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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think its terrible that people would loose their jobs over a persons life style choice "
Yes but would they? Could they - legally? That is what I think Kev is saying x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And yes the can do so legally and you can get stuck off the nursing register. "
Just cause I'm interested - how would they justify it legally? As after all it is between consenting adults and presumably not happening on the premises? xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious and I'm not having a pop at the people that posted earlier on another thread, would they be the Police force, civil servants etc ? "
not the police force unless at a senior level & then it would be more PR motivated
school teachers i would say are on dodgy ground esp if showing face & candid pics - due to parental perceptions etc
you know some fuckwit mindsets will be teacher = swinger = perve = paedo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Brings the profession into disrupute going against the nursing code of conduct and many employers have clauses in nurses contracts saying that if you do anything which could reflect on the company your on the p45 list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"could lose mine so got to be really careful  "
But how do you know this? Has someone said you will lose your job if your on a swinging site? Again - I am really really interested to know x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brings the profession into disrupute going against the nursing code of conduct and many employers have clauses in nurses contracts saying that if you do anything which could reflect on the company your on the p45 list"
And that has answered my question - thank you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a good question Kev....
For many it's not so much that they can lose their jobs but that such exposure could ruin their careers re future promotions etc.
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Very good point, I wonder what the chances are though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a good question Kev....
For many it's not so much that they can lose their jobs but that such exposure could ruin their careers re future promotions etc.
Very good point, I wonder what the chances are though "
i have my own little empire so probably have it easier on this score than others
despite the fact i constantly outrage myself, i haven't yet got further than issuing myself a 1st written warning 
on a serious side though, i work in a very male dominated, all boys together industry and i do sometimes wonder what the reaction would be from a clients perspective if my liking for some occasional cock came to the fore |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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People say too much about their lives on this site..... you only have to read some threads or go into chat and you will see people tell complete strangers all about their lives/job etc etc... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't post anything on facebook it comes and bites you on the arse!!!!!!!! I should know.............."
yes its ridiculous what people post on there about their jobs and with pics! it makes me cringe
prospective employers will also have a look at your page if its available to check you out
we have heard of more than one person losing a job because of innocently posted comments about their jobs |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Don't post anything on facebook it comes and bites you on the arse!!!!!!!! I should know..............
yes its ridiculous what people post on there about their jobs and with pics! it makes me cringe
prospective employers will also have a look at your page if its available to check you out
we have heard of more than one person losing a job because of innocently posted comments about their jobs"
I have dismissed for comments on Facebook in my previous role. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brings the profession into disrupute going against the nursing code of conduct and many employers have clauses in nurses contracts saying that if you do anything which could reflect on the company your on the p45 list"
Correct and the same applies to other professionally registered people such as counsellors, psychologists etc. it's referred to as bringing the profession into disrepute if anything you do in your private life is brought into the public domain. Personally I don't agree with it and think it's very judgemental. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Employers and future employers and recruitment agencies use Facebook to research applicants/employees. There is a lot you can be misjudged over in that way. So beware! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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People off on long term sick giving a running commentary on Facebook of all their exploits... With videos.
And they are off with a bad back and post pics of themselves doing all sorts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Employers and future employers and recruitment agencies use Facebook to research applicants/employees. There is a lot you can be misjudged over in that way. So beware! "
yeah our school Lolly-pop lady got the sack for her nude pics... we know it was the fact she was holding the lolly-pop sign whilst semi naked on facebook !!  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"People off on long term sick giving a running commentary on Facebook of all their exploits... With videos.
And they are off with a bad back and post pics of themselves doing all sorts. "
we sacked a couple of people for the discrepancy between their "sick note" and their facebook activities...- it was not pretty!  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"People off on long term sick giving a running commentary on Facebook of all their exploits... With videos.
And they are off with a bad back and post pics of themselves doing all sorts.
we sacked a couple of people for the discrepancy between their "sick note" and their facebook activities...- it was not pretty! "
Me too... |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"Brings the profession into disrupute going against the nursing code of conduct and many employers have clauses in nurses contracts saying that if you do anything which could reflect on the company your on the p45 list
Correct and the same applies to other professionally registered people such as counsellors, psychologists etc. it's referred to as bringing the profession into disrepute if anything you do in your private life is brought into the public domain. Personally I don't agree with it and think it's very judgemental. "
It's a funny old world. We know seven poeple who are nurses (two male) and all sleep around and brag at work! But if they were swingers they'd get the sack????
Anyone else been to a Nurses party?? We been to two and they really opened our eyes.. |
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I think this needs to be put into proportion a bit. You can only sack someone for gross misconduct and being a swinger does not constitute gross misconduct in it's self.
What might constitute gross misconduct might be a police officer or nurse attending parties in their uniforms or any activity connected to their job and even that would be hard to evidence.
