I have noticed something in my recent visits to clubs..I'm finding it difficult to work out who is with who..or if they are with anybody..maybe I'm just being too shy by not wading in and chatting, but as a single male, im in the majority and don't want to piss off the guy if they don't want males..or the woman for that mater...any suggestions? |
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"I have noticed something in my recent visits to clubs..I'm finding it difficult to work out who is with who..or if they are with anybody..maybe I'm just being too shy by not wading in and chatting, but as a single male, im in the majority and don't want to piss off the guy if they don't want males..or the woman for that mater...any suggestions?"
just chat....it doesnt have to be about sex. Just make light conversation x
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"I have noticed something in my recent visits to clubs..I'm finding it difficult to work out who is with who..or if they are with anybody..maybe I'm just being too shy by not wading in and chatting, but as a single male, im in the majority and don't want to piss off the guy if they don't want males..or the woman for that mater...any suggestions? just chat....it doesnt have to be about sex. Just make light conversation x"
Totally agree. Nothing we hate more than someone assumes one or the other of us is in charge |
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i have been mistake for being other people husband before but when on my own i just get into conversation and usually end up asking how long people have been together. that works pretty well for establishing things |
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Ok..the idea has been lost lol..I do chat and have conversations and always acknowledge both parties instead of making the usual mistake of chatting only to one or the other, but it's becoming obvious I'm just too shy and need to come out my shell more  |
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"Ok..the idea has been lost lol..I do chat and have conversations and always acknowledge both parties instead of making the usual mistake of chatting only to one or the other, but it's becoming obvious I'm just too shy and need to come out my shell more "
Ask at the door, I think you can leave your shell with the coats  |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"I have noticed something in my recent visits to clubs..I'm finding it difficult to work out who is with who..or if they are with anybody..maybe I'm just being too shy by not wading in and chatting, but as a single male, im in the majority and don't want to piss off the guy if they don't want males..or the woman for that mater...any suggestions? just chat....it doesnt have to be about sex. Just make light conversation x
Totally agree. Nothing we hate more than someone assumes one or the other of us is in charge"
So many messages from couples either follow the standard single guy format or are just from the guy aimed at me asking of "she does xyz" etc..
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"Ok..the idea has been lost lol..I do chat and have conversations and always acknowledge both parties instead of making the usual mistake of chatting only to one or the other, but it's becoming obvious I'm just too shy and need to come out my shell more
Ask at the door, I think you can leave your shell with the coats "
Yeah..thanks for that |
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I don't understand the theory behind that...if a profile says couple..is it not normal to assume they both read it? Why ask him if she does xyz when you can ask her..but that's just rude anyway lol..if t's guess I'm too shy or polite for this swinging thing  |
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"I don't understand the theory behind that...if a profile says couple..is it not normal to assume they both read it? Why ask him if she does xyz when you can ask her..but that's just rude anyway lol..if t's guess I'm too shy or polite for this swinging thing "
Because a lot of people get pissed off if a man addresses the woman.
I want to know how you can talk to two people at the same time, either by text or face to face. Do both parties answer a question in unison? |
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A perfect couple would yes 
But no, a topic of conversation that doesn't end with a yes or no answer, the one that replies is the one you talk to and keep making eye contact with the other so not to exclude them from the conversation...or am I over thinking this and should just get on with it..I feel like I'm answering my own question lol |
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"ask if she is a milf or gilf, shaven or hairy..finally does she do anal.
always direct this to the male half  "
It's a winner
'Has she got a bucket biff ?' works wonders too I find
As does 'if she won't suck my cock will you ?' |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Ok..the idea has been lost lol..I do chat and have conversations and always acknowledge both parties instead of making the usual mistake of chatting only to one or the other, but it's becoming obvious I'm just too shy and need to come out my shell more "
Sounds like you are doing the right thing. You will soon get an idea if people are interested. It's not always obvious who is with who, in a group of people, if we were interested in you, we would have no problem with you asking who our partner was, if it wasn't obvious.  |
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