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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No....it means they are genuine. Probably attend clubs/parties/socials too.
I organised a social followed by a party on same day on my previous profile. Ended up with a dozen verifications all at once.....didn't mean I'd shagged em all tho (two were from guys lol!).
Read them individually....make your own judgement. |
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"No....it means they are genuine. Probably attend clubs/parties/socials too.
I organised a social followed by a party on same day on my previous profile. Ended up with a dozen verifications all at once.....didn't mean I'd shagged em all tho (two were from guys lol!).
Read them individually....make your own judgement."
Yeah, but you had about 7000 |
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"No....it means they are genuine. Probably attend clubs/parties/socials too.
I organised a social followed by a party on same day on my previous profile. Ended up with a dozen verifications all at once.....didn't mean I'd shagged em all tho (two were from guys lol!).
Read them individually....make your own judgement.
Yeah, but you had about 7000 "
Haha....slight exaggeration there Ace! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many, too few, does it matter? "
Yes. If a man turns up at parties, gang bangs, organised events just to put his dick in an available hole, he won't be the man for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read the verifications and it depends what they say. Anything overly explicit is a turn off for me.
How ridiculous does that sound on a swingers site "
Not at all. I'm exactly the same. People have different requirements, but I do get put off by this too.
To a certain extent it's pointless judging by the number of veris, they don't show every single encounter in any case. You might decide, let's say 7 is acceptable, but the person will have more meets than that. Clubbers and party goers will always have higher numbers if they choose to who them. |
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"No....it means they are genuine. Probably attend clubs/parties/socials too.
I organised a social followed by a party on same day on my previous profile. Ended up with a dozen verifications all at once.....didn't mean I'd shagged em all tho (two were from guys lol!).
Read them individually....make your own judgement.
Yeah, but you had about 7000
Haha....slight exaggeration there Ace!"
Maybe just a tad
But I have seen a couple of profiles where I would have to have taken a day off work to read their entire profile and all 300+ published veris
There's a disclaimer at the bottom of my profile btw |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's hard to weigh it up as if someone has alot of veries it doesn't mean they have had sex with all these people? I've been verified 9 times but I've not had sex with everyone that I've met. Also depends how long someone has been on here too I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have tons, still give them when we meet regulars and get them back, it's become a bit of a running joke with us and friends and it's just funny to see how many we've aquired, to us they are a little thank you note after a meet.
We don't care if people are put off by the amount x |
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Loads of verifications doesn't necessarily mean the person you're interested in has played with everyone they've met; some people are social butterflies. Read through their list before making your mind up ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have tons, still give them when we meet regulars and get them back, it's become a bit of a running joke with us and friends and it's just funny to see how many we've aquired, to us they are a little thank you note after a meet.
We don't care if people are put off by the amount x"
Same here , we don't have the inclination to be covert about our time on fab .
We see it as a site to hook up with like minded people and enjoy aspects of sex with those we find attractive .
If they want a veri , we happily give one . We aren't bothered if we get one back .... been there done that on previous profiles . Our last profile had 545 veris in less than two years , and yes we got grief from some for that . But the thing is this , we wouldn't want to meet the judgemental people who frown upon that anyway . In just the same way as they wouldn't want to meet us .
This is a fickle lifestyle , with so many different approaches . We know what works for us , and find as much enjoyment from meeting newbies as we do the more experienced swingers . The people we don't wish to meet are the ones who judge others by how many meets they have had . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have tons, still give them when we meet regulars and get them back, it's become a bit of a running joke with us and friends and it's just funny to see how many we've aquired, to us they are a little thank you note after a meet.
We don't care if people are put off by the amount x
Same here , we don't have the inclination to be covert about our time on fab .
We see it as a site to hook up with like minded people and enjoy aspects of sex with those we find attractive .
If they want a veri , we happily give one . We aren't bothered if we get one back .... been there done that on previous profiles . Our last profile had 545 veris in less than two years , and yes we got grief from some for that . But the thing is this , we wouldn't want to meet the judgemental people who frown upon that anyway . In just the same way as they wouldn't want to meet us .
This is a fickle lifestyle , with so many different approaches . We know what works for us , and find as much enjoyment from meeting newbies as we do the more experienced swingers . The people we don't wish to meet are the ones who judge others by how many meets they have had ."