People posing on here in their uniforms, police, armed services etc do so to attract attention to their profession and use it to impress people. If they are stupid enough to do that they suffer the consequenses if they get recognised by someone from work.
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"Brings the profession into disrupute going against the nursing code of conduct and many employers have clauses in nurses contracts saying that if you do anything which could reflect on the company your on the p45 list
Correct and the same applies to other professionally registered people such as counsellors, psychologists etc. it's referred to as bringing the profession into disrepute if anything you do in your private life is brought into the public domain. Personally I don't agree with it and think it's very judgemental.
It's a funny old world. We know seven poeple who are nurses (two male) and all sleep around and brag at work! But if they were swingers they'd get the sack????
Anyone else been to a Nurses party?? We been to two and they really opened our eyes.. "
Oh yes, know 3 nurses ..and guess what...they all play bareback! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think this needs to be put into proportion a bit. You can only sack someone for gross misconduct and being a swinger does not constitute gross misconduct in it's self.
What might constitute gross misconduct might be a police officer or nurse attending parties in their uniforms or any activity connected to their job and even that would be hard to evidence.
People posing on here in their uniforms, police, armed services etc do so to attract attention to their profession and use it to impress people. If they are stupid enough to do that they suffer the consequenses if they get recognised by someone from work.
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I'd love to be told off by you |
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"I think this needs to be put into proportion a bit. You can only sack someone for gross misconduct and being a swinger does not constitute gross misconduct in it's self.
What might constitute gross misconduct might be a police officer or nurse attending parties in their uniforms or any activity connected to their job and even that would be hard to evidence.
People posing on here in their uniforms, police, armed services etc do so to attract attention to their profession and use it to impress people. If they are stupid enough to do that they suffer the consequenses if they get recognised by someone from work.
I'd love to be told off by you "
I have severe punishments to fit the crime! lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think this needs to be put into proportion a bit. You can only sack someone for gross misconduct and being a swinger does not constitute gross misconduct in it's self.
What might constitute gross misconduct might be a police officer or nurse attending parties in their uniforms or any activity connected to their job and even that would be hard to evidence.
People posing on here in their uniforms, police, armed services etc do so to attract attention to their profession and use it to impress people. If they are stupid enough to do that they suffer the consequenses if they get recognised by someone from work.
I'd love to be told off by you
I have severe punishments to fit the crime! lol"
No just the telling off please  |
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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago
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to maintain your entry on the General Nursing Register you have to be 'morally beyond reproach'......now thats open to interpretation but i wouldnt like to have to challenge it.....hence no face pics on public display.....E x |
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"I think this needs to be put into proportion a bit. You can only sack someone for gross misconduct and being a swinger does not constitute gross misconduct in it's self.
What might constitute gross misconduct might be a police officer or nurse attending parties in their uniforms or any activity connected to their job and even that would be hard to evidence.
People posing on here in their uniforms, police, armed services etc do so to attract attention to their profession and use it to impress people. If they are stupid enough to do that they suffer the consequenses if they get recognised by someone from work.
I'd love to be told off by you
I have severe punishments to fit the crime! lol
No just the telling off please "
Are you sure, I've reduced grown men to tears before? lol |
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"to maintain your entry on the General Nursing Register you have to be 'morally beyond reproach'......now thats open to interpretation but i wouldnt like to have to challenge it.....hence no face pics on public display.....E x"
There's morally unaceptable behaviour and there's consenting adult activities where no one is hurt. I think they'd find that one a hard one to persue! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious and I'm not having a pop at the people that posted earlier on another thread, would they be the Police force, civil servants etc ? "
It has to be a dentist. Confusion with what you are putting in a womans mouth could get you sky rocketed. |
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"Just curious and I'm not having a pop at the people that posted earlier on another thread, would they be the Police force, civil servants etc ? "
Any where you signed an employment contract that included a clause saying you would do nothing in your personal life that was immoral/would bring the employer into disrepute.
Sadly nearly all public sector employees could be sacked. |
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"Just curious and I'm not having a pop at the people that posted earlier on another thread, would they be the Police force, civil servants etc ?
Any where you signed an employment contract that included a clause saying you would do nothing in your personal life that was immoral/would bring the employer into disrepute.
Sadly nearly all public sector employees could be sacked."
Why? For having a 'private' life? |
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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago
between havant and chichester |
any health care worker
i acted dumb when asked by boss saying its nice to have freinds with benifets i replyed lazy cow could get a job
and quickly deleted all pics
then when working with a member of her family spotted him on a site so quickly changed user name and made a note of his name |
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Police, Forces, some parts of the Civil service, Foriegn Office, Military company employees - All have security clearance which can be revoked for any reason.
Teachers, Child minders, care workers, doctors, nurses. None would automatically loose jobs but parents/patients would raise questions making positions untennable.
