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Whats with all the rude people ??

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So have recently joined back up to fabs And it seems that the amount of fun genuine people have left to be replaced with really nasty people and fakes .

Now i know that being a single guy will go against me and its hard to be yourself because your called a liar or a fake ?? When you want to make friends and maybe a few meets , is there anyway to come across genuine on here ?

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Why do you think people are rude OP?

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By *loria JamesTV/TS over a year ago

Durham

Hunni you need to develop a thick skin.

Single women are inundated with messages from guys, some just don't have time to work through all the msgs some have developed a high opinion of themselves.

Be honest and genuine as there are lots of lovely people on the site it just takes a while to find them.

Go to a club and socialise you'll quickly meet some lovely people.

Good luck x

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By *oretta and SebrinaCouple (MM) over a year ago

Rubery

"So have recently joined back up to fabs And it seems that the amount of fun genuine people have left to be replaced with really nasty people and fakes .

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You have just accused a lot of people on here of being rude or fake, then say you want to make friends on here.lol

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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up themselves?

oh dear.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I prefer to be thought of as rude than a simpering sycophant.

Strange but true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They aren't interested because they think you live in the Big Brother house

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"They aren't interested because they think you live in the Big Brother house "

i don't get it but still laughed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yeah it can be tough being a single guy on here no disagreement from me there.

But as others have said patience is the key.

Investigate what socials, clubs etc are happening near you as that can be another way to get to know people.

I'v been on here since November and only mt two people so far. Just relax and try not to take rejection or your messages not being read or responded to personally.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So have recently joined back up to fabs And it seems that the amount of fun genuine people have left to be replaced with really nasty people and fakes .

Well no offence OP but this post isn't going to help you make friends and get meets ...

No one liked a whinger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

most check a profile before opening a message...i'm afraid negativity breeds negativity..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Havent accused everyone just so far have found quite a few.

I do want to make friends but there is no need for people being abusive or rude ( maybe a fault of the nature of site ?)

And im trying to get a feel of the site and the people on it by the responses and opinions

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lol think a few have kind of missed the point here .

Its not whinging or some kind of negativity its more to discuss why you would be kind of sterotyped like say if you like gb or youv' e chatted to a tv/ts .

Or just say hi good pics you get a abusive response or people posing as opposite sex etc .

As i said am fairly new so wanted opinions of others not just negativity

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"Lol think a few have kind of missed the point here .

Its not whinging or some kind of negativity its more to discuss why you would be kind of sterotyped like say if you like gb or youv' e chatted to a tv/ts .

Or just say hi good pics you get a abusive response or people posing as opposite sex etc .

As i said am fairly new so wanted opinions of others not just negativity "

you set the tone of this topic with your very first line, it was negative.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol think a few have kind of missed the point here .

Its not whinging or some kind of negativity its more to discuss why you would be kind of sterotyped like say if you like gb or youv' e chatted to a tv/ts .

Or just say hi good pics you get a abusive response or people posing as opposite sex etc .

As i said am fairly new so wanted opinions of others not just negativity "

you actually say 'most' are rude and up themselves...its difficult to know what sort of response you expect that isn't slightly negative.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi well would you not agree that if you say hello and compliment them on nice photos or pfofile and get a f**k u isnt rude ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes i mean the responses i have got or interacted with not as a general statement

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

Nice arse though...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi well would you not agree that if you say hello and compliment them on nice photos or profile and get a f**k u isnt rude ? "

its extremely rude...report and block...but i very much doubt that is the norm....however, if i got a message, checked the profile and saw a comment that most people are rude and up themselves, then it would immediatly put my back up..i'd just delete but some may be more vocal in response

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

From personal experience so far its seems correct it has changed massivley in last 10 years in that respect

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"Lol think a few have kind of missed the point here .

Its not whinging or some kind of negativity its more to discuss why you would be kind of sterotyped like say if you like gb or youv' e chatted to a tv/ts .

Or just say hi good pics you get a abusive response or people posing as opposite sex etc .

As i said am fairly new so wanted opinions of others not just negativity "

Ah I can help with that, report anyone who is abusive and anyone who you think are fake, let Admin check it out , you block, then get on with trying to make friends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"From personal experience so far its seems correct it has changed massivley in last 10 years in that respect "

most people you message tell you to fuck off?? really?..im sorry but i find that very hard to believe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unfortunately you will get rude and abusive people on here.

Would you want to meet someone who says fuck you, to a nice message? Block them and keep looking.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Welcome to the forum by the way, stick around and join in as sometimes it can be fun

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