Still happy to verify once you buy me a Happy Meal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does someone with lots of verifications put you off or not
Just curious as to what people think "
No.
I don't pay much attention, if any, to verifications at all.
I go off gut instinct. |
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I feel better if guys have some verifications. and I am someone who reads them as I feel they give you a bit of an idea about the person. or who they meet or what kind of verifications they choose to display. don't care about the number- might be slightly impressed if they are good |
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"Does someone with lots of verifications put you off or not
Just curious as to what people think
No.
I don't pay much attention, if any, to verifications at all.
I go off gut instinct."
Oi Mr Thumpster, you owe me a veri from about 5 yrs ago at Cupids
I don't think we shagged each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been told I have too many. The thing is I have set my profile up to put people off. The ones it attracts are more likely to be the people I'd have more fun with! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I've been told I have too many. The thing is I have set my profile up to put people off. The ones it attracts are more likely to be the people I'd have more fun with! "
Reverse psychology? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been told I have too many. The thing is I have set my profile up to put people off. The ones it attracts are more likely to be the people I'd have more fun with!
Reverse psychology?"
More of a filter that allows the seedier people through |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"Does someone with lots of verifications put you off or not
Just curious as to what people think "
Number of verifications 'possibly', the type of verifications 'could be', who the verifications are from 'Yes'
But all that happens is that new profiles get opened possibly in tandem, so will you ever get an honest insight into the profile holder/s verification numbers. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I've been told I have too many. The thing is I have set my profile up to put people off. The ones it attracts are more likely to be the people I'd have more fun with!
Reverse psychology?
More of a filter that allows the seedier people through "
I'm like an old allotment.
Lickety has been around for five years now. She's met a lot of people socially and some sexually. The verifications are nice memories. If people want to judge me for them then so be it; I'm happy to have had the encounters that generated the verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm not put off by the number, but the content and who they're from will maybe have some influence. Multiple verifications from the same person would too... |
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"The person that displays two, may have hidden 300. The one with 300 showing may not have shagged anyone of them.
Verifications mean nothing. "
Not to mention, especially where single men are concerned, that they tend to do far better getting laid outside of fab so it's no reflection on how many people they've actually shagged |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does someone with lots of verifications put you off or not
Just curious as to what people think "
Yes it does. I prefer a bit of mystery and don't want any hint of what I'm getting. |
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"I'm like an old allotment.
Lickety has been around for five years now. I'm happy to have had the encounters that generated the verifications."
Its like shagging a sack of old spuds
Sorry, couldn't resist |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I'm like an old allotment.
Lickety has been around for five years now. I'm happy to have had the encounters that generated the verifications.
Its like shagging a sack of old spuds
Sorry, couldn't resist "
It probably is. My shape is very much sack of spuds.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm like an old allotment.
Lickety has been around for five years now. I'm happy to have had the encounters that generated the verifications.
Its like shagging a sack of old spuds
Sorry, couldn't resist
It probably is. My shape is very much sack of spuds.
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Your tits are the same size as 2 large bags of spuds |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does someone with lots of verifications put you off or not
Just curious as to what people think
Yes it does. I prefer a bit of mystery and don't want any hint of what I'm getting. "
Well surely you're gonna get a hint once you start chatting?...
I can figure someone out almost immediately within the first 10 message exchanges.
I say "10" because that's the minimum it would realistically take to get an idea if that person is someone I'd meet. |
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"I'm like an old allotment.
Lickety has been around for five years now. I'm happy to have had the encounters that generated the verifications.
Its like shagging a sack of old spuds
Sorry, couldn't resist
It probably is. My shape is very much sack of spuds.
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Well I could take off my jacket and peel off your underwear, then maybe we could be peas in a pod
#inducingchatupline |
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This is incredulous.
Reading some of the replies.
It's a SWINGING SITE where people HAVE SEX.
OK its a sunday but I think some would be better off on a sunday school site.
-Sorry I just remembered it FABswingers -a site full of fantasists and a few real swingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is incredulous.
Reading some of the replies.
It's a SWINGING SITE where people HAVE SEX.
OK its a sunday but I think some would be better off on a sunday school site.
-Sorry I just remembered it FABswingers -a site full of fantasists and a few real swingers. "
I'm here for sex. I get enough of it. I don't want sex with men who just want a convenient hole (not if I can help it). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No....it means they are genuine. Probably attend clubs/parties/socials too.
