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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
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Why is it surprising? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree its not just about shooting my load sorry to be crude I enjoy long play sessions and sometimes wont cum as these days I am a one pop a night guy so happy to play in a club and only deliver my ejaculation right at the end of the night,partnes have never complained |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cum in a condom if she don't like it, individual preference etc, sex doesn't always have involve emptying your nuts in her mouth or over her face and body "
Individual preference as you say , we would prefer to stay at home and watch paint dry than to have a meet where the male has to cum in a condom as the woman doesn't like cum !
Now that doesn't mean we want unprotected sex at all ( other than with each other ) , but to have to avoid cum near the lady is not for us at all . |
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
Why is it surprising?"
Surprising to us , as we have enjoyed hundreds of meets over the years and never come across a lady who doesn't like cum . |
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
Why is it surprising?
Surprising to us , as we have enjoyed hundreds of meets over the years and never come across a lady who doesn't like cum ."
Fem from a couple I know from here is cumphobic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
Why is it surprising?
Surprising to us , as we have enjoyed hundreds of meets over the years and never come across a lady who doesn't like cum ."
Maybe because you would neither seek out or be sought by those that don't share your preferences? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
Why is it surprising?
Surprising to us , as we have enjoyed hundreds of meets over the years and never come across a lady who doesn't like cum .
Maybe because you would neither seek out or be sought by those that don't share your preferences?"
All of our meets have been through fab , other than clubs and parties . Upon reading profiles to determine compatibility , we have yet to find anyone who states they don't like cum , so while you may be right , it would be hard to know until meeting . And we haven't met anyone yet who doesn't like it in some way or another . Perhaps we've just been lucky  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like cum - facials, cumming on my boobs/ass. But I find with most meets that the cum usually ends up in a condom. In fact, with almost every meet we've had (unless a facial was indeed specifically requested - usually by me ).
I haven't really given it too much thought. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guys either cum with a condom up Sue or she'll wank them off onto her tit's but never on her face."
That's not liking cum though is it ?
It's the women who don't want it anywhere near them that we find odd . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i was pregnant with my first and was having sex with my partner i found i just went off cum. Don't know why, it never bothered me before, and i never got my liking for it back (taste wise).
These days if the bloke churns out really thick jizz or loads of it i just duck or casually move my face away, or they cum in a condom as long as i don't have to swallow it.
It's never really been an issue for the bloke. If he just gives a little splodge of cum then i can deal with that. It's the thickness and large quantity i don't like.
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I don't like it . Of course my ex would be allowed to cum in my mouth would sometimes swallow but often spit . I just don't like it , the smell or texture . I absolutely loved him to cum inside me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know women who actually dry heave if they taste it
Not mine i might add... mine is like pineapple"
Pfft mine's like Skittles - taste the rainbow
DISCLAIMER: Rumours of my snake oil being dodgy are maliciously fabricated by Skittles haters |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know women who actually dry heave if they taste it
Not mine i might add... mine is like pineapple
Pfft mine's like Skittles - taste the rainbow
DISCLAIMER: Rumours of my snake oil being dodgy are maliciously fabricated by Skittles haters"
Oddly mine is rainbow coloured |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know women who actually dry heave if they taste it
Not mine i might add... mine is like pineapple
Pfft mine's like Skittles - taste the rainbow
DISCLAIMER: Rumours of my snake oil being dodgy are maliciously fabricated by Skittles haters
Oddly mine is rainbow coloured"
You need to see the Doc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know women who actually dry heave if they taste it
Not mine i might add... mine is like pineapple
Pfft mine's like Skittles - taste the rainbow
DISCLAIMER: Rumours of my snake oil being dodgy are maliciously fabricated by Skittles haters
Oddly mine is rainbow coloured
You need to see the Doc "
Seen.... she loved it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know women who actually dry heave if they taste it
Not mine i might add... mine is like pineapple
Pfft mine's like Skittles - taste the rainbow
DISCLAIMER: Rumours of my snake oil being dodgy are maliciously fabricated by Skittles haters
Oddly mine is rainbow coloured
You need to see the Doc
Seen.... she loved it "
She?   |
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I can't bear anything at all on my face - water, soap, quilt/blankets or scarves in cold weather.
