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over a year ago
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"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ..."
Don't have the discussion with him, just move in and bring them with you  |
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"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ...
Don't have the discussion with him, just move in and bring them with you "
I guess so, since we are buying the house together ..... |
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"Hold on...how are your cats not already considered as fully fledged family members?"
Exactly they're not new cats, what does he expect you to do with them? |
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"Hold on...how are your cats not already considered as fully fledged family members?
They are by me and the kids, but he wont admit he cares (just feeds them treats on the sly)"
That does seem like quite a man thing. I caught myself letting my evil cat lick my nose the other day  |
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Don't try to convince him. Slip into the conversation that the cats will love their new home and they will need acclimatising to their new surroundings.
He should realise it's not up for discussion and they come with you.
He should know that anyway. |
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"Hold on...how are your cats not already considered as fully fledged family members?
Exactly they're not new cats, what does he expect you to do with them?
I've 1 or 2 ideas mwhahahaha  "
I can find out where you live and make you regret uttering those words you know |
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"Hasn't he taken it as a given, they will be coming along?"
You know what he is like .... I was reluctant to move with them first due to what happens to cats in Croydon, but now it is happening in this area too |
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"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ..."
Build them a Granny Annex. You can call it the Pussy Palace  |
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"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ..."
Tell him what the cats mean to you!they are your family,or the full package or nothing! cook a nice meal,nice underwear and plan in action! |
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"Hasn't he taken it as a given, they will be coming along?
You know what he is like .... I was reluctant to move with them first due to what happens to cats in Croydon, but now it is happening in this area too"
Oooooooooo, what's happening to cats? |
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"Hold on...how are your cats not already considered as fully fledged family members?
Exactly they're not new cats, what does he expect you to do with them?
I've 1 or 2 ideas mwhahahaha
I can find out where you live and make you regret uttering those words you know "
Hmmmm sounds like fun. Bring it |
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"Hasn't he taken it as a given, they will be coming along?
You know what he is like .... I was reluctant to move with them first due to what happens to cats in Croydon, but now it is happening in this area too
Oooooooooo, what's happening to cats?"
Very cruel mutilations |
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"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ..."
So you and him would consider dumping the responsibility of caring for the cats who look to you for everything on overcrowded and overworked shelter!  |
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"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ...
So you and him would consider dumping the responsibility of caring for the cats who look to you for everything on overcrowded and overworked shelter! "
No I wouldn't ..... of course. How ridiculous to even assume such a thing, I just wouldn't move in |
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"Hasn't he taken it as a given, they will be coming along?
You know what he is like .... I was reluctant to move with them first due to what happens to cats in Croydon, but now it is happening in this area too
Oooooooooo, what's happening to cats?
Very cruel mutilations "
 . That's awful.
Can they be house cats for safety?
Nita |
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"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ...
So you and him would consider dumping the responsibility of caring for the cats who look to you for everything on overcrowded and overworked shelter! "
Where the hell did that come from? |
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"Hasn't he taken it as a given, they will be coming along?
You know what he is like .... I was reluctant to move with them first due to what happens to cats in Croydon, but now it is happening in this area too
Oooooooooo, what's happening to cats?
Very cruel mutilations
. That's awful.
Can they be house cats for safety?
Nita"
Ours stay in at night now as there he cruelty has moved closer to home. Not sure what the authorities are doing about it ... if not for the cats sake, because animal cruelty such as this is often a precursor of human cruelty. I think it has been happening for a while so I have been reluctant to move. |
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"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ...
So you and him would consider dumping the responsibility of caring for the cats who look to you for everything on overcrowded and overworked shelter!
Where the hell did that come from? "
I know, when we moved to the UK I brought the three cats with me ... cost a lot and they had to have a cavity search in customs. You should have seen their faces when they came out of that ..... |
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"OP you obviously don't know the rules. Cats decide what their humans must do. "
When our house was being remodelled for six months, they stayed in it and we visited to feed twice a day because a cattery would have upset them, they like their territory, so any move will be a bit of a wrench ... they certainly rule this house |
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"The cats may not like your new home.
One of mine walked back to our old neighbourhood over 30 miles away.
Picked him up off our old neighbours. Took him weeks to settle. "
It took us a lot of time when we moved from one country to another .... |
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"Hasn't he taken it as a given, they will be coming along?
You know what he is like .... I was reluctant to move with them first due to what happens to cats in Croydon, but now it is happening in this area too
Oooooooooo, what's happening to cats?
Very cruel mutilations
. That's awful.
Can they be house cats for safety?
Nita
Ours stay in at night now as there he cruelty has moved closer to home. Not sure what the authorities are doing about it ... if not for the cats sake, because animal cruelty such as this is often a precursor of human cruelty. I think it has been happening for a while so I have been reluctant to move. "
If they're not happy to stay in, that will hopefully do the trick.
I agree with you that this behaviour can be a sign of future violence towards people. Hope the police ar taking it seriously.
Nita |
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"So you and him would consider dumping the responsibility of caring for the cats who look to you for everything on overcrowded and overworked shelter! "
Well, That escalated quickly!
By the way, cats are pretty much self sufficient, they decide if you're their human or not. They wonder off when they get bored of you and find some old dear who'll feel them more! Selfish little shits they are
And yes, before you boot off, we have three! |
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