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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just to let you know Mark and I have decided to call time on our Swinging days, we have thought about it for a few months now and as the kids are getting older and more inquisitive, its getting harder to give excuses about were were off too. It has been a pleasure to have chatted with you all, and the laughs and posts we shared together were awesome, So with a heavy heart were coming offline. Take care of yourselves and May the best of your past be the worst of your future. Love and best wishes Alimark xxxxx |
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"Just to let you know Mark and I have decided to call time on our Swinging days, we have thought about it for a few months now and as the kids are getting older and more inquisitive, its getting harder to give excuses about were were off too. It has been a pleasure to have chatted with you all, and the laughs and posts we shared together were awesome, So with a heavy heart were coming offline. Take care of yourselves and May the best of your past be the worst of your future. Love and best wishes Alimark xxxxx"
Oh, good luck - life goes on, I'm sure you'll find you have so much more time for it lol!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the best you two... ass couples go you're not bad...  Great positive grounded forum contributers that will be hard to replace.
New chapter, new experiences and more time for them too..
All the best. |
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"Struggle to understand parents who feel they have to justify themselves to their kids...but hey, we're all different.
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I don't think struggling to keep it private in an environment of open communications is the same as having the justify it though. I would never seek to justify this to my family - I just don't want them to know!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to see you go, really. Hang on....I don't suppose they can read this now..."
Course they can - doesn't everyone set up a second profile just to read the wailing? |
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I am so going to miss you, thanks for all the laughs and the tears we've shared, we knew this was coming but it doesn't make it easy  take care of each other and don't forget where I am if you need me all my love, Mrs blue eyesxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hopefully someone will pass on the regards now they've gone. It's a shame as I always liked their forum contributions even if I never really knew them. All the best!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to see you go, really. Hang on....I don't suppose they can read this now...
Course they can - doesn't everyone set up a second profile just to read the wailing?"
you don't need a profile to read the forums |
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What a shame .. Nothing to do with older son making life difficult for you I hope.
Maybe when he is gone you will get your life back to normal.
Have a great summer maybe you will come back to read forums incognito. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hopefully someone will pass on the regards now they've gone. It's a shame as I always liked their forum contributions even if I never really knew them. All the best! "
Me too  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Sorry to see you go, really. Hang on....I don't suppose they can read this now...
You can read the forums without being a member
lol what?...how?...  "
Log out. Find Fab and you'll see how easy it is. The first letter of your name becomes an asterisk but everything you write is visible.
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"Sorry to see you go, really. Hang on....I don't suppose they can read this now...
You can read the forums without being a member
lol what?...how?... "
Because they're a public forum
So the public can _iew it
Only verified members can partake in it by posting/commenting and the show with profile pics pixelated and part of their username blacked out to the non-members that read it
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"Sorry to see you go, really. Hang on....I don't suppose they can read this now...
You can read the forums without being a member
lol what?...how?... "
Just look them up. You'll see all our names are cleverly disguised by removing a letter
This is why people say "on a public forum"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're all correct.
I just did it and I can read the entire forum.
The profile pics are blurred out.
I didn't know that and I've been off and on off of here since 2014.  |
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"You're all correct.
I just did it and I can read the entire forum.
The profile pics are blurred out.
I didn't know that and I've been off and on off of here since 2014. "
Well they do say you learn something new everyday
So consider yourself schooled |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"You're all correct.
I just did it and I can read the entire forum.
The profile pics are blurred out.
I didn't know that and I've been off and on off of here since 2014. "
As others have said, when we warn people to be careful what they say as it's a public forum it's not just about the people on here. When people counter that no-one on a swingers site cares etc., they miss the point entirely.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're all correct.
I just did it and I can read the entire forum.
The profile pics are blurred out.
I didn't know that and I've been off and on off of here since 2014.
As others have said, when we warn people to be careful what they say as it's a public forum it's not just about the people on here. When people counter that no-one on a swingers site cares etc., they miss the point entirely.
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I'm fully aware of what I say on here, I just didn't know the forums were visible. |
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"You're all correct.
I just did it and I can read the entire forum.
The profile pics are blurred out.
I didn't know that and I've been off and on off of here since 2014.
As others have said, when we warn people to be careful what they say as it's a public forum it's not just about the people on here. When people counter that no-one on a swingers site cares etc., they miss the point entirely.
I'm fully aware of what I say on here, I just didn't know the forums were visible. "
It's Another reason why people aren't allowed to post phone numbers and Kik details |
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"Struggle to understand parents who feel they have to justify themselves to their kids...but hey, we're all different.
I don't think struggling to keep it private in an environment of open communications is the same as having the justify it though. I would never seek to justify this to my family - I just don't want them to know!! "
Nor would I: my private life is just that private.
They said they found it hard to find excuses to give to their kids when they were going out. That's what I struggled with.
