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By *rueone71 OP Man
over a year ago
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No one (ish) ever meet at the drop of a hat.
First meet is always agreed and planned ahead; Am I right??.
So..why some woman don't want to meet if they only live couple of hours of train away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's not the distance that's making them not want to meet?  "
Good call, I've spent a total of five hours traveling for a meet and was worth it.
But I know what I'm working a month in advance, and it's never the same.
It's all about compromise so just go with the flow and not be pushy mate |
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By *rueone71 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's not the distance that's making them not want to meet?
Good call, I've spent a total of five hours traveling for a meet and was worth it.
But I know what I'm working a month in advance, and it's never the same.
It's all about compromise so just go with the flow and not be pushy mate "
Oh I'm not..honest..and thanks  |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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just the fact you haven't got a car will put most people off.
on POF you can say if you have a car or not and most guys have figured the above out so if they don't have a car they put 'rather not say' which tells us they don't have a car anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"just the fact you haven't got a car will put most people off.
on POF you can say if you have a car or not and most guys have figured the above out so if they don't have a car they put 'rather not say' which tells us they don't have a car anyway."
Tbf in london a car is about the slowest way to get anywhere when you factor in trying to find a parking spot :p |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"just the fact you haven't got a car will put most people off.
on POF you can say if you have a car or not and most guys have figured the above out so if they don't have a car they put 'rather not say' which tells us they don't have a car anyway.
Tbf in london a car is about the slowest way to get anywhere when you factor in trying to find a parking spot :p"
he's talking a couple of hours train drive. probably would be quicker in a car?
i forgot to say that most people also don't like guys to travel too far to them either. not sure why but i'm the same myself, i just want regular meets and someone far away isn't gonna be able to meet me enough. |
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"i forgot to say that most people also don't like guys to travel too far to them either. not sure why but i'm the same myself, i just want regular meets and someone far away isn't gonna be able to meet me enough."
If the desire is there, then distance shouldn't be a problem  |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"i forgot to say that most people also don't like guys to travel too far to them either. not sure why but i'm the same myself, i just want regular meets and someone far away isn't gonna be able to meet me enough.
If the desire is there, then distance shouldn't be a problem "
it is though. i've got someone just over an hours drive away saying he wants to see me as often as possible. it's not gonna happen is it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wouldn't travel 2 hours for a meet. I used to do it when at uni and my bf lived elsewhere. We'd spend the weekend together then the journey home on a bumpy train would be torture for my tender lady parts! |
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