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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What does it mean in a message or on a profile, I've had a message asking if I would spoil someone but I've had no reply to my question in what way ?
Does it mean buy things, meals and nights out or sexually ?  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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means open your wallet... mention a light lunch.. Take along a tin of spam, a half loaf, preopened and flat and past their sell by crisps.
my money is on you won't be getting sucked off.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"means open your wallet... mention a light lunch.. Take along a tin of spam, a half loaf, preopened and flat and past their sell by crisps.
my money is on you won't be getting sucked off.."
 I'm a gentleman but no mug  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"means open your wallet... mention a light lunch.. Take along a tin of spam, a half loaf, preopened and flat and past their sell by crisps.
my money is on you won't be getting sucked off..
I'm a gentleman but no mug "
Good man, keep up the good work.
Me too now..., took a while |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Spoiling me is not enough.... I want to be ruined "
in a gruff voice...
'go wi me darling and I will ruin ya for others..'
well thats my manly bit again for another month...
fashion tips anyone...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spoiling me is not enough.... I want to be ruined
in a gruff voice...
'go wi me darling and I will ruin ya for others..'
well thats my manly bit again for another month...
fashion tips anyone...... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My idea of being spoilt on a meet is a hot bubble bath and a massage before sex......... No wallets involved (unless to get a condom out) "
*farts in bath...thats all the bubbles ur gettin! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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May be it does - how wide you open doesn't mean how wide her legs will open .. unless it's a ...
Is possible to spoil with fun,laughter and great conversation.
Over a few drinks or a meal may be..
I'd happily take a lady out for the night and bring her back to hubby absolutely ... as my profile suggests
Suppose it's a bit of a fantasy though - and thinking what they would tell hubby and the fun they may have ..
May be asked to do so again..
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"What does it mean in a message or on a profile, I've had a message asking if I would spoil someone but I've had no reply to my question in what way ?
Does it mean buy things, meals and nights out or sexually ? "
i confess kev i have wondered that and tbh is a big turn off for me ...if they mean sexually ,well for me it goes without saying all people would try their best ,but if its more to it than that, i am definately uncomfortable as it goes against the NSA ethos of swinging
good question by the way |
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"My idea of being spoilt on a meet is a hot bubble bath and a massage before sex......... No wallets involved (unless to get a condom out)
*farts in bath...thats all the bubbles ur gettin!"
I want mind blowing sex, not farty bottom blowing!  |
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"My idea of being spoilt on a meet is a hot bubble bath and a massage before sex......... No wallets involved (unless to get a condom out)
*farts in bath...thats all the bubbles ur gettin!
I want mind blowing sex, not farty bottom blowing! "
mind blowing sex can bring on farty bottom blowing ...and worse ,dont ask ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My idea of being spoilt on a meet is a hot bubble bath and a massage before sex......... No wallets involved (unless to get a condom out)
*farts in bath...thats all the bubbles ur gettin!
I want mind blowing sex, not farty bottom blowing!
mind blowing sex can bring on farty bottom blowing ...and worse ,dont ask ... "
fanny farts yes .... botty burps no. |
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"My idea of being spoilt on a meet is a hot bubble bath and a massage before sex......... No wallets involved (unless to get a condom out)
*farts in bath...thats all the bubbles ur gettin!
I want mind blowing sex, not farty bottom blowing!
mind blowing sex can bring on farty bottom blowing ...and worse ,dont ask ...
fanny farts yes .... botty burps no. "
thats like four legs good ,2 legs bad from orwells animal farm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My idea of being spoilt on a meet is a hot bubble bath and a massage before sex......... No wallets involved (unless to get a condom out)
*farts in bath...thats all the bubbles ur gettin!
I want mind blowing sex, not farty bottom blowing!
mind blowing sex can bring on farty bottom blowing ...and worse ,dont ask ...
fanny farts yes .... botty burps no.
thats like four legs good ,2 legs bad from orwells animal farm "
deffo no animals! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What does it mean in a message or on a profile, I've had a message asking if I would spoil someone but I've had no reply to my question in what way ?