Never felt the need to explain where I was going to my children: "see you later" worked for me. |
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"Struggle to understand parents who feel they have to justify themselves to their kids...but hey, we're all different.
I don't think struggling to keep it private in an environment of open communications is the same as having the justify it though. I would never seek to justify this to my family - I just don't want them to know!!
Nor would I: my private life is just that private.
They said they found it hard to find excuses to give to their kids when they were going out. That's what I struggled with.
Never felt the need to explain where I was going to my children: "see you later" worked for me. "
I think probably the arrival of older son wanting to come home after 9 years was probably a very disruptive for them. He seemed very demanding. I expect they have some adjusting to do right now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to see you go, really. Hang on....I don't suppose they can read this now...
You can read the forums without being a member
lol what?...how?...
Because they're a public forum
So the public can _iew it
Only verified members can partake in it by posting/commenting and the show with profile pics pixelated and part of their username blacked out to the non-members that read it
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You dont have to be verified to post/comment on the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And so they found the old gas lamp in the forest, they pushed through the trees, and the old overcoats, and found themselves in an old antique wardrobe. They opened the doors and stepped into the bedroom, and it was if they'd only been away for five minutes. |
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"Sorry to see you go, really. Hang on....I don't suppose they can read this now...
You can read the forums without being a member
lol what?...how?...
Because they're a public forum
So the public can _iew it
Only verified members can partake in it by posting/commenting and the show with profile pics pixelated and part of their username blacked out to the non-members that read it
You dont have to be verified to post/comment on the forums. "
I've been a member on and off for 6 years the rules have always been that only verified members can post on the forums. That verification can be by meet or a PV |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to see you go, really. Hang on....I don't suppose they can read this now...
You can read the forums without being a member
lol what?...how?...
Because they're a public forum
So the public can _iew it
Only verified members can partake in it by posting/commenting and the show with profile pics pixelated and part of their username blacked out to the non-members that read it
You dont have to be verified to post/comment on the forums.
I've been a member on and off for 6 years the rules have always been that only verified members can post on the forums. That verification can be by meet or a PV "
I posted on the forums long before i met anyone let alone was verified. |
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"Sorry to see you go, really. Hang on....I don't suppose they can read this now...
You can read the forums without being a member
lol what?...how?...
Because they're a public forum
So the public can _iew it
Only verified members can partake in it by posting/commenting and the show with profile pics pixelated and part of their username blacked out to the non-members that read it
You dont have to be verified to post/comment on the forums.
I've been a member on and off for 6 years the rules have always been that only verified members can post on the forums. That verification can be by meet or a PV
I posted on the forums long before i met anyone let alone was verified."
Were you photo verified though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to see you go, really. Hang on....I don't suppose they can read this now...
You can read the forums without being a member
lol what?...how?...
Because they're a public forum
So the public can _iew it
Only verified members can partake in it by posting/commenting and the show with profile pics pixelated and part of their username blacked out to the non-members that read it
You dont have to be verified to post/comment on the forums.
I've been a member on and off for 6 years the rules have always been that only verified members can post on the forums. That verification can be by meet or a PV
I posted on the forums long before i met anyone let alone was verified.
Were you photo verified though? "
No. |
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"Sorry to see you go, really. Hang on....I don't suppose they can read this now...
You can read the forums without being a member
lol what?...how?...
Because they're a public forum
So the public can _iew it
Only verified members can partake in it by posting/commenting and the show with profile pics pixelated and part of their username blacked out to the non-members that read it
You dont have to be verified to post/comment on the forums.
I've been a member on and off for 6 years the rules have always been that only verified members can post on the forums. That verification can be by meet or a PV
I posted on the forums long before i met anyone let alone was verified.
Were you photo verified though?
No. "
Strange I've always got a warning when trying to post as an unverified member and admin even confirmed that you can't on a previous thread where it was mention a few month back too |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Sorry to see you go, really. Hang on....I don't suppose they can read this now...
You can read the forums without being a member
lol what?...how?...
Because they're a public forum
So the public can _iew it
Only verified members can partake in it by posting/commenting and the show with profile pics pixelated and part of their username blacked out to the non-members that read it
You dont have to be verified to post/comment on the forums.
I've been a member on and off for 6 years the rules have always been that only verified members can post on the forums. That verification can be by meet or a PV
I posted on the forums long before i met anyone let alone was verified.
Were you photo verified though?
No.
Strange I've always got a warning when trying to post as an unverified member and admin even confirmed that you can't on a previous thread where it was mention a few month back too"
That's what I thought too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Struggle to understand parents who feel they have to justify themselves to their kids...but hey, we're all different.
I don't think struggling to keep it private in an environment of open communications is the same as having the justify it though. I would never seek to justify this to my family - I just don't want them to know!!
Nor would I: my private life is just that private.
