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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely.
Professional sports background & being an Aussie, it's in our genetics.
As for fucking, like it's a competition, nope.
That's about fun, pleasure for both partners.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"a competitive fucker 
don't know what a competitive fucker is may a refer you to a conversation in the post does tightness matter ."
TL;DR. What was general gist of it?
I'm competitive professionally and I was academically, the latter more with myself though.
If it's in regards to fucking, no. It's not a competition. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Absolutely.
Professional sports background & being an Aussie, it's in our genetics.
As for fucking, like it's a competition, nope.
That's about fun, pleasure for both partners.
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who says competitive fucking cant be fun and dame right pleasurable for all concerned . I for one love to push and explore boundaries with like minded individuals  |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"not at all. don't see the point in competing. i know where i excel and where i fail and don't need to prove anything to anyone."
its about power control and pushing psychological and physical buttons to heighten the sex and there fore the enjoyment levels . |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"a competitive fucker
don't know what a competitive fucker is may a refer you to a conversation in the post does tightness matter .
TL;DR. What was general gist of it?
I'm competitive professionally and I was academically, the latter more with myself though.
If it's in regards to fucking, no. It's not a competition. "
how disappointing I had you down as being more than meets the eye  |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"not at all. don't see the point in competing. i know where i excel and where i fail and don't need to prove anything to anyone.
its about power control and pushing psychological and physical buttons to heighten the sex and there fore the enjoyment levels . "
if i was going through one of my 'hate all men' stages i probably could.
otherwise i've no interest in anything more than mild sadism. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"a competitive fucker
don't know what a competitive fucker is may a refer you to a conversation in the post does tightness matter .
TL;DR. What was general gist of it?
I'm competitive professionally and I was academically, the latter more with myself though.
If it's in regards to fucking, no. It's not a competition.
how disappointing I had you down as being more than meets the eye "
I am, I just don't equate boundary pushing and exploring to being competitive - it's more mutual for me. Even when I was a sub I didn't see it as being a competition; I guess different people see things differently. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"not at all. don't see the point in competing. i know where i excel and where i fail and don't need to prove anything to anyone.
its about power control and pushing psychological and physical buttons to heighten the sex and there fore the enjoyment levels .
if i was going through one of my 'hate all men' stages i probably could.
otherwise i've no interest in anything more than mild sadism."
chin up girl a competitive fucker has nothing but the best interests of there play partners at heart its about pushing for the best experience one can
if you need to vent I will be at your disposal for a the next couple of hours xx |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"not at all. don't see the point in competing. i know where i excel and where i fail and don't need to prove anything to anyone.
its about power control and pushing psychological and physical buttons to heighten the sex and there fore the enjoyment levels .
if i was going through one of my 'hate all men' stages i probably could.
otherwise i've no interest in anything more than mild sadism.
chin up girl a competitive fucker has nothing but the best interests of there play partners at heart its about pushing for the best experience one can
if you need to vent I will be at your disposal for a the next couple of hours xx"
i don't hate all men, met some very nice ones today.   |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"a competitive fucker
don't know what a competitive fucker is may a refer you to a conversation in the post does tightness matter .
TL;DR. What was general gist of it?
I'm competitive professionally and I was academically, the latter more with myself though.
If it's in regards to fucking, no. It's not a competition.
how disappointing I had you down as being more than meets the eye
I am, I just don't equate boundary pushing and exploring to being competitive - it's more mutual for me. Even when I was a sub I didn't see it as being a competition; I guess different people see things differently. "
a brat would see it differently to a slave but at its heart its about the same pushing physiological and physical boundaries to mutually empower each other thats how I see all bdsm kinky play xxx |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Competitive fucking... what's the scoring system then? I really don't think this is for me, but I'm interested to know how this will be refereed "
check out the thread in the title for a idea of what can go on in some dynamics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely.
Professional sports background & being an Aussie, it's in our genetics.
As for fucking, like it's a competition, nope.
That's about fun, pleasure for both partners.
who says competitive fucking cant be fun and dame right pleasurable for all concerned . I for one love to push and explore boundaries with like minded individuals "
You're confusing the two.
Competition in professional sport, is a job. It's also a passion for most sports persons, at that level. Which is why they continue and pursue their ultimate sporting performance.
Sex, or as you deem it fucking, is not the same.
I'm all for the intensity of passion, outright lust and desire, for your partner, performing. At your optimum to ensure pleasure for both.
