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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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BDSM D/s appreciation thread where everyone can wax positive about the dynamic we love with out being questioned about our sexual tastes .
who's with me just post a hello in here 
you never know you may find friendship and dare I say even more by doing so 
well come on post away i haven't got all evening to play host you know  |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i'm finding the reality of cuckolding a little more scary than i thought it would be, now it's properly happening on a non-NSA basis.
don't suppose anyone knows why? like it has been a big fantasy of mine for ages. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"i'm finding the reality of cuckolding a little more scary than i thought it would be, now it's properly happening on a non-NSA basis.
don't suppose anyone knows why? like it has been a big fantasy of mine for ages."
with out more information id say its the responsibility of maintaining the dynamic that your finding scary xxx |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"i'm finding the reality of cuckolding a little more scary than i thought it would be, now it's properly happening on a non-NSA basis.
don't suppose anyone knows why? like it has been a big fantasy of mine for ages.
with out more information id say its the responsibility of maintaining the dynamic that your finding scary xxx "
might be that. don't feel like he's pushing for a relationship (despite using the right words for that) and more that i fuck everyone he knows. think i'm gonna make him NSA in my head and see if that changes anything. i'd be fine with it NSA too, he needs to change how he's talking to me for that and i'll tell him. |
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over a year ago
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BDSM is a subject im so curious about. I have never been heavily involved in the scene, but it's all very intriguing. I know I could never be a true sub though, even though I loved visiting a professional dominatrix. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"i'm finding the reality of cuckolding a little more scary than i thought it would be, now it's properly happening on a non-NSA basis.
don't suppose anyone knows why? like it has been a big fantasy of mine for ages.
with out more information id say its the responsibility of maintaining the dynamic that your finding scary xxx
might be that. don't feel like he's pushing for a relationship (despite using the right words for that) and more that i fuck everyone he knows. think i'm gonna make him NSA in my head and see if that changes anything. i'd be fine with it NSA too, he needs to change how he's talking to me for that and i'll tell him."
whether its NSA or not your the leader in the dynamic with that comes a certain level of responsibility which can be scary to someone not used to being responsible for not only there own sexual wellbeing but also that of another human beings .xxx |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"BDSM is a subject im so curious about. I have never been heavily involved in the scene, but it's all very intriguing. I know I could never be a true sub though, even though I loved visiting a professional dominatrix."
welcome beautiful stick around and enjoy the vibe everyone's welcome as long as there not here to pass any form of negative judgement xxx |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Have been told I'm rather dominant though still learning about the scene not to fussed about the pain side of things "
hi there having met you I would say your confident which is most likely why that was said to you . |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"i'm finding the reality of cuckolding a little more scary than i thought it would be, now it's properly happening on a non-NSA basis.
don't suppose anyone knows why? like it has been a big fantasy of mine for ages.
with out more information id say its the responsibility of maintaining the dynamic that your finding scary xxx
might be that. don't feel like he's pushing for a relationship (despite using the right words for that) and more that i fuck everyone he knows. think i'm gonna make him NSA in my head and see if that changes anything. i'd be fine with it NSA too, he needs to change how he's talking to me for that and i'll tell him.
whether its NSA or not your the leader in the dynamic with that comes a certain level of responsibility which can be scary to someone not used to being responsible for not only there own sexual wellbeing but also that of another human beings .xxx "
happy being responsible for my own sexual happiness but yeah someone else i am not. i'm too selfish i think, coz i don't wanna feel used. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Isn't there already one? I think started by Suzy444 "
suzy I think wants people to sign up to get the site to have a BDSM zone similar to the loumge area .
in the mean time I though it would hurt to run a fun helpful non judgemental post in the lounge
I'm sure suzy will be along in a bit to help out xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have been told I'm rather dominant though still learning about the scene not to fussed about the pain side of things
hi there having met you I would say your confident which is most likely why that was said to you . "
Yeah good chance of that |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"i'm finding the reality of cuckolding a little more scary than i thought it would be, now it's properly happening on a non-NSA basis.
don't suppose anyone knows why? like it has been a big fantasy of mine for ages.
with out more information id say its the responsibility of maintaining the dynamic that your finding scary xxx
might be that. don't feel like he's pushing for a relationship (despite using the right words for that) and more that i fuck everyone he knows. think i'm gonna make him NSA in my head and see if that changes anything. i'd be fine with it NSA too, he needs to change how he's talking to me for that and i'll tell him.
whether its NSA or not your the leader in the dynamic with that comes a certain level of responsibility which can be scary to someone not used to being responsible for not only there own sexual wellbeing but also that of another human beings .xxx
happy being responsible for my own sexual happiness but yeah someone else i am not. i'm too selfish i think, coz i don't wanna feel used."
