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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read that there's a huge increase in impotence of very young males because their expectations of sex aren't what they imagine.
The answer... Better sex education in schools. Teach children and young adults the realities of sex, relationships and body shapes. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Too many men think fingerblasting is all it takes to have us squirting like Niagara. They must have got that from somewhere.
Porn actresses are paid to make faces and noise. Doesn't mean they're enjoying it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think younger men are more affected by it as they appear to have unrealistic expectations ..
the amount of profiles I've seen from the younger generation saying 'looking for someone to wow me' or similar words, is unreal  |
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"I think younger men are more affected by it as they appear to have unrealistic expectations ."
This I can agree with! I mean I watched porn as a kid and was massively disappointed as I though it always took about 10 mins for a plumber to turn up and they had a naked bird answer the door naked and dribbling.
Fucking three years of collage wasted I tell thee! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...has greatly warped the modern day man's expectation of women, discuss. ..."
False, I'm of the technology generation and the whole idea that porn is where guys get their expectations from baffles me.
It's no different to saying kids who play violent games are more violent. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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There was a BBC Radio 1 Newsbeat special on pornography last year. They played it on the PM Show on R4 too. It's been taken off the iPlayer though. 
It was on the back of an NSPCC report that found young people have become desensitised by porn, seeing it as a realistic portrayal of sex that they would like to copy. Not all, of course, but significant numbers.
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"...has greatly warped the modern day man's expectation of women, discuss. ...
False, I'm of the technology generation and the whole idea that porn is where guys get their expectations from baffles me.
It's no different to saying kids who play violent games are more violent. "
I think there will always be people who can't or won't differentiate between what they see on screen and actual life. I know people who discuss Eastenders as if it's a documentary for instance and one friend in particular who talks about Elvis as if she knew him. Hopefully the majority know that whats on screen is fantasy. |
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"...has greatly warped the modern day man's expectation of women, discuss. ...
False, I'm of the technology generation and the whole idea that porn is where guys get their expectations from baffles me.
It's no different to saying kids who play violent games are more violent. "
The difference between those two things is, it's obvious normal people don't run round firing rocket launchers, as they can see what happens in the streets around them.
But how does a young inexperienced person know what really happens in the bedroom? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Has shown up modern women's sexual failings......discuss that  "
Listening to young women talk about accepting abuse and worse because that's what they are 'expected' to do to meet the expectations of their boyfriends. That sort of sexual failing?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read that there's a huge increase in impotence of very young males because their expectations of sex aren't what they imagine.
The answer... Better sex education in schools. Teach children and young adults the realities of sex, relationships and body shapes."
Or, tell them to not watch porn  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mills and Boon, Merchant Ivory and 50 shades has greatly warped some modern womens expectations of men....discuss  "
You mean there isn't a multi billionaire with emotional issues waiting for me to stumble into his life to treat me like a princess/sex goddess??? |
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When I was a young teenager our sexual role models were from magazines. Our expectations were wildly unrealistic and romanticised. Women were docile, passive partners, coy and undemanding sexually. I think that was quite damaging |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read that there's a huge increase in impotence of very young males because their expectations of sex aren't what they imagine.
The answer... Better sex education in schools. Teach children and young adults the realities of sex, relationships and body shapes.
Or, tell them to not watch porn "
That's like telling you not to lust over Lib |
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"Mills and Boon, Merchant Ivory and 50 shades has greatly warped some modern womens expectations of men....discuss
You mean there isn't a multi billionaire with emotional issues waiting for me to stumble into his life to treat me like a princess/sex goddess??? "
You might drop lucky and find some bloke who won £50 on the horses, who still lives with his mom and will take you for a spin in his Vauxhall Corsa if you promise him a gobble |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...has greatly warped the modern day man's expectation of women, discuss. ...
False, I'm of the technology generation and the whole idea that porn is where guys get their expectations from baffles me.
It's no different to saying kids who play violent games are more violent.
The difference between those two things is, it's obvious normal people don't run round firing rocket launchers, as they can see what happens in the streets around them.
But how does a young inexperienced person know what really happens in the bedroom?"
Because I'd hazard a guess that they would realise a woman wanting a 5 man anal gangbang and then have everyone cover her in cum is a bit out there.
I've always thought when these threads come up, young people are thought of as rather stupid.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mills and Boon, Merchant Ivory and 50 shades has greatly warped some modern womens expectations of men....discuss
You mean there isn't a multi billionaire with emotional issues waiting for me to stumble into his life to treat me like a princess/sex goddess???
You might drop lucky and find some bloke who won £50 on the horses, who still lives with his mom and will take you for a spin in his Vauxhall Corsa if you promise him a gobble "
I'm suing Barbara Cartland |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read that there's a huge increase in impotence of very young males because their expectations of sex aren't what they imagine.
The answer... Better sex education in schools. Teach children and young adults the realities of sex, relationships and body shapes.
Or, tell them to not watch porn
That's like telling you not to lust over Lib "
Ok, so I have no control. They might |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read that there's a huge increase in impotence of very young males because their expectations of sex aren't what they imagine.
