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Ok as a cpl we only look for bi men and bi cols but you would not believe the number of straight men send messages saying they bi if that true put it on your profile this is a swingers site be honest about your sexuality ffs |
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Straight and 'Fab straight' are two very different things! Many people won't meet bi or gay men so some 'Fab straight' guys say they're straight so they can keep their options open with those that won't meet bi men.
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over a year ago
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Same goes for some couples though. I have chatted to a couple and then the conversation starts heading down the bi-pass (good pun?) and I start realising that I've been mislead.
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"Ok as a cpl we only look for bi men and bi cols but you would not believe the number of straight men send messages saying they bi if that true put it on your profile this is a swingers site be honest about your sexuality ffs "
Straight means fuck all on here now it seems it has completely lost it's meaning. Some have such a broad spectrum of the definition aswell. It's 2017 why not be out and proud.
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"Bi can play straight? For example, we are both bi, but most of our time. We are together, just us, so not doing anything bi .... "
yeah they can obviously but people have a preference to meet genuine straight just like people who have a preference to meet genuine bi.
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"Bi can play straight? For example, we are both bi, but most of our time. We are together, just us, so not doing anything bi .... yeah they can obviously but people have a preference to meet genuine straight just like people who have a preference to meet genuine bi."
Exactly I'm only interested in 100% straight men that only get hard at the site of a wet pussy not a precum dripping cock  |
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"Bi can play straight? For example, we are both bi, but most of our time. We are together, just us, so not doing anything bi .... yeah they can obviously but people have a preference to meet genuine straight just like people who have a preference to meet genuine bi.
Exactly I'm only interested in 100% straight men that only get hard at the site of a wet pussy not a precum dripping cock "
Can I ask why? Just being curious .... do you less than if he gets off on cock too? Its nothing personal, I am just interested as I don't mind knowing my partner likes cock too |
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Yeah I'd guess its people wanting to get with people who refuse to see Bi and Bi-curious people. Something I'll be honest I personally don't understand (people refusing to see Bi and Bi-curious people) assuming that they won't be able to control themselves, which is crazy. I've also seen people refuse to see anyone who has friendships or Verifications from Bi, gay, or even TV/TS. I shouldn't be surprised at this for of bigotry, I just didn't expect to see it so explicitly with some profiles. I think I just assumed that people on this site must be open minded to be here in the first place, forgetting my journey to here will have be different an unique to everyone else. |
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I just find it a turn off I love the way men look at women I find it incredibly sexy I don't want any part of his mind excited by a passing cock, god this is hard to explain. A guy worded it perfectly in his profile about being straight, "I'm not interested in men and never will be" that's what I love.  |
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"Yeah I'd guess its people wanting to get with people who refuse to see Bi and Bi-curious people. Something I'll be honest I personally don't understand (people refusing to see Bi and Bi-curious people) assuming that they won't be able to control themselves, which is crazy. I've also seen people refuse to see anyone who has friendships or Verifications from Bi, gay, or even TV/TS. I shouldn't be surprised at this for of bigotry, I just didn't expect to see it so explicitly with some profiles. I think I just assumed that people on this site must be open minded to be here in the first place, forgetting my journey to here will have be different an unique to everyone else."
It is not necessarily bigotry though. Women like 'Alpha male' types and they are not in society portrayed to be bi. They are also a higher sexual risk and i think that is a fact. There is social programming etc to take into account some people have more conservative views.
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I'm Bi I've always been bi, I might have had long monogamous relationships with women but when that ends I'm open minded as to if I look for a lady or sausages and beans, but I will ignore or block any 'Moco straight' men who message me. Because I'm the past I have been fucked around something rotten by 'curious' and 'straight' guys I've even been attacked by one who acted all discusted about what we had just done. |
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"Bi can play straight? For example, we are both bi, but most of our time. We are together, just us, so not doing anything bi .... yeah they can obviously but people have a preference to meet genuine straight just like people who have a preference to meet genuine bi.
Exactly I'm only interested in 100% straight men that only get hard at the site of a wet pussy not a precum dripping cock
Can I ask why? Just being curious .... do you less than if he gets off on cock too? Its nothing personal, I am just interested as I don't mind knowing my partner likes cock too "
Have replied omitted to include quote I keep having blonde moments sorry x |
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"I just find it a turn off I love the way men look at women I find it incredibly sexy I don't want any part of his mind excited by a passing cock, god this is hard to explain. A guy worded it perfectly in his profile about being straight, "I'm not interested in men and never will be" that's what I love. "
Could you not assume a straight man was excited by a passing pussy in the same way? |
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"I just find it a turn off I love the way men look at women I find it incredibly sexy I don't want any part of his mind excited by a passing cock, god this is hard to explain. A guy worded it perfectly in his profile about being straight, "I'm not interested in men and never will be" that's what I love.