Does it mean buy things, meals and nights out or sexually ? "
It could mean lots of things but if you had no reply then maybe its someone to avoid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone suggests an amount it's a big no.
Like it would be if it was a minimum donation to a charity.
I do like a lady that knows what she wants but not by demanding specific amounts of money as that is meaningless.
The meaning in this situation for me would be ;
A great way to connect with each other
A buzz with the fact all are open and honest and that we may be giving a buzz to hubby who may well enjoy later.
Flirting and seduction throughout the evening would add to the fun later (if agreed)
Without a price or pressure this could be one great night !
Obviously all people would have to agree prior and make arrangements regards safety etc which is no problem.
Not everyone's cup of tea but there are some situation's where this would be ideal ???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you put it specifically in a profile then yes it means open your wallet.
I like to be spoilt by fingers being lightly stroked across my arms and back, I love it. The guy is doing it specifically for me, probably not getting a lot out of it himself but its great that I can lie back and enjoy. That is the best spoiling ever - although I am in danger of falling asleep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you put it specifically in a profile then yes it means open your wallet.
I like to be spoilt by fingers being lightly stroked across my arms and back, I love it. The guy is doing it specifically for me, probably not getting a lot out of it himself but its great that I can lie back and enjoy. That is the best spoiling ever - although I am in danger of falling asleep. "
I am the same on being spoilt but i don't want gifts its attention and pampering that appeals. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"If you put it specifically in a profile then yes it means open your wallet.
I like to be spoilt by fingers being lightly stroked across my arms and back, I love it. The guy is doing it specifically for me, probably not getting a lot out of it himself but its great that I can lie back and enjoy. That is the best spoiling ever - although I am in danger of falling asleep. "
Spoiling for me means just that - I would never expect a man to pay for me or buy me things - but it is nice to be spoilt physically |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I actually enjoy spoiling physically.
Nice to be spoilt a bit too at times.
Like many things it's a 2 way thing.
By taking out someone else's Mrs though it would be a bit freaky etc to buy gifts etc.
More like stealing than borrowing.
May be a little something to wear or some good massage oils |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think you can only spoil someone you know well; you know the special things they like, and give them when least expected or most needed.
Am not altogether sure how you'd spoil a stranger.  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I actually enjoy spoiling physically.
Nice to be spoilt a bit too at times.
Like many things it's a 2 way thing.
By taking out someone else's Mrs though it would be a bit freaky etc to buy gifts etc.
More like stealing than borrowing.
May be a little something to wear or some good massage oils"
Why do the good guys live so far away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually enjoy spoiling physically.
Nice to be spoilt a bit too at times.
Like many things it's a 2 way thing.
By taking out someone else's Mrs though it would be a bit freaky etc to buy gifts etc.
More like stealing than borrowing.
May be a little something to wear or some good massage oils"
Thats the type of spoiling most women like most. |
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i just think that whole "present" or "spoil me" thing in swinging takes it away from the no strings attached ethos and taints the experience ,i would never buy into that it would be a swift **** off it it was ever suggested tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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All I know is when invited to someone's party or home I take a gift for them, sometimes for both husband and wife.
This is not demanded or looked for, it is my own way of saying thank you for inviting me/welcoming me into your home.
I do the same when invited to my mothers for tea.
I pay my own way for meals, hotel rooms and club entry, I never think of asking for contributions, in my eyes people who ask for things don't get.
What I'm trying to say is that a gift is that, a gift, not asked for not expected but freely given.
If I was asked to pay for baby-sitter, petrol, meals, room, lingerie, shoes etc. I'd bill them for same!
That's not being spoiled, that's being rotten to the core.
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By *phroditeWoman
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"All I know is when invited to someone's party or home I take a gift for them, sometimes for both husband and wife.
This is not demanded or looked for, it is my own way of saying thank you for inviting me/welcoming me into your home.