that makes sense but nether of you are being used really as your both equally dependent on each other for the dynamic to work .
trust me the more you put in the more you will get out and the more you will learn about yourself in the process improving your understanding of the dynamic your partner and yourself in the process xxx |
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over a year ago
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"Have been told I'm rather dominant though still learning about the scene not to fussed about the pain side of things "
Oh I love the pain side of things. Pain as pleasure is what gets me off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have been told I'm rather dominant though still learning about the scene not to fussed about the pain side of things
Oh I love the pain side of things. Pain as pleasure is what gets me off "
Each to their own of course depends how you like that administered |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have been told I'm rather dominant though still learning about the scene not to fussed about the pain side of things
Oh I love the pain side of things. Pain as pleasure is what gets me off
Each to their own of course depends how you like that administered "
However they want to administer it to be honest. A belt on my arse has to be a favourite of mine though |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"i'm finding the reality of cuckolding a little more scary than i thought it would be, now it's properly happening on a non-NSA basis.
don't suppose anyone knows why? like it has been a big fantasy of mine for ages.
with out more information id say its the responsibility of maintaining the dynamic that your finding scary xxx
might be that. don't feel like he's pushing for a relationship (despite using the right words for that) and more that i fuck everyone he knows. think i'm gonna make him NSA in my head and see if that changes anything. i'd be fine with it NSA too, he needs to change how he's talking to me for that and i'll tell him.
whether its NSA or not your the leader in the dynamic with that comes a certain level of responsibility which can be scary to someone not used to being responsible for not only there own sexual wellbeing but also that of another human beings .xxx
happy being responsible for my own sexual happiness but yeah someone else i am not. i'm too selfish i think, coz i don't wanna feel used.
that makes sense but nether of you are being used really as your both equally dependent on each other for the dynamic to work .
trust me the more you put in the more you will get out and the more you will learn about yourself in the process improving your understanding of the dynamic your partner and yourself in the process xxx"
thanks. always good to hear someone elses side of things.
i am pretty reciprocal and enjoy that usually, just meeting some others on here (the wrong type of people) have taught me to look after my own interests first now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"BDSM is a subject im so curious about. I have never been heavily involved in the scene, but it's all very intriguing. I know I could never be a true sub though, even though I loved visiting a professional dominatrix.
welcome beautiful stick around and enjoy the vibe everyone's welcome as long as there not here to pass any form of negative judgement xxx"
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have been told I'm rather dominant though still learning about the scene not to fussed about the pain side of things
Oh I love the pain side of things. Pain as pleasure is what gets me off
Each to their own of course depends how you like that administered
However they want to administer it to be honest. A belt on my arse has to be a favourite of mine though "
Oh really very interesting |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"i'm finding the reality of cuckolding a little more scary than i thought it would be, now it's properly happening on a non-NSA basis.
don't suppose anyone knows why? like it has been a big fantasy of mine for ages.
with out more information id say its the responsibility of maintaining the dynamic that your finding scary xxx
might be that. don't feel like he's pushing for a relationship (despite using the right words for that) and more that i fuck everyone he knows. think i'm gonna make him NSA in my head and see if that changes anything. i'd be fine with it NSA too, he needs to change how he's talking to me for that and i'll tell him.
whether its NSA or not your the leader in the dynamic with that comes a certain level of responsibility which can be scary to someone not used to being responsible for not only there own sexual wellbeing but also that of another human beings .xxx
happy being responsible for my own sexual happiness but yeah someone else i am not. i'm too selfish i think, coz i don't wanna feel used.
that makes sense but nether of you are being used really as your both equally dependent on each other for the dynamic to work .
trust me the more you put in the more you will get out and the more you will learn about yourself in the process improving your understanding of the dynamic your partner and yourself in the process xxx
thanks. always good to hear someone elses side of things.
i am pretty reciprocal and enjoy that usually, just meeting some others on here (the wrong type of people) have taught me to look after my own interests first now."
that makes sense but if he's genuine he would have been through similar experiences to you remember that when you get a bit scared it should help you process that natural fear easier xxx |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"i'm finding the reality of cuckolding a little more scary than i thought it would be, now it's properly happening on a non-NSA basis.
don't suppose anyone knows why? like it has been a big fantasy of mine for ages.
with out more information id say its the responsibility of maintaining the dynamic that your finding scary xxx
might be that. don't feel like he's pushing for a relationship (despite using the right words for that) and more that i fuck everyone he knows. think i'm gonna make him NSA in my head and see if that changes anything. i'd be fine with it NSA too, he needs to change how he's talking to me for that and i'll tell him.
whether its NSA or not your the leader in the dynamic with that comes a certain level of responsibility which can be scary to someone not used to being responsible for not only there own sexual wellbeing but also that of another human beings .xxx
happy being responsible for my own sexual happiness but yeah someone else i am not. i'm too selfish i think, coz i don't wanna feel used.
