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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If there was such a guide what would you add.
I'll start. (After all it is my thread)
1. Who wants to meet now - does not necessarily mean they want to meet you. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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4) don't message someone as soon as they upload a pic, everyone does that.
5) guys who message as soon as you upload a pic hadn't noticed you before they were browsing for wank fodder and are probably far away or just after wanking so put your filters on and block everyone before uploading. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Giving a wink to someone's profile dosent mean we want to meet just means we liked your profile  "
that maybe what you mean, but its not what everyone means |
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"Don't let couples,single females treat you like a arse just because single guys out number everyone else  "
Too true. Just because single guys are the majority, doesn't mean they need to accept every kicking that comes their way for being scared of ending up on blacklists. Same for anyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't let couples,single females treat you like a arse just because single guys out number everyone else
I don't treat anyone like an arse thankyou very much."
I don't recall saying you personally. But yes it does happen with a few couples and singles females. Obviously not you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't let couples,single females treat you like a arse just because single guys out number everyone else
Too true. Just because single guys are the majority, doesn't mean they need to accept every kicking that comes their way for being scared of ending up on blacklists. Same for anyone "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If there was such a guide what would you add.
I'll start. (After all it is my thread)
1. Who wants to meet now - does not necessarily mean they want to meet you."
If their pics look like something out of a porn film do a reverse image search. |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen |
"Don't let couples,single females treat you like a arse just because single guys out number everyone else
I don't treat anyone like an arse thankyou very much.
I don't recall saying you personally. But yes it does happen with a few couples and singles females. Obviously not you "
Nor me and single men can act like arses just as much as women and couples. |
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"Don't let couples,single females treat you like a arse just because single guys out number everyone else
I don't treat anyone like an arse thankyou very much.
I don't recall saying you personally. But yes it does happen with a few couples and singles females. Obviously not you "
I'm a single woman so you did,anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't let couples,single females treat you like a arse just because single guys out number everyone else
I don't treat anyone like an arse thankyou very much.
I don't recall saying you personally. But yes it does happen with a few couples and singles females. Obviously not you
I'm a single woman so you did,anyway "
I should have added don't be a arse on the forums aswell  |
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"Don't let couples,single females treat you like a arse just because single guys out number everyone else
I don't treat anyone like an arse thankyou very much.
I don't recall saying you personally. But yes it does happen with a few couples and singles females. Obviously not you
I'm a single woman so you did,anyway
I should have added don't be a arse on the forums aswell "
No comment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't let couples,single females treat you like a arse just because single guys out number everyone else
I don't treat anyone like an arse thankyou very much.
I don't recall saying you personally. But yes it does happen with a few couples and singles females. Obviously not you
I'm a single woman so you did,anyway
I should have added don't be a arse on the forums aswell
No comment."
That's a 1st. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the internet...don't fall into the trap of filling in the gaps about someone...it's probably inaccurate- possibly wildly so. Meeting them is the only way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If there was such a guide what would you add.
I'll start. (After all it is my thread)
1. Who wants to meet now - does not necessarily mean they want to meet you."
When you have chatted and met all of their criteria and challenges along the way, still be prepared for silence or the slow, slow, slow game. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try to keep your expectations in check.
When messaging try for something meaningful; use real words and sentences.
Deal with the rejection its part of the lifestyle. |
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Rember if you read something once and it annoys you there is no posibilerty you have misread it and the person who wrote it clearly is having a go at you specifically. Cos text always is easier to understand than people talking reasonably to each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rember if you read something once and it annoys you there is no posibilerty you have misread it and the person who wrote it clearly is having a go at you specifically. Cos text always is easier to understand than people talking reasonably to each other"
This 100% |
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Anytime a single male profile posts, asking how to get their wife into swinging, drop whatever you are doing and it's an all out race to be the first one to say
"Show her your profile"
I'll stop stirring now |
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"Rember if you read something once and it annoys you there is no posibilerty you have misread it and the person who wrote it clearly is having a go at you specifically. Cos text always is easier to understand than people talking reasonably to each other"
Why are you constantly picking on me???
Mind your own business!!  |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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have more than one profile, you don't have to upgrade both but, it's good to see who is randomly spamming/copy and pasting to all in your area.
use similar pics to see who is taking notice of you rather than who has fetishised your more obvious features. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you annoy someone on the forums it's guaranteed that the terms "narcissism" "ego trip" and "clique" will be thrown at you by them in an attempt to grind your gears.
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Remember forumites know EVERYTHING so if you have anything form an embarrassing sexual problem (we LOVE those), a relationship issue or a financial query - the forum is ABSOLUTELY the best place to get your questions answered/discuss personal problems!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Font ramble on and on when your posting
Telling every one about your day ans how the weather is. What you had foe breakfast ans your plans foe the rest of he day , just don't keep wittering on about every thing and any thing and get to the point , don't beat around the bush or go around the houses ,
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"The Fab Forums are sponsered* by popcorn makers, except for Shags posts, which are sponsered by Haribo.
*this could be spelt wrong"
it's sponsored, yes. hope you will use that word again sometime else i just wasted one minute of my life here. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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If the profile has an age range of 18-99 it doesn't automatically follow that they'll shag 18 or 99yr olds. What it usually means is they're pissed up lazy barstards on a Fri/Sat night who want a fuck yesterday! or people that don't want to lessen their changes by putting an age range.
Not that many of them are likely to shag a 99yr old still..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If the profile has an age range of 18-99 it doesn't automatically follow that they'll shag 18 or 99yr olds. What it usually means is they're pissed up lazy barstards on a Fri/Sat night who want a fuck yesterday! or people that don't want to lessen their changes by putting an age range.
Not that many of them are likely to shag a 99yr old still..
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I love how you put not that 'many'. |
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