I would never term it a competition, and I don't feel inclined to consider it as such.
If either partner is trying to attain their best heightened performance, then it's about enjoyment and sexual pleasure.
Competition, doesn't enter the equation. Whether that's "Fabs" encounters or with your partner.
My opinion, of course. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Absolutely.
Professional sports background & being an Aussie, it's in our genetics.
As for fucking, like it's a competition, nope.
That's about fun, pleasure for both partners.
who says competitive fucking cant be fun and dame right pleasurable for all concerned . I for one love to push and explore boundaries with like minded individuals
You're confusing the two.
Competition in professional sport, is a job. It's also a passion for most sports persons, at that level. Which is why they continue and pursue their ultimate sporting performance.
Sex, or as you deem it fucking, is not the same.
I'm all for the intensity of passion, outright lust and desire, for your partner, performing. At your optimum to ensure pleasure for both.
I would never term it a competition, and I don't feel inclined to consider it as such.
If either partner is trying to attain their best heightened performance, then it's about enjoyment and sexual pleasure.
Competition, doesn't enter the equation. Whether that's "Fabs" encounters or with your partner.
My opinion, of course."
that's the beauty of individuality we are all different the down side of that is compatibility is brought into play . nice way of putting your tastes forward |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"No. I just give up."
that can be fun in its own right especial in the surrendering sense
ive noticed your posts blue your welcome in my threads to express yourself as I am very good at taking the heat off of others when I feel the need is there xxx |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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No. I am competitive in some areas. But not sexually. Plus I know full well that it's a game I will never win; there will always be someone younger, prettier, sexier, more flexible, firmer, thinner, nicer, more this, less that. When a competition's unwinnable there is no point entering. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"No. I am competitive in some areas. But not sexually. Plus I know full well that it's a game I will never win; there will always be someone younger, prettier, sexier, more flexible, firmer, thinner, nicer, more this, less that. When a competition's unwinnable there is no point entering."
as the game involves psychological button pushing more so that physical button pushing ones brain is for more important than ones physical attributes plus you look mighty fine on the eyes if you ask me xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner.
But otherwise in life no im not competitive. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner.
But otherwise in life no im not competitive. "
yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"I say no...but I'm lying...
hay watch it I've got my eyes on the pair of you
Pervert! 
takes one to know one
We're both guilty of that actually "
that makes three of us enough to get the party started down you think |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Nope.
blimey darling where have you been does this post mean your back hope so xxx
Hey gorgeous. I'm chuffed that anyone had remembered me. "
I remember river the good ones stand out how are you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. As Whitney Houston sang:
"I decided long ago, never to walk in anyone's shadows
If I fail, if I succeed
At least I'll live as I believe
No matter what they take from me
They can't take away my dignity"
I'm not bothered enough to be competitive. I'm either your everything (not literally!) or nothing. |
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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago
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"Nope.
blimey darling where have you been does this post mean your back hope so xxx
Hey gorgeous. I'm chuffed that anyone had remembered me.
I remember river the good ones stand out how are you xx"
?? I'm good thanks. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Nope.
blimey darling where have you been does this post mean your back hope so xxx
Hey gorgeous. I'm chuffed that anyone had remembered me.
I remember river the good ones stand out how are you xx
?? I'm good thanks. "
glad to here it found a job yet and will we be enjoying your vibes for a bit in the forums once again xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner.
But otherwise in life no im not competitive.
yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates "
Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"No. I'm far to lazy to do anything competitively.
that's ok follow my lead and you wont know what hit you
ah I don't follow anyone. "
ok the stay in that position and you wont know what hit you |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner.
But otherwise in life no im not competitive.
yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates
Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please. "
of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
I've spent several years in competition with a woman I've never met who I don't think really knows of my existence. Its exhausting, tormenting and has taken what little self confidence I have.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner.
But otherwise in life no im not competitive.
yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates
Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please.
of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near "
Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a pretty competitive individual but I can't allow myself to do that fucking wise as I think it would mess with my head.
I can't control what other people do / how they are ~ so how can I compete against the unknown? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a pretty competitive individual but I can't allow myself to do that fucking wise as I think it would mess with my head.
I can't control what other people do / how they are ~ so how can I compete against the unknown?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't think I'm in competition with anybody but myself. I have goals though and my goal is always to compete with myself to become better. Does that make sense?? |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm a pretty competitive individual but I can't allow myself to do that fucking wise as I think it would mess with my head.
