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over a year ago
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"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked. "
I don't get that at all..
I mean I get it if they are there on business anyway and are looking for a cheeky meet but not booking a room in the hope of a speculative meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked. "
Love yr photos...just saying x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked.
Love yr photos...just saying x"
Thank you  Mostly taken in hotels  |
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"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked.
Love yr photos...just saying x
Thank you Mostly taken in hotels "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked.
Love yr photos...just saying x
Thank you Mostly taken in hotels
By the porter ?"
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"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked.
Love yr photos...just saying x
Thank you Mostly taken in hotels
By the porter ?
Receptionist "
They can be more helpful  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked. "
This for me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh  "
Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a few good ones but normally involves someone I'd been chatting to for a while. And we'd arranged it together. I'd have the worst luck booking first and looking after lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get the concept of booking something 1st and then trying to find someone
do people actually do this?
Surely not. "
I've seen it pop up occasionally in local updates, hotel booked who wants afternoon fun...along those lines. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get the concept of booking something 1st and then trying to find someone
do people actually do this?
Surely not.
I've seen it pop up occasionally in local updates, hotel booked who wants afternoon fun...along those lines."
Same here. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"I don't get the concept of booking something 1st and then trying to find someone
do people actually do this? "
You do see it in the meets section so I guess so, we have put a hotel meet up once but we were there for a gig on the Saturday so put a meet up for the Friday, as we don't meet single guys we didn't get much response.
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh
Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy? "
Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get the concept of booking something 1st and then trying to find someone
do people actually do this?
Surely not.
I've seen it pop up occasionally in local updates, hotel booked who wants afternoon fun...along those lines."
I kinda assumed that people did this when they'd been let down or that they were there for another reason and thought they'd see if they could get a meet in too. I didn't realise people actually booked rooms in the hope of arranging a meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh
Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?
Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters. "
Fair enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I spend most of my life in Hotels. The only people who want to meet are other guys, which I fine flattering, but I'm straight.
Two couples arranged to meet, but never turned up. So little succes for me. But again a single man over 50 have very little chance anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh
Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?
Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters. "
I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh
Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?
Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.
I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours. "
Do they end up being 'one offs' though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh
Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?
Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.
I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.
Do they end up being 'one offs' though?"
I have several hotel regulars...but my idea of regular may be different to others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get the concept of booking something 1st and then trying to find someone
do people actually do this?
You do see it in the meets section so I guess so, we have put a hotel meet up once but we were there for a gig on the Saturday so put a meet up for the Friday, as we don't meet single guys we didn't get much response.
S"
I personally wouldn't meet anyone in a hotel who I hadn't got to 'know' via chatting for a while beforehand. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
Regarding "one offs" If neither accomodate (don't care about reason) then where would you meet outside of a club?
Clubs are fine but there are time implications and others about which doesn't apply to hotels, only restrictions are the ones you want to impose.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh
Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?
Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.
I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.
Do they end up being 'one offs' though?"
no. Most of mine are repeats. But then the most I'll meet is once a month. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh
Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?
Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.
I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.
Do they end up being 'one offs' though?"
Some do some don't.
I've met someone on a few occasions when they've travelled here for work.
Other times a hotel in town is the mutual 1/2 way point that works for both.
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"I don't get the concept of booking something 1st and then trying to find someone
do people actually do this?
You do see it in the meets section so I guess so, we have put a hotel meet up once but we were there for a gig on the Saturday so put a meet up for the Friday, as we don't meet single guys we didn't get much response.
S
I personally wouldn't meet anyone in a hotel who I hadn't got to 'know' via chatting for a while beforehand."
Same here, we had the meet up for a few weeks as we knew we were going, amazingly no takers till an influx of offers on the day  Yeah right, bugger off
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get a hotel because we want some time.. sometimes we get company.. sometimes we dont..whatever its great x
I personally dont like going to meet others in their hotels x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh
Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?
Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.
I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.
Do they end up being 'one offs' though?
I have several hotel regulars...but my idea of regular may be different to others. "
mine is more an irregular regular arrangement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh
Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?
Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.
I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.
Do they end up being 'one offs' though?
Some do some don't.
I've met someone on a few occasions when they've travelled here for work.
Other times a hotel in town is the mutual 1/2 way point that works for both.
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mine are usually 1/2 way point meets because of my location. ..I live in a swinging desert |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"I'm a hotel Virgin.
Well the fab kind anyway 
Who wants a hotel meet tonight x
I had a few great hotel meets
Classy hotels not b & b on top of a pub lol"
I'm beginning to change my mind   |
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There is something about hotels that can add a touch of excitement to a meet. I have had quite a few successsful meets that way. Had more at my house though after meeting women socially first and getting to know each other. Meets when they have been invited to mone have been a lot better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The hotel I was in yesterday had a sausage menu. You don't get that at someone's house
That's formed an interesting image in my mind. "
There was a bit too much choice so I panicked and went for a plain pork  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it to be the best way to meet. But only with people I've previously arranged to meet, as someone mentioned earlier. I love being able to relax in the other persons company beforehand, it calms the nerves a great deal. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"The hotel I was in yesterday had a sausage menu. You don't get that at someone's house
That's formed an interesting image in my mind.
There was a bit too much choice so I panicked and went for a plain pork "
I panic if there's too much choice. A nice big good quality pork is never disappointing. If it's chipolata then you need a bit more.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh
Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?
Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.
I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.
Do they end up being 'one offs' though?"
I met one guy regularly in different hotels for about 3 years so they can definitely be repeat meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loads. But I didn't just book a hotel on a whim and try to get someone to meet in it, I arranged to meet someone and then the hotel was booked.
Love yr photos...just saying x
Thank you Mostly taken in hotels "
They are great shot's... The successful hotel meet ones and the rest. Love the under the desk ones
Madame B |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"I've had a few hotel meets which were all great but generally I don't 'do' hotels so ssshhhhhhhh
Don't you think you maybe miss out on people by having a public "no hotels" policy?
Yes, maybe I do but I don't think hotels work as a regular thing especially as I can't do overnighters.
I rarely do overnight but hotels work fine for a few hours.
Do they end up being 'one offs' though?
I met one guy regularly in different hotels for about 3 years so they can definitely be repeat meets. "
Lucky you |
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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago
lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham |
I had one on the sat night just gone read my latest veri
Was great she turned up in a black dress hot as fuck
We chatted and flirted for ages then fucked
I love hotel meets there so horny if there's an attraction |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who has had a hotel meeting which was successful ???
if everyone was successful then everyone would have fun i think "
to be honest most hate hotel meets on here  |
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We have and they worked well.
But caution is needed.
Are they going to turn up and the booking is wasted?
What if you get there and you don't like each other / one of you doesn't like the other?
So, they can be great fun, but just try to take steps against the potential pitfalls.
MrB |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only the one so far but as with others it was planned in advance and we'd spend a while chatting beforehand.
And it went far far better than I could have dreamed. |
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