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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"No luck then!"
the opposite pp which makes me rather harder to bed than you would ever think a guy who looks like me would be 
but i digress this was meant as a fun hoop jumping post where the ladies make outrageous demands that have to be met or not by me .   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your forum musings don't lead me to consider you to be desperate; a little over confrontational or predictably provocative on occasion perhaps, but we all have those sort of days. I can't say I've ever given consideration to whether or not you're desperate until now. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Your forum musings don't lead me to consider you to be desperate; a little over confrontational or predictably provocative on occasion perhaps, but we all have those sort of days. I can't say I've ever given consideration to whether or not you're desperate until now. "
you know me rather well as I am exactly as you gage in your opening paragraph .
thank you highheels for that honest appraisal because if I'm that easy to read I'm behaving as i really am on here which is always my intention to try and be my true self not a persona . |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"ladies just how desperate do you think a am .....
a might be desperate but you should see how desperate b is!  "
Should I now  interesting maybe a private audience is in order to gage how desperate all sides are  |
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"I. I'm not desperate at all
i can tell that with easy from your posts because there's not a hint of pussy whipped in sight in anything you write
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I do my fair share of pussy whipping... Just keep it to myself  |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think your opening post needed more than a one liner.
You'd have got much more response if you stated what you weren't prepared to do to meet & why..."
what if I have no limits on what I will do with and to a meet as long as its on terms I find agreeable which is code for if I'm respected past what I bring sexually to the table |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Not desperate but way too much of a try hard. "
i can see why you would think that which is rather funny when you consider the two drama queens i had to deal with yesterday who were accusing and chastising for the exact opposite to your post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am very desperate for a hot strong ........ cup of tea xx
I'm in a café at the minute kat so the tea will be stewed beyond belief is that ok my lovely xxx"
. Hell no I like my tea freshly made if you would be so kind xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not desperate but way too much of a try hard.
i can see why you would think that which is rather funny when you consider the two drama queens i had to deal with yesterday who were accusing and chastising for the exact opposite to your post "
I wasn't on here yesterday, what thread are you on about I'll have a read.
I'm answering the op, you don't come across as desperate just someone that tries too hard, maybe blows his own trumpet too much. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"I am very desperate for a hot strong ........ cup of tea xx
I'm in a café at the minute kat so the tea will be stewed beyond belief is that ok my lovely xxx. Hell no I like my tea freshly made if you would be so kind xx"
you going to have to meet me at home then kat as i have no tea making equipment on me at the minute  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am very desperate for a hot strong ........ cup of tea xx
I'm in a café at the minute kat so the tea will be stewed beyond belief is that ok my lovely xxx. Hell no I like my tea freshly made if you would be so kind xx
you going to have to meet me at home then kat as i have no tea making equipment on me at the minute "
ohhghhh I see what your doing Mr xx |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think you're desperate for any attention. "
of coarse i am when I'm bored i come on here or a go on xbox life and entertain myself .
on here is winning that war at the minute and what better way to entertain yourself that to seek and engage the attention of others for your entertainment and hopefully there's to .
although of coarse by doing so you open yourself up to allsorts of accusations some warranted some not but hay its all entertainment one way or the other in my eyes |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"I am very desperate for a hot strong ........ cup of tea xx
I'm in a café at the minute kat so the tea will be stewed beyond belief is that ok my lovely xxx. Hell no I like my tea freshly made if you would be so kind xx
you going to have to meet me at home then kat as i have no tea making equipment on me at the minute ohhghhh I see what your doing Mr xx"
rumbled again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am very desperate for a hot strong ........ cup of tea xx
I'm in a café at the minute kat so the tea will be stewed beyond belief is that ok my lovely xxx. Hell no I like my tea freshly made if you would be so kind xx
you going to have to meet me at home then kat as i have no tea making equipment on me at the minute ohhghhh I see what your doing Mr xx
rumbled again "
oh well I like your style xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think your opening post needed more than a one liner.
You'd have got much more response if you stated what you weren't prepared to do to meet & why...
what if I have no limits on what I will do with and to a meet as long as its on terms I find agreeable which is code for if I'm respected past what I bring sexually to the table "
I was referring more to provoking a debate on here. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Not desperate but way too much of a try hard.
i can see why you would think that which is rather funny when you consider the two drama queens i had to deal with yesterday who were accusing and chastising for the exact opposite to your post
I wasn't on here yesterday, what thread are you on about I'll have a read.
I'm answering the op, you don't come across as desperate just someone that tries too hard, maybe blows his own trumpet too much. "
again yesterday i was accused of no trying enough there for not being being bothered there for fake which is the opposite of how you see me very very funny ,
I admit I do blow my own trumpet but that's because i have pride in not only myself bit also in those i engage and play with . by saying I'm great I'm also saying they are to for bringing that greatness out in me .
no one is more greater than those who bring out the greatness in them .
i empower the people around me they in turn empower me its a truth lost on many in the swinging world but easily understood by those in the world of kink . |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"I think your opening post needed more than a one liner.