I only wash my face because I have too!! I have tried cum on my face & am in no hurry to repeat the experience
JG x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it about not liking cum in general or not liking whereabouts the man is trying to put that cum?
For instance, I don't like men assuming they can cum over my face / in my mouth but I'm quite happy over my tits / arse, however that does also depend on who it is.
I'm also not a fan of the cum pics on here.
So....if asked if I like it I'd probably reply, depends on where the cum has come from....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know women who actually dry heave if they taste it
Not mine i might add... mine is like pineapple
Pfft mine's like Skittles - taste the rainbow
DISCLAIMER: Rumours of my snake oil being dodgy are maliciously fabricated by Skittles haters
Oddly mine is rainbow coloured
You need to see the Doc
Seen.... she loved it
She? "
My doc is a lady.... theyre allowed now you know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know women who actually dry heave if they taste it
Not mine i might add... mine is like pineapple
Pfft mine's like Skittles - taste the rainbow
DISCLAIMER: Rumours of my snake oil being dodgy are maliciously fabricated by Skittles haters
Oddly mine is rainbow coloured
You need to see the Doc
Seen.... she loved it
She?
My doc is a lady.... theyre allowed now you know"
Sure they are but this Doc ain't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it about not liking cum in general or not liking whereabouts the man is trying to put that cum?
For instance, I don't like men assuming they can cum over my face / in my mouth but I'm quite happy over my tits / arse, however that does also depend on who it is.
I'm also not a fan of the cum pics on here.
So....if asked if I like it I'd probably reply, depends on where the cum has come from....
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I don't like the taste, smell or texture.
I did wank off someone onto my tits during a meet - my idea as I wanted to try it - but I didn't like the smell after a few minutes so I had to grab the wet wipes!
I'd let someone cum over my arse. I wouldn't have to smell it or taste it then and it'd make a good photo opportunity  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know women who actually dry heave if they taste it
Not mine i might add... mine is like pineapple
Pfft mine's like Skittles - taste the rainbow
DISCLAIMER: Rumours of my snake oil being dodgy are maliciously fabricated by Skittles haters
Oddly mine is rainbow coloured
You need to see the Doc
Seen.... she loved it
She?
My doc is a lady.... theyre allowed now you know
Sure they are but this Doc ain't "
Ahhhhhhhhhh i get it now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
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I was shocked when I first started swinging that their were women that didn't like cum... I like doing group sessions with them.. as means I get it all. X
But for me as its the only bit of sex with another man I get excited about I do find it odd but then people find it odd that I find kissing other men a turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why does anyone not like something ,like Brussels sprouts ,suppose it's down to personal choice I guess  "
A personal choice such as not liking Brussel sprouts or cauliflower is not really the same as a woman not liking cum on a swingers site though is it ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
I was shocked when I first started swinging that their were women that didn't like cum... I like doing group sessions with them.. as means I get it all. X
But for me as its the only bit of sex with another man I get excited about I do find it odd but then people find it odd that I find kissing other men a turn off. "
Well I'd love to enjoy a group session with you and a lot of guys . I love kissing , and we could share the cum  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why does anyone not like something ,like Brussels sprouts ,suppose it's down to personal choice I guess
A personal choice such as not liking Brussel sprouts or cauliflower is not really the same as a woman not liking cum on a swingers site though is it ? "
It is... it doesn't have to be rational it's simply a response to a stimuli (be it cum, cauliflower or a punch) some like it. Some hate it, and some are ambivalent.
By your rational every sex act would have to be enjoyed by every member on fab... because it's a sex site |
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
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Personally I hate cum anywhere near my face. So no facials. No cum in my mouth.
Some guys complain but I then don't meet them. I make it clear from the start as I know most guys enjoy cumming over a girls face.
As others have said. Each to there own.
And as for not meeting if the guy has to cum in a condom.. well I'm sure the people who don't like cum would find you just as weird. I think women who are on here but aren't open to at least trying anal is odd. It's all about fun after all. Whatever floats your boat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why does anyone not like something ,like Brussels sprouts ,suppose it's down to personal choice I guess
A personal choice such as not liking Brussel sprouts or cauliflower is not really the same as a woman not liking cum on a swingers site though is it ?
