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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1) No
2)Yes "
I think you'll find that's more or less 100% for men and the opposite for women solely due to one gets too many....and the other gets bugger all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try to read them but sometimes it can get a bit much so i have to bulk delete or hide my profile just to stop them.
I'm sure i missed a lot of amazing guys along the way but its just impossible to read everyone i just don't have the time.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I literally just found out the person doesn't know if you read them before deleting! I've been reading them before deleting so people dont get annoyed at a wasted effort! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice problem to have that you have the luxury of deleting unread messages....still get a tingling feeling when see that "1 unread" in the mail box."
Do you mark it unread....so it stays there? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"This thread highlights the fact why so many get so disillusioned with the site the way many treat messages received."
That's why I turned my filters on. That way people can't message me to get disillusioned in the first place. Took me a while of being on the site and feeling like I was honour bound to wade through ridiculous messages to figure that one out. Oddly enough, those didn't make me feel disillusioned either but that may just be me since I also don't tend to feel disillusioned when messages I send go unanswered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This thread highlights the fact why so many get so disillusioned with the site the way many treat messages received.
That's why I turned my filters on. That way people can't message me to get disillusioned in the first place. Took me a while of being on the site and feeling like I was honour bound to wade through ridiculous messages to figure that one out. Oddly enough, those didn't make me feel disillusioned either but that may just be me since I also don't tend to feel disillusioned when messages I send go unanswered."
Everyone is different, so some get disillusioned. Suppose it depends on empathy for others if people reply or not. We reply so at least they weren't left in limbo. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes if I can read the whole message without opening it and there are no pics attached...delete
Only if it's a short message surely"
majority of mine are very short. they cba and i reckon they've either; given up on writing messages and just chancing it now, or they don't actually wanna meet but getting desperate, or they just spam everyone in the hope of success. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"This thread highlights the fact why so many get so disillusioned with the site the way many treat messages received.
That's why I turned my filters on. That way people can't message me to get disillusioned in the first place. Took me a while of being on the site and feeling like I was honour bound to wade through ridiculous messages to figure that one out. Oddly enough, those didn't make me feel disillusioned either but that may just be me since I also don't tend to feel disillusioned when messages I send go unanswered.
Everyone is different, so some get disillusioned. Suppose it depends on empathy for others if people reply or not. We reply so at least they weren't left in limbo."
And hence why I apply filters so I no longer have to go through hours of admin every weekend replying to a message influx. Luckily those that got through in those early fab days had empathy for what it must be like on here from my perspective and were patient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This thread highlights the fact why so many get so disillusioned with the site the way many treat messages received.
That's why I turned my filters on. That way people can't message me to get disillusioned in the first place. Took me a while of being on the site and feeling like I was honour bound to wade through ridiculous messages to figure that one out. Oddly enough, those didn't make me feel disillusioned either but that may just be me since I also don't tend to feel disillusioned when messages I send go unanswered.
Everyone is different, so some get disillusioned. Suppose it depends on empathy for others if people reply or not. We reply so at least they weren't left in limbo."
Would you like a medal for your services to fab? |
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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
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If the inital preview of the message piques my interest, I'll take a peek at the profile. If they look/sound kinda normal'ish I'll maybe open the message....
Gotta be honest, if I do, my usual reply is Thanks...
Never did manage to get 'Twin Peaks' into that load of drivel!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice problem to have that you have the luxury of deleting unread messages....still get a tingling feeling when see that "1 unread" in the mail box.
Do you mark it unread....so it stays there? "
Didn't know you could do that, if I get one I try and remember that, cheeky sod! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This thread highlights the fact why so many get so disillusioned with the site the way many treat messages received.
That's why I turned my filters on. That way people can't message me to get disillusioned in the first place. Took me a while of being on the site and feeling like I was honour bound to wade through ridiculous messages to figure that one out. Oddly enough, those didn't make me feel disillusioned either but that may just be me since I also don't tend to feel disillusioned when messages I send go unanswered.
Everyone is different, so some get disillusioned. Suppose it depends on empathy for others if people reply or not. We reply so at least they weren't left in limbo.
Would you like a medal for your services to fab? "
 fancy a camping trip 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No and yes. To be honest if I spent my time on here sending messages I would have closed my account ages ago as 99.9% of the time it's pointless. You will enjoy Fab much more OP if you don't send messages at all. |
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