I organised a social followed by a party on same day on my previous profile. Ended up with a dozen verifications all at once.....didn't mean I'd shagged em all tho (two were from guys lol!).
Read them individually....make your own judgement.
Yeah, but you had about 7000
Haha....slight exaggeration there Ace!
Maybe just a tad
But I have seen a couple of profiles where I would have to have taken a day off work to read their entire profile and all 300+ published veris
There's a disclaimer at the bottom of my profile btw "
Lol....I've seen that. Anyway.....I only had about 230 or so! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does someone with lots of verifications put you off or not
Just curious as to what people think "
As you can never tell how many verifications someone really has (if they choose to hide them) then no it doesn't really make a difference.
Seeing one person have lots of consecutive ones from the someone they've met week after week would probably put me off though. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"This is incredulous.
Reading some of the replies.
It's a SWINGING SITE where people HAVE SEX.
OK its a sunday but I think some would be better off on a sunday school site.
-Sorry I just remembered it FABswingers -a site full of fantasists and a few real swingers.
I'm here for sex. I get enough of it. I don't want sex with men who just want a convenient hole (not if I can help it). "
or women. Women can be just as bad for approaching you as a convenient hole.
The number doesn't put me off. The content and who the veris are from can. |
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"This is incredulous.
Reading some of the replies.
It's a SWINGING SITE where people HAVE SEX.
OK its a sunday but I think some would be better off on a sunday school site.
-Sorry I just remembered it FABswingers -a site full of fantasists and a few real swingers.
I'm here for sex. I get enough of it. I don't want sex with men who just want a convenient hole (not if I can help it). "
That statement is based on assumptions that you cannot substantiate without knowing the person your making those wild assumption about! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do concur with several that have already posted, lots of veris to me just means they have been active meeting people, the content is more critical. I have a fair few veris, at least 95% have been social meets |
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"I do concur with several that have already posted, lots of veris to me just means they have been active meeting people, the content is more critical. I have a fair few veris, at least 95% have been social meets "
I don't display explicit veris, what happens between ma sheets stays between ma sheets, and I don't write them for anyone else either. There are some women who I have met that are playing alone behind their partner's back, so leaving a veri would be a dead giveaway.
As long as I get at least 1 a year to prove that I'm still alive, then I'm a happy bunny |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is incredulous.
Reading some of the replies.
It's a SWINGING SITE where people HAVE SEX.
OK its a sunday but I think some would be better off on a sunday school site.
-Sorry I just remembered it FABswingers -a site full of fantasists and a few real swingers.
I'm here for sex. I get enough of it. I don't want sex with men who just want a convenient hole (not if I can help it).
That statement is based on assumptions that you cannot substantiate without knowing the person your making those wild assumption about!"
Reading verifications that state they go to lots of gang bangs/parties/events/cinemas and dump their cum and piss on women isn't making an assumption. Unless they all lie. The mindset of a man will put me off, not the amount of verifications he has. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is incredulous.
Reading some of the replies.
It's a SWINGING SITE where people HAVE SEX.
OK its a sunday but I think some would be better off on a sunday school site.
-Sorry I just remembered it FABswingers -a site full of fantasists and a few real swingers.
I'm here for sex. I get enough of it. I don't want sex with men who just want a convenient hole (not if I can help it).
or women. Women can be just as bad for approaching you as a convenient hole.
The number doesn't put me off. The content and who the veris are from can."
I don't really look at women's profiles to be fair. I know you can't know what's in someone's mind, but someone who turns up to the opening of a pair of legs, in order to get some of it, does nothing for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications. You can read them if they're on show.
It gives you an idea about who wrote it more than about the person who it's about I think. Just my opinion and it probably means nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The main reason i look at veri's is to see who they have met (to see if they have a similar body type to me) and whether they are an ok guy.
Not really interested in the descriptions of what they got up to or the lamp post pissing. |
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In the past I've been described as "too active for me, sorry". What Fab should show on a profile is how long you've been a member, not 'over a year' as it currently does. I've had my profile for about 4 years now, and 32 meets/veris divided by 48 months is not 'too active' in my books |
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"The main reason i look at veri's is to see who they have met (to see if they have a similar body type to me) and whether they are an ok guy.
