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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have been mailed by a female a few times. But the account has no photos plus she's 19 years younger than me.
And she wants to meet.
But am worried if she's a man plus am I kinda not a bit to old fat for her.
If she reads this I hope she understands.
But I just don't know what to do. |
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I'm a great believer in trusting your gut instinct. If you suspect it's not actually a woman then you are 100% right to listen to that doubt . Ask them to pop on cam or talk on phone.if they are going to meet you and genuine they'll have no issues doing that . If they decline or go UNLOS you have your answer .
If they are genuine then ask them why the want someone older ect to put your mind at rest .But above all have faith in yourself ..why wouldn't folks be happy to meet you !! Xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have been mailed by a female a few times. But the account has no photos plus she's 19 years younger than me.
And she wants to meet.
But am worried if she's a man plus am I kinda not a bit to old fat for her.
If she reads this I hope she understands.
But I just don't know what to do."
I am a great believer in the adage that if it seems too good to he true, then it isn't. You must be having doubts, or else you wouldn't have posted. I suggest a phone conversation or Skype very soon to put your mind at rest, or to stop any more of your time being wasted, if that is the case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go with your gut instinct.
Ask if you can Skype cam or FaceTime or even a phone call just to verify it is a femal and not a make posing as a female
If they refuse then tell them sorry it won't be going any further and move on |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Have been mailed by a female a few times. But the account has no photos plus she's 19 years younger than me.
And she wants to meet.
But am worried if she's a man plus am I kinda not a bit to old fat for her.
If she reads this I hope she understands.
But I just don't know what to do."
Chat a lot first, get a gist for the tone not just what is said.
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