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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Throw us a frikking bone here,,,,

Are 6 hrs after msg read too long to wait for a reply from a so called "Horny male" ( other names are available") or are we dealing with another fabknobhead.coms/Ithinkso

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

P.S. Pretty new here but learning fast...we think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe they haven't been online? I sometimes read messages but maybe don't have the time to reply, or it isn't a convenient time to write a decent reply. Real life comes before Fab for me, as I'm sure it does for many others too.

Patience is a virtue.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

I sometimes take a lot longer to reply. If it's a quick 'no thanks' message, that's ok but if it's someone I'm interested in talking to then I wait until I have time to reply properly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"P.S. Pretty new here but learning fast...we think"

maybe they are contemplating...err stuff

chances are though, they are out there in the real world, having a life

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Fair comment. On a learning curve so thanks for a candid reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"P.S. Pretty new here but learning fast...we think

maybe they are contemplating...err stuff

chances are though, they are out there in the real world, having a life

sorry about the last comment deleted we meant to say..

LOL possibly but the negativity surrounding single males on this site is glaringly stereotyipic. We'e turned up ( after reading and digesting comments by couples on the forum regarding single men) expecting the very worse of the singleton guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"P.S. Pretty new here but learning fast...we think

maybe they are contemplating...err stuff

chances are though, they are out there in the real world, having a life

Do you think he was contemplating his *claimed* 11 inches lol

Honestly its so difficult to separate the wheat from the chap ( no pun intended) on here! Are all swinging sites the same or is this different? Do all the men on here lie and pretend or is it just a "man" thing?

Confused.chom?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"P.S. Pretty new here but learning fast...we think

maybe they are contemplating...err stuff

chances are though, they are out there in the real world, having a life

Do you think he was contemplating his *claimed* 11 inches lol

Confused.chom? "

There are plenty of great people on here. Complaining because someone hasn't replied immediately is very off putting and chasing for a response turns us off completely.

Everyone is busy with work/kids/real life and can't always respond immediately

Or they've gone off you

Or they've got cold feet

Whichever it is, it's all normal, just crack on and find someone else to converse with

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe the hotty he's been trying to fuck for weeks has popped up & offered him a little respite tonight...you think he should log on while with her to make sure he's not a knob head to someone he may not even know messaged?

Just a thought...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

6 hrs isnt immediate m'boy

6 hrs is 3/4 of a working day Not immediate Get a grig!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe the hotty he's been trying to fuck for weeks has popped up & offered him a little respite tonight...you think he should log on while with her to make sure he's not a knob head to someone he may not even know messaged?

Just a thought..."

Yeah maybe youve hit the nail on the head. Never know!

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By *itsmcgee4Couple over a year ago

Central

Your profile says "no answer means no thanks"

Maybe he has the same philosophy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"6 hrs isnt immediate m'boy

6 hrs is 3/4 of a working day Not immediate Get a grig!"

Sorry ..M'lady.........not m'.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your profile says "no answer means no thanks"

Maybe he has the same philosophy

What....after a wink ( with an "I" and a previous message. Maybe your'e right. Maybe i/we expect dishonesty rather that honesty? I dunno

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your profile says "no answer means no thanks"

Maybe he has the same philosophy

What....after a wink ( with an "I" and a previous message. Maybe your'e right. Maybe i/we expect dishonesty rather that honesty? I dunno"

And in fairness maybe we should have explained our dilemma more clearly.

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By *itsmcgee4Couple over a year ago

Central

"Your profile says "no answer means no thanks"

Maybe he has the same philosophy

What....after a wink ( with an "I" and a previous message. Maybe your'e right. Maybe i/we expect dishonesty rather that honesty? I dunno"

Doesn't sound dishonest as such, maybe he just changed his mind after you exchanged a message or two. Happens.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Why are you assuming that single men should be waiting on you? What would you do if a single man messaged you? Reply immediately?

Seriously, there are some idiots on this site, and some men can be bloody awful, but the majority of them are fine. So pre-assuming that they are going to mess you around is likely to be a self fulfilling prophecy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"P.S. Pretty new here but learning fast...we think

maybe they are contemplating...err stuff

chances are though, they are out there in the real world, having a life

Do you think he was contemplating his *claimed* 11 inches lol

Confused.chom?

There are plenty of great people on here. Complaining because someone hasn't replied immediately is very off putting and chasing for a response turns us off completely.

Everyone is busy with work/kids/real life and can't always respond immediately

Or they've gone off you

Or they've got cold feet

Whichever it is, it's all normal, just crack on and find someone else to converse with

Ruby"

This!

I often get 3-4 chasing messages before I even get chance to reply. It can be very off putting x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why are you assuming that single men should be waiting on you? What would you do if a single man messaged you? Reply immediately?

If we'd have messaged a guy we'd have assumed we were interested and taken the time ( somewhere within at least 6 hrs) to reply to a reply!

The question only asked for a simple Yes/No answer as we asked as new(ish) members with minimum experience of this Website. Take it easy FFS and try not to read our future with "unfulfilled prophesies- its not Youre not Mystic Meg for fucks sake

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why are you assuming that single men should be waiting on you? What would you do if a single man messaged you? Reply immediately?

If we'd have messaged a guy we'd have assumed we were interested and taken the time ( somewhere within at least 6 hrs) to reply to a reply!