Not really interested in the descriptions of what they got up to or the lamp post pissing. "
I love reading the descriptions because most are so cringeworthy. Guys usually sound like they are advertising their skills rather than commenting on the experience they've had |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Does someone with lots of verifications put you off or not
Just curious as to what people think "
don't much read them and don't really care to judge on such things .
unless someone was saying they are very picky then of coarse such statements need to be backed up by facts .
as long as the other person is being open in there dealings with me why would I care how many people they have met for sex or a social .
I'm not a guy with a lack of self belief or confidence .I think you will find the people that do find it off putting are those who lack confidence and self believe .
the kind of person who worries about what went on with others and whether they can match up to others if that makes sense ,
are the kind of people I can imagine having a problem with number of veries if there high . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not put off by the number, but the content and who they're from will maybe have some influence. Multiple verifications from the same person would too..."
the number would be off putting if they were clearly into something I wasn't & this made up the majority of their veris.
I've never dismissed someone based on verifications alone but they have turned me off when something else didn't feel quite right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The main reason i look at veri's is to see who they have met (to see if they have a similar body type to me) and whether they are an ok guy.
Not really interested in the descriptions of what they got up to or the lamp post pissing. "
they can make for an entertaining read though... |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Does someone with lots of verifications put you off or not
Just curious as to what people think "
The veris that I post are from people that I am proud to be associated with and some I would call close friends.
If my veris put someone off then they are not the type of people I'm looking for. |
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"If my veris put someone off then they are not the type of people I'm looking for."
So true!
I definitely don't want to either meet or play with any judgemental or self opinionated "swingers".
So should those above who have this attitude see me at a club, do me a favor - give me a wide birth, and under no circumstances talk to me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It could do, if they were consecutive days, and showed little regard for anything other than a fuck.
That may appear strange comment,
for a swinging website, but my choice.
I was messaged late Sunday evening,
by a random in the same town.
I was on way back from airport, so I didn't reply. Checked their profile this morning, and new verifications.
Turns out she'd met 2 fabsters, enjoyed them both, and then stated in her verifications, that she'd had more lined up, but enjoyed ehrself too much with the last one.
So, in that situation, I'd avoid !! |
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"Does someone with lots of verifications put you off or not
Just curious as to what people think "
It can do depending what type of person you are and what type to you're looking for. Me personally look at what type of people they've played with not necessarily how many they've played |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than 7 sex verifications showing puts me off. "
Yes, totally...having sex more than 7 times and you're in real trouble. .....
I prefer to read, not just the back cover of a book, but the whole story...But there's many an author I'd not go near.
To many drama novels to be had on here. Plus one verification can be to much for some, let alone a ream of 'saw him in the street and he was breathing' veris. *other well known verifications are available. |
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"It could do, if they were consecutive days, and showed little regard for anything other than a fuck.
That may appear strange comment,
for a swinging website, but my choice.
I was messaged late Sunday evening,
by a random in the same town.
I was on way back from airport, so I didn't reply. Checked their profile this morning, and new verifications.
Turns out she'd met 2 fabsters, enjoyed them both, and then stated in her verifications, that she'd had more lined up, but enjoyed ehrself too much with the last one.
So, in that situation, I'd avoid !! "
I'm with you on that one mate! |
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"More than 7 sex verifications showing puts me off.
Yes, totally...having sex more than 7 times and you're in real trouble. .....
I prefer to read, not just the back cover of a book, but the whole story...But there's many an author I'd not go near.
To many drama novels to be had on here. Plus one verification can be to much for some, let alone a ream of 'saw him in the street and he was breathing' veris. *other well known verifications are available."
Loved that answer haha |
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"It could do, if they were consecutive days, and showed little regard for anything other than a fuck.
That may appear strange comment,
for a swinging website, but my choice.
I was messaged late Sunday evening,
by a random in the same town.
I was on way back from airport, so I didn't reply. Checked their profile this morning, and new verifications.
Turns out she'd met 2 fabsters, enjoyed them both, and then stated in her verifications, that she'd had more lined up, but enjoyed ehrself too much with the last one.
So, in that situation, I'd avoid !!
I'm with you on that one mate! "
Do sexually liberated women intimidate you two that much ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're hoping to get more verifications.
They show we're here to meet and we're having fun.
If they put people off, we probably wouldn't be meeting them anyway.
