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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just a little something to show that being young(ish) isn't that great and to make those that wish they were more more youthful a little better.
So I'm approaching 25 and I'm a single graduate. Ahh the world is your oyster you must be thinking. Well, guess again.
I get the when am I going to be a grandma talk from my mum on a daily basis, I'm working on the minimum wage because the post 16 propaganda about uni being the best option was a complete lie. I'm either under qualified, over qualified or not confident enough to get a graduate job in education.
I don't want kids but I'm starting to think shit, my body clock is against me, mainly due to the aforementioned pressure that my mother is putting on me.
I've started becoming paranoid about facial hair and have burnt the inside of my lip with a hair removal cream. Don't ask how, I've no idea how it happened.
Its harder than ever to lose weight no that but oh so easy to put it on.
Its becoming frowned upon to go to night clubs and when I do its full of 'kids' anyway. I'm starting to question the length of my skirt when I do go out.
16 year olds can do their make up way better than I can do mine and my hair is starting to feel less voluminous.
The list is ever growing can anyone else add to the list?
PS this is not a rant or feel sorry for me thread. Its just a bit of fun  but it is all true even the lip burn bit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh, I'm 27 and I sometimes feel like I should be looking to settle down and have a kid or two... then I remember how free and easy my life is without kids and a partner.  |
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Hair removal cream hurts
Do what you want when you feel ready
I wouldn't mind some babies soon (please no offers of breeding  )
As for work...you are still young. I'm not doing what I want to be yet, I still don't know what that is.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 54 and have more baggage than an airport. Enjoy what you have and chase those dreams, never undermine yourself or let others put unwanted pressure on you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a little something to show that being young(ish) isn't that great and to make those that wish they were more more youthful a little better.
So I'm approaching 25 and I'm a single graduate. Ahh the world is your oyster you must be thinking. Well, guess again.
I get the when am I going to be a grandma talk from my mum on a daily basis, I'm working on the minimum wage because the post 16 propaganda about uni being the best option was a complete lie. I'm either under qualified, over qualified or not confident enough to get a graduate job in education.
I don't want kids but I'm starting to think shit, my body clock is against me, mainly due to the aforementioned pressure that my mother is putting on me.
I've started becoming paranoid about facial hair and have burnt the inside of my lip with a hair removal cream. Don't ask how, I've no idea how it happened.
Its harder than ever to lose weight no that but oh so easy to put it on.
Its becoming frowned upon to go to night clubs and when I do its full of 'kids' anyway. I'm starting to question the length of my skirt when I do go out.
16 year olds can do their make up way better than I can do mine and my hair is starting to feel less voluminous.
The list is ever growing can anyone else add to the list?
PS this is not a rant or feel sorry for me thread. Its just a bit of fun but it is all true even the lip burn bit "
All those things get a whole lot worse the older you get |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 41 and have had the 'grandma' bullshit since my twenties. We still get it from the mother in law too.
They're all told when we want to, not when you want it to be.
You do what you want for you, not for anybody else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't mind some babies soon (please no offers of breeding )
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We should have kids...
Our babies would be smart, and beautiful...
They might get your hair genes or something.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just a little something to show that being young(ish) isn't that great and to make those that wish they were more more youthful a little better.
So I'm approaching 25 and I'm a single graduate. Ahh the world is your oyster you must be thinking. Well, guess again.
I get the when am I going to be a grandma talk from my mum on a daily basis, I'm working on the minimum wage because the post 16 propaganda about uni being the best option was a complete lie. I'm either under qualified, over qualified or not confident enough to get a graduate job in education.
I don't want kids but I'm starting to think shit, my body clock is against me, mainly due to the aforementioned pressure that my mother is putting on me.
I've started becoming paranoid about facial hair and have burnt the inside of my lip with a hair removal cream. Don't ask how, I've no idea how it happened.
Its harder than ever to lose weight no that but oh so easy to put it on.
Its becoming frowned upon to go to night clubs and when I do its full of 'kids' anyway. I'm starting to question the length of my skirt when I do go out.
16 year olds can do their make up way better than I can do mine and my hair is starting to feel less voluminous.
The list is ever growing can anyone else add to the list?