They said they found it hard to find excuses to give to their kids when they were going out. That's what I struggled with.
Never felt the need to explain where I was going to my children: "see you later" worked for me.
I think probably the arrival of older son wanting to come home after 9 years was probably a very disruptive for them. He seemed very demanding. I expect they have some adjusting to do right now.
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Subtle. Now on public forum.. |
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"I don't know for sure but I think it has to be more than 6 years that Admin introduced the being verified before posting thing"
That wasn't the deal when I joined either. You had to wait seven days before you could post but you didn't have any other hoops to jump through. I wasn't verified and I've never done the photo verification thing. I think that was back in 2006 though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello you sexy devils, just wanted to say hello again, missed the forums a lot, thanks for the lovely messages and to those who said we'd be back, you were right lol. Missed you all and all the Banter so what have we missed  Ali Formerly Alimark |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello you sexy devils, just wanted to say hello again, missed the forums a lot, thanks for the lovely messages and to those who said we'd be back, you were right lol. Missed you all and all the Banter so what have we missed Ali Formerly Alimark "
Welcome back xxxx |
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"Hello you sexy devils, just wanted to say hello again, missed the forums a lot, thanks for the lovely messages and to those who said we'd be back, you were right lol. Missed you all and all the Banter so what have we missed Ali Formerly Alimark "
Yay!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello you sexy devils, just wanted to say hello again, missed the forums a lot, thanks for the lovely messages and to those who said we'd be back, you were right lol. Missed you all and all the Banter so what have we missed Ali Formerly Alimark "
Welcome back |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Hello you sexy devils, just wanted to say hello again, missed the forums a lot, thanks for the lovely messages and to those who said we'd be back, you were right lol. Missed you all and all the Banter so what have we missed Ali Formerly Alimark "
You can't live without us.
Now leave again before all the election crap makes you weep. |
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"Hello you sexy devils, just wanted to say hello again, missed the forums a lot, thanks for the lovely messages and to those who said we'd be back, you were right lol. Missed you all and all the Banter so what have we missed Ali Formerly Alimark "
Fantastic! Glad to see you back Dying to know if No 1 son slept in the car by the side of road or turfed you off the drive or moaned until little sister moved into the small box. So he could have the bigger one. (hope you didnt give in ). |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"Hello you sexy devils, just wanted to say hello again, missed the forums a lot, thanks for the lovely messages and to those who said we'd be back, you were right lol. Missed you all and all the Banter so what have we missed Ali Formerly Alimark "
Welcome back x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello you sexy devils, just wanted to say hello again, missed the forums a lot, thanks for the lovely messages and to those who said we'd be back, you were right lol. Missed you all and all the Banter so what have we missed Ali Formerly Alimark "
Did you develop a new script of plausible reasons re explaining? naughty absences to your offspring?
Might be useful to share them so couples within similar situations ?
Ha. WB. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello you sexy devils, just wanted to say hello again, missed the forums a lot, thanks for the lovely messages and to those who said we'd be back, you were right lol. Missed you all and all the Banter so what have we missed Ali Formerly Alimark "
Yay
Music thread is up and running - get on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello you sexy devils, just wanted to say hello again, missed the forums a lot, thanks for the lovely messages and to those who said we'd be back, you were right lol. Missed you all and all the Banter so what have we missed Ali Formerly Alimark "
Welcome back... now the big question.,, what happened with your son??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello you sexy devils, just wanted to say hello again, missed the forums a lot, thanks for the lovely messages and to those who said we'd be back, you were right lol. Missed you all and all the Banter so what have we missed Ali Formerly Alimark "
Another boomerang profile 
Welcome back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Thanks for all the welcome back messages, as for the son ,Had a big fall out. Mark stepped in and told him it was the box room and the road outside for his car, like it or lump it. Son tried to say he should have the bigger room and our drive for his car was worth a lot of money. He ended up staying with an Uncle for a few weeks and he has got back with his partner again. They still call in with the grandson but the atmosphere is Quite frosty between Mark and him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Welcome Back you pair!
Just spotted another familiar hottie come back too!
The smell of fresh sweat from the herd of white horses galloping towards her is quite strong!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Welcome Back you pair!
Just spotted another familiar hottie come back too!
The smell of fresh sweat from the herd of white horses galloping towards her is quite strong! "
I think I've spotted her too.
She's lovely if it's the same person we're talking about |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for all the welcome back messages, as for the son ,Had a big fall out. Mark stepped in and told him it was the box room and the road outside for his car, like it or lump it. Son tried to say he should have the bigger room and our drive for his car was worth a lot of money. He ended up staying with an Uncle for a few weeks and he has got back with his partner again. They still call in with the grandson but the atmosphere is Quite frosty between Mark and him. "
Good on you both for standing your ground it was needed |
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