M plus E |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It could do, if they were consecutive days, and showed little regard for anything other than a fuck.
That may appear strange comment,
for a swinging website, but my choice.
I was messaged late Sunday evening,
by a random in the same town.
I was on way back from airport, so I didn't reply. Checked their profile this morning, and new verifications.
Turns out she'd met 2 fabsters, enjoyed them both, and then stated in her verifications, that she'd had more lined up, but enjoyed ehrself too much with the last one.
So, in that situation, I'd avoid !!
I'm with you on that one mate!
Do sexually liberated women intimidate you two that much ? "
oh pull your head in tinkerbell.
No, I'm not prone to intimidation from anyone.
My choice, my preference. How you operate among a swinging website,
and who you choose to enjoy or not,
is solely your choice.
It's also mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been taken to task a few times recently as I had published verifications from people who themselves have lots of verifications!
It might put me off if they have lots in a very short time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More than 7 sex verifications showing puts me off.
Yes, totally...having sex more than 7 times and you're in real trouble. .....
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It's so easy to piss people off on here.
The reason I won't meet anyone with more than about 7 veri's showing is that they are clearly quite sexperienced. They will be bored as fuck with someone like me. I can't live up to their past experiences. That's all. |
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"It could do, if they were consecutive days, and showed little regard for anything other than a fuck.
That may appear strange comment,
for a swinging website, but my choice.
I was messaged late Sunday evening,
by a random in the same town.
I was on way back from airport, so I didn't reply. Checked their profile this morning, and new verifications.
Turns out she'd met 2 fabsters, enjoyed them both, and then stated in her verifications, that she'd had more lined up, but enjoyed ehrself too much with the last one.
So, in that situation, I'd avoid !!
I'm with you on that one mate!
Do sexually liberated women intimidate you two that much ?
oh pull your head in tinkerbell.
No, I'm not prone to intimidation from anyone.
My choice, my preference. How you operate among a swinging website,
and who you choose to enjoy or not,
is solely your choice.
It's also mine. "
Touched a nerve ? |
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over a year ago
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"It could do, if they were consecutive days, and showed little regard for anything other than a fuck.
That may appear strange comment,
for a swinging website, but my choice.
I was messaged late Sunday evening,
by a random in the same town.
I was on way back from airport, so I didn't reply. Checked their profile this morning, and new verifications.
Turns out she'd met 2 fabsters, enjoyed them both, and then stated in her verifications, that she'd had more lined up, but enjoyed ehrself too much with the last one.
So, in that situation, I'd avoid !!
I'm with you on that one mate!
Do sexually liberated women intimidate you two that much ? "
Not sure if it has anything to do with being sexually liberated just a preference on meeting styles.
Unbeknown to me at the time I was once scheduled into someone's weekender of meets, I believe I was the Saturday lunchtime slot. Only found out as I suggested a time out for a drink & recovery to be told he was already running behind schedule.....
Well, I helped him out there as it killed the moment for me, a complete turn off, I got dressed and left.
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"More than 7 sex verifications showing puts me off.
Yes, totally...having sex more than 7 times and you're in real trouble. .....
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It's so easy to piss people off on here.
The reason I won't meet anyone with more than about 7 veri's showing is that they are clearly quite sexperienced. They will be bored as fuck with someone like me. I can't live up to their past experiences. That's all. "
come here I will play with you to the point where you will more than live up to anyone else out there
performance is brought out of someone by the vibe created by the other person in my experience and opinion . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than 7 sex verifications showing puts me off.
Yes, totally...having sex more than 7 times and you're in real trouble. .....
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It's so easy to piss people off on here.
The reason I won't meet anyone with more than about 7 veri's showing is that they are clearly quite sexperienced. They will be bored as fuck with someone like me. I can't live up to their past experiences. That's all.
come here I will play with you to the point where you will more than live up to anyone else out there
performance is brought out of someone by the vibe created by the other person in my experience and opinion . "
I agree.. I need chemistry or I'm like a dead fish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than 7 sex verifications showing puts me off.
Yes, totally...having sex more than 7 times and you're in real trouble. .....
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It's so easy to piss people off on here.
The reason I won't meet anyone with more than about 7 veri's showing is that they are clearly quite sexperienced. They will be bored as fuck with someone like me. I can't live up to their past experiences. That's all. "
Far from pissed, otherwise I'd of maybe put a grrrr and a shaky fist. I just presumed you'd meant 7 on the same day, yeh... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than 7 sex verifications showing puts me off.
