FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > New men on site .
New men on site .
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By *aff78 OP Man
over a year ago
Banbury |
Been on here a few months now and finding getting that first meet fairly elusive .
Which in turn means no write ups . I don't send friend requests as a rule as I find that rude .
I have pictures , I don't send chick pictures unless asked .
I am sure many people have advice , I get the feeling no matter the advice it's a case of keep going ! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen |
"One public photo and a three lounge profile isn't going to make you stand out from the crowd 
Take a good look around you, at the "competition", and see what the rest of the men are up to  "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aff78 OP Man
over a year ago
Banbury |
lol meanwhile I go blind !
Seriously that proves my point , a year is a long time . And if you think about it grossly unfair ( I'm not seeking sympathy just making a point ).
This in turn creates frustration and some men , many men start getting over aggressive , which in turn creates a bad impression of ALL new men on here .
Seriously to stick it a year , takes some sort of saint . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Been on here a few months now and finding getting that first meet fairly elusive .
Which in turn means no write ups . I don't send friend requests as a rule as I find that rude .
I have pictures , I don't send chick pictures unless asked .
I am sure many people have advice , I get the feeling no matter the advice it's a case of keep going ! "
Why would someone ask for chick pics - is there a poultry fetish going on that I'm not aware of |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aff78 OP Man
over a year ago
Banbury |
I take your point , but , do you build a profile over time . Or just put any old crap on there ? . Maybe less is more ?
As for " viewing the compitition " I would sooner spend my time looking at lovely ladies than hairy men |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Not even close to enough pics, a short and fairly dull profile text, and I can't imagine any woman seriously wanting to meet a stranger, in the cab of a lorry for a meet. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"lol meanwhile I go blind !
Seriously that proves my point , a year is a long time . And if you think about it grossly unfair ( I'm not seeking sympathy just making a point ).
This in turn creates frustration and some men , many men start getting over aggressive , which in turn creates a bad impression of ALL new men on here .
Seriously to stick it a year , takes some sort of saint . "
Grossly unfair? Can you explain? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I take your point , but , do you build a profile over time . Or just put any old crap on there ? . Maybe less is more ?
As for " viewing the compitition " I would sooner spend my time looking at lovely ladies than hairy men "
Well, if you're going to ignore the advice you've been given there's not much we can do to help. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"As for " viewing the compitition " I would sooner spend my time looking at lovely ladies than hairy men "
As would most of the male population on here. But no harm in checking out the guys who get meets to get some profile advice |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I take your point , but , do you build a profile over time . Or just put any old crap on there ? . Maybe less is more ?
As for " viewing the compitition " I would sooner spend my time looking at lovely ladies than hairy men "
Then you're not going to learn anything are you...  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aff78 OP Man
over a year ago
Banbury |
Again I was talking in general terms and , trying to get across the frustration levels some men will feel by being constantly knocked back .
The way life is , new women and couples on site will get lots of attention in a very short space of time .
Just start a profile stating your a female , put no pictures and just alone liner and hey presto full inbox ! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Been on here a few months now and finding getting that first meet fairly elusive .
Which in turn means no write ups . I don't send friend requests as a rule as I find that rude .
I have pictures , I don't send chick pictures unless asked .
I am sure many people have advice , I get the feeling no matter the advice it's a case of keep going ! "
one pic that you can't even see you in, and the whole bed in the truck thing is not going to attract many! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
•+• Access Denied •+• |
"I take your point , but , do you build a profile over time . Or just put any old crap on there ? . Maybe less is more ?
As for " viewing the compitition " I would sooner spend my time looking at lovely ladies than hairy men
Then you're not going to learn anything are you... "
exactly. dreamer mindset rather than a reality one.
all men are not at a disadvantage from being associated as the same all shit men, don't act like the women are stupid on here and do that.
all men are at an advantage to start off with coz there's less women wanting NSA sex than men are, it's the guys with more sought after qualities who get what they want on here. really is as simple as that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"lol meanwhile I go blind !