You'd have got much more response if you stated what you weren't prepared to do to meet & why...
what if I have no limits on what I will do with and to a meet as long as its on terms I find agreeable which is code for if I'm respected past what I bring sexually to the table
I was referring more to provoking a debate on here."
I'm often deliberately vague because i love to allow others to pass judgements or think freely from there own already formed view point of me .i find by doing so the truth about them as a individual is revealed because by doing as i do you by pass peoples carefully created online persona |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"I am very desperate for a hot strong ........ cup of tea xx
I'm in a café at the minute kat so the tea will be stewed beyond belief is that ok my lovely xxx. Hell no I like my tea freshly made if you would be so kind xx
you going to have to meet me at home then kat as i have no tea making equipment on me at the minute ohhghhh I see what your doing Mr xx
rumbled again oh well I like your style xx"
careful kat i bite and i do far worse things to those i like its best to be my enemy than my friend as its safer for all concerned |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am very desperate for a hot strong ........ cup of tea xx
I'm in a café at the minute kat so the tea will be stewed beyond belief is that ok my lovely xxx. Hell no I like my tea freshly made if you would be so kind xx
you going to have to meet me at home then kat as i have no tea making equipment on me at the minute ohhghhh I see what your doing Mr xx
rumbled again oh well I like your style xx
careful kat i bite and i do far worse things to those i like its best to be my enemy than my friend as its safer for all concerned "
I actually like biting so watch your arse xx |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"I am very desperate for a hot strong ........ cup of tea xx
I'm in a café at the minute kat so the tea will be stewed beyond belief is that ok my lovely xxx. Hell no I like my tea freshly made if you would be so kind xx
you going to have to meet me at home then kat as i have no tea making equipment on me at the minute ohhghhh I see what your doing Mr xx
rumbled again oh well I like your style xx
careful kat i bite and i do far worse things to those i like its best to be my enemy than my friend as its safer for all concerned I actually like biting so watch your arse xx"
ahh i like you too xxxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am very desperate for a hot strong ........ cup of tea xx
I'm in a café at the minute kat so the tea will be stewed beyond belief is that ok my lovely xxx. Hell no I like my tea freshly made if you would be so kind xx
you going to have to meet me at home then kat as i have no tea making equipment on me at the minute ohhghhh I see what your doing Mr xx
rumbled again oh well I like your style xx
careful kat i bite and i do far worse things to those i like its best to be my enemy than my friend as its safer for all concerned I actually like biting so watch your arse xx
ahh i like you too xxxxxxxx"
mwahhhhh xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think your opening post needed more than a one liner.
You'd have got much more response if you stated what you weren't prepared to do to meet & why...
what if I have no limits on what I will do with and to a meet as long as its on terms I find agreeable which is code for if I'm respected past what I bring sexually to the table
I was referring more to provoking a debate on here.
I'm often deliberately vague because i love to allow others to pass judgements or think freely from there own already formed view point of me .i find by doing so the truth about them as a individual is revealed because by doing as i do you by pass peoples carefully created online persona "
I think if you're observant enough you can spot flaws in someone's online persona, over time. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think your opening post needed more than a one liner.
You'd have got much more response if you stated what you weren't prepared to do to meet & why...
what if I have no limits on what I will do with and to a meet as long as its on terms I find agreeable which is code for if I'm respected past what I bring sexually to the table
I was referring more to provoking a debate on here.
I'm often deliberately vague because i love to allow others to pass judgements or think freely from there own already formed view point of me .i find by doing so the truth about them as a individual is revealed because by doing as i do you by pass peoples carefully created online persona
I think if you're observant enough you can spot flaws in someone's online persona, over time."
very true but the short cut i out lined was passed on to me and taught to me by a female sub ,as its allows one to see through a persona by allowing someone subconscious mind to speak without them realising they are doing so .
its one of many tricks i have learnt over the years from those in the knk world to vet and out the fakes. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I think your opening post needed more than a one liner.
You'd have got much more response if you stated what you weren't prepared to do to meet & why...
what if I have no limits on what I will do with and to a meet as long as its on terms I find agreeable which is code for if I'm respected past what I bring sexually to the table
I was referring more to provoking a debate on here.