Could you not assume a straight man was excited by a passing pussy in the same way? "
That's what I want but only passing pussy |
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" It is not necessarily bigotry though. Women like 'Alpha male' types and they are not in society portrayed to be bi. They are also a higher sexual risk and i think that is a fact. There is social programming etc to take into account some people have more conservative views. "
I agree it is a societal attitude thing, however that doesn't stop it being bigotry. You could describe it as passive bigotry as in no offence is intended. Also the 'Alpha male' thing again is a stereotype, again an understandable situation but in the near future I'm pretty certain the majority of western society with not have this view.
Now regards health, that I take issue with outright. That is making assumptions upon how Gay and Bisexual men practice sex. That is assuming they are less likely to be any safer than straight couples. Now in the 80's Aids crisis pushed this idea that all gay men were unsafe, but the fact is it caused a major change with in the gay community. Now show me the stats that Bi people are less safe ok. But otherwise why do you have this assumption? |
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" It is not necessarily bigotry though. Women like 'Alpha male' types and they are not in society portrayed to be bi. They are also a higher sexual risk and i think that is a fact. There is social programming etc to take into account some people have more conservative views.
I agree it is a societal attitude thing, however that doesn't stop it being bigotry. You could describe it as passive bigotry as in no offence is intended. Also the 'Alpha male' thing again is a stereotype, again an understandable situation but in the near future I'm pretty certain the majority of western society with not have this view.
Now regards health, that I take issue with outright. That is making assumptions upon how Gay and Bisexual men practice sex. That is assuming they are less likely to be any safer than straight couples. Now in the 80's Aids crisis pushed this idea that all gay men were unsafe, but the fact is it caused a major change with in the gay community. Now show me the stats that Bi people are less safe ok. But otherwise why do you have this assumption?"
Agreed, as gay or bi men are more conscious of their health and go to clinics more, so their stats will be higher, whereas straight couples, including swinging couples, assume they are safe so don't go |
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" It is not necessarily bigotry though. Women like 'Alpha male' types and they are not in society portrayed to be bi. They are also a higher sexual risk and i think that is a fact. There is social programming etc to take into account some people have more conservative views.
I agree it is a societal attitude thing, however that doesn't stop it being bigotry. You could describe it as passive bigotry as in no offence is intended. Also the 'Alpha male' thing again is a stereotype, again an understandable situation but in the near future I'm pretty certain the majority of western society with not have this view.
Now regards health, that I take issue with outright. That is making assumptions upon how Gay and Bisexual men practice sex. That is assuming they are less likely to be any safer than straight couples. Now in the 80's Aids crisis pushed this idea that all gay men were unsafe, but the fact is it caused a major change with in the gay community. Now show me the stats that Bi people are less safe ok. But otherwise why do you have this assumption?"
Not that long ago it used to be illegal, I'm sure it will change over time as the world is getting more diverse . How many films, TV shows etc where the protagonist in a love story etc is bi or gay? Not many. I thought the risk thing is like common knowledge though I'm not sure. Look it up |
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" It is not necessarily bigotry though. Women like 'Alpha male' types and they are not in society portrayed to be bi. They are also a higher sexual risk and i think that is a fact. There is social programming etc to take into account some people have more conservative views.
I agree it is a societal attitude thing, however that doesn't stop it being bigotry. You could describe it as passive bigotry as in no offence is intended. Also the 'Alpha male' thing again is a stereotype, again an understandable situation but in the near future I'm pretty certain the majority of western society with not have this view.
Now regards health, that I take issue with outright. That is making assumptions upon how Gay and Bisexual men practice sex. That is assuming they are less likely to be any safer than straight couples. Now in the 80's Aids crisis pushed this idea that all gay men were unsafe, but the fact is it caused a major change with in the gay community. Now show me the stats that Bi people are less safe ok. But otherwise why do you have this assumption? Not that long ago it used to be illegal, I'm sure it will change over time as the world is getting more diverse . How many films, TV shows etc where the protagonist in a love story etc is bi or gay? Not many. I thought the risk thing is like common knowledge though I'm not sure. Look it up"
We can have overall probabilities but each person is unique. It's more sensible to evaluate individual partners, rather than the millions of people in a large group - unless we want to shag them all  |
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"Bi can play straight? For example, we are both bi, but most of our time. We are together, just us, so not doing anything bi .... "
Put some holdups heels & some slap on, shave your legs, practice mincing up and down your hall, then cut the missus' hair, draw a fake tache on her with eyeliner and the job's a good 'un. 