Yeah, I think I might have an idea of why the poor guy hasn't replied.

The OP is a perfect example of the attitude some people have towards single guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"P.S. Pretty new here but learning fast...we think

maybe they are contemplating...err stuff

chances are though, they are out there in the real world, having a life

Do you think he was contemplating his *claimed* 11 inches lol

Confused.chom?

There are plenty of great people on here. Complaining because someone hasn't replied immediately is very off putting and chasing for a response turns us off completely.

Everyone is busy with work/kids/real life and can't always respond immediately

Or they've gone off you

Or they've got cold feet

Whichever it is, it's all normal, just crack on and find someone else to converse with

Ruby

This!

I often get 3-4 chasing messages before I even get chance to reply. It can be very off putting x"

Thanks Ruby ! Completely missed your post ( and the the lady who repeated it TY) VOICE OF REASON AT LAST !

Some very fiesty reationary folks about !

Cheers dudes appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why are you assuming that single men should be waiting on you? What would you do if a single man messaged you? Reply immediately?

If we'd have messaged a guy we'd have assumed we were interested and taken the time ( somewhere within at least 6 hrs) to reply to a reply!

Yeah, I think I might have an idea of why the poor guy hasn't replied.

The OP is a perfect example of the attitude some people have towards single guys on here."

Yeah TY You.

..... dont really like your opinion being challenged do you sweetpea!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why are you assuming that single men should be waiting on you? What would you do if a single man messaged you? Reply immediately?

If we'd have messaged a guy we'd have assumed we were interested and taken the time ( somewhere within at least 6 hrs) to reply to a reply!

Yeah, I think I might have an idea of why the poor guy hasn't replied.

The OP is a perfect example of the attitude some people have towards single guys on here."

Did try to message you but you already have my/Our type blocked?

Why comment when we cant contact you personally to speak out of view of the website?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"P.S. Pretty new here but learning fast...we think

maybe they are contemplating...err stuff

chances are though, they are out there in the real world, having a life

Do you think he was contemplating his *claimed* 11 inches lol

Confused.chom? "

if that's what he is claiming then no wonder you are keen for him to respond

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Throw us a frikking bone here,,,,

Are 6 hrs after msg read too long to wait for a reply from a so called "Horny male" ( other names are available") or are we dealing with another fabknobhead.coms/Ithinkso

Be patient.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Throw us a frikking bone here,,,,

Are 6 hrs after msg read too long to wait for a reply from a so called "Horny male" ( other names are available") or are we dealing with another fabknobhead.coms/Ithinkso

Be patient.

Thank you

Will try but its difficult after reading the negativity surrounding the single guys on the forums

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why are you assuming that single men should be waiting on you? What would you do if a single man messaged you? Reply immediately?

If we'd have messaged a guy we'd have assumed we were interested and taken the time ( somewhere within at least 6 hrs) to reply to a reply!

Yeah, I think I might have an idea of why the poor guy hasn't replied.

The OP is a perfect example of the attitude some people have towards single guys on here.

Yeah TY You.

..... dont really like your opinion being challenged do you sweetpea!"

If you manage to challenge it then I may notice. I'm pointing out your totally unreasonable expectations of a human being on here.

I've been messaging a guy. I tend not to get a reply earlier than 12 to 18 hours after my message to him. The reason why I'm not complaining on the forum about him is because I know he is a human being, with a life, and maybe other women to message, and not some kind of robot that should be waiting slavishly for my messages.

If you can't see that your expectations are completely unreasonable and you're coming across as unnecessarily aggressive against people who don't agree with you then OK. You do you. Good luck.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why are you assuming that single men should be waiting on you? What would you do if a single man messaged you? Reply immediately?

If we'd have messaged a guy we'd have assumed we were interested and taken the time ( somewhere within at least 6 hrs) to reply to a reply!

Yeah, I think I might have an idea of why the poor guy hasn't replied.

The OP is a perfect example of the attitude some people have towards single guys on here.

Did try to message you but you already have my/Our type blocked?

Why comment when we cant contact you personally to speak out of view of the website?

There are no rules that state I should allow people to contact me privately to debate a forum post.

I block couples as I have no intention of meeting them. My choice, like its his choice not to reply to you immediately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Throw us a frikking bone here,,,,

Are 6 hrs after msg read too long to wait for a reply from a so called "Horny male" ( other names are available") or are we dealing with another fabknobhead.coms/Ithinkso

Be patient.

Thank you

Will try but its difficult after reading the negativity surrounding the single guys on the forums "

Should have added we're newish so not used to the politics and ambience's of online communications- especially on a sexually orientated website - perhaps we should have anticipated it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why are you assuming that single men should be waiting on you? What would you do if a single man messaged you? Reply immediately?

If we'd have messaged a guy we'd have assumed we were interested and taken the time ( somewhere within at least 6 hrs) to reply to a reply!

Yeah, I think I might have an idea of why the poor guy hasn't replied.

The OP is a perfect example of the attitude some people have towards single guys on here.

Did try to message you but you already have my/Our type blocked?

Why comment when we cant contact you personally to speak out of view of the website?

There are no rules that state I should allow people to contact me privately to debate a forum post.

I block couples as I have no intention of meeting them. My choice, like its his choice not to reply to you immediately."

Accepted and appreciated.

Neither are we expected to listed to drab self serving monologue. Please reciprocate ;-0 .