It is... it doesn't have to be rational it's simply a response to a stimuli (be it cum, cauliflower or a punch) some like it. Some hate it, and some are ambivalent.
By your rational every sex act would have to be enjoyed by every member on fab... because it's a sex site "
I can understand certain sexual acts not being enjoyed for various reasons . Despite it being a swinging site . But women who enjoy sex with men , yet don't like cum on or anywhere near them , just seems a bit odd since it's the culmination of the act ( whatever that act was ) .
Like Cali , I see the cum as the very reason to engage in sexual activity . Of course I enjoy all the pre cum play too , but as a pleaser , the orgasm is the ultimate goal |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
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how do you think? its not rocket science |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
how do you think? its not rocket science "
Well from this thread we are learning , and thanks for your contribution  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Why does anyone not like something ,like Brussels sprouts ,suppose it's down to personal choice I guess
A personal choice such as not liking Brussel sprouts or cauliflower is not really the same as a woman not liking cum on a swingers site though is it ? "
Yes it is. The mantra about preferences holds for everything else so why not this?
I don't like cum. I prefer to meet men who don't cum. I will gift special people my permission for them to cum over my body even though some cum leaves a red welt on my skin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
how do you think? its not rocket science
Well from this thread we are learning , and thanks for your contribution "
I don't like it over my face and in my mouth but quite like it over my tits or arse...
I hate the taste of it so that is what dictates where it goes.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
how do you think? its not rocket science
Well from this thread we are learning , and thanks for your contribution
I don't like it over my face and in my mouth but quite like it over my tits or arse...
I hate the taste of it so that is what dictates where it goes.."
This is clearly quite common , and understandable . Totally get that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why does anyone not like something ,like Brussels sprouts ,suppose it's down to personal choice I guess
A personal choice such as not liking Brussel sprouts or cauliflower is not really the same as a woman not liking cum on a swingers site though is it ?
Yes it is. The mantra about preferences holds for everything else so why not this?
I don't like cum. I prefer to meet men who don't cum. I will gift special people my permission for them to cum over my body even though some cum leaves a red welt on my skin."
Your preference , your choice , and the welts on your skin can't be nice .
Would you think your preferences limit your opportunities to meet though ? There can't be that many men who relish the chance to meet someone who prefers them not to cum can there ? |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
how do you think? its not rocket science
Well from this thread we are learning , and thanks for your contribution
I don't like it over my face and in my mouth but quite like it over my tits or arse...
I hate the taste of it so that is what dictates where it goes.."
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By (user no longer on site)
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The vast majority of meets of ours the other men have always cum in the condom, it has never been a problem for us. I wouldn't go so far to say I don't like cum, but I don't like the smell and I rarely like it in my mouth yet I've still enjoyed the last 17 years of good good sex.
Given your openmindedness on a plethora of other subjects I struggle to see why you can't understand that someone doesn't like cum. |
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"The vast majority of meets of ours the other men have always cum in the condom, it has never been a problem for us. I wouldn't go so far to say I don't like cum, but I don't like the smell and I rarely like it in my mouth yet I've still enjoyed the last 17 years of good good sex.
Given your openmindedness on a plethora of other subjects I struggle to see why you can't understand that someone doesn't like cum. "
I was wondering that too... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The vast majority of meets of ours the other men have always cum in the condom, it has never been a problem for us. I wouldn't go so far to say I don't like cum, but I don't like the smell and I rarely like it in my mouth yet I've still enjoyed the last 17 years of good good sex.
Given your openmindedness on a plethora of other subjects I struggle to see why you can't understand that someone doesn't like cum. "
I guess it's because I love it and it's the reason we swing . Perhaps I'm narrow minded in thinking the cum shows the meet has been a success ? I don't know ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was about to say Glos having looked at your pics (which are smashing) you appear to adore it and that is great ... but not universal
Keep doing what you love
And invite me next time haha |
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"I was about to say Glos having looked at your pics (which are smashing) you appear to adore it and that is great ... but not universal
Keep doing what you love
And invite me next time haha"
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Why does anyone not like something ,like Brussels sprouts ,suppose it's down to personal choice I guess
A personal choice such as not liking Brussel sprouts or cauliflower is not really the same as a woman not liking cum on a swingers site though is it ?
