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a wink is a start maybe for some..
there is no magic formula that works for all women..
it if its going to happen depends on many things..
not really sure why some men have become fixated with it as the holy grail..
is it porn..? |
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over a year ago
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"There is no best way
Some women can do it some can't
and some don't want to "
Agree with last remark
I am not keen on this with someone I have not known for long. |
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over a year ago
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"I think all ladies can easily squirt or gush. It all depends on the technique used. I can't achieve this by oral or sex. Only through use of vibrator"
I don't easily squirt/gush. And I'm rather relieved it doesn't happen easily. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I squirt lol can be embarrassing at times as I leave a puddle haha
some folk actively like that.
hello   "
Indeed and some ladys actively love to be made to gush and squirt too |
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over a year ago
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I love love love squirting! The feeling is amazing. What's annoying is I sometimes have to tell guys how to do it 
I love a guy that knows exactly what he's doing and makes me squirt over and over....mmmm |
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"I love love love squirting! The feeling is amazing. What's annoying is I sometimes have to tell guys how to do it
I love a guy that knows exactly what he's doing and makes me squirt over and over....mmmm"
Btw if you look on porn sites there are tutorials |
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my ways are:
a:hook fingers inside, tug upwards(gentle if required),as its getting wetter, rub clit,re-insert,use a curving gliding motion..sometimes pause and spread fingers in a firm manner.
b:while licking..insert fingers, thrusting motions mostly timed with licks, sometimes I lick while holding her inside very firmly almost vibrating the fingers.
c: rub the bellend over the clit, as she gets wetter and you feel splashback, insert slightly, teasing lips, then restart bellend rubbing the clit..you can even try spanking with the bellend on the clit at times.
everyone one is different of course,its best to let it go naturally rather than thinking its a necessity and thinking you or she arent 'good enough' to have the effect.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I squirt lol can be embarrassing at times as I leave a puddle haha
some folk actively like that.
hello
Indeed and some ladys actively love to be made to gush and squirt too "
Me me me!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My play partner squirts through fisting..."
I believe squirting and gushing is as much psychological as physical, if you hit the right combo you will achieve this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I squirt lol can be embarrassing at times as I leave a puddle haha
some folk actively like that.
hello
Indeed and some ladys actively love to be made to gush and squirt too
Me me me!!"
Well now that's interesting darlin and really not so far away either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Worse phenomenon to ever hit the porn sites. "
it works for some people, i've known ladies who enjoy it as much as guys.
i get that some people treat it as a 'thing' or whatever but there's space for it as much as any other kink. |
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"I love love love squirting! The feeling is amazing. What's annoying is I sometimes have to tell guys how to do it
I love a guy that knows exactly what he's doing and makes me squirt over and over....mmmm"
It is rather sexy my sub loves this very much too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"my ways are:
a:hook fingers inside, tug upwards(gentle if required),as its getting wetter, rub clit,re-insert,use a curving gliding motion..sometimes pause and spread fingers in a firm manner.
b:while licking..insert fingers, thrusting motions mostly timed with licks, sometimes I lick while holding her inside very firmly almost vibrating the fingers.
c: rub the bellend over the clit, as she gets wetter and you feel splashback, insert slightly, teasing lips, then restart bellend rubbing the clit..you can even try spanking with the bellend on the clit at times.
everyone one is different of course,its best to let it go naturally rather than thinking its a necessity and thinking you or she arent 'good enough' to have the effect.
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Absolutely overthinking is often the enemy preventing this from being achieved regardless of technique sadly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I squirt lol can be embarrassing at times as I leave a puddle haha
some folk actively like that.
hello
Indeed and some ladys actively love to be made to gush and squirt too
Me me me!!"
Oh hello  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It varies from woman to woman and session to session. what makes her squirt one time won't the next....
Squirting shouldn't be the aim or target. We're not playing Tekken.
It's not something that I aim for in itself but I love it when it hastens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never squirted 
I have no problem getting incredibly wet (is there such a thing as too wet?)  but I honestly don't think I can squirt. . X "
I wouldn't worry it's overrated
At times it can be very embarrassing
Then the idiots who know you squirt and go hell for leather with their fingers trying to make you squirt
Honestly your not missing much |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"my ways are:
a:hook fingers inside, tug upwards(gentle if required),as its getting wetter, rub clit,re-insert,use a curving gliding motion..sometimes pause and spread fingers in a firm manner.
This
b:while licking..insert fingers, thrusting motions mostly timed with licks, sometimes I lick while holding her inside very firmly almost vibrating the fingers.
c: rub the bellend over the clit, as she gets wetter and you feel splashback, insert slightly, teasing lips, then restart bellend rubbing the clit..you can even try spanking with the bellend on the clit at times.
everyone one is different of course,its best to let it go naturally rather than thinking its a necessity and thinking you or she arent 'good enough' to have the effect.
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It's a wonderful thing, it's not a bad dirty thing to avoid and there's no shame in either enjoying being made to gush or squirt or wanting to do that for your meet, however as is often the case a few make a big issue of it spoiling it for others, if it font happen there is no failure on either part, some people just can't achieve it sadly sexual hang ups exist but belittling a desire or preference to make another feel better is just as bad as making someone feel bad for not gushing etc!
It is what it is and if it happens and with the right person it's sexy horny great if it doesn't never mind, to dismiss it as not a good experience is misguided as there's plenty who appreciate it and are still ok if it don't happen too |
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"my ways are:
a:hook fingers inside, tug upwards(gentle if required),as its getting wetter, rub clit,re-insert,use a curving gliding motion..sometimes pause and spread fingers in a firm manner.
b:while licking..insert fingers, thrusting motions mostly timed with licks, sometimes I lick while holding her inside very firmly almost vibrating the fingers.
c: rub the bellend over the clit, as she gets wetter and you feel splashback, insert slightly, teasing lips, then restart bellend rubbing the clit..you can even try spanking with the bellend on the clit at times.
everyone one is different of course,its best to let it go naturally rather than thinking its a necessity and thinking you or she arent 'good enough' to have the effect.