Seriously that proves my point , a year is a long time . And if you think about it grossly unfair ( I'm not seeking sympathy just making a point ).
This in turn creates frustration and some men , many men start getting over aggressive , which in turn creates a bad impression of ALL new men on here .
Seriously to stick it a year , takes some sort of saint . "
It's the ratio of single men to women and couples on here OP rather than guys getting aggressive, as a female I have been on the receiving end it not pleasant but certainly not the norm, good luck! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Again I was talking in general terms and , trying to get across the frustration levels some men will feel by being constantly knocked back .
The way life is , new women and couples on site will get lots of attention in a very short space of time .
Just start a profile stating your a female , put no pictures and just alone liner and hey presto full inbox ! "
Like it or not that's the reality of Fab though - now a year is a slight exaggeration, with a decent profile and pics, the right approach and low expectations there's nothing to stop single males getting meets within no time, just takes some longer than others is all.
If you hit the Reply + Quote button when responding it makes it easier to see who you're replying to. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I take your point , but , do you build a profile over time . Or just put any old crap on there ? . Maybe less is more ?
As for " viewing the compitition " I would sooner spend my time looking at lovely ladies than hairy men
Then you're not going to learn anything are you...
exactly. dreamer mindset rather than a reality one.
all men are not at a disadvantage from being associated as the same all shit men, don't act like the women are stupid on here and do that.
all men are at an advantage to start off with coz there's less women wanting NSA sex than men are, it's the guys with more sought after qualities who get what they want on here. really is as simple as that."
Couldn't have put it better myself.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
•+• Access Denied •+• |
"I take your point , but , do you build a profile over time . Or just put any old crap on there ? . Maybe less is more ?
As for " viewing the compitition " I would sooner spend my time looking at lovely ladies than hairy men
Then you're not going to learn anything are you...
exactly. dreamer mindset rather than a reality one.
all men are not at a disadvantage from being associated as the same all shit men, don't act like the women are stupid on here and do that.
all men are at an advantage to start off with coz there's less women wanting NSA sex than men are, it's the guys with more sought after qualities who get what they want on here. really is as simple as that.
Couldn't have put it better myself. "
except advantage was wrong, i meant disadvantage plus some of that was your words anyway, lol. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Been on here a few months now and finding getting that first meet fairly elusive .
Which in turn means no write ups . I don't send friend requests as a rule as I find that rude .
I have pictures , I don't send chick pictures unless asked .
I am sure many people have advice , I get the feeling no matter the advice it's a case of keep going ! "
Definitely start sending chick pics, fan girls love a nice cock unless it's fowl |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'm sorry , but I am neither ranting nor complaining it's called discussing . "
Your inexperience on this site shines through. Read what the more experienced fabbers on here do, check out the competition. Do something more original with your profile. And if you wish to call your complaining 'discussing' then I would try to curb that too. Because you won't win yourself any fans with your current attitude. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"And yet I know guys that fixed a meet within a week.... so maybe its not the site! "
A guy messaged us,Mrs got chatting to him and helped him with how to approach people, profile etc, was really pleased when he told us he had a meet the next day his veri is on his profile now, he messaged to say thanks |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Not a lot I can say to that .
As with much of this it's right place right time .
Nope, it's having a decent profile and offering what people actually want. "
Quite right. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"And yet I know guys that fixed a meet within a week.... so maybe its not the site!
A guy messaged us,Mrs got chatting to him and helped him with how to approach people, profile etc, was really pleased when he told us he had a meet the next day his veri is on his profile now, he messaged to say thanks "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aff78 OP Man
over a year ago
Banbury |
"I'm sorry , but I am neither ranting nor complaining it's called discussing .
Your inexperience on this site shines through. Read what the more experienced fabbers on here do, check out the competition. Do something more original with your profile. And if you wish to call your complaining 'discussing' then I would try to curb that too. Because you won't win yourself any fans with your current attitude. "
.
You mean you don't like me ? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
It seems to me that no manner of advise given is going to be taken on board, and only excuses given about how unfair the site is towards men and all those bad women have it too easy, what a shame!
