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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get a small enough number 0-1 that I can have a nose and see if it is someone I want to contact.
Certainly wouldn't be doing that if I had 100+ per day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really get the point of them. I think Pete looks at them but I don't take much notice. If someone's really interested they'll just send us a message
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get a small enough number 0-1 that I can have a nose and see if it is someone I want to contact.
Certainly wouldn't be doing that if I had 100+ per day"
I just don't know where you find the time to manage that many  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I think in the four months or so that I've had this profile I've had less than 10 winks in all and with one exception (whose profile made it clear that if they winked it meant they were open to being messaged if the recipient of the wink (i.e. me) was interested) I've not responded to any. |
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By *ymph84Woman
over a year ago
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"I delete them all as soon as I get them and the same with friend requests. Unless I've met previously i won't add them as a friend
You should just leave them there. Can't be resent then "
I never knew that thanks |
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"I delete them all as soon as I get them and the same with friend requests. Unless I've met previously i won't add them as a friend
You should just leave them there. Can't be resent then
I never knew that thanks"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who actually responds to them?
I've had 625 today, I would be on until Easter if I were to respond to them all."
That's 626, sorry lovely couldn't resits. Giggles to oneself
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had two but they were from women 150 miles away so pretty pointless. However local winks from local people are gratefully received in the spirit in which they were intended.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Winks may be more useful for couples. It's particularly useful if you get one from another couple (if you can spot them in amongst the scores from single men).
Correct me if I'm wrong, but in the short time we've been on here, there appears to be several ways to show an escalating level of interest. Fabbing pics seems to act like a soft wink, showing you like the look of them. Then, a wink shows you're more interested, because maybe you've read the profile and now like the sound of them. Obviously a friend request is stronger and would most effectively come after messaging and getting to know them, though some people refuse friend requests till after physically meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually rather like them.
It could simply be a show of appreciation or that people are shy and unsure of making first contact.
At the end of the day they are harmless and you only have to view them should you choose to.
Wink away and screw what people think. If they're that indifferent to them they'll just be ignored.
Take a chance, you never know where it may lead.
Peace out
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Winks may be more useful for couples. It's particularly useful if you get one from another couple (if you can spot them in amongst the scores from single men).
Correct me if I'm wrong, but in the short time we've been on here, there appears to be several ways to show an escalating level of interest. Fabbing pics seems to act like a soft wink, showing you like the look of them. Then, a wink shows you're more interested, because maybe you've read the profile and now like the sound of them. Obviously a friend request is stronger and would most effectively come after messaging and getting to know them, though some people refuse friend requests till after physically meeting."
I don't see the point of all the foreplay. If you see someone you fancy, send them a message, explain what you're looking for, attach a photo and see what happens. If they reply, great. If they just delete it, stalk the shit out of them!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Winks may be more useful for couples. It's particularly useful if you get one from another couple (if you can spot them in amongst the scores from single men).
Correct me if I'm wrong, but in the short time we've been on here, there appears to be several ways to show an escalating level of interest. Fabbing pics seems to act like a soft wink, showing you like the look of them. Then, a wink shows you're more interested, because maybe you've read the profile and now like the sound of them. Obviously a friend request is stronger and would most effectively come after messaging and getting to know them, though some people refuse friend requests till after physically meeting.
I don't see the point of all the foreplay. If you see someone you fancy, send them a message, explain what you're looking for, attach a photo and see what happens. If they reply, great. If they just delete it, stalk the shit out of them!! "
Is that really how bad it is? You hear stories but your never sure of what to believe here, I guest it's easy being a single guy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who actually responds to them?
I've had 625 today, I would be on until Easter if I were to respond to them all."
You've had 625 winks today or since you last checked? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i don't get that many so look occasionally, if i see anyone i like i might message but that's about it, bit of a cursory check but i don't pay much mind to them otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We hardly get any winks but then we have filtered our message settings on our profile to such an extent that unless you're a 29 year old professional ballerina, who was born in the last quarter of the year, has blonde hair, green eyes, a degree in English, can bake, volunteers for the Red Cross, is an organ doner, can play the piano and hates tomatoes .... you wink isn't getting through ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We hardly get any winks but then we have filtered our message settings on our profile to such an extent that unless you're a 29 year old professional ballerina, who was born in the last quarter of the year, has blonde hair, green eyes, a degree in English, can bake, volunteers for the Red Cross, is an organ doner, can play the piano and hates tomatoes .... you wink isn't getting through ! "
?????????? lol love this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who actually responds to them?
I've had 625 today, I would be on until Easter if I were to respond to them all.
You've had 625 winks today or since you last checked? "
Well the op had a similar post up the other day saying she had 600 so I'm guessing it's an accumulation  |
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