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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really enjoy the idea of fucking a strangers arse bareback on a first meet.
How many people on here have actually done it? "
All seems to be a pain in the arse tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"20 minutes into a thread that mentions anal bareback & no one is *outraged*...
Wtf are the forums coming too...  "
I'd be outraged if he wiped a pooh-ie willy on the curtains |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"20 minutes into a thread that mentions anal bareback & no one is *outraged*...
Wtf are the forums coming too...
I'd be outraged if he wiped a pooh-ie willy on the curtains "
Absolutely!!
Soft furnishings are a no no... |
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"I have with a few guys that I have chatted with for a long time before meeting.
Built some trust and felt good about it... Bb anal feels amazing for both. "
So long as you chat online first, you'll be completely safe, that's a well known fact. Maybe the 100,000 people in the UK with HIV weren't as careful as you.
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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago
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"20 minutes into a thread that mentions anal bareback & no one is *outraged*...
Wtf are the forums coming too...
I'd be outraged if he wiped a pooh-ie willy on the curtains "
Spunky willy ok though |
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"I have with a few guys that I have chatted with for a long time before meeting.
Built some trust and felt good about it... Bb anal feels amazing for both.
So long as you chat online first, you'll be completely safe, that's a well known fact. Maybe the 100,000 people in the UK with HIV weren't as careful as you.
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Ohhhh here we go.... 
Knew I shouldn't have posted. |
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"I really enjoy the idea of fucking a strangers arse bareback on a first meet.
How many people on here have actually done it? "
Why would someone want the most unsafe form of sex there is on a swingers site?  |
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"I have with a few guys that I have chatted with for a long time before meeting.
Built some trust and felt good about it... Bb anal feels amazing for both.
So long as you chat online first, you'll be completely safe, that's a well known fact. Maybe the 100,000 people in the UK with HIV weren't as careful as you.
Ohhhh here we go....
Knew I shouldn't have posted."
Do you want people to say it's perfectly fine, carry on?
MrB |
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"I have with a few guys that I have chatted with for a long time before meeting.
Built some trust and felt good about it... Bb anal feels amazing for both.
So long as you chat online first, you'll be completely safe, that's a well known fact. Maybe the 100,000 people in the UK with HIV weren't as careful as you.
Ohhhh here we go....
Knew I shouldn't have posted.
Do you want people to say it's perfectly fine, carry on?
MrB"
So immediately condescending and angry, real nice.
It's none of your business what I do or don't do.
I am merely being honest to the question that has been asked.
I don't want or need your approval for my actions.
I take my risks at my own discretion as we all do  |
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"I have with a few guys that I have chatted with for a long time before meeting.
Built some trust and felt good about it... Bb anal feels amazing for both.
So long as you chat online first, you'll be completely safe, that's a well known fact. Maybe the 100,000 people in the UK with HIV weren't as careful as you.
Ohhhh here we go....
Knew I shouldn't have posted.
Do you want people to say it's perfectly fine, carry on?
MrB
So immediately condescending and angry, real nice.
It's none of your business what I do or don't do.
I am merely being honest to the question that has been asked.
I don't want or need your approval for my actions.
I take my risks at my own discretion as we all do "
I'm not angry at all. I am extremely surprised you seem ignorant of the risks involved.
There is also the issue of it not just involving you. In the case of HIV both yourself and the meet are potentially then going to pass the infection to other partners. All will then be wanting hugely expensive retrovirals and ongoing lifetime treatment and care.
So, you might think it's fine, and rile against anyone questioning your actions, but safe sex is an absolute basic common sense. BB anal with a stranger is plainly ridiculous. IMO.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know of lots of guys and women on here and other sites who do sex including anal with no protection on meets.
They don't admit it though for obvious reasons.
Only person you can trust is yourself!
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"I have with a few guys that I have chatted with for a long time before meeting.
Built some trust and felt good about it... Bb anal feels amazing for both.