If your not going help yourself, then I don't see the point of this thread at all |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'm sorry , but I am neither ranting nor complaining it's called discussing .
Your inexperience on this site shines through. Read what the more experienced fabbers on here do, check out the competition. Do something more original with your profile. And if you wish to call your complaining 'discussing' then I would try to curb that too. Because you won't win yourself any fans with your current attitude. .
You mean you don't like me ? "
No I dont mean that.
You're really not getting it are you? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It seems to me that no manner of advise given is going to be taken on board, and only excuses given about how unfair the site is towards men and all those bad women have it too easy, what a shame!
If your not going help yourself, then I don't see the point of this thread at all "
Read this!
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Op, my personal advice now is to maybe abandon this topic, it's not going well now, and go to the support forum and ask for profile advice."
Good point.
I for one am stepping away. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"you have only been on here 3 months it takes men at least a year to get one. my advice is to go to a club and meet some real people, getting chatting enjoy yourself."
No it don't lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *eesideMan
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Been on here a few months now and finding getting that first meet fairly elusive .
Which in turn means no write ups . I don't send friend requests as a rule as I find that rude .
I have pictures , I don't send chick pictures unless asked .
I am sure many people have advice , I get the feeling no matter the advice it's a case of keep going ! "
I think finding a meet on hear is like a game of ruelet and like(0-green) it almost never comes up. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'm sorry , but I am neither ranting nor complaining it's called discussing . "
Actually, it's called whining: "grossly unfair" that women don't fancy you??? Sadly in this world, you have to offer more than a tumble in the back of your lorry. It's certainly not tempting for me at all, nor is it for a lot of women, (if you actually read profiles, not just perv the pics). Your one photo isn't enticing nor is your bland profile write up. You may want to perv female profiles, but you won't learn how to catch one on here if you take umbrage instead of advice. Stop blaming everyone else and the site for your lack of action and take personal responsibility. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
•+• Access Denied •+• |
"Op, my personal advice now is to maybe abandon this topic, it's not going well now, and go to the support forum and ask for profile advice.
Good point.
I for one am stepping away. "
you seem very agreeable today.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Been on here a few months now and finding getting that first meet fairly elusive .
Which in turn means no write ups . I don't send friend requests as a rule as I find that rude .
I have pictures , I don't send chick pictures unless asked .
I am sure many people have advice , I get the feeling no matter the advice it's a case of keep going ! "
Welcome to the forums.
Have you read the forums before? You'll see how people are.
There's usually some good profile advice in the Introductions forum section.
However my advice would be to do your own thing. Have your profile the way YOU want it. Don't sell yourself to the forum masses in the hope of a shag. Be happy and you'll appeal to people like you.
Or perhaps out of all the 30,000 people on here you won't catch anyone's eye. I guess it all comes down to how desperate you are for a shag.
Good luck. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'm sorry , but I am neither ranting nor complaining it's called discussing .
Actually, it's called whining: "grossly unfair" that women don't fancy you??? Sadly in this world, you have to offer more than a tumble in the back of your lorry. It's certainly not tempting for me at all, nor is it for a lot of women, (if you actually read profiles, not just perv the pics). Your one photo isn't enticing nor is your bland profile write up. You may want to perv female profiles, but you won't learn how to catch one on here if you take umbrage instead of advice. Stop blaming everyone else and the site for your lack of action and take personal responsibility."
Nice one. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Single men don't need to be here for a year before they start getting meets, for some it only takes a matter of weeks.
The more successful men are those who have a good profile and pictures, send polite and respectful messages out and come across as nice people.
Because there are so many more single men than there are couples or single ladies the guys have to work much harder to succeed. There is no point moaning about it, just make an effort  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
To be a successful male fabber you need time, patience and dedication. Take people's advice on board and make some changes over time, not over minutes. Be a part of the forums and go to a couple of clubs-in other words be a part of our community.