Yes it is. The mantra about preferences holds for everything else so why not this?
I don't like cum. I prefer to meet men who don't cum. I will gift special people my permission for them to cum over my body even though some cum leaves a red welt on my skin.
Your preference , your choice , and the welts on your skin can't be nice .
Would you think your preferences limit your opportunities to meet though ? There can't be that many men who relish the chance to meet someone who prefers them not to cum can there ?"
I don't deny men the chance to cum if that is what they like. I prefer it in a condom or away from my skin.
I haven't met anyone who finds this unreasonable, or if they have they haven't said. I am sure that for those who don't go on to meet me again this might be one of their reasons but if it is then repeat meets would be frustrating for one or both of us.
Those that have seen me in clubs on my knees with my boobs raised to receive a friend's cum wouldn't know it's just a gift to him as I give gifts generously and completely. I am happy that his end to the evening is the one he wanted as he will have given me what I wanted.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why does anyone not like something ,like Brussels sprouts ,suppose it's down to personal choice I guess
A personal choice such as not liking Brussel sprouts or cauliflower is not really the same as a woman not liking cum on a swingers site though is it ?
Yes it is. The mantra about preferences holds for everything else so why not this?
I don't like cum. I prefer to meet men who don't cum. I will gift special people my permission for them to cum over my body even though some cum leaves a red welt on my skin.
Your preference , your choice , and the welts on your skin can't be nice .
Would you think your preferences limit your opportunities to meet though ? There can't be that many men who relish the chance to meet someone who prefers them not to cum can there ?
I don't deny men the chance to cum if that is what they like. I prefer it in a condom or away from my skin.
I haven't met anyone who finds this unreasonable, or if they have they haven't said. I am sure that for those who don't go on to meet me again this might be one of their reasons but if it is then repeat meets would be frustrating for one or both of us.
Those that have seen me in clubs on my knees with my boobs raised to receive a friend's cum wouldn't know it's just a gift to him as I give gifts generously and completely. I am happy that his end to the evening is the one he wanted as he will have given me what I wanted.
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
Why is it surprising?
Surprising to us , as we have enjoyed hundreds of meets over the years and never come across a lady who doesn't like cum ."
Guess one should never assume even after a lot of experience. There's many a lady or guy who may not even put an orgasm as a priority in a meet. Now that's just sounds absurd. .. but there's far more to a meet than cumming... unless it's a fuck and go as many also like.
I guess it's the beauty of having differences....there's someone for everyone on here.
Expectations can be the biggest turn off in sex. |
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
Why is it surprising?
Surprising to us , as we have enjoyed hundreds of meets over the years and never come across a lady who doesn't like cum .
Guess one should never assume even after a lot of experience. There's many a lady or guy who may not even put an orgasm as a priority in a meet. Now that's just sounds absurd. .. but there's far more to a meet than cumming... unless it's a fuck and go as many also like.
I guess it's the beauty of having differences....there's someone for everyone on here.
Expectations can be the biggest turn off in sex."
Very well put
Just glad we haven't met anyone who doesn't want to cum so far |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm an erotic massuse that does happy endings, and I don't like cum. When with my fella, or playing, and only if I know the guy, I swallow. When I'm.doing a happy ending, I always direct their cock so it goes on them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can understand why some women don't like it in their mouth or on their face. But why not anywhere else on their body, like arse or tits, unless it brings them out in a rash or burns like acid for some reason, I don't see what the big deal is. Could someone kindly enlighten me beyond "just don't like it blah blah blah" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't like it . Of course my ex would be allowed to cum in my mouth would sometimes swallow but often spit . I just don't like it , the smell or texture . I absolutely loved him to cum inside me "
This I dislike the taste and texture, though I do enjoy giving BJs. One guy once shot his load in my face and it got in my eyes. My eyes were red and swollen, they stung for hours and I went virtually blind until the effect wore off. I washed my face and eyes with cold water repeatedly, no idea what the end result would have been had I not. I dislike it on my tits too. If I am certain not to get a full load, I will sometimes take my partner's cum in my mouth, but make sure his cock is far down my throat so I can swallow without tasting. |
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"I can understand why some women don't like it in their mouth or on their face. But why not anywhere else on their body, like arse or tits, unless it brings them out in a rash or burns like acid for some reason, I don't see what the big deal is. Could someone kindly enlighten me beyond "just don't like it blah blah blah" "
Because
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I can understand why some women don't like it in their mouth or on their face. But why not anywhere else on their body, like arse or tits, unless it brings them out in a rash or burns like acid for some reason, I don't see what the big deal is. Could someone kindly enlighten me beyond "just don't like it blah blah blah" "
For some it might be the smell and texture. For others it could just be that they don't like the mess.
