i some how feel im going to end up being called a misogynist again...

First time poster Thx. Have you been misogynistic today then? "

Are you saying the OP is a first time poster?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm off. This thread has brought up a lot of shit for me. Thanks OP!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Not someone they are friends with. Or they do and make it look like a joke by adding a

Pitiful really.

Think I would rather stick to chatting to people at kestrels than coming on the forums again.

No, no -- there's plenty of fun and frivolity and welcome in the forums too. Don't be put off just because I vehemently didn't like your post. I'm just one person with one opinion.

But that would either get igno_ed or bashed as well "

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. It was the post I didn't like, not you personally.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, some would and do. Just because someone is popular doesn't mean they are universally so or that people become totally blind.

They don't pull each other up for talking about previous meets.

Who are these popular untouchables? If a thread is perceived as not being in the best taste by one person, you'll almost certainly read it.

Swaggers in like Jagger*

Think she mean moi

M1CKS

You weren't alive on here then swagger jagger.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, some would and do. Just because someone is popular doesn't mean they are universally so or that people become totally blind.

They don't pull each other up for talking about previous meets.

Who are these popular untouchables? If a thread is perceived as not being in the best taste by one person, you'll almost certainly read it.

Well that's indiscreet and distasteful of you!

Us. A whole load of us. "

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me

You can take it though. When it's a woman they tend to pussyfoot around them.

Is the op not a woman?

And i some how feel im going to end up being called a misogynist again...

First time poster Thx. Have you been misogynistic today then? "

They've been posting for nearly a year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can someone suck my flaccid cock ?

Would you want me to stop as soon as it's not flaccid?

Or do you have errectile dysfunction?

Just saying

Both mate, both "

So it's gonna be a long suck? Get ur ass over here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me

You can take it though. When it's a woman they tend to pussyfoot around them.

Is the op not a woman?

And i some how feel im going to end up being called a misogynist again...

First time poster Thx. Have you been misogynistic today then?

Are you saying the OP is a first time poster?"

I thought that was what she said.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Not someone they are friends with. Or they do and make it look like a joke by adding a

Pitiful really.

Think I would rather stick to chatting to people at kestrels than coming on the forums again.

No, no -- there's plenty of fun and frivolity and welcome in the forums too. Don't be put off just because I vehemently didn't like your post. I'm just one person with one opinion.

But that would either get igno_ed or bashed as well

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. It was the post I didn't like, not you personally. "

Same here, but there appears to be an inability to acknowledge that however much I spell it out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me

You can take it though. When it's a woman they tend to pussyfoot around them.

Is the op not a woman?

And i some how feel im going to end up being called a misogynist again...

First time poster Thx. Have you been misogynistic today then?

Are you saying the OP is a first time poster?

I thought that was what she said. "

*If* she said that, it's a lie. Green arrow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me

You can take it though. When it's a woman they tend to pussyfoot around them.

Is the op not a woman?

And i some how feel im going to end up being called a misogynist again...

First time poster Thx. Have you been misogynistic today then?

They've been posting for nearly a year

My apologies. Not popular.

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By *op gooserMan over a year ago

chester

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Not someone they are friends with. Or they do and make it look like a joke by adding a

Pitiful really.

Think I would rather stick to chatting to people at kestrels than coming on the forums again.

No, no -- there's plenty of fun and frivolity and welcome in the forums too. Don't be put off just because I vehemently didn't like your post. I'm just one person with one opinion.

But that would either get igno_ed or bashed as well

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. It was the post I didn't like, not you personally.

Same here, but there appears to be an inability to acknowledge that however much I spell it out. "
Narcissists don't listen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me

You can take it though. When it's a woman they tend to pussyfoot around them.

Is the op not a woman?

And i some how feel im going to end up being called a misogynist again...

First time poster Thx. Have you been misogynistic today then?

Are you saying the OP is a first time poster?

I thought that was what she said.

*If* she said that, it's a lie. Green arrow."

I don't usually use the green arrow. She may have said something that made me think it was her first post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me

You can take it though. When it's a woman they tend to pussyfoot around them.

Is the op not a woman?

And i some how feel im going to end up being called a misogynist again...

First time poster Thx. Have you been misogynistic today then?

Are you saying the OP is a first time poster?

I thought that was what she said. "

First and last time poster

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By *aroleBaskinWoman over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me

You can take it though. When it's a woman they tend to pussyfoot around them.

Is the op not a woman?

And i some how feel im going to end up being called a misogynist again...

First time poster Thx. Have you been misogynistic today then?

Are you saying the OP is a first time poster?

I thought that was what she said.

*If* she said that, it's a lie. Green arrow.

I don't usually use the green arrow. She may have said something that made me think it was her first post. "

I think she said it's the first time she's started her own thread?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm off. This thread has brought up a lot of shit for me. Thanks OP!"

Look what you've done !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it man bashing night?

Seems as though it doesn't matter what gender you are

Anyone would think I was the first person to do this on here. People in glass houses and all that

But we're not in a glasshouse if we are disapproving of something we wouldn't do, we would in that case just be calling you out.

Except, some do it. How long have you been using the forums?

Some do indeed. Doesn't mean I can't find it distasteful.

No it doesn't. You can choose who you want to call out.

And no one would call out a popular person on here would they

Yes.

Hell i dont even know who is popular or not.

I think I'm fairly well known and liked by a few forumites but no one pulls any punches with me

You can take it though. When it's a woman they tend to pussyfoot around them.

Is the op not a woman?

And i some how feel im going to end up being called a misogynist again...

First time poster Thx. Have you been misogynistic today then?

They've been posting for nearly a year

My apologies. Not popular. "

Mmmm. I think I've already said that's irrelevant to me. But also by saying that doesn't make me the forum police do that my opinion only counts if I challenge every single person who posts a thread I find distasteful. And as previously stated, I had more reason to find this post of annoyance, which is my prerogative. I'd have a tad more sympathy if OP grasped and took on board the point being made.

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By *edMan over a year ago

cambridgeshire

Satisfaction GUARANTEED..

(I'll bring chocolate b

)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, you posted a thread previously about a vibrator. You've commented on many threads.

Don't misrepresent.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm off. This thread has brought up a lot of shit for me. Thanks OP!"

Let it go. It's not you. I hope you feel better soon.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

OP, I think discussing it in such a way is in poor taste. I don't think anyone dislikes you as a result - they don't know you. I think not discussing the ins and out of my sex life is quite a good thing and prevents any potential embarrassment or upset for the other party and perhaps something to consider. Sex is a complex thing as much as it is simple. Things don't go to plan often.

If you wouldn't like reading it about yourself, don't post it about others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, do you understand the reason I'm challenging your post, and can you see the potential for how it was even slightly a bit mean?

Rather than just feel you're getting "abused"? I'm just trying to provide my opinion. "

Speaking about mean? I saw many posts speaking about their meets!Yesterday had one ,about a couple! OP you didn't disrespect the forum rules! You are free to post what you wish!

Don't take any notice of strangers ,who are very brave online ! Rise above!

As for take two to tango,is a lie! If a guy as an issue,I don't perform miracles !

Keep strong! Stand for yourself!

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