Yes, totally...having sex more than 7 times and you're in real trouble. .....
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It's so easy to piss people off on here.
The reason I won't meet anyone with more than about 7 veri's showing is that they are clearly quite sexperienced. They will be bored as fuck with someone like me. I can't live up to their past experiences. That's all.
Far from pissed, otherwise I'd of maybe put a grrrr and a shaky fist. I just presumed you'd meant 7 on the same day, yeh... "
I like the shaky fist idea (()) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does someone with lots of verifications put you off or not
Just curious as to what people think
Yes it does. I prefer a bit of mystery and don't want any hint of what I'm getting.
Well surely you're gonna get a hint once you start chatting?...
I can figure someone out almost immediately within the first 10 message exchanges.
I say "10" because that's the minimum it would realistically take to get an idea if that person is someone I'd meet."
I don't really chat to people. If I physically like someone I arrange a meet ASAP. I don't want to read veris of how previous conquests went, nor do I ask this if I do 'start chatting' as it's not relevant to our meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is incredulous.
Reading some of the replies.
It's a SWINGING SITE where people HAVE SEX.
OK its a sunday but I think some would be better off on a sunday school site.
-Sorry I just remembered it FABswingers -a site full of fantasists and a few real swingers. "
Can't accept the views of others? I think most people are here for sex and just because some are more pickier than others, it doesn't give you the right to dictate where people should be 'best off'. |
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Not sure if verifications on here really matter other than to give a vague guide of how a person might be.
I only have two from here as I meet in clubs so what impression would that give if someone only saw I had two when in reality I meet regularly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than 7 sex verifications showing puts me off.
Yes, totally...having sex more than 7 times and you're in real trouble. .....
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It's so easy to piss people off on here.
The reason I won't meet anyone with more than about 7 veri's showing is that they are clearly quite sexperienced. They will be bored as fuck with someone like me. I can't live up to their past experiences. That's all. "
Are you saying you're a shit shag?
Having lots of sex doesn't mean you'll be getting good sex. |
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"More than 7 sex verifications showing puts me off.
Yes, totally...having sex more than 7 times and you're in real trouble. .....
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It's so easy to piss people off on here.
The reason I won't meet anyone with more than about 7 veri's showing is that they are clearly quite sexperienced. They will be bored as fuck with someone like me. I can't live up to their past experiences. That's all.
Are you saying you're a shit shag?
Having lots of sex doesn't mean you'll be getting good sex. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than 7 sex verifications showing puts me off.
Yes, totally...having sex more than 7 times and you're in real trouble. .....
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It's so easy to piss people off on here.
The reason I won't meet anyone with more than about 7 veri's showing is that they are clearly quite sexperienced. They will be bored as fuck with someone like me. I can't live up to their past experiences. That's all.
Are you saying you're a shit shag?
Having lots of sex doesn't mean you'll be getting good sex. "
Shit shag yes |
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I suppose the real question is; what do you call 'lots'? I've had 32 veris spread over the 4 years I've been a member here, is that a lot?
Speaking of which; it would be better if Fab showed how long you've been a member , rather than counting up to a year, and then showing 'more than a year' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than 7 sex verifications showing puts me off.
Yes, totally...having sex more than 7 times and you're in real trouble. .....
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It's so easy to piss people off on here.
The reason I won't meet anyone with more than about 7 veri's showing is that they are clearly quite sexperienced. They will be bored as fuck with someone like me. I can't live up to their past experiences. That's all. "
You've not had sex with more than 7 people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It could do, if they were consecutive days, and showed little regard for anything other than a fuck.
That may appear strange comment,
for a swinging website, but my choice.
I was messaged late Sunday evening,
by a random in the same town.
I was on way back from airport, so I didn't reply. Checked their profile this morning, and new verifications.
Turns out she'd met 2 fabsters, enjoyed them both, and then stated in her verifications, that she'd had more lined up, but enjoyed ehrself too much with the last one.
So, in that situation, I'd avoid !!
I'm with you on that one mate! "
The opposite is true of me. I like a woman who knows what she wants. The fact she had loads of sex before would not bother me, just so long as I believed it was safe sex! |
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