I was chatting to a man who said he wasn't interested in meeting if I was 'one of those messy wet women'. Mess is an issue for some people.
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"I can understand why some women don't like it in their mouth or on their face. But why not anywhere else on their body, like arse or tits, unless it brings them out in a rash or burns like acid for some reason, I don't see what the big deal is. Could someone kindly enlighten me beyond "just don't like it blah blah blah"
For some it might be the smell and texture. For others it could just be that they don't like the mess.
I was chatting to a man who said he wasn't interested in meeting if I was 'one of those messy wet women'. Mess is an issue for some people.
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Not as if it requires a cleaning crew to clean up though, if I cum on someone I always get the tissues and clean them up |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I can understand why some women don't like it in their mouth or on their face. But why not anywhere else on their body, like arse or tits, unless it brings them out in a rash or burns like acid for some reason, I don't see what the big deal is. Could someone kindly enlighten me beyond "just don't like it blah blah blah"
For some it might be the smell and texture. For others it could just be that they don't like the mess.
I was chatting to a man who said he wasn't interested in meeting if I was 'one of those messy wet women'. Mess is an issue for some people.
Not as if it requires a cleaning crew to clean up though, if I cum on someone I always get the tissues and clean them up"
OK. You asked for a reason, I gave you some. You don't get that it is an issue for some people and they won't be able to convince you that it is.
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"I can understand why some women don't like it in their mouth or on their face. But why not anywhere else on their body, like arse or tits, unless it brings them out in a rash or burns like acid for some reason, I don't see what the big deal is. Could someone kindly enlighten me beyond "just don't like it blah blah blah" "
I don't like the smell. I don't like the texture. I don't like the taste. I don't like the mess. I'm sure there's sexual activities YOU don't do because you don't like them.
Oh, and I wouldn't do something during sex for someone else that I didn't enjoy purely for the pleasure for another person. |
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Some people are allergic to cum....some guys are even allergic to their own. The allergy is actually to the proteins in cum and is known as Seminal Plasma Hypersensitivity and at the very least causes redness, burning, itching and swelling. At the more extreme reaction end, it can cause anaphylactic shock and people can stop breathing. It is not that uncommon either and the itching and burning is often wrongly attributed to thrush or some other STI. |
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"Some people are allergic to cum....some guys are even allergic to their own. The allergy is actually to the proteins in cum and is known as Seminal Plasma Hypersensitivity and at the very least causes redness, burning, itching and swelling. At the more extreme reaction end, it can cause anaphylactic shock and people can stop breathing. It is not that uncommon either and the itching and burning is often wrongly attributed to thrush or some other STI. "
Wow !
I'm glad I'm not |
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over a year ago
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"I can understand why some women don't like it in their mouth or on their face. But why not anywhere else on their body, like arse or tits, unless it brings them out in a rash or burns like acid for some reason, I don't see what the big deal is. Could someone kindly enlighten me beyond "just don't like it blah blah blah"
I don't like the smell. I don't like the texture. I don't like the taste. I don't like the mess. I'm sure there's sexual activities YOU don't do because you don't like them.
Oh, and I wouldn't do something during sex for someone else that I didn't enjoy purely for the pleasure for another person."
There is some sexual activities that I won't do, biggest one is anything going up my poop shoot, but that's because its extremely uncomfortable for me.
But there is some that I don't like but would still do if it meant the other half would enjoy our time together more. I believe sex is a lot of give and take
And I was just asking a question, I don't believe anywhere in my original post I suggested a woman should do something just for the enjoyment of their partner. |
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"I can understand why some women don't like it in their mouth or on their face. But why not anywhere else on their body, like arse or tits, unless it brings them out in a rash or burns like acid for some reason, I don't see what the big deal is. Could someone kindly enlighten me beyond "just don't like it blah blah blah"
I don't like the smell. I don't like the texture. I don't like the taste. I don't like the mess. I'm sure there's sexual activities YOU don't do because you don't like them.
