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By *ild-1 OP Woman
over a year ago
york |
I have been with my fwb for almost a year.
He wants a mff and I do too but ... I'm scared & feel out of my depth. If it was mmf I would have no hesitation. My fear is I won't know how to please her & will be a disappointment to all involved.
Advice please .... |
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Finding a mff is going to be a mission in itself on here.
The best way is meeting people face to face in clubs so they can see you and knkw you are genuine and so is your partner. Not to mention understand straight away if they fancy you both. That makes a club your best bet.
So our advice would be first of all go to a good reputable club like the vanilla alternative for example and talk to people to find that confidence and go from there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't had a mff or mmf but I've met a women on my own only once), I was terrified for the same reasons as you, but it sort of came naturally. Just do what you like or ask  |
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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago
staffordshire |
"I have been with my fwb for almost a year.
He wants a mff and I do too but ... I'm scared & feel out of my depth. If it was mmf I would have no hesitation. My fear is I won't know how to please her & will be a disappointment to all involved.
Advice please ...."
This was one of my concerns when it was mentioned to me for a mff, that and my nervousness with new people. My advice would be talk to someone interested about your concerns, hopefully she'll be understanding and let you explore at your own pace, plus knowing this both could perhaps give you guidence if needed. |
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Go only at your pace. If you fancy mmf and are more ready, then explore how you'd like to prepare for this. Currently it sounds like his agenda too much. Remember, he's a fb and not a committed relationship partner, so you've got many more options open to you. Could visit a club with platonic friends etc and explore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was the same as you! Very nervous and didn't know what to expect.
It was arranged by a male friend!! It was also the other ladies first time so as far as I was concerned he had to lead the way, and he did. It was okay and we all had a bit of fun.
I ticked it off my to do list. For me the fantasy was better than the reality. |
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I'd have a talk with him and discuss any concerns you have and take things from there 