PS this is not a rant or feel sorry for me thread. Its just a bit of fun but it is all true even the lip burn bit
All those things get a whole lot worse the older you get "
You're kidding, right?!  there's no hope |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh, I'm 27 and I sometimes feel like I should be looking to settle down and have a kid or two... then I remember how free and easy my life is without kids and a partner.
partners are fine if your of the same mind kids may be a little more tying though, no upping and buggering off whenever you fancy  "
Was that tying or trying? 
I know, don't get me wrong as I do want kids eventually, but I currently rather my time, money, sleep and space be mine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I forgot to add the 13k debt and having student finance sending me an annual reminder that I still owe them money
On the plus side my skin is clearer and car insurance reduces significantly this year |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Just a little something to show that being young(ish) isn't that great and to make those that wish they were more more youthful a little better.
So I'm approaching 25 and I'm a single graduate. Ahh the world is your oyster you must be thinking. Well, guess again.
I get the when am I going to be a grandma talk from my mum on a daily basis, I'm working on the minimum wage because the post 16 propaganda about uni being the best option was a complete lie. I'm either under qualified, over qualified or not confident enough to get a graduate job in education.
I don't want kids but I'm starting to think shit, my body clock is against me, mainly due to the aforementioned pressure that my mother is putting on me.
I've started becoming paranoid about facial hair and have burnt the inside of my lip with a hair removal cream. Don't ask how, I've no idea how it happened.
Its harder than ever to lose weight no that but oh so easy to put it on.
Its becoming frowned upon to go to night clubs and when I do its full of 'kids' anyway. I'm starting to question the length of my skirt when I do go out.
16 year olds can do their make up way better than I can do mine and my hair is starting to feel less voluminous.
The list is ever growing can anyone else add to the list?
PS this is not a rant or feel sorry for me thread. Its just a bit of fun but it is all true even the lip burn bit "
someone with the skill and mind to write this can and will achieve everything they wish to achieve.
just had to say that right onto the topic at hand .
I'm starting to go very grey down the sides .
I've taken to not looking in the mirror unless a have to because thanks to the greying hair I'm starting to look like my granddad
i noticed a couple of grey hairs on my chest this made me take a look hard look around the old wedding tackle and yes you guess it there's a few down there two
now I'm thinking when ever a pretty young thing smiles at me she's doing it because I remind her of her granddad
this has lead me to thinking about buying a sports car of all things
and yes if I get one I'm defiantly going the whole hog. twenty something eye candy watch out there soon will be a new silver fox in the hen pen  |
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51 in a few weeks time.
Apart from a few minor physical things (grey hair, wrinkles, belly), I am fit, healthy and happier than I can every remember being.
I have a well paid, but very undemanding job. A nice house near the beach (all to myself). I am still friendly with my (separated) wife, and get on well with my kids.
I get to look after my granddaughter every once in a while (enough to enjoy, without it becoming a pain).
I have a great social life, and can pretty much do what I want when I want without giving it much concideration.
I would not swap with a twenty something for all the tea in china thank you very much...
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"You do what you want for you, not for anybody else. "
I'm not that much older than you and I remember a few years ago feeling a similar way. It does get better as clichéd as that may read. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"51 in a few weeks time.
Apart from a few minor physical things (grey hair, wrinkles, belly), I am fit, healthy and happier than I can every remember being.
I have a well paid, but very undemanding job. A nice house near the beach (all to myself). I am still friendly with my (separated) wife, and get on well with my kids.
I get to look after my granddaughter every once in a while (enough to enjoy, without it becoming a pain).
I have a great social life, and can pretty much do what I want when I want without giving it much concideration.
I would not swap with a twenty something for all the tea in china thank you very much...
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So it'll get better in 25 years? Maybe there is hope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try being the wrong side of 40 (shock horror, I lied on my profile) single parent.
Previously self employed in an industry I can no longer work in, heading back into the workplace, trying to find my place...and don't even start on hair or relationships! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I turn 30 in a couple of weeks, you whipper snapper.
My hair is keeping its volume though.
I have noticed myself saying 'kids these days' more.  "
Lucky swine, can I make a wig out of yours? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Trust me OP there are those who have similar worries even famous people with cosmetic surgeons on tap lol.
Im sure your a beautiful person worrying needlessly. As soon as you can get naked take a good look in the mirror and ONLY focus on what you like about you, and then masturbate til you orgasm (apparently cumming is when we feel our sexiest) a bit late in the new year but resolute that you'll not worry about finding the guy who pisses you off the least and you'll have his baby because stressing about finding him is a block sort of more haste less speed xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I turn 30 in a couple of weeks, you whipper snapper.
