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How far do you bend?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you find a profile that matches yours, but there's something you don't normally budge on. It could be various reasons. Bad experiences even good experiences e.g. Age -your able to may get on with a certain age group better. (First thing I thought of)
But what is the thing/things you will compromise on.
Distance apart? Beards? Body size? Smoking? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Beards are a no-no for me
Other than that I don't think any of my preferences (age, distance etc) are 'hard-coded' if we get on well and I like them.
Other than cleanliness - they must be clean!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing for the wrong person, almost everything for the right one.  "
Yes. This. I've found myself attracted to People I wouldn't have described as the type I fancy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably age, but they would have to be a very young at heart 50 something.
I don't have any other strict rules, except for bigots and racists, and I won't make exceptions for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm fairly fluid with what I look for. I have preferences set out but they are rough guidelines.
If I chat and get on with someone then it's easy to relax one or other. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Probably age, but they would have to be a very young at heart 50 something.
I don't have any other strict rules, except for bigots and racists, and I won't make exceptions for them. "
I think the same. Somebody's age is only a number. Somebody attitude is a reflection of what type of person I think you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few things but depends on the guy.. i wont change everything though even if he feels to be the right one i have to have my principals at times & stick to them or i get hurt |
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I'm not going to bend over backwards, not at my age 
Though I might be considered a flexible friend 
I do have general preferences, but it's not as if I'm making an exception if I choose to meet.
Meeting with someone is because I want to meet THEM.
Pure and simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are flexible,to a point,on our age settings,distance is open to discussion,but we do insist on guys being able to accommodate,and sending their face pic.(even though we don't send ours n say so on our profile)
Yes it means we don't get as many meets as maybe we would like,but we can live with that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The way I've seen it and feel If a man/woman says he's not got a fixed type or preference, and is flexible on alsorts of things here. It always looks like he'll shag anything.
If your not willing to change your preferences. Eg- I'm 41 soon (don't forget my birthday ) and those who cap at 40. Then your fussy/picky b'stard.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Generally I'm totally inflexible, however for the first time in my years on Fab I am actually seriously reconsidering my age restrictions for one rather amazing lady. |
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"I won't meet anyone who cheats.
The age thing I have come to be a little flexible with for the right person. "
The problem is, with most "cheaters" is that you don't know you're being cheated on until it's too late.
There are very few people who are upfront and honest about marital situations on their profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've matched with the perfect couple online, met in person and it just jarred.
Similarly met with couples that due to age, distance or other criteria weren't 'right' but made us laugh and a social sounded fun and found the best playmates.
Too rigid and you can miss out on something unexpected and fantastic fun? |
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"When you find a profile that matches yours, but there's something you don't normally budge on. It could be various reasons. Bad experiences even good experiences e.g. Age -your able to may get on with a certain age group better. (First thing I thought of)
But what is the thing/things you will compromise on.
Distance apart? Beards? Body size? Smoking? "
I stick to my profile requirements, no exceptions, that's why I put them there in the first place |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm fairly flexible in all honesty. I won't meet racists or people who reveal themselves to be an 'ist.
What I don't like is when people make certain exceptions for me; as in they only meet Caucasians but they'll meet me.  |
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"I'm fairly flexible in all honesty. I won't meet racists or people who reveal themselves to be an 'ist.
What I don't like is when people make certain exceptions for me; as in they only meet Caucasians but they'll meet me. "
Not even a cunilinguist?   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm fairly flexible in all honesty. I won't meet racists or people who reveal themselves to be an 'ist.
What I don't like is when people make certain exceptions for me; as in they only meet Caucasians but they'll meet me.
Not even a cunilinguist? "
Scientist? Your limiting yourself quite a bit Meli. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
I'm a fussy fecker but if I particularly like someone's looks or personality then I'll give for most of my no-no reasons
However I don't tend to meet anyone who smokes heavily as I'm an ex smoker and we are all bitches |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I won't meet anyone who cheats.
The age thing I have come to be a little flexible with for the right person.
The problem is, with most "cheaters" is that you don't know you're being cheated on until it's too late.
There are very few people who are upfront and honest about marital situations on their profile "
But u can almost always tell when someone is cheating. I have chatted to a few and got on really well then when it came to meeting things became apparent. Yes, I cannot guarantee I am meeting someone who isn't in a relationship but it's not something I would do intentionally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went out of my preferences before and regretted it. I have a penchant for older men, not loads older but late 30s early 40s, however once I went with a guy younger than me. Big mistake and reminded me why I prefer older guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm fairly flexible in all honesty. I won't meet racists or people who reveal themselves to be an 'ist.
What I don't like is when people make certain exceptions for me; as in they only meet Caucasians but they'll meet me. "
I feel the same albeit for a different reason. I don't need anyone to bend their rules to meet me, I do perfectly well thank you kindly.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can put my foot behind my head. 
Oh wait .... that's not what you meant is it ....
Maybe not but it's *very* interesting information ...  "
Always working aren't you Dan. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can put my foot behind my head.
Oh wait .... that's not what you meant is it ....
You see now that's I what I thought this thread was about. Yoga moves and how flexible you are. "
It's now about both. The question has no right or wrong answers.
See, flexible in each and every sense of the word. |
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