This isn't tinder. Yes you can sometimes get quick meets but more often than not you need to shine above your competition, even if it's just for a moment! A moment where a couple or single female take notice. We all love sex here... That's a given, but what else are you going to do to earn the time of your fellow fabbers? When we meet we need to know that the person(s) we're meeting is not going to waste our time. Good luck Dude |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Single men don't need to be here for a year before they start getting meets, for some it only takes a matter of weeks.
The more successful men are those who have a good profile and pictures, send polite and respectful messages out and come across as nice people.
Because there are so many more single men than there are couples or single ladies the guys have to work much harder to succeed. There is no point moaning about it, just make an effort "
unfortunately you could send 20 mails to women and not 1 might be opened. women are alot more judgemental then guys to. they look for alot more which adds to the burden a bit more. I havnt the time to put in huge amounts of effort here. some might have, I don't. Bottom line is u might just get lucky and take off from there |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Generally I disagree 
Write your own profile
Don't look at others
Writing a false profile to con a lady into chatting is not right, you are who you are and that won't change regardless of pr profile advice
Most ladies on fab are pretty discerning and if you can't devise a seductive profile yourself then I doubt you are compatible with those ladies
There will be a lady who wants to play in the back of a truck so don't change that just wait for the right woman or accept that fab is not the right conduit for your charms
Out of all the advise about what fab women may or may not want the one thing most would agree on is they want honesty
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Generally I disagree
Write your own profile
Don't look at others
Writing a false profile to con a lady into chatting is not right, you are who you are and that won't change regardless of pr profile advice
Most ladies on fab are pretty discerning and if you can't devise a seductive profile yourself then I doubt you are compatible with those ladies
There will be a lady who wants to play in the back of a truck so don't change that just wait for the right woman or accept that fab is not the right conduit for your charms
Out of all the advise about what fab women may or may not want the one thing most would agree on is they want honesty
"
It's a running joke on here. People say they want honesty yet they then say 'have your profile in this particular format so you get a fuck'. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Generally I disagree
Write your own profile
Don't look at others
Writing a false profile to con a lady into chatting is not right, you are who you are and that won't change regardless of pr profile advice
Most ladies on fab are pretty discerning and if you can't devise a seductive profile yourself then I doubt you are compatible with those ladies
There will be a lady who wants to play in the back of a truck so don't change that just wait for the right woman or accept that fab is not the right conduit for your charms
Out of all the advise about what fab women may or may not want the one thing most would agree on is they want honesty
It's a running joke on here. People say they want honesty yet they then say 'have your profile in this particular format so you get a fuck'. "
There's nothing dishonest about having several good pics, a full description that gives and insight into the personality, and realising that a quick shag in the back of a truck is not what most women are looking for. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aff78 OP Man
over a year ago
Banbury |
"It seems to me that no manner of advise given is going to be taken on board, and only excuses given about how unfair the site is towards men and all those bad women have it too easy, what a shame!
If your not going help yourself, then I don't see the point of this thread at all "
Sorry you feel that way , as I say it's a discussion . I am taking things on board . But like many forums those that are right are right ! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Generally I disagree
Write your own profile
Don't look at others
Writing a false profile to con a lady into chatting is not right, you are who you are and that won't change regardless of pr profile advice
Most ladies on fab are pretty discerning and if you can't devise a seductive profile yourself then I doubt you are compatible with those ladies
There will be a lady who wants to play in the back of a truck so don't change that just wait for the right woman or accept that fab is not the right conduit for your charms
Out of all the advise about what fab women may or may not want the one thing most would agree on is they want honesty
It's a running joke on here. People say they want honesty yet they then say 'have your profile in this particular format so you get a fuck'.
There's nothing dishonest about having several good pics, a full description that gives and insight into the personality, and realising that a quick shag in the back of a truck is not what most women are looking for."
No the dishonesty would be if one does not know this without being told
The way a person crafts their own profile is the greatest insight into the person behind , and as I pointed out surely the idea is not to craft a profile that you think most will like but to craft one that attracts a woman who you will be compatible with ? Drafting a clichéd drag net is child's play but would one really want that as the following conversation would soon reveal the real personality
If the first thing he thought to put was sex in his cab then that is his mind set and desire and there will be women who want this , there will be others who want a sophisticated seduction and whatever is on his profile if he needs profile help he may not be able to continue the deception forward ? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aff78 OP Man
over a year ago
Banbury |
"Been on here a few months now and finding getting that first meet fairly elusive .