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a and c both work well for me. The feeling is amazing, it's a different kind of orgasm to me. Just means we get through lots of towels |
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"A porn-induced obsession. Some women do and some don't, some do sometimes. It shouldn't be a goal, just relax and enjoy what you have all actually gone for."
For some it's a kink of theirs so they seek out those who can and do regularly gush squirt and there's nothing wrong at all in that being a goal of theirs or something they actively seek as long as all are ok with it and nobody's feelings will be hurt by said pursuit! After all aren't we all here to pursue things that in general are not considered ok and or accepted on the whole in general by all with swinging and open sexual relationships!? |
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I find that those who boast that they can do it, usually can't.
One person has made me do it, but it's not the end of my world if it doesn't happen again. |
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"A porn-induced obsession. Some women do and some don't, some do sometimes. It shouldn't be a goal, just relax and enjoy what you have all actually gone for.
For some it's a kink of theirs so they seek out those who can and do regularly gush squirt and there's nothing wrong at all in that being a goal of theirs or something they actively seek as long as all are ok with it and nobody's feelings will be hurt by said pursuit! After all aren't we all here to pursue things that in general are not considered ok and or accepted on the whole in general by all with swinging and open sexual relationships!? "
That's right. There is nothing wrong with squirting at all. My point is that for some men it has become a goal or indicator of their performance.
My comment about relaxing and enjoying what they had gone for, means just that. If they all want a squirting session great, if they just want orgasmic sex, the squirting doesn't need to be thrown in as an arbitrary target.
MrB |
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"A porn-induced obsession. Some women do and some don't, some do sometimes. It shouldn't be a goal, just relax and enjoy what you have all actually gone for.
For some it's a kink of theirs so they seek out those who can and do regularly gush squirt and there's nothing wrong at all in that being a goal of theirs or something they actively seek as long as all are ok with it and nobody's feelings will be hurt by said pursuit! After all aren't we all here to pursue things that in general are not considered ok and or accepted on the whole in general by all with swinging and open sexual relationships!?
That's right. There is nothing wrong with squirting at all. My point is that for some men it has become a goal or indicator of their performance.
My comment about relaxing and enjoying what they had gone for, means just that. If they all want a squirting session great, if they just want orgasmic sex, the squirting doesn't need to be thrown in as an arbitrary target.
MrB"
Exactly this! I want someone to enjoy having fun with me, not having a mental tick list of all the things they think they "should" be able to do me. It takes all the fun away. |
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"A porn-induced obsession. Some women do and some don't, some do sometimes. It shouldn't be a goal, just relax and enjoy what you have all actually gone for.
For some it's a kink of theirs so they seek out those who can and do regularly gush squirt and there's nothing wrong at all in that being a goal of theirs or something they actively seek as long as all are ok with it and nobody's feelings will be hurt by said pursuit! After all aren't we all here to pursue things that in general are not considered ok and or accepted on the whole in general by all with swinging and open sexual relationships!?
That's right. There is nothing wrong with squirting at all. My point is that for some men it has become a goal or indicator of their performance.
My comment about relaxing and enjoying what they had gone for, means just that. If they all want a squirting session great, if they just want orgasmic sex, the squirting doesn't need to be thrown in as an arbitrary target.
MrB"
Indeed relaxing is important for many sexual encounters and I agree it's only ok with fellow kink enthusiasts else just have fun and don't worry about it |
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It seems to me that the squirting debate has now replaced the clitoral V oral orgasm debate that was prevelant a few years ago!
Back then many ladies were led to feel inadequate if an orgasm could only be achieved by clitoral stimulation rather than through penetrative sex
It's not a competition at the end of the day |
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"It seems to me that the squirting debate has now replaced the clitoral V oral orgasm debate that was prevelant a few years ago!
Back then many ladies were led to feel inadequate if an orgasm could only be achieved by clitoral stimulation rather than through penetrative sex
It's not a competition at the end of the day"
Sorry I meant to say clitoral V vaginal orgasm .Oops! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems to me that the squirting debate has now replaced the clitoral V oral orgasm debate that was prevelant a few years ago!
Back then many ladies were led to feel inadequate if an orgasm could only be achieved by clitoral stimulation rather than through penetrative sex
It's not a competition at the end of the day
Sorry I meant to say clitoral V vaginal orgasm .Oops!"
Hehe the two would work together well clitoral and oral  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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'Best way to make a lady squirt'
Why do you have to?
Enjoy what you do, dont worry about 'making' something happen.
As long as all of you have a good time and enjoy it...that's what matters
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"'Best way to make a lady squirt'
Why do you have to?
Enjoy what you do, dont worry about 'making' something happen.
As long as all of you have a good time and enjoy it...that's what matters
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I want a guy to make me squirt. I love it so that's part how I have a good time |
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"'Best way to make a lady squirt'
Why do you have to?
Enjoy what you do, dont worry about 'making' something happen.
As long as all of you have a good time and enjoy it...that's what matters
I want a guy to make me squirt. I love it so that's part how I have a good time "
i will try my best |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"'Best way to make a lady squirt'
Why do you have to?
Enjoy what you do, dont worry about 'making' something happen.
As long as all of you have a good time and enjoy it...that's what matters
I want a guy to make me squirt. I love it so that's part how I have a good time "
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I normally do it every time in reverse cowgirl while rubbing my clit, but its a lot to do with how turned on I am at the time , effort in = wet puddle . I find it ambarrasing sometimes though as it feels like you've pissed the bed
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