Oh, and don't forget to buy her a 10" black strap on for the whole experience  |
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over a year ago
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"Ok as a cpl we only look for bi men and bi cols but you would not believe the number of straight men send messages saying they bi if that true put it on your profile this is a swingers site be honest about your sexuality ffs "
Some of us cant....
Some ppl are not as accepting ...unfortunately. ..  |
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" It is not necessarily bigotry though. Women like 'Alpha male' types and they are not in society portrayed to be bi. They are also a higher sexual risk and i think that is a fact. There is social programming etc to take into account some people have more conservative views.
I agree it is a societal attitude thing, however that doesn't stop it being bigotry. You could describe it as passive bigotry as in no offence is intended. Also the 'Alpha male' thing again is a stereotype, again an understandable situation but in the near future I'm pretty certain the majority of western society with not have this view.
Now regards health, that I take issue with outright. That is making assumptions upon how Gay and Bisexual men practice sex. That is assuming they are less likely to be any safer than straight couples. Now in the 80's Aids crisis pushed this idea that all gay men were unsafe, but the fact is it caused a major change with in the gay community. Now show me the stats that Bi people are less safe ok. But otherwise why do you have this assumption?
Agreed, as gay or bi men are more conscious of their health and go to clinics more, so their stats will be higher, whereas straight couples, including swinging couples, assume they are safe so don't go"
Sorry but I really don't agree with this at all. This might apply to your own partner / past partners, but you don't seem to want to acknowledge the less safe side of bi male play. The guys that cruise, cottaging, dogging of which there are a lot. The married bi guys sneaking out for quick casual sex. There are tons more of these bi guys than the likes of our partners. |
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"Ok as a cpl we only look for bi men and bi cols but you would not believe the number of straight men send messages saying they bi if that true put it on your profile this is a swingers site be honest about your sexuality ffs
Some of us cant....
Some ppl are not as accepting ...unfortunately. .. "
Hang on. You openly state in your profile you take drugs but you don't feel on a swingers site you can state you are bi or curious 
If all bi people claimed they were straight how the f**k would we find people to play with?
No I think guys like you chance your arm trying to play it both ways abc to be honest when found out you end up pissing off straight and bi people for your dishonesty. |
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" It is not necessarily bigotry though. Women like 'Alpha male' types and they are not in society portrayed to be bi. They are also a higher sexual risk and i think that is a fact. There is social programming etc to take into account some people have more conservative views.
I agree it is a societal attitude thing, however that doesn't stop it being bigotry. You could describe it as passive bigotry as in no offence is intended. Also the 'Alpha male' thing again is a stereotype, again an understandable situation but in the near future I'm pretty certain the majority of western society with not have this view.
Now regards health, that I take issue with outright. That is making assumptions upon how Gay and Bisexual men practice sex. That is assuming they are less likely to be any safer than straight couples. Now in the 80's Aids crisis pushed this idea that all gay men were unsafe, but the fact is it caused a major change with in the gay community. Now show me the stats that Bi people are less safe ok. But otherwise why do you have this assumption?
Agreed, as gay or bi men are more conscious of their health and go to clinics more, so their stats will be higher, whereas straight couples, including swinging couples, assume they are safe so don't go
Sorry but I really don't agree with this at all. This might apply to your own partner / past partners, but you don't seem to want to acknowledge the less safe side of bi male play. The guys that cruise, cottaging, dogging of which there are a lot. The married bi guys sneaking out for quick casual sex. There are tons more of these bi guys than the likes of our partners. "
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"Ok as a cpl we only look for bi men and bi cols but you would not believe the number of straight men send messages saying they bi if that true put it on your profile this is a swingers site be honest about your sexuality ffs
Some of us cant....
Some ppl are not as accepting ...unfortunately. ..
Hang on. You openly state in your profile you take drugs but you don't feel on a swingers site you can state you are bi or curious
If all bi people claimed they were straight how the f**k would we find people to play with?
No I think guys like you chance your arm trying to play it both ways abc to be honest when found out you end up pissing off straight and bi people for your dishonesty. "
The world is strange. Drugs are often seen as 'acceptable'. Bi men are often seen as the lowest low of society.
They should remove the sexuality info on profiles and just state who people are looking for. |
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