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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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I'm the biggest kid going and regularly just have a laugh or climb up shit. It's just who I am. I don't view myself as mature. At 25 you've legally only been sexually active for 9 years. Don't think that constitutes enough experience to be classed mature |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mature in years or in mind. They'll be vastly different.
I'm neither. I refuse to mature 
Maturing is overrated. ..I'll leave wine, whisky and cheese to mature "
Exactly.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been called mature on here quite a few times. We've also been referred to as an older couple more than once (one time it was by someone one year younger than me  ).
So I guess nature is whatever you want it to be. Though I personally tend to agree with your OP that I've always thought it was in the 55+ range. *shrugs* |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm the biggest kid going and regularly just have a laugh or climb up shit. It's just who I am. I don't view myself as mature. At 25 you've legally only been sexually active for 9 years. Don't think that constitutes enough experience to be classed mature "
I still climb trees 
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"I've been called mature on here quite a few times. We've also been referred to as an older couple more than once (one time it was by someone one year younger than me ).
So I guess nature is whatever you want it to be. Though I personally tend to agree with your OP that I've always thought it was in the 55+ range. *shrugs*"
Pull your finger out, you've only got three weeks
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"Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x "
When you stopping laughing at videos of people falling over on the internet and instead have genuine concern for thier wellbeing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm the biggest kid going and regularly just have a laugh or climb up shit. It's just who I am. I don't view myself as mature. At 25 you've legally only been sexually active for 9 years. Don't think that constitutes enough experience to be classed mature
I still climb trees "
So do I, it's great fun  |
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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago
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This is interesting ... As you get older I think what you class as mature gets older too. That said someone told me I looked 52 the other day and then a 35 year old said I love the older woman.... X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your perception of age changes as you grow up.
I'm 37 and at 16 I thought my mum was old at that age, anything older was just oooollllddd! Lol
But now I still feel like I'm 21 and people over 60 seem old but all depends on the person, their outlook on life, life style and actual style.
I know people my age that look 10 years older! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x "
And the inverse of that is immature at under 55? 
Surely maturity has little to do with age but rather to do with attitudes, respect, self awareness and the mind.....
Do I class myself as mature? If it's to do with feeling old, stodgy, inflexible, grumpy, glass half empty and traditional...then I'm a wee pup  |
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"I've been called mature on here quite a few times. We've also been referred to as an older couple more than once (one time it was by someone one year younger than me ).
So I guess nature is whatever you want it to be. Though I personally tend to agree with your OP that I've always thought it was in the 55+ range. *shrugs*
Pull your finger out, you've only got three weeks
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I've got 2 weeks & 3 days, but I'm having a self imposed midlife crisis  |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"I've been called mature on here quite a few times. We've also been referred to as an older couple more than once (one time it was by someone one year younger than me ).
So I guess nature is whatever you want it to be. Though I personally tend to agree with your OP that I've always thought it was in the 55+ range. *shrugs*
Pull your finger out, you've only got three weeks
S
I've got 2 weeks & 3 days, but I'm having a self imposed midlife crisis "
I just convince myself that soon everyone will live to 140, so I have another 15yrs before I worry
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I've been called mature since I was about 5. I'll soon be 52 and will just be old.
Just transpose the digits
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I'll still be mature and I don't think I can pass myself off as 25, even in the dark. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x "
Who cares?!
Why is it relevant or important?
Man is the only creature who divides daily life into segments and lives breathes and sleeps by that and that alone.
Age is a (cheesy cliche alert) number. You are, what and who you think you are.
In mind and body.
fuck em!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x
Who cares?!
Why is it relevant or important?
Man is the only creature who divides daily life into segments and lives breathes and sleeps by that and that alone.
Age is a (cheesy cliche alert) number. You are, what and who you think you are.
In mind and body.
fuck em!
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the OP was only asking  |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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No I mean when you get messages saying they like "mature women" to me that suggests older....far more older than I. I don't feel at almost 35 that I am in the nature woman age group |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x
Who cares?!
Why is it relevant or important?
Man is the only creature who divides daily life into segments and lives breathes and sleeps by that and that alone.
Age is a (cheesy cliche alert) number. You are, what and who you think you are.
In mind and body.
fuck em!
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I was more curious than anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I mean when you get messages saying they like "mature women" to me that suggests older....far more older than I. I don't feel at almost 35 that I am in the nature woman age group "
This...yep i am just about to turn 44 so defo middle aged...but when i get messages saying "hey, are you into fucking younger guys?" ....and they are 39/40 it makes me go |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I mean when you get messages saying they like "mature women" to me that suggests older....far more older than I. I don't feel at almost 35 that I am in the nature woman age group "
Maybe those who use it don't understand the difference yet..... |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"No I mean when you get messages saying they like "mature women" to me that suggests older....far more older than I. I don't feel at almost 35 that I am in the nature woman age group
This...yep i am just about to turn 44 so defo middle aged...but when i get messages saying "hey, are you into fucking younger guys?" ....and they are 39/40 it makes me go "
Precisely when a 30 yr old asks if I like younger guys it really makes me a tad perplexed. Now if they were 25 maybe but 9/10 years isn't a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x
Who cares?!
Why is it relevant or important?
Man is the only creature who divides daily life into segments and lives breathes and sleeps by that and that alone.
Age is a (cheesy cliche alert) number. You are, what and who you think you are.
In mind and body.
fuck em!
the OP was only asking "
There was no nastiness, attached to the reply. Just opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a query thread more than anything. I've just been referred to as a mature lady. ....which I really didn't think of myself as being. I'd say 55 plus is mature? Any guidance appreciated x
Who cares?!
Why is it relevant or important?
Man is the only creature who divides daily life into segments and lives breathes and sleeps by that and that alone.
Age is a (cheesy cliche alert) number. You are, what and who you think you are.
In mind and body.
fuck em!
I was more curious than anything. "
Not said to offend, far from it. Perhps, it's far more relevant to ladies, as everyone knows, ladies mature fastsr than men anyway
You'll likely find that us men, don't actually care about being labelled, so it's of little interest. Whereas, ladies, apparently, so I've been told, are obsessed by age, size, or simply being classified by a word.
Mature, aged, elderly, old fashioned (two words, i know) .
anyway, just stirring |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The moment your first wrinkle appears you are classed as mature. Be it 18 or 42, I'm wrinkle free thankfully  "
In which case I'm not there yet...smiling gives you wrinkles, resting bitch face keeps you pretty |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The moment your first wrinkle appears you are classed as mature. Be it 18 or 42, I'm wrinkle free thankfully
In which case I'm not there yet...smiling gives you wrinkles, resting bitch face keeps you pretty "
Bollocks, I've been giggling all my life, it only gave me a six pack |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The moment your first wrinkle appears you are classed as mature. Be it 18 or 42, I'm wrinkle free thankfully
In which case I'm not there yet...smiling gives you wrinkles, resting bitch face keeps you pretty
Bollocks, I've been giggling all my life, it only gave me a six pack "
Then it must be that incredibly expensive face cream with bee venom...or the fountain of youth that gets sprayed over me! |
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But, but, but... everyone always tells me I'm immature.