I'm often deliberately vague because i love to allow others to pass judgements or think freely from there own already formed view point of me .i find by doing so the truth about them as a individual is revealed because by doing as i do you by pass peoples carefully created online persona
I think if you're observant enough you can spot flaws in someone's online persona, over time.
very true but the short cut i out lined was passed on to me and taught to me by a female sub ,as its allows one to see through a persona by allowing someone subconscious mind to speak without them realising they are doing so .
its one of many tricks i have learnt over the years from those in the knk world to vet and out the fakes. "
It's not really that good a trick - people post different things depending on how they are feeling at that time and other situational things. It leads to assumptions based on little but a few words at one time in someone's life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're like soft spitting rain on a freshly washed head
in other words nothing well put harlot if there was a kiss emoji id use it about now xxx"
Ha!
You're a funny fecker. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"I think your opening post needed more than a one liner.
You'd have got much more response if you stated what you weren't prepared to do to meet & why...
what if I have no limits on what I will do with and to a meet as long as its on terms I find agreeable which is code for if I'm respected past what I bring sexually to the table
I was referring more to provoking a debate on here.
I'm often deliberately vague because i love to allow others to pass judgements or think freely from there own already formed view point of me .i find by doing so the truth about them as a individual is revealed because by doing as i do you by pass peoples carefully created online persona
I think if you're observant enough you can spot flaws in someone's online persona, over time.
very true but the short cut i out lined was passed on to me and taught to me by a female sub ,as its allows one to see through a persona by allowing someone subconscious mind to speak without them realising they are doing so .
its one of many tricks i have learnt over the years from those in the knk world to vet and out the fakes.
It's not really that good a trick - people post different things depending on how they are feeling at that time and other situational things. It leads to assumptions based on little but a few words at one time in someone's life."
true Mie if you only do it once and pass judgement instantly .
i don't want to give away to much the first time you posts in such a way the answers put people on your radar.
you then take notes on them
this approach very quickly points out not who will make a great play partner but not if is will happen .as well who is worth meeting face to face because the conversation will be enjoyable and if you a woman who is practised at the art who is safe and who is not who is respectful and who is not .
i can get away with posting very mild topics when a woman is using this technic she has to word things far more controversially than i would .to cut through sycophantic behaviour faster something as a man i don't have to consider luckily . |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"You're like soft spitting rain on a freshly washed head
in other words nothing well put harlot if there was a kiss emoji id use it about now xxx
Ha!
You're a funny fecker."
really that's a win in my book even if i have a feeling its a back handed compliment so I will take it and raise you bunch of flowers for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're like soft spitting rain on a freshly washed head
in other words nothing well put harlot if there was a kiss emoji id use it about now xxx
Ha!
You're a funny fecker.
really that's a win in my book even if i have a feeling its a back handed compliment so I will take it and raise you bunch of flowers for it "
better be tulips |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"You're like soft spitting rain on a freshly washed head
in other words nothing well put harlot if there was a kiss emoji id use it about now xxx
Ha!
You're a funny fecker.
really that's a win in my book even if i have a feeling its a back handed compliment so I will take it and raise you bunch of flowers for it
better be tulips "
from Sainsbury's not Amsterdam there's no way my ardour is stretching to that sort of round trip xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You desperate, no id never deduce that from any of your posts. In fact I think it comes across as your very particular about who you meet and play with. But your also flirty with the ladies though not crude. And for the most part sociable with all.
Though you do like to provoke some deep thinking debates. But also have a lighter side. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"You desperate, no id never deduce that from any of your posts. In fact I think it comes across as your very particular about who you meet and play with. But your also flirty with the ladies though not crude. And for the most part sociable with all.
Though you do like to provoke some deep thinking debates. But also have a lighter side. "
why thank you its nice to see a positive post i try to give a fully rounded picture of myself by thinking carefully about what i say in posts where a serious opiniuon or help is called for by the op .
I try to take the piss out of myself when ever I can as well as flirt in a friendly jovial way when ever the opportunity arises as i ove to flirt and tease
I try at the same time to post the odd post designed to help me evaluate those I find interesting .
there is one or two such individuals in here and you no what i don't even think they know i find them stimulating mentally and interesting characters who i secretly like and admire xxxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You desperate, no id never deduce that from any of your posts. In fact I think it comes across as your very particular about who you meet and play with. But your also flirty with the ladies though not crude. And for the most part sociable with all.
Though you do like to provoke some deep thinking debates. But also have a lighter side.
why thank you its nice to see a positive post i try to give a fully rounded picture of myself by thinking carefully about what i say in posts where a serious opiniuon or help is called for by the op .
I try to take the piss out of myself when ever I can as well as flirt in a friendly jovial way when ever the opportunity arises as i ove to flirt and tease
I try at the same time to post the odd post designed to help me evaluate those I find interesting .
there is one or two such individuals in here and you no what i don't even think they know i find them stimulating mentally and interesting characters who i secretly like and admire xxxx "
You're welcome, as much as I like the fun side of the forums, sometimes I do like a good thought provoking thread. There are a few people on here that I could definitely have some interesting conversations with. |
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