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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Evening campers!
As a single guy I wouldn't mind trying a club however the thought of going alone is slightly daunting!
Does anyone have any tips or recommendations for a loner to visit a club?
Also at times can be quite reserved (until I've had shandy or two!) so I wouldn't want to be stood there is silence dead awkward like!
Surely others guys have been in this position?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't stand around glaring/gawping...say hello to people, make conversation without being pushy...there are plenty of clubs around that are "newbie friendly".
If you're nervous to go alone, take a friend with you
Lou  |
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I've been to a few clubs xtasia was my 1st. Best advice is expect nothing don't follow couples around like a little lap dog and no means no. Oh and don't get pissed become you'll end up making a cock of yourself and get booted. |
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"Don't stand around glaring/gawping...say hello to people, make conversation without being pushy...there are plenty of clubs around that are "newbie friendly".
If you're nervous to go alone, take a friend with you
Lou "
The type of friends I have would be mortified at the idea lol think I'll just have to skip the clubs and wait for a plus 1! I know now I wouldn't walk around saying hello to everyone haha I'd be awkward making everyone else awkward! |
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"I've been to a few clubs xtasia was my 1st. Best advice is expect nothing don't follow couples around like a little lap dog and no means no. Oh and don't get pissed become you'll end up making a cock of yourself and get booted."
Did you find it easy to strike up conversations? When you first go in do you just sit and the bar? |
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"Don't stand around glaring/gawping...say hello to people, make conversation without being pushy...there are plenty of clubs around that are "newbie friendly".
If you're nervous to go alone, take a friend with you
Lou
The type of friends I have would be mortified at the idea lol think I'll just have to skip the clubs and wait for a plus 1! I know now I wouldn't walk around saying hello to everyone haha I'd be awkward making everyone else awkward!"
We'll I did mean a friend from fab...lol
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"Don't stand around glaring/gawping...say hello to people, make conversation without being pushy...there are plenty of clubs around that are "newbie friendly".
If you're nervous to go alone, take a friend with you
Lou
The type of friends I have would be mortified at the idea lol think I'll just have to skip the clubs and wait for a plus 1! I know now I wouldn't walk around saying hello to everyone haha I'd be awkward making everyone else awkward!
We'll I did mean a friend from fab...lol
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Ahhh I see lol |
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"I've been to a few clubs xtasia was my 1st. Best advice is expect nothing don't follow couples around like a little lap dog and no means no. Oh and don't get pissed become you'll end up making a cock of yourself and get booted.
Did you find it easy to strike up conversations? When you first go in do you just sit and the bar?"
At 1st I was bricking it as you probably will to but 10/20min in it just seams to go away. Think of it as a night club with a few extras and you'll be fine  |
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