My hair is keeping its volume though.
I have noticed myself saying 'kids these days' more.
Lucky swine, can I make a wig out of yours? "
Of course |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I turn 30 in a couple of weeks, you whipper snapper.
My hair is keeping its volume though.
I have noticed myself saying 'kids these days' more.
Lucky swine, can I make a wig out of yours?
Of course "
I didn't think you'd agree to that quick someone shave his head before he changes his mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm 26 this year and totally get you OP.
I sometimes feel a lot of pressure to do this or do that!
When it comes to having children I 100% want them but feel under pressure sometimes to hurry up! I know people my age and who I went to school with who have had 3 children by now
Life can be a real struggle at times but having said that, it was only earlier on I was thinking how I wouldn't want to be a teenager now. I almost feel sorry for them! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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try being 51
actually it's not so bad..
I've recently lost over a stone in weight and look fantastic (even if I say so myself)
if anything sprouts on my face it gets waxed off PDQ 
I will be a graduate next year ...I didn't believe the hype about University when I left school so walked straight into a job and had a life and a laugh...
kids? I wasn't that keen on settling down and having any either, and definitely not at 25!! I was far too busy enjoying myself and being selfish
I have one now though, and he means the world to me and it also means it will be a good 10 years before I become a granny too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for the lovely reassuring messages but it's just meant to be a light hearted thread
Another one, I'm not ready to swap my jagerbombs and sambuca for wine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I turn 30 in a couple of weeks, you whipper snapper.
My hair is keeping its volume though.
I have noticed myself saying 'kids these days' more.
Lucky swine, can I make a wig out of yours?
Of course
I didn't think you'd agree to that quick someone shave his head before he changes his mind "
I'll grow it out so we can both have fabulous hair. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Life can be a real struggle at times but having said that, it was only earlier on I was thinking how I wouldn't want to be a teenager now. I almost feel sorry for them!
X "
With you on that! Social media has taken over way too much and seems to cause problems in almost every aspect of life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh, I'm 27 and I sometimes feel like I should be looking to settle down and have a kid or two... then I remember how free and easy my life is without kids and a partner.
partners are fine if your of the same mind kids may be a little more tying though, no upping and buggering off whenever you fancy
Was that tying or trying?
I know, don't get me wrong as I do want kids eventually, but I currently rather my time, money, sleep and space be mine."
tying...probably very trying too to be fair
i don't want kids, i get on fine with them, tons of nieces and nephews i get on with but my own? no..
there are too many of them anyhow, the world doesn't need more breeders |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I turn 30 in a couple of weeks, you whipper snapper.
My hair is keeping its volume though.
I have noticed myself saying 'kids these days' more.
Lucky swine, can I make a wig out of yours?
Of course
I didn't think you'd agree to that quick someone shave his head before he changes his mind
I'll grow it out so we can both have fabulous hair. "
Oh you absolute cutie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm 28 and don't even know what country I'll be living in in 10 years.
Just be happy in the moment. Plan for the future, but don't worry about the future, if that makes sense... |
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"51 in a few weeks time.
Apart from a few minor physical things (grey hair, wrinkles, belly), I am fit, healthy and happier than I can every remember being.
I have a well paid, but very undemanding job. A nice house near the beach (all to myself). I am still friendly with my (separated) wife, and get on well with my kids.
I get to look after my granddaughter every once in a while (enough to enjoy, without it becoming a pain).
I have a great social life, and can pretty much do what I want when I want without giving it much concideration.
I would not swap with a twenty something for all the tea in china thank you very much...
So it'll get better in 25 years? Maybe there is hope "
Lol, yeah, just hang in there! It'll come round a lot bloody quicker than you think too!
;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Life can be a real struggle at times but having said that, it was only earlier on I was thinking how I wouldn't want to be a teenager now. I almost feel sorry for them!
X
With you on that! Social media has taken over way too much and seems to cause problems in almost every aspect of life "
Absolutely agree with that! Social media has a lot to answer for! X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"51 in a few weeks time.
Apart from a few minor physical things (grey hair, wrinkles, belly), I am fit, healthy and happier than I can every remember being.