It's not fair - but it's true |
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"Just curious and I'm not having a pop at the people that posted earlier on another thread, would they be the Police force, civil servants etc ?
Any where you signed an employment contract that included a clause saying you would do nothing in your personal life that was immoral/would bring the employer into disrepute.
Sadly nearly all public sector employees could be sacked.
Why? For having a 'private' life?"
Unfortunately the Human Rights act has an opt out for "National Security", which the government can interpret however it wants. It's a bummer! |
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"Just curious and I'm not having a pop at the people that posted earlier on another thread, would they be the Police force, civil servants etc ? "
any DV security clearance,or any job where in the local or personal contract it referres to bringing the company into disrepute. |
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"Police, Forces, some parts of the Civil service, Foriegn Office, Military company employees - All have security clearance which can be revoked for any reason.
Teachers, Child minders, care workers, doctors, nurses. None would automatically loose jobs but parents/patients would raise questions making positions untennable.
It's not fair - but it's true "
There are some uneducated parts of society that think all swingers and Gay's are secret kiddy fiddlers  |
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"Just curious and I'm not having a pop at the people that posted earlier on another thread, would they be the Police force, civil servants etc ?
any DV security clearance,or any job where in the local or personal contract it referres to bringing the company into disrepute. "
Here's a guy who knows what he's taliking about. Cheers  |
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"Just curious and I'm not having a pop at the people that posted earlier on another thread, would they be the Police force, civil servants etc ?
any DV security clearance,or any job where in the local or personal contract it referres to bringing the company into disrepute.
Here's a guy who knows what he's taliking about. Cheers "
But again it's evidencing disrepute. Behaving sensibly while being a swinger would not constitute disrepute. Only foolish people would leave them selves open to that allegation. Though I'm sure there are plenty on here who lose their common sense where sex is involved |
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By *athnBobCouple
over a year ago
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"Police, Forces, some parts of the Civil service, Foriegn Office, Military company employees - All have security clearance which can be revoked for any reason.
Teachers, Child minders, care workers, doctors, nurses. None would automatically loose jobs but parents/patients would raise questions making positions untennable.
It's not fair - but it's true "
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But again it's evidencing disrepute..... "
You do not need evidence ... _umours are enough |
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"Just curious and I'm not having a pop at the people that posted earlier on another thread, would they be the Police force, civil servants etc ?
Any where you signed an employment contract that included a clause saying you would do nothing in your personal life that was immoral/would bring the employer into disrepute.
Sadly nearly all public sector employees could be sacked.
Why? For having a 'private' life?"
Yes...it sucks but if your private life is deemed by those employing you to bring them into disrepute,then it is p 45 time. |
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"Just curious and I'm not having a pop at the people that posted earlier on another thread, would they be the Police force, civil servants etc ?
any DV security clearance,or any job where in the local or personal contract it referres to bringing the company into disrepute.
Here's a guy who knows what he's taliking about. Cheers
But again it's evidencing disrepute. Behaving sensibly while being a swinger would not constitute disrepute. Only foolish people would leave them selves open to that allegation. Though I'm sure there are plenty on here who lose their common sense where sex is involved "
In an ideal world yes...however you seem to be ignoring the fact that to most of the outside world simply swinging makes us perverts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't post anything on facebook it comes and bites you on the arse!!!!!!!! I should know.............."
Same here too though more about the privacy settings that has caused huge annoyance to me |
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Doctors as well as nurses have a duty of care to the public 24/7. In professional and legal terms their codes of professional conduct impose to act as respectable members of sociaety and uphold the professional they practice at all times. Even a silly fight can get these groups into serious trouble and jeopardise their professional integrity. This includes sexual practices that publically could place in shame the name of these professions. I know!!! Stings but its the way!! LOL Anyway, I hope this may answer your question xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most companies have a clause in contracts about bringing company name into disrepute but I guess anyone whose work associates them with kids, schools or anyone who's 'at risk' has a higher chance than the rest of getting fired. For most it would probably be an end to promotion due to 'dodgy morals'. |
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"Just curious and I'm not having a pop at the people that posted earlier on another thread, would they be the Police force, civil servants etc ?
any DV security clearance,or any job where in the local or personal contract it referres to bringing the company into disrepute.
Here's a guy who knows what he's taliking about. Cheers
But again it's evidencing disrepute. Behaving sensibly while being a swinger would not constitute disrepute. Only foolish people would leave them selves open to that allegation. Though I'm sure there are plenty on here who lose their common sense where sex is involved
In an ideal world yes...however you seem to be ignoring the fact that to most of the outside world simply swinging makes us perverts."
Not at all, the 'outside world' knocks what it doesn't understand so would be interesting to see an employer state ignorance and prejudice as evidence in an Industrial Tribunal. They would have to evidence how you brought the 'company' into disrepute. |
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