Which in turn means no write ups . I don't send friend requests as a rule as I find that rude .
I have pictures , I don't send chick pictures unless asked .
I am sure many people have advice , I get the feeling no matter the advice it's a case of keep going !
Welcome to the forums.
Have you read the forums before? You'll see how people are.
There's usually some good profile advice in the Introductions forum section.
However my advice would be to do your own thing. Have your profile the way YOU want it. Don't sell yourself to the forum masses in the hope of a shag. Be happy and you'll appeal to people like you.
Or perhaps out of all the 30,000 people on here you won't catch anyone's eye. I guess it all comes down to how desperate you are for a shag.
Good luck. "
I think that's the best and most sensible advice I have read on here .
I am not desperate or whining as has been said , merely trying to get the aggressive , in your face sort to have a look at themselves .
Thank you for the reply , I will now go perv at your pictures as it seems that , the consensus is that's what I do |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"It seems to me that no manner of advise given is going to be taken on board, and only excuses given about how unfair the site is towards men and all those bad women have it too easy, what a shame!
If your not going help yourself, then I don't see the point of this thread at all
Sorry you feel that way , as I say it's a discussion . I am taking things on board . But like many forums those that are right are right ! "
Well it is definitely not coming across as a discussion, as there was nothing to discuss at all, apart from how this site is unfair to new men, which just comes across as 'Oh woe is me' not an attractive trait |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aff78 OP Man
over a year ago
Banbury |
"To be a successful male fabber you need time, patience and dedication. Take people's advice on board and make some changes over time, not over minutes. Be a part of the forums and go to a couple of clubs-in other words be a part of our community.
This isn't tinder. Yes you can sometimes get quick meets but more often than not you need to shine above your competition, even if it's just for a moment! A moment where a couple or single female take notice. We all love sex here... That's a given, but what else are you going to do to earn the time of your fellow fabbers? When we meet we need to know that the person(s) we're meeting is not going to waste our time. Good luck Dude"
thanks ! Although I have no idea what tinder is lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aff78 OP Man
over a year ago
Banbury |
"Generally I disagree
Write your own profile
Don't look at others
Writing a false profile to con a lady into chatting is not right, you are who you are and that won't change regardless of pr profile advice
Most ladies on fab are pretty discerning and if you can't devise a seductive profile yourself then I doubt you are compatible with those ladies
There will be a lady who wants to play in the back of a truck so don't change that just wait for the right woman or accept that fab is not the right conduit for your charms
Out of all the advise about what fab women may or may not want the one thing most would agree on is they want honesty
It's a running joke on here. People say they want honesty yet they then say 'have your profile in this particular format so you get a fuck'. "
Lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
truckers do get meets plenty of people on here like them .... dont forget the forums are a very small part of fab ..and as someone has already said just be yourself last thing you want to be is another boring copykat profile .. tho i do have one bit of advice lose the sunglasses put a body shot pic on profile and keep a face pic private for you to send/swap with 
keep on truckin |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Don't think there's anything wrong with the site ,I've not been here long had two socials with same lady ,just socials as I think she wanted more than she admitted to (relationship),my advice realty is don't be a pest ,a knobhead or complete twat tbh ....like it or not the ladies do the choosing ,it doesn't matter how hard you try ...is she says no ..it ain't happening ...I choose to chat in the rooms a little ..believe me if your what one of the ladies want on here ...she will find you i |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aff78 OP Man
over a year ago
Banbury |
"truckers do get meets plenty of people on here like them .... dont forget the forums are a very small part of fab ..and as someone has already said just be yourself last thing you want to be is another boring copykat profile .. tho i do have one bit of advice lose the sunglasses put a body shot pic on profile and keep a face pic private for you to send/swap with
keep on truckin"
Ah decent well thought out advice . That will be my next move .