that makes sense but nether of you are being used really as your both equally dependent on each other for the dynamic to work .
trust me the more you put in the more you will get out and the more you will learn about yourself in the process improving your understanding of the dynamic your partner and yourself in the process xxx
thanks. always good to hear someone elses side of things.
i am pretty reciprocal and enjoy that usually, just meeting some others on here (the wrong type of people) have taught me to look after my own interests first now.
that makes sense but if he's genuine he would have been through similar experiences to you remember that when you get a bit scared it should help you process that natural fear easier xxx "
i'll stop hogging your topic now but you've brought up some good points for me to think about.
i'd love to be vulnerable to someone who deserves that. thankyou.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have been told I'm rather dominant though still learning about the scene not to fussed about the pain side of things
Oh I love the pain side of things. Pain as pleasure is what gets me off
Each to their own of course depends how you like that administered
However they want to administer it to be honest. A belt on my arse has to be a favourite of mine though
Oh really very interesting "
Why do you find that interesting? I have a range of paddles etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have been told I'm rather dominant though still learning about the scene not to fussed about the pain side of things
Oh I love the pain side of things. Pain as pleasure is what gets me off
Each to their own of course depends how you like that administered
However they want to administer it to be honest. A belt on my arse has to be a favourite of mine though
Oh really very interesting
Why do you find that interesting? I have a range of paddles etc "
Sorta learning about things at the moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would be a good idea. I'm submissive and am always eager to learn more.
welcome you never stop learning on life's journey xxx"
Good, I'm very lucky I have a very good Dom who's very patient with me. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"And a little kinky hello from the soft one too
oooo i was hoping you would pop in
come here I'm in a very playful mood
Mmm me too
oooo can I steal a kiss no tongues
Cheeky "
not half I'm just getting started  |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"back in touch with a guy i met a lot before now and he is up for the cuckolding thing and more. so that's good, i feel more comfortable doing new things with old people.
yay. "
and he just said the more we meet the more comfortable he is pushing boundaries.
double yay.
i am over excited now and probably should go to bed.  |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"back in touch with a guy i met a lot before now and he is up for the cuckolding thing and more. so that's good, i feel more comfortable doing new things with old people.
yay.
and he just said the more we meet the more comfortable he is pushing boundaries.
double yay.
i am over excited now and probably should go to bed. "
Thanks great news fingers crossed here that all goes well |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"....bullshit detector.
The site is 95% window shoppers, we were really hoping fab would be different. Thank goodness for clubs "
That's a very negative opinion there window shopping is ok I for one love to browse the daily weekly offers before making my mind up on who I will be having for tea |
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It would be good as then its more people who are truly interested going to that section.
Ive dabbled with it but with me being a dom, though split a guys nipple once with too much spanking with a crop (he asked me too) and made a guy cry during humiliation as i was too mean, so there's def a learning curve.
Cbt is an odd one for me especially if im asked to bite it scared me a bit |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"It would be good as then its more people who are truly interested going to that section.
Ive dabbled with it but with me being a dom, though split a guys nipple once with too much spanking with a crop (he asked me too) and made a guy cry during humiliation as i was too mean, so there's def a learning curve.
Cbt is an odd one for me especially if im asked to bite it scared me a bit "
Duty of care and knowing your own comfort level when it comes to discipline play is the key .as well as having the control .restraint and confidence to make a judgement call the is always in the best interests of the sub under your control.
In sub space a sub can demand more than it I safe to administer at that point one has a moral duty to not put ones subs health and wellbeing at risk in my opinion .
Its a fine line between pushing limits and taking things to far I will because of the protectorate in me always come down on the side of caution on such matters . |
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"It would be good as then its more people who are truly interested going to that section.
Ive dabbled with it but with me being a dom, though split a guys nipple once with too much spanking with a crop (he asked me too) and made a guy cry during humiliation as i was too mean, so there's def a learning curve.
Cbt is an odd one for me especially if im asked to bite it scared me a bit
Duty of care and knowing your own comfort level when it comes to discipline play is the key .as well as having the control .restraint and confidence to make a judgement call the is always in the best interests of the sub under your control.
In sub space a sub can demand more than it I safe to administer at that point one has a moral duty to not put ones subs health and wellbeing at risk in my opinion .
Its a fine line between pushing limits and taking things to far I will because of the protectorate in me always come down on the side of caution on such matters . "
Slowly learning that and if i do any more dom stuff it would be with an fwb who i know very well and build it up slowly |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"It would be good as then its more people who are truly interested going to that section.
Ive dabbled with it but with me being a dom, though split a guys nipple once with too much spanking with a crop (he asked me too) and made a guy cry during humiliation as i was too mean, so there's def a learning curve.