Oh, and I wouldn't do something during sex for someone else that I didn't enjoy purely for the pleasure for another person.
There is some sexual activities that I won't do, biggest one is anything going up my poop shoot, but that's because its extremely uncomfortable for me.
But there is some that I don't like but would still do if it meant the other half would enjoy our time together more. I believe sex is a lot of give and take
And I was just asking a question, I don't believe anywhere in my original post I suggested a woman should do something just for the enjoyment of their partner."
And someone cumming on me would make me feel uncomfortable because I don't like it, and a physical and psychological way which I'm not discussing on here.
I meant I wouldn't allow someone to cum on me just because they wanted to if I wasn't into it, and, with a lover, I wouldn't expect him to press for an explanation.
The same goes for if a lover didn't want to do something I was interested in. It's respect IMO. |
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I love it across my body, but never on my face or in my mouth as I hate the taste and it makes my mouth go unpleasantly numb. It'd take supreme effort for me not to throw up if the latter, though conversely I don't mind pre-cum.
I can't say I've given a huge amount of thought as to why I've got those preferences but as with anything, anyone who wants something I'm not prepared to give them will simply move on and as my boundaries haven't yet caused me a noticeable problem, the whole issue is irrelevant. I don't think much about people with different attitudes to cum either, so what ... I'm surprised anyone else would be fretting about what others prefer when it has no bearing on what they enjoy. |
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i like the guy to cum inside me which may mean in a comdom depending on who it is but this is because once he stops and pulls out and starts wanking I feel disconnected from the act, I feel nothing when they cum on my face,tits arse but bored waiting.
I've had three men just stop and pull out and start wanking then ask where do you want it, it really runined the moment for me.
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"Some people are allergic to cum....some guys are even allergic to their own. The allergy is actually to the proteins in cum and is known as Seminal Plasma Hypersensitivity and at the very least causes redness, burning, itching and swelling. At the more extreme reaction end, it can cause anaphylactic shock and people can stop breathing. It is not that uncommon either and the itching and burning is often wrongly attributed to thrush or some other STI.
Wow !
I'm glad I'm not "
you and me both... |
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I'm not a cum lover. I don't like it on my face but don't mind tits or arse. I prefer it on my arse cos it feels nice and warm lol.
And just cos it's a swinging site it doesn't mean we have to love cum to have sex |
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over a year ago
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"I'm not a cum lover. I don't like it on my face but don't mind tits or arse. I prefer it on my arse cos it feels nice and warm lol.
And just cos it's a swinging site it doesn't mean we have to love cum to have sex "
No need for the .....
How would you feel if a meet didn't cum ?
Just interesting to see other observations .
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over a year ago
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"i like the guy to cum inside me which may mean in a comdom depending on who it is but this is because once he stops and pulls out and starts wanking I feel disconnected from the act, I feel nothing when they cum on my face,tits arse but bored waiting.
I've had three men just stop and pull out and start wanking then ask where do you want it, it really runined the moment for me.
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Hate that with a passion, i used to let them but if a guy does that when ive told them i dont enjoy it i just get off the bed and get dressed. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
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Is this a genuine question because you can't understand how someone could have sex without adoring cum or is it a slightly judgemental comment framed as one?
I've a few friends who don't enjoy it on any part of their body yet they are still successful and enjoy lots of sex... I'm not sure why because someone enjoys NSA they have to like everything? |
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over a year ago
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"i like the guy to cum inside me which may mean in a comdom depending on who it is but this is because once he stops and pulls out and starts wanking I feel disconnected from the act, I feel nothing when they cum on my face,tits arse but bored waiting.
I've had three men just stop and pull out and start wanking then ask where do you want it, it really runined the moment for me.
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see thats not an option for me except with my partner as wont allow a meet to cum inside me .. as find it to risky.. and yes i mean with a condom.. also besides the risk of splitting or spillage.. the act of the guy cumming is the only reason i play with other men.. so without getting pleasure from that it becomes utterly pointless. X
But we are all different... for me I get excited when the guy starts wanking to cover me x |
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over a year ago
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"I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
Is this a genuine question because you can't understand how someone could have sex without adoring cum or is it a slightly judgemental comment framed as one?
