I think there are a couple around. but as a single female I prefer one of the guys to be a trusted friend and then someone new or you have met before. just feels safer and I can misuse his bigger house and don't have the mess to clean up afterwards |
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I tried it on Thursday with 2 nice guys I'd met before and the dp was a disaster and had to give up on it. They hadn't done it before so wouldn't meet anybody again that hadn't done it |
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"I tried it on Thursday with 2 nice guys I'd met before and the dp was a disaster and had to give up on it. They hadn't done it before so wouldn't meet anybody again that hadn't done it"
I am lucky that I met someone who has done a lot of things before so I always "misuse" him as my guy to experiment with. at least I know he knows my boundaries and what I like and can manage well in groups. maybe try and meet someone more experienced and start from there? |
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"I think there are a couple around. but as a single female I prefer one of the guys to be a trusted friend and then someone new or you have met before. just feels safer and I can misuse his bigger house and don't have the mess to clean up afterwards "
This is why I like meeting couples, for very similar reasons |
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I have a friend I have played with before for dp fun and it certainly is better with a guy who is relaxed around you and has the same nature as yourself. |
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"I'm finding that a lot of the guys that message me are saying they will do it just to get to play or hoping to get a 1 2 1 first."
Who knew this was so hard to find, I'm sure you will find the right guys and when you do could you send them my way please lol this is one of the things on my list too. |
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"I'm finding that a lot of the guys that message me are saying they will do it just to get to play or hoping to get a 1 2 1 first.
Who knew this was so hard to find, I'm sure you will find the right guys and when you do could you send them my way please lol this is one of the things on my list too. "
you’ve never said |
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"I'm finding that a lot of the guys that message me are saying they will do it just to get to play or hoping to get a 1 2 1 first.
Who knew this was so hard to find, I'm sure you will find the right guys and when you do could you send them my way please lol this is one of the things on my list too.
you’ve never said "
Yes I have |
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"I tried it on Thursday with 2 nice guys I'd met before and the dp was a disaster and had to give up on it. They hadn't done it before so wouldn't meet anybody again that hadn't done it"
I think the key is making sure at least one of the guys has done it before.
My first time was with someone experienced and since gone on to do DPs & DVPs with both 1st timers and experienced and I have to say every one has been a success. |
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"Both have proved elusive to me so far but have a dp arranged for next week"
Hope you finally get it done. Let us know if it is everything you thought it would be. |
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