I have a well paid, but very undemanding job. A nice house near the beach (all to myself). I am still friendly with my (separated) wife, and get on well with my kids.
I get to look after my granddaughter every once in a while (enough to enjoy, without it becoming a pain).
I have a great social life, and can pretty much do what I want when I want without giving it much concideration.
I would not swap with a twenty something for all the tea in china thank you very much...
So it'll get better in 25 years? Maybe there is hope
Lol, yeah, just hang in there! It'll come round a lot bloody quicker than you think too!
;-)"
I look forward to being in my 50s then |
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"Think of the poor men, they get exceedingly long nostril hair and hairy ears.
Could be worse see "
I am pretty fanatical about keeping hairs out of my ears. My dad walks about looking like he is wearing a hamster in each ear...
I do not want that look! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I feel for you, but in your mid twenties you're still a baby. Don't fret about what anyone else thinks or the pressure you may feel put upon you. It's more important to be who you are and not what other people expect you to be. If you can accept your growing years and the changes that brings you'll be happier in your own skin. You're a great person and things will get better, i can guarantee that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think of the poor men, they get exceedingly long nostril hair and hairy ears.
Could be worse see
I am pretty fanatical about keeping hairs out of my ears. My dad walks about looking like he is wearing a hamster in each ear...
I do not want that look!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I turn 30 in a couple of weeks, you whipper snapper.
My hair is keeping its volume though.
I have noticed myself saying 'kids these days' more.
Lucky swine, can I make a wig out of yours?
Of course
I didn't think you'd agree to that quick someone shave his head before he changes his mind
I'll grow it out so we can both have fabulous hair.
Oh you absolute cutie "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Aw x hugs right at ya
Things will hopefully get better, on the plus side you'll never be as old or as wrinkly as me! Silver linings and all that.
In all seriousness, I know it's so easy to say but not I easy to do, but think of all the positives you have too! It's always easy to take for granted what we have but most of us are blessed in many ways xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"51 in a few weeks time.
Apart from a few minor physical things (grey hair, wrinkles, belly), I am fit, healthy and happier than I can every remember being.
I have a well paid, but very undemanding job. A nice house near the beach (all to myself). I am still friendly with my (separated) wife, and get on well with my kids.
I get to look after my granddaughter every once in a while (enough to enjoy, without it becoming a pain).
I have a great social life, and can pretty much do what I want when I want without giving it much concideration.
I would not swap with a twenty something for all the tea in china thank you very much...
So it'll get better in 25 years? Maybe there is hope
Lol, yeah, just hang in there! It'll come round a lot bloody quicker than you think too!
;-)
I look forward to being in my 50s then "
50 is the new 20's 30's and 40's all rolled into one! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Seriously, you should be spending your twenties as they were intended. Making poor choices, drinking too much, getting your Mum to do your washing.
I'm 34 this year and still haven't completely got stuff figured out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seriously, you should be spending your twenties as they were intended. Making poor choices, drinking too much, getting your Mum to do your washing.
I'm 34 this year and still haven't completely got stuff figured out! "
I'm 40. And I feel the same. It's not an age thing. Your soul doesn't age.
*sits meditating - smoking something that smells funny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think of the poor men, they get exceedingly long nostril hair and hairy ears.
Could be worse see "
It's not just the men that get the nostril hair and hairy ears, I've seen better beards than I've got on some women as well |
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By *eliWoman
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"You're still only a little whipper snapper
(I've never double emojied before. Go me!)
Go me for extracting the double emoji out of you "
You should be proud! Never have I felt so strongly about a post and been able to express it in words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think of the poor men, they get exceedingly long nostril hair and hairy ears.
Could be worse see
It's not just the men that get the nostril hair and hairy ears, I've seen better beards than I've got on some women as well "
Sssh i'm trying to make her feel better! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm 52 and fucking loving it. Who gives a shit what people think - which is basically why there things bother you!
Concentrate on the good things, change the things you can and get over the rest xx |
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I'm 23 and I have a partner and child in one person (*hides* when he sees this )
I'm less mobile than the 93 year old next door
I'm always tired and doing the simplest tasks knackers me out.
It's all good though, I'm just getting my old age shit done while I'm young enough to handle it.. I'll be climbing mountains and bouncing around trampoline parks in my 70s |
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