Cbt is an odd one for me especially if im asked to bite it scared me a bit
Duty of care and knowing your own comfort level when it comes to discipline play is the key .as well as having the control .restraint and confidence to make a judgement call the is always in the best interests of the sub under your control.
In sub space a sub can demand more than it I safe to administer at that point one has a moral duty to not put ones subs health and wellbeing at risk in my opinion .
Its a fine line between pushing limits and taking things to far I will because of the protectorate in me always come down on the side of caution on such matters .
Slowly learning that and if i do any more dom stuff it would be with an fwb who i know very well and build it up slowly "
The first spanking I ever administered was full of fear on my part yes I was super excited but I was also very scared of going to far of hurting her to much of being to rough . Back then I was very young we had no safe word I was very much at her mercy in that moment not the other way round luckily she kept saying more untill the point she didn't say more at that point I stopped and ravaged her which seemed to work out well as she became my girlfriend after that |
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"It would be good as then its more people who are truly interested going to that section.
Ive dabbled with it but with me being a dom, though split a guys nipple once with too much spanking with a crop (he asked me too) and made a guy cry during humiliation as i was too mean, so there's def a learning curve.
Cbt is an odd one for me especially if im asked to bite it scared me a bit
Duty of care and knowing your own comfort level when it comes to discipline play is the key .as well as having the control .restraint and confidence to make a judgement call the is always in the best interests of the sub under your control.
In sub space a sub can demand more than it I safe to administer at that point one has a moral duty to not put ones subs health and wellbeing at risk in my opinion .
Its a fine line between pushing limits and taking things to far I will because of the protectorate in me always come down on the side of caution on such matters .
Slowly learning that and if i do any more dom stuff it would be with an fwb who i know very well and build it up slowly
The first spanking I ever administered was full of fear on my part yes I was super excited but I was also very scared of going to far of hurting her to much of being to rough . Back then I was very young we had no safe word I was very much at her mercy in that moment not the other way round luckily she kept saying more untill the point she didn't say more at that point I stopped and ravaged her which seemed to work out well as she became my girlfriend after that "
Haha that did work out very well! Ive only really been sub a few times and hated it, one guy asked if he could lightly spank my bum, bent me over first was light then he just started wacking me really hard and fast, he was thrown out of the house half dressed i was so angry.. there's asking to up it but he went mental thinking id just take it. |
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"....bullshit detector.
The site is 95% window shoppers, we were really hoping fab would be different. Thank goodness for clubs
That's a very negative opinion there window shopping is ok I for one love to browse the daily
weekly offers before making my mind up on who I will be having for tea "
Just call it as I see it, I'll let you know when we're proved wrong by actually having a meet happen |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"It would be good as then its more people who are truly interested going to that section.
Ive dabbled with it but with me being a dom, though split a guys nipple once with too much spanking with a crop (he asked me too) and made a guy cry during humiliation as i was too mean, so there's def a learning curve.
Cbt is an odd one for me especially if im asked to bite it scared me a bit
Duty of care and knowing your own comfort level when it comes to discipline play is the key .as well as having the control .restraint and confidence to make a judgement call the is always in the best interests of the sub under your control.
In sub space a sub can demand more than it I safe to administer at that point one has a moral duty to not put ones subs health and wellbeing at risk in my opinion .
Its a fine line between pushing limits and taking things to far I will because of the protectorate in me always come down on the side of caution on such matters .
Slowly learning that and if i do any more dom stuff it would be with an fwb who i know very well and build it up slowly
The first spanking I ever administered was full of fear on my part yes I was super excited but I was also very scared of going to far of hurting her to much of being to rough . Back then I was very young we had no safe word I was very much at her mercy in that moment not the other way round luckily she kept saying more untill the point she didn't say more at that point I stopped and ravaged her which seemed to work out well as she became my girlfriend after that
Haha that did work out very well! Ive only really been sub a few times and hated it, one guy asked if he could lightly spank my bum, bent me over first was light then he just started wacking me really hard and fast, he was thrown out of the house half dressed i was so angry.. there's asking to up it but he went mental thinking id just take it. "
Love the fact you kicked him out I have a mental picture of him standing there all his clothes bundled up in his arms apart from.his socks that he's still wearing massive purple erection and you screaming " now clear off my arse is not a drum you here me " |
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"Sounds good idea to me
why thank you and hello there xxx
love the gurning picture in your profile by the way thanks haha
Is that your cum face by the way "
eeerm no..mot's my jabba the hut face |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sounds good idea to me
why thank you and hello there xxx
love the gurning picture in your profile by the way thanks haha
Is that your cum face by the way eeerm no..mot's my jabba the hut face "
do men find jabda the hut sexy then you learn sometime new ever day on here
id rather have princess leia myself but hay I'm no new age man |
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