Thank you |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Generally I disagree
Write your own profile
Don't look at others
Writing a false profile to con a lady into chatting is not right, you are who you are and that won't change regardless of pr profile advice
Most ladies on fab are pretty discerning and if you can't devise a seductive profile yourself then I doubt you are compatible with those ladies
There will be a lady who wants to play in the back of a truck so don't change that just wait for the right woman or accept that fab is not the right conduit for your charms
Out of all the advise about what fab women may or may not want the one thing most would agree on is they want honesty
It's a running joke on here. People say they want honesty yet they then say 'have your profile in this particular format so you get a fuck'.
There's nothing dishonest about having several good pics, a full description that gives and insight into the personality, and realising that a quick shag in the back of a truck is not what most women are looking for.
No the dishonesty would be if one does not know this without being told
The way a person crafts their own profile is the greatest insight into the person behind , and as I pointed out surely the idea is not to craft a profile that you think most will like but to craft one that attracts a woman who you will be compatible with ? Drafting a clichéd drag net is child's play but would one really want that as the following conversation would soon reveal the real personality
If the first thing he thought to put was sex in his cab then that is his mind set and desire and there will be women who want this , there will be others who want a sophisticated seduction and whatever is on his profile if he needs profile help he may not be able to continue the deception forward ?"
I was not suggesting deception, I was suggesting changing his offer and actually putting more of himself into the profile - not that he 'use an approach'. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Been on here a few months now and finding getting that first meet fairly elusive .
Which in turn means no write ups . I don't send friend requests as a rule as I find that rude .
I have pictures , I don't send chick pictures unless asked .
I am sure many people have advice , I get the feeling no matter the advice it's a case of keep going !
Welcome to the forums.
Have you read the forums before? You'll see how people are.
There's usually some good profile advice in the Introductions forum section.
However my advice would be to do your own thing. Have your profile the way YOU want it. Don't sell yourself to the forum masses in the hope of a shag. Be happy and you'll appeal to people like you.
Or perhaps out of all the 30,000 people on here you won't catch anyone's eye. I guess it all comes down to how desperate you are for a shag.
Good luck.
I think that's the best and most sensible advice I have read on here .
I am not desperate or whining as has been said , merely trying to get the aggressive , in your face sort to have a look at themselves .
Thank you for the reply , I will now go perv at your pictures as it seems that , the consensus is that's what I do "
Then I must apologise for my lack of pics and entirely shit profile.   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aff78 OP Man
over a year ago
Banbury |
"Been on here a few months now and finding getting that first meet fairly elusive .
Which in turn means no write ups . I don't send friend requests as a rule as I find that rude .
I have pictures , I don't send chick pictures unless asked .
I am sure many people have advice , I get the feeling no matter the advice it's a case of keep going !
Welcome to the forums.
Have you read the forums before? You'll see how people are.
There's usually some good profile advice in the Introductions forum section.
However my advice would be to do your own thing. Have your profile the way YOU want it. Don't sell yourself to the forum masses in the hope of a shag. Be happy and you'll appeal to people like you.
Or perhaps out of all the 30,000 people on here you won't catch anyone's eye. I guess it all comes down to how desperate you are for a shag.
Good luck.
I think that's the best and most sensible advice I have read on here .
I am not desperate or whining as has been said , merely trying to get the aggressive , in your face sort to have a look at themselves .
Thank you for the reply , I will now go perv at your pictures as it seems that , the consensus is that's what I do
Then I must apologise for my lack of pics and entirely shit profile. "
I enjoyed the carrot |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"truckers do get meets plenty of people on here like them .... dont forget the forums are a very small part of fab ..and as someone has already said just be yourself last thing you want to be is another boring copykat profile .. tho i do have one bit of advice lose the sunglasses put a body shot pic on profile and keep a face pic private for you to send/swap with
keep on truckin
Ah decent well thought out advice . That will be my next move .