I've a few friends who don't enjoy it on any part of their body yet they are still successful and enjoy lots of sex... I'm not sure why because someone enjoys NSA they have to like everything? "
As I've said throughout the thread , it's a genuine question . Certainly not a judgemental comment framed as one . The cum for me is the icing on the cake , the reason we like meeting single guys and visually the happy ending I enjoy so much |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
Is this a genuine question because you can't understand how someone could have sex without adoring cum or is it a slightly judgemental comment framed as one?
I've a few friends who don't enjoy it on any part of their body yet they are still successful and enjoy lots of sex... I'm not sure why because someone enjoys NSA they have to like everything?
As I've said throughout the thread , it's a genuine question . Certainly not a judgemental comment framed as one . The cum for me is the icing on the cake , the reason we like meeting single guys and visually the happy ending I enjoy so much "
Hmm, okies. Well, it's great that you enjoy it but I still don't see the correlation between nsa and cum liking. Much like there are things you wouldn't enjoy that others do, it doesn't affect your ability to have nsa - men can come in condoms etc. |
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"I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
Is this a genuine question because you can't understand how someone could have sex without adoring cum or is it a slightly judgemental comment framed as one?
I've a few friends who don't enjoy it on any part of their body yet they are still successful and enjoy lots of sex... I'm not sure why because someone enjoys NSA they have to like everything?
As I've said throughout the thread , it's a genuine question . Certainly not a judgemental comment framed as one . The cum for me is the icing on the cake , the reason we like meeting single guys and visually the happy ending I enjoy so much
Hmm, okies. Well, it's great that you enjoy it but I still don't see the correlation between nsa and cum liking. Much like there are things you wouldn't enjoy that others do, it doesn't affect your ability to have nsa - men can come in condoms etc."
Yeah I get that men can cum in condoms , but I feel short changed when that happens , unless it's from fucking of course . There's no way I would suck a cock in a condom , nor wank a cock in one . I love it when a guy fucks me then pulls out , whips off the condom and asks where I want it . |
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"I'm not a cum lover. I don't like it on my face but don't mind tits or arse. I prefer it on my arse cos it feels nice and warm lol.
And just cos it's a swinging site it doesn't mean we have to love cum to have sex
No need for the .....
How would you feel if a meet didn't cum ?
Just interesting to see other observations .
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Your post didn't mention them not cumming. Just said women don't like it so I took that as they don't like it on them. They could have still cum in the condom. If women aren't letting the guys do that when they're having sex then that's just weird |
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Keep it well away from me, can't stand the stuff. At a push he can cum on my boobs or back but I don't want to see it and someone else can wipe it off.
That applies for all sexual contacts, not just swinging ones. |
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"I can't figure out the connection of a swinging site and the liking of cum."
There's a lot of things on here that have no connection to it being a swinging site..... |
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"I can't figure out the connection of a swinging site and the liking of cum."
There are so many things that we find difficult to see the connection of a swinging site and subject matter that comes up on these forums .
Liking cum isn't one of them , but that's us .
Different strokes for different folks as they say .
Maybe it would be better if we posted about popcorn , cakes , what we are having for dinner or politics instead |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I can't figure out the connection of a swinging site and the liking of cum.
There are so many things that we find difficult to see the connection of a swinging site and subject matter that comes up on these forums .
Liking cum isn't one of them , but that's us .
Different strokes for different folks as they say .
Maybe it would be better if we posted about popcorn , cakes , what we are having for dinner or politics instead "
Very defensive . You asked for opinions
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over a year ago
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"I can't figure out the connection of a swinging site and the liking of cum.
There's a lot of things on here that have no connection to it being a swinging site....."
I think maybe you missed my point. |
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I don't get it either
The amount of gay guys who are cum averse is staggering to
I love a mouth or face full and so does the OH
It's important that we broach the subject with potential meets as cumming on someones chest or belly just doesn't cut it for us |
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"I can't figure out the connection of a swinging site and the liking of cum.
There are so many things that we find difficult to see the connection of a swinging site and subject matter that comes up on these forums .