I can't control what other people do / how they are ~ so how can I compete against the unknown?"
that's the point you wouldn't know all you can be sure of is that every fantasy desire you have to be explored by someone who being they are competitive wants to deliver experiences and push limits because finding the limit of not only you but themselves is the ultimate competitive goal during sex can they take you and in doing so themselves to places no one else has .
sex that isn't safe isn't cosy isn't governed by the normal rules is often going to be unknown and yes a bit scary because of that but in my experience a tiny bit of fear can heighten the pleasure excitement aand experience |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"I really don't think I'm in competition with anybody but myself. I have goals though and my goal is always to compete with myself to become better. Does that make sense?? "
yes and there are people out there who like to explore another persons limits and goals even try to take them past there goals into places they never knew existed inside them /until that person opened that Pandora's box hidden deep in the dark recesses of there desires xxx |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner.
But otherwise in life no im not competitive.
yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates
Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please.
of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near
Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for. "
the belt |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. I just give up.
that can be fun in its own right especial in the surrendering sense
ive noticed your posts blue your welcome in my threads to express yourself as I am very good at taking the heat off of others when I feel the need is there xxx "
I don't sub.
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner.
But otherwise in life no im not competitive.
yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates
Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please.
of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near
Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for.
the belt "
Oooo very nice. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"No. I just give up.
that can be fun in its own right especial in the surrendering sense
ive noticed your posts blue your welcome in my threads to express yourself as I am very good at taking the heat off of others when I feel the need is there xxx
I don't sub.
Thank you"
your welcome the offer will always stand express yourself in my posts and if anyone starts I will draw the heat on to me |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner.
But otherwise in life no im not competitive.
yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates
Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please.
of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near
Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for.
the belt
Oooo very nice. "
here have another chocolate as a reward while I plug in the doxy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm a collaborative fucker! Team work makes the dream work
I still get to push my partners' buttons and them mine, but when I get pushed over the edge it is because I asked for it and vice versa. I've been with competitive fuckers and I didn't get on well. Even reading the thread you refer to made me feel the tedium! The funny thing is, I am a lamb most of the times but when someone treats me like this I turn into a donkey! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner.
But otherwise in life no im not competitive.
yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates
Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please.
of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near
Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for.
the belt
Oooo very nice.
here have another chocolate as a reward while I plug in the doxy "
Nice way to spend a Sunday morning, having a first try with a doxy. And a spanking. Result |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner.
But otherwise in life no im not competitive.
yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates
Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please.
of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near
Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for.
the belt
Oooo very nice.
here have another chocolate as a reward while I plug in the doxy
Nice way to spend a Sunday morning, having a first try with a doxy. And a spanking. Result "
we are only getting just getting started |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner.
But otherwise in life no im not competitive.
yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates
Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please.
of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near
Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for.
the belt
Oooo very nice.
here have another chocolate as a reward while I plug in the doxy
Nice way to spend a Sunday morning, having a first try with a doxy. And a spanking. Result
we are only getting just getting started "
Oh good, I like taking my time and having the best experience, and of course giving the best experience |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner.
But otherwise in life no im not competitive.
yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates
Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please.
of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near
Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for.
the belt
Oooo very nice.
here have another chocolate as a reward while I plug in the doxy
Nice way to spend a Sunday morning, having a first try with a doxy. And a spanking. Result
we are only getting just getting started
Oh good, I like taking my time and having the best experience, and of course giving the best experience "
here have another chocolate we are going to have to keep your energy levels up for what I have in mind next |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Competitive in the fact I like to push boundaries and have mine pushed. But that's in search of giving and receiving the best pleasure with my partner.
But otherwise in life no im not competitive.
yes some gets it straight off the bat here have a chocolate out of my box of reward chocolates
Ooo can I have a strawberry cream please.
of coarse you can first give us a smile then sit on my lap as you eat it I think I will enjoy having you near
Mmm you and chocolate, what more could a girl ask for.
the belt
Oooo very nice.
here have another chocolate as a reward while I plug in the doxy
Nice way to spend a Sunday morning, having a first try with a doxy. And a spanking. Result
we are only getting just getting started
Oh good, I like taking my time and having the best experience, and of course giving the best experience
here have another chocolate we are going to have to keep your energy levels up for what I have in mind next "
Mmmm you too. |
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