I do the same when invited to my mothers for tea.
I pay my own way for meals, hotel rooms and club entry, I never think of asking for contributions, in my eyes people who ask for things don't get.
What I'm trying to say is that a gift is that, a gift, not asked for not expected but freely given.
If I was asked to pay for baby-sitter, petrol, meals, room, lingerie, shoes etc. I'd bill them for same!
That's not being spoiled, that's being rotten to the core.
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Love it... could not have said it better myself |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"All I know is when invited to someone's party or home I take a gift for them, sometimes for both husband and wife.
This is not demanded or looked for, it is my own way of saying thank you for inviting me/welcoming me into your home.
I do the same when invited to my mothers for tea.
I pay my own way for meals, hotel rooms and club entry, I never think of asking for contributions, in my eyes people who ask for things don't get.
What I'm trying to say is that a gift is that, a gift, not asked for not expected but freely given.
If I was asked to pay for baby-sitter, petrol, meals, room, lingerie, shoes etc. I'd bill them for same!
That's not being spoiled, that's being rotten to the core.
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You do exactly as described.. and often too generous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Complimentary is the word
Personally I get pleasure from giving in such a way.
With a stranger it may be difficult so that's why a few messages exchanged and a phone call would be a great start.
May be meet the victim as part as couple prior too.
May as well use hubby for a taxi service and compliment with some mirror _iewing on the way back
Drop us off and say pick the Mrs up in the morning |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What does it mean in a message or on a profile, I've had a message asking if I would spoil someone but I've had no reply to my question in what way ?
Does it mean buy things, meals and nights out or sexually ? "
Spoil.
Noun: Goods stolen or taken forcibly.
Verb: Diminish or destroy the value or quality of: "I wouldn't want to spoil your fun".
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are many interpretations
to impair, damage, or harm the character or nature of (someone) by unwise treatment, excessive indulgence, etc.: to spoil a child by pampering him.
To impair the value or quality of.
To become unfit for use or consumption
Goods or property seized from a victim after a conflict, especially after a military victory.
As long as she dosn’t think your love apples are spoilt!!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I know the answer now, she would like perfumes and presents buying for her, apparently I should be grateful I was messaged and have the chance to meet, oh well there's another chance I've blown |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I know the answer now, she would like perfumes and presents buying for her, apparently I should be grateful I was messaged and have the chance to meet, oh well there's another chance I've blown "
Tell her you will come over and give her your spoil |
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"Well I know the answer now, she would like perfumes and presents buying for her, apparently I should be grateful I was messaged and have the chance to meet, oh well there's another chance I've blown
Tell her you will come over and give her your spoil "
she messaged me back and then vlocked me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I know the answer now, she would like perfumes and presents buying for her, apparently I should be grateful I was messaged and have the chance to meet, oh well there's another chance I've blown "
WTF????? tell her she has missed out on the mankini experience... bet she's kicking herself now. |
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"Well I know the answer now, she would like perfumes and presents buying for her, apparently I should be grateful I was messaged and have the chance to meet, oh well there's another chance I've blown
Tell her you will come over and give her your spoil
she messaged me back and then vlocked me "
Blocked even |
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"What does it mean in a message or on a profile, I've had a message asking if I would spoil someone but I've had no reply to my question in what way ?
Does it mean buy things, meals and nights out or sexually ? "
It means spend all your money on me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just had to go clarify what i mean on my profile
Thanks for pointing out how ambiguos spoil me can read Kev "
It would have been easier to take any reference to spoiling out though and write a bit about yourself, if you were worried that people wouldnt understand |
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"I just had to go clarify what i mean on my profile
Thanks for pointing out how ambiguos spoil me can read Kev
It would have been easier to take any reference to spoiling out though and write a bit about yourself, if you were worried that people wouldnt understand "
you know what, you re spot on thanks for that observation.
taking the time to look at it through others eyes makes it stand out as a bit naive .sod it im chaqnging the name too |
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