Thank you "
Congratulations, you finally got the bit of "advice" that you were waiting for...you can now happily continue your FAB journey content in the knowledge that the women who don't fancy a shag in the back of a truck are all wrong. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aff78 OP Man
over a year ago
Banbury |
"truckers do get meets plenty of people on here like them .... dont forget the forums are a very small part of fab ..and as someone has already said just be yourself last thing you want to be is another boring copykat profile .. tho i do have one bit of advice lose the sunglasses put a body shot pic on profile and keep a face pic private for you to send/swap with
keep on truckin
Ah decent well thought out advice . That will be my next move .
Thank you
Congratulations, you finally got the bit of "advice" that you were waiting for...you can now happily continue your FAB journey content in the knowledge that the women who don't fancy a shag in the back of a truck are all wrong."
are you genuinely that arsey ? Or just playing for effect ?
It takes all sorts in life and maybe u should try and be a bit more tolerant ! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"truckers do get meets plenty of people on here like them .... dont forget the forums are a very small part of fab ..and as someone has already said just be yourself last thing you want to be is another boring copykat profile .. tho i do have one bit of advice lose the sunglasses put a body shot pic on profile and keep a face pic private for you to send/swap with
keep on truckin
Ah decent well thought out advice . That will be my next move .
Thank you
Congratulations, you finally got the bit of "advice" that you were waiting for...you can now happily continue your FAB journey content in the knowledge that the women who don't fancy a shag in the back of a truck are all wrong. are you genuinely that arsey ? Or just playing for effect ?
It takes all sorts in life and maybe u should try and be a bit more tolerant ! "
You're just cross coz you can't perv my pics |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"you have only been on here 3 months it takes men at least a year to get one. my advice is to go to a club and meet some real people, getting chatting enjoy yourself."
I second that, a club is a good place to get yourself seen and verified |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"truckers do get meets plenty of people on here like them .... dont forget the forums are a very small part of fab ..and as someone has already said just be yourself last thing you want to be is another boring copykat profile .. tho i do have one bit of advice lose the sunglasses put a body shot pic on profile and keep a face pic private for you to send/swap with
Damm, nor can I lol
keep on truckin
Ah decent well thought out advice . That will be my next move .
Thank you
Congratulations, you finally got the bit of "advice" that you were waiting for...you can now happily continue your FAB journey content in the knowledge that the women who don't fancy a shag in the back of a truck are all wrong. are you genuinely that arsey ? Or just playing for effect ?
It takes all sorts in life and maybe u should try and be a bit more tolerant !
You're just cross coz you can't perv my pics "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It takes most single guys a year to get a veri. in that case, at my age, I hope that the bi undertaker ain't into necrophilia "
Seriously? I find that hard to believe |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Been on here a few months now and finding getting that first meet fairly elusive .
Which in turn means no write ups . I don't send friend requests as a rule as I find that rude .
I have pictures , I don't send chick pictures unless asked .
I am sure many people have advice , I get the feeling no matter the advice it's a case of keep going ! "
We did the club scene and those we met suggested this site. So those at the club are on our friends list.
After being on two months, we've had one couple meet. We've found the majority are just talk, aka, dreamers. But we treat meets as a bonus, we're hear for the club scene, that way, you're guaranteed to meet others. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"lol meanwhile I go blind !
Seriously that proves my point , a year is a long time . And if you think about it grossly unfair ( I'm not seeking sympathy just making a point ).
This in turn creates frustration and some men , many men start getting over aggressive , which in turn creates a bad impression of ALL new men on here .
Seriously to stick it a year , takes some sort of saint . "
It's a site that only single guys with tenacity and a willingness for flexibility, will likely do well with. There are no guarantees here, as with life, that there's someone for everyone even, however much time and energy is invested.
It would be worthwhile to know what your expectations are, whether realistic and to what extent you've been successful in similar ventures. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Chick pics??? I knew I was doing something wrong when I fired off loads of clock pics  "
I'm trying 'choc pics' next. I think I'll get lucky with one if my 100 messages ready to go. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
It's my awesome profile that does it. 