So long as you chat online first, you'll be completely safe, that's a well known fact. Maybe the 100,000 people in the UK with HIV weren't as careful as you.
Ohhhh here we go....
Knew I shouldn't have posted.
Do you want people to say it's perfectly fine, carry on?
MrB
So immediately condescending and angry, real nice.
It's none of your business what I do or don't do.
I am merely being honest to the question that has been asked.
I don't want or need your approval for my actions.
I take my risks at my own discretion as we all do
I'm not angry at all. I am extremely surprised you seem ignorant of the risks involved.
There is also the issue of it not just involving you. In the case of HIV both yourself and the meet are potentially then going to pass the infection to other partners. All will then be wanting hugely expensive retrovirals and ongoing lifetime treatment and care.
So, you might think it's fine, and rile against anyone questioning your actions, but safe sex is an absolute basic common sense. BB anal with a stranger is plainly ridiculous. IMO.
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I have already said they are not strangers I make a choice Based on previous conversations/personal circumstances and limit my risk in that manner.
So I am not ignorant and you may not be angry but you are being very aggressive based on assumptions you have made from a very small post I made on a forum.
I am regularly tested and in a club with true randoms I would never receive bareback anal.
I'm sure you take risks too... You are on a swinging site after all  |
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I have already said they are not strangers I make a choice Based on previous conversations/personal circumstances and limit my risk in that manner.
So I am not ignorant and you may not be angry but you are being very aggressive based on assumptions you have made from a very small post I made on a forum.
I am regularly tested and in a club with true randoms I would never receive bareback anal.
I'm sure you take risks too... You are on a swinging site after all "
I'm not being angry or aggressive, I don't know why you keep saying that.
You say you are informed and mention that you are regularly tested, you should know the limitations of testing for HIV and its incubation time before being detectable in an STI test. At worst it can be 3 months for detection, so in a worst case scenario depending on the infection and test dates, you could have a 6 month period without knowing.
This is a discussion forum. You have made a statement and I'm just commenting on how I believe it to be dangerous for you and others. Like I said, this isn't just about you, you aren't taking risks BASE jumping, it involves your partners and other people in swinging.
If you don't want to hear it here, look at THT etc for information. |
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I have already said they are not strangers I make a choice Based on previous conversations/personal circumstances and limit my risk in that manner.
So I am not ignorant and you may not be angry but you are being very aggressive based on assumptions you have made from a very small post I made on a forum.
I am regularly tested and in a club with true randoms I would never receive bareback anal.
I'm sure you take risks too... You are on a swinging site after all
I'm not being angry or aggressive, I don't know why you keep saying that.
You say you are informed and mention that you are regularly tested, you should know the limitations of testing for HIV and its incubation time before being detectable in an STI test. At worst it can be 3 months for detection, so in a worst case scenario depending on the infection and test dates, you could have a 6 month period without knowing.
This is a discussion forum. You have made a statement and I'm just commenting on how I believe it to be dangerous for you and others. Like I said, this isn't just about you, you aren't taking risks BASE jumping, it involves your partners and other people in swinging.
If you don't want to hear it here, look at THT etc for information."
Your are assuming because of my choices I know nothing about the risks.
You are wrong and I will leave it at that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm outraged!! 
There you go
I'm outraged no one has put their bum on the end of my willy for a while..I'm getting withdrawal symptoms. 
S"
Only if it's wrapped? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*Stamps feet in fury whilst being righteously indignant*...I'm appalled at such behaviour. Appalled I say!
Has anyone mentioned Russian Roulette yet? "
Or no Glove no Love |
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"*Stamps feet in fury whilst being righteously indignant*...I'm appalled at such behaviour. Appalled I say!
Has anyone mentioned Russian Roulette yet? "
No, but I'm calling BINGO
I now have a full house, Bareback, Russian roulette and Anal. And it's only Monday. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really enjoy the idea of fucking a strangers arse bareback on a first meet.
How many people on here have actually done it? "
I think it's a ridiculous idea.
But not the daftest thing you've posted. |
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