The answer... Better sex education in schools. Teach children and young adults the realities of sex, relationships and body shapes.
Or, tell them to not watch porn
That's like telling you not to lust over Lib
Ok, so I have no control. They might "
Teenagers have control!? I was a horror! |
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"...has greatly warped the modern day man's expectation of women, discuss. ...
False, I'm of the technology generation and the whole idea that porn is where guys get their expectations from baffles me.
It's no different to saying kids who play violent games are more violent.
The difference between those two things is, it's obvious normal people don't run round firing rocket launchers, as they can see what happens in the streets around them.
But how does a young inexperienced person know what really happens in the bedroom?"
Good point! For myself my main point of reference was chatting to people on a website similar to fab (and the odd sex scene on tv) which birthed a whole load of curious fantasies.... took a while realise there is an ocean between fantasy and reality
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It's no different to saying kids who play violent games are more violent.
The difference between those two things is, it's obvious normal people don't run round firing rocket launchers, as they can see what happens in the streets around them.
But how does a young inexperienced person know what really happens in the bedroom?
Because I'd hazard a guess that they would realise a woman wanting a 5 man anal gangbang and then have everyone cover her in cum is a bit out there.
I've always thought when these threads come up, young people are thought of as rather stupid. "
I dont think anyone is implying young people are stupid.
The 5 man anal gb is more obvious to most. But what about the plethora of other stuff, choking, spitting, cum in face etc etc etc? What is acceptable and what is porn acting? |
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"...has greatly warped the modern day man's expectation of women, discuss. ...
False, I'm of the technology generation and the whole idea that porn is where guys get their expectations from baffles me.
It's no different to saying kids who play violent games are more violent.
The difference between those two things is, it's obvious normal people don't run round firing rocket launchers, as they can see what happens in the streets around them.
But how does a young inexperienced person know what really happens in the bedroom?
Because I'd hazard a guess that they would realise a woman wanting a 5 man anal gangbang and then have everyone cover her in cum is a bit out there.
I've always thought when these threads come up, young people are thought of as rather stupid. "
Yes very generalist title .... not meaning it to insinuate stupid, more focusing on the effects of porn |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's no different to saying kids who play violent games are more violent.
The difference between those two things is, it's obvious normal people don't run round firing rocket launchers, as they can see what happens in the streets around them.
But how does a young inexperienced person know what really happens in the bedroom?
Because I'd hazard a guess that they would realise a woman wanting a 5 man anal gangbang and then have everyone cover her in cum is a bit out there.
I've always thought when these threads come up, young people are thought of as rather stupid.
I dont think anyone is implying young people are stupid.
The 5 man anal gb is more obvious to most. But what about the plethora of other stuff, choking, spitting, cum in face etc etc etc? What is acceptable and what is porn acting?"
We've been together since 16, a lot of of our friends are the same. Sex is something openly talked about. And rather than the assumption that things are just copied from porn, I've never heard anything like that. Of course we all experiment but that comes with time in general.
There probably is people who expect sex to be just like porn, but the vast majority won't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would say it's more a case of ignorance to be honest. There are far too many people of various ages that are more concerning in themselves than anyone else with a "sod you jack I'm alright" kind of attitude. Regardless of wether you're on a site such as fab or not as a male you should always show some respect and to form a realistic expectation through some common sense amongst other things.
It's my belief that it's less down to the pornography itself and more down to the lack of social interaction. I mean I can have a conversation face to face with someone and I'd like to think I'm good at reading a situation and without social skills you simply can't understand or connect with others emotions and even their body in the sane way as someone with good social skills.
Thats my view anyway but others may disagree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's no different to saying kids who play violent games are more violent.
The difference between those two things is, it's obvious normal people don't run round firing rocket launchers, as they can see what happens in the streets around them.
But how does a young inexperienced person know what really happens in the bedroom?
Because I'd hazard a guess that they would realise a woman wanting a 5 man anal gangbang and then have everyone cover her in cum is a bit out there.
I've always thought when these threads come up, young people are thought of as rather stupid.
I dont think anyone is implying young people are stupid.
The 5 man anal gb is more obvious to most. But what about the plethora of other stuff, choking, spitting, cum in face etc etc etc? What is acceptable and what is porn acting?
We've been together since 16, a lot of of our friends are the same. Sex is something openly talked about. And rather than the assumption that things are just copied from porn, I've never heard anything like that. Of course we all experiment but that comes with time in general.
There probably is people who expect sex to be just like porn, but the vast majority won't. "
I think that probably says more about you and your group of friends. You guys do come across as way more mature.
This is a really good article about it...
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/mar/22/porn-generation-problems-hardcore-pornography-teenage-boys
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"...has greatly warped the modern day man's expectation of women, discuss. ..."
Yup, fake and exaggerated yet exciting
Reality doesn't and shouldn't be based on such more so it should be of what you both desire |
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"Has shown up modern women's sexual failings......discuss that
Listening to young women talk about accepting abuse and worse because that's what they are 'expected' to do to meet the expectations of their boyfriends. That sort of sexual failing?
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No, i just meant they won't tag team me with their sexy step mom  |
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