Liking cum isn't one of them , but that's us .
Different strokes for different folks as they say .
Maybe it would be better if we posted about popcorn , cakes , what we are having for dinner or politics instead
Very defensive . You asked for opinions
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Not meant to be defensive guys , just that women on a swinging site who don't like cum seems odd to us . This thread has opened our eyes somewhat , and we respect that it's not for everyone . Just as the no kissing is hard for some to get I guess . |
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I'm totally fine with cum (so long as it doesn't get in my eyes or hair). But I'd much rather someone cum inside me (in condom for fab meets).
Someone pulling out and finishing themself off wanking over me feels incredibly artificial and does nothing compared to feeling a cock harden and pulse inside me, even if it's in a condom. |
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over a year ago
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"I can't figure out the connection of a swinging site and the liking of cum.
There are so many things that we find difficult to see the connection of a swinging site and subject matter that comes up on these forums .
Liking cum isn't one of them , but that's us .
Different strokes for different folks as they say .
Maybe it would be better if we posted about popcorn , cakes , what we are having for dinner or politics instead
Very defensive . You asked for opinions
Not meant to be defensive guys , just that women on a swinging site who don't like cum seems odd to us . This thread has opened our eyes somewhat , and we respect that it's not for everyone . Just as the no kissing is hard for some to get I guess ."
I like it, but only on my boobs for playmates. I get that others won't like the same as me
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
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I like sex but I don't like cum play. I like blow jobs to completion but I don't like it on me in anyway. I would never cum swap with someone because it makes me want to gip. Does that make me a frigid swinger?! |
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I don't dislike cum. I love it on me and in me and when my OH cums in my mouth I swallow straight away. It's the smell that gets me every time..it's yuck! |
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
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I am baffled with your comment! What cum must to do with swinging site or NSA?Yes I meet for no strings attached sex!But I don't like cum! Yes works fine for me! |
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
I am baffled with your comment! What cum must to do with swinging site or NSA?Yes I meet for no strings attached sex!But I don't like cum! Yes works fine for me! "
As I said before , for me the ejaculatuon is the best bit of the meet . It's what I look forward to , and to imagine sex without an end is incomprehensible . It's cool that some of you don't like it , and we understand a bit more now .
Each of us are different , and it's great for those who find it works out fine without liking cum |
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"I'm not a big fan of the taste, it leaves a weird taste in my mouth but I'm fine with it over my boobs
And I bet it never misses "
Not often but I did get some in my eye once and it bloody killed  |
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"I'm not a big fan of the taste, it leaves a weird taste in my mouth but I'm fine with it over my boobs
And I bet it never misses
Not often but I did get some in my eye once and it bloody killed "
Think about it- it probably goes way hey! Look at the size of this egg guys- Burrow away!! |
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
I am baffled with your comment! What cum must to do with swinging site or NSA?Yes I meet for no strings attached sex!But I don't like cum! Yes works fine for me!
As I said before , for me the ejaculatuon is the best bit of the meet . It's what I look forward to , and to imagine sex without an end is incomprehensible . It's cool that some of you don't like it , and we understand a bit more now .
Each of us are different , and it's great for those who find it works out fine without liking cum "
You just said it all though- that is Your preference. It isn't everybody's.
Each of us is different- your words, I believe!
I find the idea of not cumming on a meet a bit weird- it's the natural fruition, if you will, unless you are able to stay hard and repeat like my fella, that is!  |
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"Following on from another thread , it's surprising to find there are women who don't like cum . I know we are all different , but it's a swinging site where we meet for NSA sex , so how does that work ?
I am baffled with your comment! What cum must to do with swinging site or NSA?Yes I meet for no strings attached sex!But I don't like cum! Yes works fine for me!
As I said before , for me the ejaculatuon is the best bit of the meet . It's what I look forward to , and to imagine sex without an end is incomprehensible . It's cool that some of you don't like it , and we understand a bit more now .
Each of us are different , and it's great for those who find it works out fine without liking cum
You just said it all though- that is Your preference. It isn't everybody's.
Each of us is different- your words, I believe!
I find the idea of not cumming on a meet a bit weird- it's the natural fruition, if you will, unless you are able to stay hard and repeat like my fella, that is! "
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