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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You know the ones, the build up is amazing but actually cumming is a total let down, so annoying!! (Can I just add before the, you need someone who knows what they doing starts, I'm talking about when you are playing alone!) |
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I think you're referring to those solo orgasms that we all enjoy alone? If so, I know those... I find porno, that includes some favourite naughty fun can help, I seek to immerse my thoughts in being present in the onscreen action.
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By *omez42Man
over a year ago
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Sunday morning 
Everything was working 6 hours before, when it was time for the next round everything felt right, her mouth was doing wondrous things!
All the signs were there, all the feelings, the shudders, everything.
When it. Was over, she asked why I stopped. I replied that I had cum. "Oh no you didn't".
I had cum, just dry, never done that before  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know the ones, the build up is amazing but actually cumming is a total let down, so annoying!! (Can I just add before the, you need someone who knows what they doing starts, I'm talking about when you are playing alone!)"
Haha yes this happened yesterday it so frustrating lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have this kind of orgasm quite a lot where I'm not even sure it's happened. I'd probably be a much happier person if I didn't!!
Wow, gorgeous profile pics x
Are these solo orgasms?"
Thanks lovely! 
Solo and with a partner, nothing to do with technique, it just happens sometimes. (far more often than I wish it would ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know what you mean. Then other times, you have a fantastic orgasm that comes out of nowhere. "
Think that's the problem, you try and recreate it and nah, it's not happening! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's been happening to me far too much recently, I can't even remember what a good orgasm feels like "
I know the feeling, my sex drive seems to have up left the past couple of weeks, not happy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know the ones, the build up is amazing but actually cumming is a total let down, so annoying!! (Can I just add before the, you need someone who knows what they doing starts, I'm talking about when you are playing alone!)"
Yep. Totally had that exact thing happen this morning. So so annoying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's been happening to me far too much recently, I can't even remember what a good orgasm feels like
I know the feeling, my sex drive seems to have up left the past couple of weeks, not happy "
If I work out a fix, I'll let you know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh yeah I know this feeling. Or you get right to point of orgasm and then nothing you just cant get over that last hurdle to achieve the finished product!!
This has been me for the last 3 weeks, I have tried everything I even indulged in phone sex but still couldn't get the ending I wanted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know the ones, the build up is amazing but actually cumming is a total let down, so annoying!! (Can I just add before the, you need someone who knows what they doing starts, I'm talking about when you are playing alone!)"
Haha yes this happened yesterday it so frustrating lol. |
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"You know the ones, the build up is amazing but actually cumming is a total let down, so annoying!! (Can I just add before the, you need someone who knows what they doing starts, I'm talking about when you are playing alone!)"
Yes, this happens from time to time. I have to work hard to achieve orgasm and I rarely have more than one. So when it's like this it's annoying but I try to reflect on the sensations leading up to get something out of it. |
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"It's been happening to me far too much recently, I can't even remember what a good orgasm feels like
I know the feeling, my sex drive seems to have up left the past couple of weeks, not happy
If I work out a fix, I'll let you know!"
Please do! I think I know what's causing mine so I'll be even less impressed if it's true!! |
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"Oh yeah I know this feeling. Or you get right to point of orgasm and then nothing you just cant get over that last hurdle to achieve the finished product!! "
It's not just you ladies this happens to, us blokes can suffer too. Had this a fair few times on the second or third of the day where I run out of energy first.
The current FWB does get some advantage from it, as round two is usually a major eye rolling leg shaker for her, but ultimately it still feels a bit of a let down compared to the times it's all fireworks for both of us  |
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"It's been happening to me far too much recently, I can't even remember what a good orgasm feels like
I know the feeling, my sex drive seems to have up left the past couple of weeks, not happy
If I work out a fix, I'll let you know!
Please do! I think I know what's causing mine so I'll be even less impressed if it's true!! "
I have zero physical sex drive, and never have done due to my hormones being screwed up all my life. HRT has helped align things a little but never a sign of the natural sex drive emerging.
Instead I create my own emotional sex drive to replace that. I use thought processes to stimulate myself and this has worked really well for me. Porn, and often softer porn at that, helps to add to the thoughts and fuel the imagination. It look a long time to develop this so it's not an instant fix. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's been happening to me far too much recently, I can't even remember what a good orgasm feels like
I know the feeling, my sex drive seems to have up left the past couple of weeks, not happy
If I work out a fix, I'll let you know!
Please do! I think I know what's causing mine so I'll be even less impressed if it's true!!
I have zero physical sex drive, and never have done due to my hormones being screwed up all my life. HRT has helped align things a little but never a sign of the natural sex drive emerging.
Instead I create my own emotional sex drive to replace that. I use thought processes to stimulate myself and this has worked really well for me. Porn, and often softer porn at that, helps to add to the thoughts and fuel the imagination. It look a long time to develop this so it's not an instant fix."
I've never had a raging sex drive but when I'm horny, it's been game on. But now, just not even getting to the super horny stage.
Thank you for the tips, will certainly take them on board! |
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"You know the ones, the build up is amazing but actually cumming is a total let down, so annoying!! (Can I just add before the, you need someone who knows what they doing starts, I'm talking about when you are playing alone!)"
Sounds pants |
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"You know the ones, the build up is amazing but actually cumming is a total let down, so annoying!! (Can I just add before the, you need someone who knows what they doing starts, I'm talking about when you are playing alone!)
Sounds pants"
It is! |
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Amazing build up to what you think will be an epic orgasm and then bam! ''Tis pretty shite 
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By myself I mean!